Sirf Tum 10th December 2021 Written Episode, Written Update on TellyUpdates.com
The Episode starts with Sudha calling Suhani and says your Bua has come and she wants to show some special video and asking to call you home from college. She asks if everything is fine? Suhani cries. Sudha gets worried and asks her to come home. Suhani hugs Rhea and cries. Rhea says everything will be fine, I will drop you home. Ranveer tries to get the video deleted from social media, but the expert tells that he can’t delete the video, as it is uploaded from private server. Ranveer says I can’t see tears in her eyes. John says I hope her family don’t see this video. Raghav asks him to do something.
Kamini switches off the TV. Dadi says I was about to see the show. Kamini says you will get double enjoyment and says let everyone come. She connects the bluetooth and calls Rakesh. Rakesh says what happened? Kamini says there is good film and says you have to show interest in it. She says let Suhani come, we will see it together, then you will understand. She signs her daughter Nikki. Rakesh asks Maa what is the matter? Dadi says don’t know what new siyappa, she is going to do. Rhea drops Suhani home and says I will come with you. Suhani says Papa will get angry seeing you. Rhea asks her to tell everything truly and goes. Suhani walks inside the house thinking of Rakesh’s warning. Kamini says Suhani has come, our family’s only daughter. She tells Dadi, that she had sent her to study in co –ed college, and asks her to see with how much intensity, she study in that college. Nikki gets Rishi’s call. Rishi asks her to entertain him with the live premiere. She says ok, but put the call mute. She keeps the video call on and asks him to see. Rishi, Rocky and Ansh are watching the video. Kamini plays Suhani’s video, in which she is complaining about Rakesh. Ansh smiles and thinks how you (Ranveer) will face him (Suhani’s father). Nikki says this video is Viral on social media and all the relatives might have seen by now. Rakesh switches off the TV and throws remote on the sofa. He looks at Suhani. Kamini taunts Suhani and asks why didn’t you die before ruining my brother’s respect. She says he has sent you to become doctor and treat patients, but she gave us heart attack. Suhani cries. Ansh and his friends watch the video. Rakesh walks towards Suhani and is about to slap her, when Ranveer comes and holds his hand.
Everyone is shocked. Rakesh looks at Ranveer. Ranveer says you are raising a question on your upbringing and asks how can you raise your hand without knowing the entire matter. Kamini asks who are you to stop my brother. Ranveer says Suhani is my responsibility, and Uncle has given me this responsibility. Rakesh says I have given you this responsibility, though I don’t want to give. He says I want to fulfill her dream and was unaware that she will make me ashamed in drunkard state. He says I had warned you, and tells that you will sit at home now. Sudha asks him to rethink. Rakesh blames her and asks Ranveer to go home. Ranveer says I will not go until you agree that it is not suhani’s mistake.
Ansh tells that Ranveer is crossing all limits and his obsession for Suhani will prove costly for him. He says I will get the biggest happiness. He walks away from there. Ranveer tells that someone had drugged her mixed in the food. Kamini says the video is viral and she told what is in her heart in drunkard state. She says she thinks my brother as khalyanak, and will think him arrogant and will think that he has given bad values to her. Ranveer says Suhani has always valued the values given by you and you shall be proud of her. He says I have seen how she walked in the college, with her hair tied, dupatta on her shoulder and her eyes down, with dream in it to become a doctor. He says she doesn’t know any place other than lab and library, other than class. He says neither your upbringing your wrong, nor she has forgotten it. He says after she comes home, either she study or help aunty in kitchen. He says God has stopped making such girl and this is your values in her. He says she risked her life to save someone from terrace, but someone spiked her food. He says when she had gained consciousness, she was sad thinking how bad you will feel. He says she is not afraid of you, but loves you and says if you don’t believe me now, then come with me.
He says you have seen Suhani’s spicy side for Uncle and now I will see her sweet side for Uncle which Bua ji forgotten to show. He plays the other half video on the TV, in which Suhani is saying that her Papa is best, he doesn’t hug her openly and don’t say I love you and hide all his love in his heart. She says real superhero is her Papa, and he is the best superhero, though he is protective and worried for me, so that this world don’t do bad with me. He has prepared me for this world. Rakesh walks towards Suhani as he gets emotional watching the video and keeps hand on her head. Suhani hugs him and cries. Ranveer looks on.
Precap: Ranveer comes to the college and beats Rishi and Rocky asking them about the video. Rishi says we didn’t leak the video.
Update Credit to: H Hasan
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Ansh is very sly as he orders his sidekicks to do all the dirty work…then takes credit for it…but does not get caught because he is hiding in the shadows 😂 stupid friends…
At least Suhani got spared because of her badass bodyguard loverboy/detective Ranveer 😜 … lucky for her that she was dressed appropriately and not in Riya style western wear 👗👠 for her debut video 😂
Hey @Yolande A.K.A. Naina! I’ve been following this show and the comments here regularly. I find them interesting for my own reasons. Yours has attracted my attention. Can you tell me why you think Suhani’s dress is “appropriate” as opposed to her friend Riya’s “western style”?
Hi @Shree…and thanks for the question ✔
Eisha has been known for her demure traditional style which I find very appropriate for young women in general… moreso where modesty seems to be on the “out” where colleges are concerned 🙄 … she keeps up tradition and innocence combined… which makes for a dynamic respectable individual… she is also very particular where her career is concerned by taking up major/lead projects which portray her virtue… therefore I give respect where it’s due 👸 …plus I am totally in love with Eisha since seeing her in the serial Ek Tha Raja Ek Thi Rani… I mean her personality is so awesome plus she’s just drop jaw gorgeous with or without the make-up… I could go on and on…
Anyway, I would give 💯0% +👏 to any actress who prefers chastity over debauchery anyday…as it’s a form of self respect ✔
Bottom line (as I totally swayed from your actual question 😁) … women who wear tight clothing (leggings, jeans etc.) … short tops…even shorts…subject themselves to the lewd and sometimes explicitly degrading remarks from their male counterparts … (cat calls etc.) which to me is something that we the women induce the men to say 🙄 … but if we were to dress appropriately and maintain a sense of demurity… then we give men no option to harass or cat call… as there would be no reason to do so ✔
Wow! Now I’m totally blown away by your response! Firstly, your standards of judging the ‘virtue’ of an actor seem to be very unique. Because as far as I know, the ‘dress’ of an actor (male / female) is just a requirement of their onscreen character. An actor needs to convince people that they are not the well known personality they are, but entirely that character in that role. And the costume is an important tool to get that conviction out of the audience. Eisha is doing a good job, I agree. But for me, if she commands respect as an actor for convincing me as an audience, so did Vidya Balan in her role of Silk Smitha in ‘Dirty Picture’ (she got a national award for it).
Coming to your second point. You are not the first woman (sorry for assuming, and please don’t be offended by what I say) I’ve heard saying this, and I am really taken aback every time I’ve heard it said. This is called harmful self-blaming or victim-blaming, that we women often mistakenly indulge in. We “induce men” for misbehaviour? So according to this line of thinking, I just need to cover myself up properly, not let the hint of my figure show to avoid encountering catcalls, right? Well I can recount several experiences where I did the same (was the ‘demurest’ girl on the street, literally dressed up in my brother’s clothes), still was cat-called or frisked (on occasions I was WITH MY PARENTS)! And this HAPPENS DAILY with SEVERAL WOMEN! So exactly how much ‘appropriately’ do I need to be covered to avoid an unwanted experience next time, how much exactly to command people’s respect, exactly how much to be considered a ‘chaste’ woman? There’s no answer to that right? AND THERE’S NO ANSWER TO EVE TEASERS, HARASSERS AND MOLESTERS. A woman’s clothing is both a ticket to earning ‘respect’, and a ready reason to blame if she gets harassed, Why? This kind of thinking does nothing but make a woman doubt and confuse herself incessantly before she steps out of the house, blame herself after she her modesty is violated in some way, and eventually lose her confidence. Why not free ourselves of this baseless guilt by recognizing that the fault lies in the eyes of the beholder , not the beheld!
A person’s dress (regardless of gender) is on occaisons a mark of command and respect. When it is a professional dress: a school uniform, a doctor’s apron, a lawyer’s coat, a soldier’s uniform. That’s it! Otherwise, people command respect through their actions! A woman’s modesty is not a physical thing! It’s an emotion that she feels in her heart. There’s a control she excercises over her own body, and if she is able to do it without raising eyebrows, her society is truly blessed as it respects people’s personal choices regardless of gender. I dream of living in such a society, and it will only be a dream if the beholders won’t let me be free of their gazes searching above and beneath by clothes, assessing me for my demurity.
Dear @Yolande a.k.a. Naina, I won’t press you to change your beliefs, but would like to make a humble request to all fellow women. Let’s stand in solidarity with each other which consits of less judgement and more understanding. It would be the first step towards collective progress and empowerment of women, as we deserve to live in a just and equal society. I’d sign off with a beautiful example. Vidya Balan was given the national award for her role in Dirty Picture by a jury headed by Rohini Hattangadi. She is a veteran actress known for playing Kasturba in the movie ‘Gandhi’. She has often portrayed such traditional women in her career. If she had scorned Vidya for taking up the risqué role, the actor would not have begged the much deserved natinal award for it. Instead, she commended Vidya (who is quite traditional in real life), for the transformation and exposure she went through for the role. That’s the kind of support all women need to extend to each other. My love and best wishes to you!
No offence my dear…but I think we need to educate ourselves by giving justice to our own body…in making proper choices with the clothing we wear when going out in public ✔
Yes there are some men that go overboard when they see women…it is human nature…some are uneducated… possibly live in or are a part of abused homes…delusional… Mental, etc… but honestly tell me this… what percentage of women who dress ‘appropriately’ compared to women who dress ‘inappropriately’ … would get a cat call ?? or have focus on themselves by the way they dress ??
Your call ma’am …
@Yolande a.k.a. Naina, I’d not like to address or defend women’s right to dress freely as I think I’ve done enough of that already. But calling unacceptable s*xual advances “human nature” is virtually condoning the act. Don’t you think you are pointing the finger in the opposite direction? And you’d be surprised to know that a high percentage of men involved in s*xual harrassment are educated and in positions of high repute. It is their very position they misuse to pressurise women. Take the case of Hollywood producer Harvey Weinsten, or the Chinese politician accused by tennis star Peng Shuai. These harrasers have been taking advantage of the patriarchal power dynamics at work place, or the society at large. That’s why I say we need an equal society, where such a gendered tilt of power is not considered ‘natural’. If women keep pointing the finger at themselves, we’d never be considered worthy of being considered an equal.
But seriously dude, your thinking has highly disturbed and offended me as a past victim of harassment. You are basically exonerating the offenders by making all kinds of excuses for them and calling it normal, while putting all the blame on the victims. Maybe you have never had a first hand experience, or you’d feel the pain someone who’s been wronged, instead of talking so insensitively about them. Your victim-blaming slur can be seriously triggering and hurtful for women who have been through harrowing experinces. Please be responsible, introspect, and educate yourself 🙏.
Ah! Now I can’t stop myself from going on about this. But what makes you think that women who wear fitted clothes or ones that are considered ‘exposing’, don’t respect their bodies? They absolutely respect it as they know their body completely belongs to no one but themselves, and let no one else influence how they choose to cover it. Just ask yourself, what kind of society is it, where one half of the population has to think how the other half will respond to the way the cover their body (that belongs solely to themselves) ? Whose fault is it? Do women need education/ rules regarding how to dress in public, or men need to change how they see us? I’ve never seen a man think twice about how he’s dressed himself up. If how he dresses himself up , is his right, why don’t I have the same right? Just because my body is different? Why have we accepted these highly abnormal and unacceptable way women are seen and treated in public, as ‘normal’, and blame ourselves instead? No matter how much you prepare to avoid an unwanted experience in streets, at workplace, or at homes (by dressing yourself ‘properly’), you will encounter lewd comments , lecherous gazes, forceful touches at some point. Because its not a fault in the dress, rather a fault in how those eyes have been trained to look at us, those hands have been trained to treat us, as if they are above women who just belong to them and need to ‘respond’ to them (or hide from them to escape). And I don’t accept this as “human nature”, rather I demand to be treated as a human! A human, who has full control over what she chooses for herself instead of a puppet who just responds to/ hides from other people’s perversion. As much you are preaching women to make proper choices, preach the harassers to behave properly. Now kindly go back and feel the sheer injustice of what you’ve been thinking till now.
Sorry to hear about your incident 😞 it was very unfortunate that it happened to you… I can only hope that you got the justice you deserved.
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On another note… we still have to remember where men came from…back in the days and from my understanding of evolution… men were considered as cavemen and rightfully so as they would grab a female for their personal satisfaction and the females would have no choice but to be submissive or face their wrath…
Now however… we are living in a world where not only things are changing… but people… the elements… even science keeps upgrading to make our lives a little more comfortable than back in the days leading up to now…
I am not saying what the individual did to you was upon your instigation or your demanding attention based on your dress conduct… I am simply stating that if women were to dress more appropriately… not just some women but every woman… then we would no doubt, have fewer assaults, etc. than we currently see…
Yes I agree that men need to be educated in early life to respect their female counterparts… and be humble in their approach to people in general ✔
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In learning about the teachings of Islam… it is imperative to avoid eye contact so as not to subject oneself to immoral thoughts ✔
This I find completely correct in it’s teachings… and I strongly believe that if we follow guidelines given from the Islamic scholars…we would find answers to any question that we stumble across in our daily settings.
Question is… “why should men alone be educated in their conduct over a woman’s dress code?”
Why can’t each one of us simple follow the steps to becoming a better person ?
Let’s start this practice now while we are still able to do so.
Men… keep your eyes downcast.
Women… dress appropriately in your daily conduct.
Follow the guidelines about the do’s and don’ts of dress conduct to make it more difficult for a person to be mistreated or harassed ✔
But this is just my perception of the matter and no offense is intended to anyone.
Hey, I respect your faith and beliefs @Yolande a.k.a. Naina! It is just that I am very passionate about equality, and it is good to know you believe in it too in your own way. I only want to add that we can see a drastic improvement in conducts of people regarding women, and make it a lot safer society simply by teaching our kids that men and women are equal. And though men are physically stronger than women, the latter are intellectualy and spiritually the same being as them. I’m sure you’ll agree.
Your outer conduct is just a reflection of your inner beliefs. If every man comes to believe that the woman standing next to him is in no way inferior to him, he’ll never think of forcing himself on her.
Also, the thing about evolution since cave days.. men and women BOTH have come from the SAME caves, and both have since gone through the SAME process of evolution and progress. BOTH have also gone through an entire history of evolution in their dressing . But why are men STILL stuck with the caveman mentality where they see a woman and can’t control their basal urges? You see, there’s no use in simply telling people to change their outer conduct. We have to change the caveman mentality, since we are not cave-women anymore, we know our rights and don’t submit silently to agression.
Actually Suhani looks more beautiful and elegant, dignified, unlike some women wearing revealing outfits , suhani is simple and looks gorgeous and commands respect from people
@SUNDER J JAGADISHAN , sir, please don’t take what I say as a personal offense to you. But I believe a woman as well as a man, carry ‘dignity’ within themselves and their character, and it is NOT defined by how they dress. Dress is only a medium of self expression, totally up to the individual and their personal liking. Why decide what’s ‘appropriate’ for someone else, or scorn them for what they choose to wear?
@Yolande Your mentality is disgusting! Why should women cover up? How exactly ‘exposing’ your body provoke men? Everyone should have the right to be just who they are without shame! People all around the world wear short clothes when the weather is hot, except for India, Pakistan, Muslim countries etc. Because women in these countries are considered lesser than animals! Go to Europe, even Africa (not the muslim part) and South America which buckle up from problems in general… Nowhere, absolutely nowhere will you see a woman wearing shalwari, long pants and sleeves when the temperatures compel otherwise! Suhani should come out of her skin and embrace herself. Of course it won’t be easy, due to people like her father and you, who body shame a woman for being a woman.
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