Hi everyone, some of you know me in Swaragini comments, some others in my fanfictions, lot of don’t know me at all.
I’m a daily visitor member on TU who is more interested in Swaragini just ended series, or particularly… Swasan…
And loving reading and writing, I’m a usual user of the Fanfiction section where something attracted my attention… the word “LUST” and the concept “LUST” in almost all the stories.
What I means, is that since months I’m here, I noticed something strange, Swasan is a story between Swara and Sanskar, characters in the series Swaragini and in 99% of the stories here, it starts by lust… NO… RAPE!
Firstly, it wasn’t so much special, for one or other story, I told myself, ok it’s the imagination of the author, we agree or not, we’re just readers.
But then, I made a scary discovery… that this is repeated in so much stories that I becomes like if it’s the basis of any Swasan Story… and I felt like exchange with you all about that.
The main question is WHY???
I mean, what in Swasan real story in the series makes fans have this kind of track for their love story…
I admit that Sanskar has used the rapist drug on Swara, making her become a puppet, put her in bad reputation hostel, in nightclub between drunken boys and more and more…
But then… Sanskar is the one who said that the hostel was a familiar hotel and she never has been in real danger… but leave it.
The most important is that Sanskar brought her to his home, to his room, then in a small spaced tent… as a wife when there were no any kind of relation and yet he acted as gentleman… never did or said something wrong!
After that, they were pushed in a forced marriage with all rituals and they lived together as real husband and wife and he kept being gentleman… never did or said something wrong!
Then, after lot of problems, love blossoms between them, love, passion and dramatic situations… he brought her home “back” in a real love marriage, but Swara was sad for her father… and again he acted as a gentleman… never did or said something “wrong”!
They lived like that for days, weeks, months… and he kept being gentleman… never tried to has his right as the family was suffering and she was occupied resolving problems!
They finally get close and became fully husband and wife… always like a gentleman…
Even when he kidnapped her, when she lost memory, when she slapped him, when she refused to listen to him and that made him angry and we know how angry Sanskar is mad… he still acted gentleman… who knows, maybe if he forced her, then she would have her memory back but NO… NOWAY… he was her Sanskar… still gentleman… and it remained like that until the END.
So again that question, WHY???
Is being raped became the fantasy of all girls and women? I know that it’s a scary question but believe me this what it shows… if I was a man and I came here to read some love stories, I’ll believe that all beautiful love stories start with a rape… that kissing is to bit the lip of my ladylove until I can taste the blood in my mouth… that it’s ok if she feels hurt while we… ehem… ehem… she’ll feel better at the end! That it’s ok to rape a girl then ask forgiveness later and show her how much I love her really, deeply, and it’s just my LUST toward her which made me do that…
That if a girl says NO, if I rape her, once, twice… few times… then be careful and gentle she’ll accept me and enjoy what we did…
That taking off the dignity of a girl, a symbol of purity which will never be back again isn’t so much bad, just because I love her sooo much… she’ll understand it later…
That the rapist turn to be a prince and never ends in jail, he’s not the bad guy of the story, he’s the hero…
In a country where articles say that there is rape case registered every 30 minutes… (Imagine how many crimes remain hidden)… it’s just so scary to see that so many girls are having this image of the prince charming…
I really don’t mean to hurt anyone, don’t put a judgment on any writer… sorry if anyone of you feels hurt or destined about this question… but it’s a question which is turning in my head for months… is really Swasan love about “lust” fantasy?
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Damn it Mahiraaaaaa Di..!! u know what yesterday i was talking bout with Mica..!!
Now a days the word “LUST” is everywhere..!! omgg..!!
n u know what, it attracts people/reader more.. Gosh.. !!
it’s kinda Starting the story with LUST n ending up in SwaSan deep love..!!
Forgiving the bad eyer, moving on with him who used to have LUST for..!!
I dunno what to say.. but people says “Love Changes Everything”.. Even i dunno till how far it’s true.. but acc to SwaSan stories, it do happens at the end of the story..!!
1.Sanskar has to fallen for Swara.
2.Swara has to forgive him, after being forced by him.
3.They have to live hapily ever after….
BUT the most probabl question is “Is it really okk with the girlz that they 1st being forced by someone n suddenly or with the time fall in love With the criminal?, is that soo easy to forgive that person who used to have LUST for u? ”
Oh God, this thinks are very common in ffs..people read n enjoys thinking as only fiction… but there are many people who may starts to think “If i forcefully do something thn at the last no one will do anything, my love will cure her”…
It is a very big matter… people takes it very commonly n doesn’t think what might be it’s affect…!!
This kinda lusty n Raping stories provoke CRIMINALS to do their CRIME mostly.!!
Writers should think about deeply.. IT HAS SHOCKING AFFECT..!!
I’m soooo glad n proud that u wrote this.. Thnk u very much Di..!! ;-*
thank you Kaku my dear…
i think we had noticed the same… general Stockholm’s syndroma?
HAPPY WOMEN DAY !!!!!!
Thank you so much for this such beautiful article Mahira di… it’s the best gift at our day.. Women day….
proud to be a girl.. proud to be woman.
I don’t know what happen to us nowadays.. what fantasy we have about our prince charming, as you ever say..that girls used to be have imagination that prince charming come with his gentle , strong, full respect character with flower at his hand and kneel down in front of us…
but nowadays… girls prefer to imagine that HER PRINCE CHARMING IS RAPIST ??? WTG!!
Being a girl, being a woman, even a word “RAPE” made us, make us and should make us shivering only to read, only to write that word, IT THE WORST NIGHTMARE FOR WOMEN…
but here, being girls, NO MATTER WE ARE READERS OR AUTHORS, WE LOVE THAT !! WE ATTRACTED TO READ A RAPIST TO BE A HERO….
We didn’t aware that what we did, what we wrote somehow gave wrong signal to men, especially bad men, that WOMAN LOVE TO BE RAPED, LATER YOU CAN ASKED FORGIVENESS AND HAPPY ENDING….
ABOUT HARSH ROMANCE SCENE.. Is that all you want guys ????? kissed until bleed, consummate scene with full pain word ??? is that your fantasy ? is that all your dream about good romance ? YOU LOVE TO BE FORCED ?
i don’t care about the story of other pairs.. i DO really care about my Swasan family..
We love Swasan because their character and their goodness, but why it’s become wrong in our fantasy ?
I really don’t want and can’t imagine if someday there is a news about RAPE CASE, and YOU (with your fantasy about rape you got from FF) simply imagining that THE VICTIM SHOULD FORGIVE THE RAPIST AND FALL IN LOVE TO HIM….how horrible thought is that..
uughhh.. sorry so much blabbering
haa!! i dind’t even noticed the day… yes so suitable subject for a day dedicated to women … thank you twiny 😀
and ha, when has the prince charming turned from:
– kneeling on one knee claiming his love, offering roses and chocolate or a solitaire Or just back a step off and widen his arms in a very Shah Rukh Khan filmi scene
—————–TO—————–
– a hungry in need of satisfying his bestial instincts without giving a damn to his heroine feelings then pleading for forgiveness
uugghhh.. i wish our Swasan family didn’t mislead about out concept of Swasan, the shameless couple :D..
We called that our swasan is shameless couple not for real “shameless character” but we adored them how they turned shameless for each others in good way, being so lovely husband and wife..
We adore how sanskar as shy, reserved guy, became so naughty, became shameless to tease her, to have desire only on her with his love, showed how Swara, his wife is the one and only woman in this world, she become his only life..
and how Swara with her witty character, loves to put prank only for him, her everything… uugghh, never ending to talk how wonderful our shameless couple Swasan is…
goosshhh,, i miss them badlyyyy
Our Shameless swasan EPIC… they made us dream again… that bad people can repent, that truth will always wins over the betrayal… that love can break jail gates, can bring back from death a woman who passed one day and one night in the river… that even angry, frustrated or feelign hurt, love is still here…
but who thaught us that a woman can defend her honor, that she may wear occidental outfits but still respectful toward traditions and culture… that giving up in love is so easy, but teasing, playing, letting the loved one grill on the fire of desire is better… just to make the union time more special…
that a man can control himself even with so loved and waited wife if she’s not yet ready for the next step of their relation…
that a man whose wife was about being raped in jail blames himself for being so helpless, not her…
You are right Mahira it’s really a very very dangerous situation you can’t justify that thing by any word any act.
In most of the stories they just show that he had a bad past that’s why he did that. does having bad past justifies the crime you committed. everyone has some bad past but you don’t justify your crimes with your past.
Rape is a crime it not only kills the victim but the people around that person. it is worst than any other crime. in murder, you kill only the person but in rape you kill everyone related to that person. one never gets out of that pain it changes you completely
you’re absolutely right dear… nothing can justify rape… serial killers too have a bad past… if we start forgiving the firsts… lets fogive the others and we’ll finish in … no word to describe this kind of world
Mahiraaaaaa whattt a articlee yarrrr itsss superbbbb exactlyy whatever u saiddd isss totallyyy coreect these lust rapee wordss r becomingg that muchh common that even we also dont feel shame in using that words… im totally full agree with u…. actually ppl r just using these wordss in the name of fantasy for them love start with lust and ends on rape andd after thats easilyy forgiven by the victim… becausee theyy thinkss that if rapist give them loveee she will fall for him but nooo this is not at all possiblee but if u say this to anybody they will say that its just a story nothing elseee but i dont think sooo usingg this muh big thingg forr showing yourr stupid fantasy is totally wrong… im gladd u wrotee thiss im veryy happy reallyyy… ???? God bless you ?
Rabia dear, thank you so much, i read your story about rape too… amazing but couldn’t reply on time 😀
hehehehe noo problemm bajii att alll 😉
HAPPY WOMEN DAY FOR ALL
Good article..
Rabia too mentioned this topic some days before…
We love Swasan because of their unconditional love, care for each other n family,Swara’s braveness etc..
I agree no one can love a rapist.. Thats my opinion…
thank you my dear simi 🙂
You have written this wonderfully.
Its high time people realize that forcing love on someone, then calling it ‘lust’ and then that feeling changing to ‘true love’ is not right at all.
I don’t understand how it becomes such a hot topic to write fan fics on.
HAPPY WOMEN’s DAY TO ALL THE AMAZING LADIES AROUND THE WORLD!!! ❤️
thank you so much 😀
and yes i don’t understand too… what is so exciting in being deprived from our own will?
You have written this wonderfully. ????
Its high time people realize that forcing love on someone, then calling it ‘lust’ and then that feeling changing to ‘true love’ is not right at all.
I don’t understand how it becomes such a hot topic to write fan fics on.
HAPPY WOMEN’s DAY TO ALL THE AMAZING LADIES AROUND THE WORLD!!! ❤️
Hey… I.. actually don’t know what to say because I myself is writing a FF on SwaSan “His Lust Or Love” which start from lust and this ending on love… I never really give it a thought but I think u r absolutely right… I myself used to have a dream of “PERFECT PRINCE CHARMING” I should’ve shown it but don’t know why I didn’t… I’m sorry maybe somewhere I’m wrong too and showing a wrong thing… I’m really sorry guys…
Mavo my dear, i’m sorry if if your feel hurt…
but, in fact, we have all to think about this deeply…
we’re living in a world where the right of having opinion, going to school, taking a deserved job after brillant studies is still a debating matter for men…
so how can we just t
it’s just that I didn’t realize that I’m showing wrong thing and maybe because of me someone somewhere is getting wrong ideas… I’m glad u written this… I’ll definitely won’t write something like this again
take off this right of us about saying NO… about dreaming about a man who will respect us a equal human being before as a woman he he has feelings for her…
she’ll be the mother of his daughter… how will he feel if this happen to his daughter?… this girl too had a father who would be broken for such terrible thing…
i’m no one to give lessons to anyone and it’s surely not my aim… but i feel happy that my words made you think further and change your mind a bit… cause i’m sure no any woman can really bear this kind of sitution…
Yeah u r right and actually I’m gonna end my FF which I wrote on SwaSan “His Lust Or Love” after that I won’t write such FF even if showed someone’s lust that won’t be hero for sure ?
Thanks a lot for this
Mavo, it is amazing to see this. It takes a LOT of guts to say the truth in a public forum like this.
Hats Off to u.
Its lovely to see that people are actually accepting this. Most people after knowing that they have written on this topic would just avoid this conversation.
But u showed the guts and courage to accept what u have done.
More power to you, young lady!! ❤️?
Thanks for supporting me… I feel bad for what I showed… Not bad but ashamed I’m really feeling ashamed now ?
You know movo, you should feel proud of yourself as you are one of the rare persons able to admit that they were wrong and this publicly, it’s really a quality that few people have… And moreover you have changed your mind and started to think positively… Hats off dear
I’m really happy to know a person like you and to your knowledge, I’ll be happy to read you as I know that you’re one of the best writers… I read the beginning of your story on wattpad and if this point wasn’t a false note for me, I would really love the other aspects of the story.. Don’t be disheartened and keep filling the heart of your readers with the joy of reading you 😀
Thanks dear… I really am sorry for it ?
OMG look what we have here!! A big Fake Swasan fan!!!! Welcome here!!
excuse me, what do you mean?
Truly said dear…..!!!!!!!!
thank you 🙂
U r absolutely right mahira……I agree with you…..Thankyou so much for this ….wonderful….Happy Women’s Day
Thank you so much dear:D
I totally agree with your views. Firstly writers and reader both need to understand that “Lust” is not the factor by which a relationship begins. There is more to a relationship. Overtime, people have lost concept of love, lust and intimacy, because of half baked knowledge.
We need to spread more awareness, that if a guy is forcing you for a physical relationship,then you need to resist. Intimacy should be by mutual consent and not by force. Today, all these are stories, but we might never realize, when a girl might start believing that this is how relationships begin. This is not a healthy relationship, this is toxic and this is an abuse.
Secondly, intimacy does not mean only s*x, intimacy means that you can be yourself with your special someone, without the fear of being judged. Intimacy means that you can share your deepest thought, dreams, secrets and flaws with each other and still love and respect each other with the same intensity.
Love, respect and understanding are more important than anything else.
Mahira, i really applaud you, for writing about such an important issue. Amazing article!!
Kudos to you, Girl 🙂
we need to understand that taking a woman by force against her wish is rape and rape is a crime and the crime consequence is jail…
forgive your rapist today because he’s so sorry who tell you that tomorrow, in another mad moment he’ll not rape another girl… or may be it will be your own daughter, the fruit of the so called love after repentance
I totally agree with u Mahira. I mean I don’t know about other but I became Sanskar’s fan becz of his character in show in which “THE SANSKAR MAHESWARI CHARECTER” has always respect Swara not only Swara infact every female charecter in the show. His character didn’t even do something unethical to the evils like Kavita, Kaver, Urvashi, Kavya. But I just dont understand why the hell people over here just want ruin that image of Sanskar Maheswari. I agree every witter has the right to write anything since its their own story then do it by using other name or show some justice towards the characters why to use the name “Sanskar” is that u only want some readers for ur story for likes n comments. Ok those writers r SwaSan fan so they want to use SwaSan as main lead then then atleast show some denecy n responsibility towards the readers there are many reader who loves to live in fantacy world n is not so mature then what is the moral u r giving them that if someone rapes u plz go n marry him or if someone betrays u plz forgive him n give him another chance but plz for God sack try to understand such people never change their behaviour if u marry ur repist then he will never respect u n kill ur soul every single day by raping u again n again it doesn’t matter of he is ur husband but its hard accept the fact that someone is touching u with evil intension without ur permision. If u forgive ur betrayer the he will again betry u n will continue to do the same untill he gets bore n dump u eventually with ur broken self. So my dr writer plz grow up kiddos n if u don’t have a damn idea about the real world then stop writing bulls**t. Think wisely cz writting someting in a social media/internet means u r giving a kind of statement to a public place which earns u some responsibility as well. I am sorry if anyone gets heart but I said what is true.
And Mahira good job dear???
ha dear 🙂 i understand your anger but lets try to keep calm 🙂
in fact, if someone uses Sanskar’s avatar for the role of a rapist, it stays an imaginary story and anyone can use his bad first side for that…
but the problem is when he’s rapist AND hero of the story! not the villain… the hero… this is the problem
i really hope that people will start think about the dream they are painting out for others…
Happy Women’s Day???
what is important is to realize that rape is absolutely no any kind of romance… whatever be the situation, no one is judging life styles…
in a marriage relation… or in a pure physical relation… even in different way of life… BDSM or else… everyone is free to choice his life… but whatever can be the situation, the kind of relationship…
IT HAS TO BE BETWEEN CONSENTING MAJOR PERSONS… CONSENTING… otherways, it’s a CRIME… if we lose this conceept, so the world we’re living in is very dangerous… it’s just jungle where who is stronger will have what he wants at any cost
That’s so true Mahira the choice of a relationship depends on the persons who are part of the relationship but it should be their decision, not duress or forced acceptance.
With that, we should also not judge people with different choices. one has got this life and he/she has full liberty to choose what he/she wished for until unless his/her wishes only affect him/her not the people around him/her.
Happy Women’s Day.
yes, no one has the right to judge anyone… mode of life is a personal choice but…
MY FREEDOM STARTS AT THE POINT WHERE ENDS OTHER’S FREEDOM…
it’s normal to have fantasy… it’s dangerous to change the badness to be goodness… someone should be careful at what he dreams of… some dreams become true and here, it’s a nightmare
You are absolutely right dear! Rape n lust is completely different love n romance! Most of the writer dont know the meaning of lust n rape(i think so). N most of the readers are below 18. I think they gonna live in ‘lust fantasy world’. Already rabia has written an article about it.
Happy womens day
like i said above, readers should beware of the dream they’re building up about “lust”… some dreams can become true… what would happen then?
u r absolutely right ..if he is having a past doesn’t permit him to do whatever he want.
we all have something bad in or pasts… lets take a gun and shoot blindly, it must make someone feel better after that?
really a horror world we’re living in 🙁
????????Kudos! Very well and truly said and thank u for writing this article. Hope atleast one person opens his/her eyes after reading this. Happy women’s day!
thank you so much dear 🙂
Waahwaah waahwaah!!!!!!!!
Claps go for you Mahira di
Really well and truly said.
Awesome di
First Rabia di had written and then you did.
We really need writers like you and Rabia di here to make the other writers understand because imagination is wild but that shouldn’t be just soooo wild.
Keep going Mahira di
Take care di
thankuu mynaaa but mine was nothing in front of mahira… she written superbly.. but yaa im happy that im not alonee in bringing thiss thing ;)… mahiraaa oncee again thankss alott for this article 🙂
thank you sweety 😀
i really hope that it opens some blurred with imaginary eyes…
“LUST” definition…
lust
(lʌst)
n.
1. intense se*ual desire or appetite.
2. uncontrolled or illicit se*ual desire.
3. a passionate or overwhelming desire or craving (usu. fol. by for): a lust for power.
4. ardent enthusiasm; zest; relish: a lust for life.
5. Obs.
a. pleasure or delight.
b. desire; inclination; wish.
v.i.
6. to have intense se*ual desire.
7. to have a passionate yearning or desire (often fol. by for or after).
Even the word “Lust” has turned:
from a personnel feeling toward other, ha intense, ha craving, but it’s still a feeling, a want… a need…
TO
satisfying this feeling, to act and no more feel…
before… whenver i read this word it expressed for me the “desire” a man in love has to his ladylove… but now, it became synonym of forcing a woman to have physical relation against her wish…
Happy womens day to all readers. Hi mahila dr what an article yaar. I really impressed by your article. I thinkall the writers think about it before starting a series. Now on swasan ff “lust” is a comment topic and the writers main theme and title is belonging to lust. And the readers are appreciating their work. Somehow a writer is also give different topics so a reader can get new flavor of stories. But now a days it is common on all stories. And I don’t know how people are also liking this type of stories ?But dr u have done a great job.I am a girl and I respect all women/girls so I am appreciating your work by claps ????????.
thank you dear… we should make more to preserve women image… we’re finally living freely in a world which give us the so deserved respect… how can we make ourself back off and believe that a woman is so weak, so fragile, so in need of a man that even her rapist cn be her prince charming
When i opened telly update i thought its a ff or os or ss…. What’s this again some lust ff…. Why people are not leaving this…. How can they write ff on lust…. I was damn irritated seeing the word lust…. That too with the word fantasy…. I left it without reading…. After my frnd said i read it…. This article is really a best one…. Hope after this all the writers should change their prospective…. There are many social pblm and they can highlight those and can write on that instead of using this lust concept…. May be many can say that its just a ff which is imaginary but to be true many are taking this ff and serials as a role model…. Very very good article that too on women’s day…. Super dr…. At last
“HAPPY WOMEN’S DAY”….?
Shan , thank you so much 😀
and i feel just like you everytime i open TU and find this word… i was so naive for so long time and though that it’s just about desire… as when i’m writing, i can’t read other stories, need to live in my world … but being ill for days, it gave me time to open lot of stories and it was like a slap thinking how young SR fans are…
u know during even I left it without reading… I read it when I saw ur name in comments which r displayed below under every page….
awesome article….and i hope ppl will stop writing r**e n lust scenes….
Yup sneha, ????
thank you dear 😀
I appreciate ur thinking…. U r right I became common now-a-days… Seriously, how can one can imagine their hero as a rapist…. ???? clap for u
thank you so much, hope people can make the difference…
awesome writing well said…
happy womens day for all
thank you anu 😀
what should I comment… u know I m getting sick of this word…
n I don’t know how people write about it… I m sorry if I made someone sad… but it’s true that word in himself is horrible…
imagine marrying a criminal n making him Prince Charming of your life… yakkkk…. that thought is just dirty…. I prefer to stay alone in this whole world rather than marrying such a criminal….
Aditi my dear thank you so much.. God bless the charming Prince with roses and chocolate 🙂
First I thought it was an os so din’t bother to read it after looking at its title but then looking at the number of comments it had, I was thinking if lust is one of the topics which writers and readers like nowdays.
I especially don’t like to read anything in which the girl ultimately falls for her rapist because it’s next to impossible for her..
Thank u di for writing this and hope that people stop writing further on these topics.
Thank you so much dear shifa… I think that some people are not aware of the message they’re spreading around and both readers and writers would never bear this kind of situation… Let’s hope things will change and women will make the difference soon
Hello Mahira!! Well you might not know me because I don’t comment on swasan ff’s….Basically I’m an Manmarziyan fan. Now I’ll come to my point.
People write ff’s based on LUST because they get good number of comments like “plzz give more scenes etc etc”. Many read them because they’ll get a lot of kiss scenes and so many vulgar scenes which they enjoy. Writers give a warning like “Below 18 don’t read.” and write a lot of vulgarity. Sometimes I feel like there is some sort of competition in which you’ll get the first prize if you write a lot of kisses which they term “PASSIONATE” but which I will term yuck and I feel like vomiting when I read it. In most stories it is after the girl (who is so innocent) falls in love with the boy that such things begin. Some of these writers say “as I’m not comfortable writing this, I have asked some1else to write it.” What is most shocking is the writers who write LUST are barely 15! Some are only 13. I never even thought of such things even when I was 18….
I appreciate your thought. But this is not enough.Or I feel so. Bring action. Stop commenting in such ff’s and ask those you know to do the same. When the writers do not get any comments, they will understand that readers do not prefer this and they will change.
I hope you will take this in the right sense and will not behave childishly by asking me who is a mmz fan not to comment in SR. (I’ll tell you the reason when you reply.)
Bye. Tc.
Hi dear, I’m so happy to see a reader from another fandom as I’m sure this problem isn’t just on SR fandom or Swasan fandom, I just wrote on what I saw with my own eyes.
To return to the subject, I expressed my point of view to may be make
some eyes to open more about what they’re write or they read…. Even evil
says beware of the wishes you have, you never know they can be realized…
Asking people to stop writing…. To stop reading? Who am I to be heard? Why would they follow my suggestion if they’re not convinced….
Under 18… Even 13…. This why I said “scary”… It’s really scary to see such kind of concept at this age… Falling in love with your rapist…. What world are we living in if this idea isn’t coming from some vulgar man used to watch p*rn and has such fantasies… It cones from the heart and brain of women… Women living is hostile world toward them and is yet looking to them s simple object of their “lust”
To stop someone, asking isn’t the way… Because if they were understanding, why should they go on this way?
Just to have readers? More likes for more scenes? Just to make is mature content? Kyu? Has it to be a rape to be hot????????
Are married couples… Or lovers so boring nowadays???
The problem of age is the illegal aspect of the matter… An adult proposing this kind of stories to minors is illegal… Against law and can be a reason for jail…
But then, writers are minors too sometimes… And it’s so sad to see that they’re considered as writers when all what important to them is to accumulate the number of readers… Really? Is it selling something? Will you gain fame? Notoriety? At what cost? The dignity?
Just imagine that a reader can turn to be a victim… Not finding the love aspect of the crime she had subside… She’ll do what? End her life consumed by ashameness and guilt that one day she enjoyed that kind of crime as a good story?
Imagine that a young teenager, a guy boiling with hormones reading all those stories finish by believing that it’s the way to have a girl friend…. That from imaginary he’ll realize his fantasy……. Is it so impossible? I don’t think so…
But again, people should have this believe in there hearts and not lectured by someone else because they’ll never change otherwise
Thank you so much dear…
I only read raglak ff’s besides manmarziyan ff’s….
I haven’t noticed such things in mmz….people do write mature content. But that’s different. That was not based on lust.
It was in a raglak ff that I noted the writer giving credit to the dirty scenes to some1 else. I was shocked by people commenting hot. It was a horror story. So to know that, I read on. But there was no progress in the story. Just scenes. I wondered whether that girl thought married couple don’t have any other job other than remaining in the bed all day.
Now I recollect a swasan story titled “Falling in love with my rapist” or something like that. Is it in there that the girl fell in love with the one who raped her? God. I agree with you on that matter. One will only hate that man. I couldn’t even imagine myself as that girl. I wonder whether the writer did.
Hmm it is true that you don’t have much authority here.No one can be forced. They themselves should feel it. You have done your part very well. Good. I too wish people would imagine themselves as the characters of the story before writing.
Teenage Boys? Even younger kids than that. One of my teachers shared a horrible memory of hers. The incident happened to her friend. When they were college going students, they used to meet a boy who was in 5th or 6th in the bus stop. He used to talk with them. Every1 treated him as a brother. One day this boy asked her friend time. She looked in her watch and was about to tell him the time when that nasty kid(he doesn’t deserve the name kid.) touched her br*asts and ran away laughing. Her friend was….well no one can describe it can they?
I must also admit that, I never thought of such subject too deeply. To be honest, I never really thought of all these things. It was after coming in TU that I read stories where the writers explain things into detail. I have read those. Not all though. 2/3. But that’s enough right? I just wanted to know what it really is. But now I feel like I lost some part of my innocence. I also understood that no one here is like me. Maybe they are just writing it to show others. I don’t know. My actual intention behind joining TU was to read a few mmz ff’s which 1 or 2 had started in the comment section.They had good language too. But now I don’t find anyone like that. Everywhere there is drama(not all).All that is popping in my mind too is drama. I also feel like I lost hold of good words.As a lit student, that is a huge loss. So I’m gonna stop reading so many drama stories. Just 1 or 2 which I like and has good story. Could u suggest 2 excellent swasan ff’s?
Sorry if I bored you. Once again thanks for taking what I said in the right sense. Bye. Love u and tc.
Horrible story of that kid endeed…
I’m working with men all the day, on construction sites or office and i face everyday different kind of looks on me in a field where men used to be leaders… of course there is respectful people but there is also those who can’t bear a woman walking on their path, giving them orders, or simply seeing in her just the object of their fantasies…
So i feel like if a woman isn’t able to impose the respect she deserves, so she’ll finish at garbage… this why this subject were toturing me so long since weeks that i noticed it, talking about it with friends, i found that i wasn’t a sort of alien where all those persons are normals, as many are feeling the same…
For Swasan FF, may be i’m not the best reader who can give titles, as my reading list is very short, not because i don’t like others writing, it’s just that when i’m writing, i simply can’t go out of my story and read something else, but there is those stories i’m following whatever be the situation:
Perfect Plan by Mica (finished)
my actual readings:
Swasan: a case with love by mica
Nothing is immortal except my love to you by Raina
my heart touched story (but on wattpad, didn’t find it here:)
Love hurts… love heals by khan Ruhi
Of course, this is just actual stories, but i know there are so many beautiful others… just didn’t found time to read them yet myself.
I agree with every single line of urs Aasthu…!!!!well u are asking some ffs names,here they are- MR. AND MRS. MAHESHWARI by ANJALI (completed -bet me if u don’t fell in love with swasan..not a single offendable word…..u will feel that the writer is a proffessional one but she is BE student)….
den u can read KUCH IS TARAH BY MEHER (completed) den MITWAA LOVE WILL FIND A WAY and TUJH MEIN RAB DIKHTA HAI both by STELLA (bet me if you dont envy swara in these ffs for having partner like sanskar…)
Then my fav RAINA’S stories…..and after falling in love with swasan then read MAHIRA di’s IF THIS IS YOUR LOVE MY PRINCE ………(becoz after falling in love with swasan only you can deeply feel their pain nd emotion in this wonderful story of mahira di…)
I am just suggesting u a few…its not dat other writers do not write good, they are best…….i appreciate all of ur efforts but i am remembering a few names only…… Mahira di suggested good names too…….
Aasthu just plz give dem a try i bet if you wont fell in love with swasan!!!
So true mahira di!!!!
Even i didnt read this article reading the world ‘lust’ but then in the recent comments section ur name appeared repeatedly….den i opened it..!!! Rabia di raised d same issue few days back too….. you know what being a girl,whenever i used to read d world ‘lust’ i felt like dat we r still living in a male dominated society and women have advanced not a bit!!!! It made me feel offended ….. It looked like that in all these yrs d contribution dat gr8 women hv made for women development is futile becoz being a woman if we consider ourselves dat we r only to satisfy someone’s desires den how can we expect men to respect our individuality!! All these yrs we hv ben considered a part of society due to a male member-father,husband,uncle etc… we still have not got our individuality…we still require a male members name for our identification…!!!!
Its high time now dat everyone will have to realise dat women are not merely for making dem do husband’s work at day and having dem at bed at night…!! (well its a dialgue of an indian film ‘piku’. Mahira di if u love indian cinema and ‘amitabh bacchchan’ (our superstar) u should give dis film a try…!!! Sure u will love it !!) I agree with Aasthu too…every single line of hers is true
Thank you di for such a wonderful realisation on women’ day…i m glad dat it is working as an eye opener…kudos to you!!
i hate you!! this time, also you didn’t inform me about this post of yours!! *pout*
what can i say di? even i never thought about this whenever i read such ffs, you know what? i am feeling very guilty because, i never thought that it’s wrong, only after you said, i realized how sanskar was in the serial, i am very sad. i actually didn’t even notice that it was an analysis, i just avoided this as this contained the title….
i thought it’s a ff!
i mostly avoid such stories, i only read a very few (honestly only one because i like the author). today only, actually to search for a comment, i was searching your post page and that’s when i saw it, i almost widened my eyes seeing that you were the author and silly me! then i only noticed that it was an analysis.. you are great didi!! this article was so true
*holding ears and saying sorry*
I mostly though you were in exams so j didn’t want to disturb you 😉
And be sure I’ll never ever write anything in that way because I’m very protective for a woman dignity and proud (you can’t how I was shocked with the slap scene in SR… But wasn’t meant to be a slap at all…)
And with all the innocent chottos I have for readers… I’ll never put any kind of offending scenes yo their yet precious innocence… I’m a writer who can describe a pouring water in a glass in a whole page lol… So explicit scenes are a simple play for (they’re easier to write than all the emotional .. Interior tournament of a character)… Yet I’m against this in a public forum… This kind of writing is destined to appropriate public…
But the main problem is of course this fashion of admiring the lust as a hot concept like if love was boring for morons!?
Too much blabber :p
Thank you sweet sweet Raina 😀
didi!! why are you explaining this much? arey! did i tell anything? didn’t you see that i told i widened my eyes! i know you! that’s why i was shocked but i am such a big idiot!! i have to ask sorry! waise didi, i am always free to read your stories, i love them like anything!!