Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai 10th July 2023 Written Episode, Written Update on TellyUpdates.com
The Episode starts with Abhir saying mumma… and running. Abhi says don’t run, what happened, be careful, are you fine. Everyone comes. Abhi asks what happened, are you feeling uneasy. Manjiri says his hiccups aren’t stopping, we will take him to the hospital. Aarohi says Maa is right. Akshu comes home. Abhir sees him and his hiccups stop. Akshu says I got this Dohar. Manjiri says you could have called once. Abhi says mum is worried, its raining so… Akshu says I came to give this Dohar to Abhir, he can’t sleep without this. Abhir says I don’t want it. He goes. Akshu says give it to him. Manjiri says he will find hard to adjust here if he gets old things back, don’t worry, I will get new Dohar for him. Aarohi says he doesn’t know what he wants, maybe he cries for the thing he is running away from. Akshu nods. Abhinav comes and says Akshara.
He says sorry, we came to give the Dohar. Abhi says no need of sorry, you are his parents and can come anytime to meet him. Abhinav asks did Abhir sleep. Akshu says yes, so I gave the Dohar to Aarohi, we will go. They turn to leave. They cry.
Abhir sees them and cries. Meri maa…plays… They turn to see. They don’t see him at the window. Abhi sees Abhir. Akshu and Abhinav come home. Akshu says I… Manish hugs her and says don’t say anything. She says I m doing the same thing as Abhi. He says parents are the same, they think the same for a child. She asks did I make a mistake by going there. He says no way. Kairav says he is your son, you have all the right. Manjiri asks why are you getting old things for Abhir. Abhi says what’s wrong if he gets comfort by his old things. She says it will be tough for him to move on. He thinks what shall I do. Aarohi asks is there any confusion, I felt happy when you asked for this Dohar, but mum told you something and you got confused, this Dohar is like a band aid for his wound, his pain won’t get less, think of his trauma. She says you will become the person who has separated him from his mum and dad, you can take care of him but can’t change of his feelings, he will never stay happy here, you took the wrong decision, if you think of Abhir, his happiness is with Akshu and Abhinav, not here. Akshu throws the pillow. Abhinav gives other one. She says its not good. He gives his hand. She rests on his hand. He says you remember we made his solar system project, he was waiting to see the comet, he ran to washroom when comet appeared. She says our child isn’t with us, but with Abhi.
Abhi covers Abhir with the Dohar and prays to Mahadev. He goes. Abhir wakes up and cries. He keeps pillows beside him and sleeps thinking of Akshu and Abhinav. Its morning, Dadi asks Muskaan to do the aarti. Muskaan says I will regard this your blessing, but can Akshu sing the aarti, she sings the best. Surekha taunts her. Kairav taunts Surekha. Dadi asks Akshu will you sing the aarti. Akshu says sorry, I won’t sing Kanha ji’s aarti.
Precap:
Abhi asks Abhir to call him Papa. Akshu fills the admission form and tells Abhinav. Abhinav says you are still Abhir’s mum, but I m not his dad now. Abhir says Dadda. Abhi stops.
Update Credit to: Amena
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Abhir is a fair child, he can’t give Manyu the Papa title so he gave him something else, what a good kid he is but his 3 knitwit parents don’t deserve him. Aru 👏👏👏 yesterday someone commented that Psychojiri is now Harsh’s old thing… I wish Aru would tell her that she is the old thing of the son (Harsh) of the Birla house and she should go, Aru has more rights as a widow to live with the Birla’s than this Psychojiri has, where you saw divorcee living in their in laws, psychojiri you are Purana cheez so you go live elsewhere you have zero right there take your share from your failed marriage and go live your failure life alone somewhere. I really really REALLY hate this b*t*hjiri 🙄 I hope this psychojiri doesn’t try to build her sons home using Aru again like a replaceable Barbie cause Aru will tel her off hood and proper, not like it would work this f**king narcissistic tramp is like Bhavani Chavan everything bounces off their thick skulls, only they are right even if they are wrong and have been proven so in their minds they are right, they deserve to be abandoned on the side of the road in the middle of nowhere.
@Jade
I don’t know what Manyu would have done to get the dadaa? Or maybe he would have cried his heart out and made helpless faces because he is only good at that. If he is getting a tittle this soon it means he will relax and have less time for Abhir which means Manjiri will be taking over. Disaster.
May I know what is dadaa? @Mark
I suppose we will know tom what he called Abhimanyu.Could be dad?? Dada in Hindi is paternal grandfather and in Bengali elder brother
Thank you @Rr for your explanation🥰
@Huh
We will definitely know when it’s aired. I know dada is a name given to dads by toddlers who are learning to speak.
@Mark Thank you!🥰
@Huh, Some in my family use Dadaa, as an affectionate way of saying Dad. I suppose for Abhir he already has a Papa, so the best he can offer Abhimanyu is Dad.
Abhir is the best and cutest child I have seen in ITV.
This show has no positivity. Only lack of trust.. fights.. Please bring some hope. How to patch up things when they go wrong..
@Shyra, true, and he is a great actor too.
Keep up Manjiri. Whether she means old things is the blanky or the mom, she is enjoying Akshus suffering now meaning soon she will cry. I mean one cannot win every time right.
And Manyu, does it kill you to sleep in the same room as Abhir? Or just be with him all night? Anyways, it’s how rich people are and since Navra was not rich, they couldn’t afford a spare bed for Abhir that’s why they had to cuddle with him always. And they call this big change? How about they call it biggest change?
Aru dear, keep warning this slow minded fellow. After all, he is clueless and ignorant on how to keep healthy and happy relations. He needs all the help he can get as this relation with his son, should never fail. If it fails, he will be the worst dad ever in history.
Manjiri can keep old thing away from Abhir but will never ever erase Abhir’s memories of his past!
Memories are indeed long lasting @Huh. Just like how her illtreatment towards Abhir, will forever be remembered.
@Mark true!
It’s like Abhir having a part of Hostel life Experience.
Most of us have to or had to live in hostel/Paying Guest house, far from parents when we are student. The discomfort for days, tears of misery, loneliness are very common.
But we overcome it maybe by a week or a month.
Abhir will too overcome and accept Abhimanyu but still home is home. Abhir at the end of the day will hope that his parents will come and take him back. This Abhimanyu cannot realise because he is a typical father. Like Arohi tried to put some truth in brain of Manyu boi, which is totally true. Also in presence of Manjiri, Manyu will be at his worst. Manjiri will continue to provoke him till he becomes his arrogant,brat self
@Shyra
True. Hostel experience 101. I am a product of boarding school since I was 6. Home is always home. And I don’t mean the house. I mean the people. Abhir will surely find a way to cope up and when he grows up, he will have a phobia against Birla house and it’s occupants. He will be those people who leave home and settle else where. Just like me, I get an eerie feeling when around any school atmosphere including teachers, though I like studying.
How you feel when you think about your Hostel life now. How much you value?
*Just like me, I get an eerie feeling when around any school atmosphere including teachers, though I like studying.
Me too I just refuse to think back my hostel’s life ever!
Abhimanyu,you really hide under other’s decision.When your mom said Abhinav & Akshara are past,not even rug should be bought into house……can’t you open your mouth and tell her they are not Abhir’s past, but present and future.But instead you got into confusion.🤦🤷
Please don’t call yourself as best surgeon,if you are unable to understand if this is right or wrong.
If you convince yourself that this is mahadev’s hope, then don’t say Abhir is your best interest.
You only tell stuff like ‘you are his parents whenever you want you can visit’,to be in good books of their parents.
You are a walking hypocrite, at akshara’s time and abhir’s time.
You talk about how much you love and prioritize akshara, but your actions speak otherwise.Threw away akshara during her miscarriage without any treatment (and you have the audacity to say I am blo*dy surgeon😠), when the decision was taken both by Neil and Akshara.
When Mahima & Parth did the medical negligence (which is punishable offence), Arohi met with accident, and Abhir was about to….. but you said it’s destiny…🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
No dude, neither Akshara or Abhir is your priority,they are not even in the bottom of your priority list….but you wanted to be in the top place of their priority list.🙎🙎
And Manjari from being suprassed & abused for many years to a women who doesn’t care about anyone to tell your opinions…..I don’t know whether to praise you or feel ashamed for your empowerment because of your actions.
Because of these 3 studio parents decisions, innocent kid has to suffer….😔😔
@😎
Exactly what I deciphered too. He hides behind others decisions which were taken on his behest. He would express in all the ways possible except talk it out as he is never honest even to himself. Then when people act on these unspoken wishes, they look bad because he gets no spine to admit that he wished the same only he wasn’t capable of acting on his wishes.
Apart from the scalpel, Manyu is a ignorant on everything else. But how will he know when his mom had no time for him as she was busy keeping a marriage that brewed so much anger in his son.
I couldn’t agree more, Manyu wants to be the center of his son’s universe but he never made his son the center of his universe. It’s good Abhir understood this and differentiated him from Nav. He shouldn’t hold the same position as Nav as he didn’t do anything that puts him as Navs equal. This is why dada is fine by me.
You are right @😎
Arey yaar aur kitna rulaoge bacche ko… Can’t see the little kid like that. Dr. Birlaji, please atleast on humanitarian grounds, send the boy back to his mother. He always keeps this becahara face which is even more annoying. As if all the misfortune in this universe is filled in his pockets.
@SK
That look of his is what annoys me.
@SK
Exactly 😂😂😂
He behaves as if he is the victim of the decade.
He couldn’t be with Abhir for 6 years,that time he made faces is completely understandable.
Even now when Abhir came to his house, he is like why I am not called papa 🙄🙄….arey mangachappu fellow his world is turned upside down….give him time.Atleat for few days be there in the same room know 🙎.Left him to be alone.
But he was not totally lost, he had ruhi with him for whole 6 years….He will never appreciate that.
Yea very true
Abhimanyu want to be with his mother he want shivu want to be with his mother but he seperated abhir from his mother superb if he continues like this abhir will hate abhi like abhi hate his father harsh
Apparently, he is helpless to keep Abhir from his mom. His fatherly rights, make him helpless. His principles change when it comes to his rights as a father.
Arohi deserves to be the lead. Done with dumbsara’s helpless state and Manyu’s selfish behaviour 🥴🥴🥴. No matter how hard they try to show abhir-manyu bond beautiful by baseless scenes, it looks fake, unrealistic and toxic. Manyu can’t be a good father either. Manyu and his monster mom exist only to ruin other’s life
The only thing m loving nowadays in this serial is that makers dropped the idea of making aarohi and roohi’s character turning into negative and they both loves akshu and abhir and also understanding their pain.Aarohi and roohi are the only one in the birla house who are thinking of abhir, atleast he has someone there.
Let’s not be in a hurry to see Aarohi in a positive light.She has her own agenda ,she has not broken her engagement.Abhir is a threat to her relationship with Abhimanyu and her position in Birla house.It suits her to send Abhir back to Akshara and Abhinav.
@Rr
Yes,Aarohi’s relationship with Abhimanyu is threatening.
Moreover she is not at all interested in that wedding as long as Rooh is fine with poppy.
And her position in birla house is DIL, even if she isn’t married to Abhimanyu.
She has no issues with Abhir staying at Birla house.
As far as I remember she has 10 % shares of birla hospital. If she marries Abhimanyu she gets 45% shares more.From the beg she wants control of birla hospital. Remember in camp she burnt Abhimanyu and Akshara wedding photograph? Everything is not about Ruhi and Poppy.Thst is why Parth has been pushed to manage Birla hospital to protect interest of his son
@Rr
Firstly, Arohi is not the one who approached for wedding 💍. It was manjari & Abhimanyu without her consent said okay.
Coming to solely holding 45% shared at the hospital, even if 100% he is holding, he won’t be rightful MD in the long term.He didn’t even consent other board members about opening new department at the hospital and allocated the funds.
You remember how he fought with Harsh about music department after his wedding,’Profit is not everything, why do you always say profit profit profit…blah blah blah ‘.😤😤
Mahima and harsh are practical people and run the hospital and today abhimanyu won the custody case of Abhir because of those profits.
After them Aarohi is the rightful and practical person who can run the hospital.
Abhimanyu wants to do charity stuff,by showing
harsh & mahima as selfish people and also enjoy the luxuries.
@😎
Couldn’t agree more.
Nooo, we are listening this conspiracies since Neil’s death. All of them are turning out to be false. Arohi and roohi are being liked by audience now.
@Rr, same here. ‘l love you as much as your mother’ did not ring sincere given Arohi’s attempts to ward Akshara away on the first visit to Udaipur, hiding from Abhimanyu that Abhir was his son, and guilt tripping Abhir to keep away from Abhimanyu as it up Ruhi. Who knows she may have had an epiphany and we’ll see it in a flash back at some point.
Also what was the pillow scene between Abhinav and Akshara? Did anyone also get vibes of two friends rather than husband and wife sharing sorrow ?
Isn’t friendship the basis of every healthy relationship, would you prefer cringe romance 🤨
Lolzzz… Well said @Jade. People always expect lovey dovey stuff from lead pairs. Arey yaar in real life couples are more like Akshnav rather than Abira
No I didn’t. I saw it as a husband who tried to make his wife feel little comfort on his hand and who tried to lessen her stress and worries. It is thousand times better rather than seing them rubbing their cheeks to wipe tears.
@Rr, yes. She would have nestled in his neck and their bodies have faced each other rather than lie side to side. I also worried about Abhinav getting pins and needles in his arm.
@Jade not looking for cringe romance at the time when Abhir s parents are so sad…but I hope the writers are not pushing Abhira romance again in future
There is one thing that Manyu keeps saying, “..you are his parents and can come anytime to meet him..”. But the verdict that Manyu chose to support 100% clearly states that Abhirs parents can only meet him on weekends. I mean is Manyu being a hypocrite or mocking Navra? Or maybe, he is tricking Navra so that he later tell on them so that they loose Abhir fully. I must say, Manyu is sly alright. And he says this but does that. Typical hypocrite.
@ mark Abhimanyu has grey areas in his character but he is not all black.Did he not keep offering to call Akshra so that Abhir could talk to her?
@Rr
🙄Exactly my point. Calling is okay but meeting is not according to verdict. So if Manyu is a firm believer and enforces the verdict, why is he saying Sharmas can meet Abhir any time?
Right. Missed that.I suppose I still want all three to co parent.Abhimanyu Akshara Abhinav all deserve to be part of Abhirs life
Even I am an advocate for co-parenting. But Manyus position now has changed. He is fine with the current arrangements. He never wanted to co-parent in the first place. He wants to control everything. He knows Navra is not allowed to meet Abhir but he lets them meet him. Why? What is his motive? Which angle is he playing at? Because currently the angle is unknown.
@Mark, so he is going to take Abhimanyu to court for breaking the agreement to allow the Sharmas access as and when the wish. Isn’t he being considerate here of the Sharmas pain, and of Abhir’s isolation.
@Mark, correction: ‘so who is going to take…
@Mark where in the Judges dialogue do she say the Sharmas can call? All she says is they have visitation rights at the weekend with the prior agreement of Dr Abhimanyu Birla. Watch July 2nd episode.
@Rai
Who is to say, Manyu is not tricking Navra so that he can later tell on them? I for one don’t trust him.
@Rai, you say consideration, I say mockery. Manyu should choose whether he is following the verdict or not. No intermediary. Especially if intermediary will cause problems for Navra.
What the judge didn’t say, passes as a yes. But what the judge clearly forbid, there is no going around it.
@Mark, you are too suspicious. Abhimanyu was on the outside of his child’s life and he is trying to spare the Sharmas the same feeling. Plus, he thinks Abhir is missing them. He does not know Abhir has been left broken by the Sharmas’ words.
Forget the suspicion @Rai. Manyu knows that Navra will not come ever if it’s not weekend and they have no excuse because they can’t risk the little chance they got. But Manyu offered anyways, why? This is mockery and hypocrisy.
You see @Rai, Manyu mind has always proved to be lacking much development as he could easily be manipulated and can’t handle intense emotions, and can’t work out his own problems and shortcomings. If he keeps using it for things like thinking, he will fail this relation again. I suggest him to follow his heart and confirm his thoughts if they match with Abhir. If Abhir was able to ask questions like when and how did you know, he can give Manyu a nod if he asks about his feelings and thoughts. Manyu shouldn’t use his head, it’s always proved fatal to all.
The way the makers have portrayed Promisemanyu, even I wouldn’t want him for a father. He is a hypocrite, spineless and very selfish. He cares more about his mother’s opinion than his son’s feelings. He actually thinks the world revolves around him. They have thrown Abhir at the deep end and they expect him to swim to the shore without him getting hurt. ..what a fool! I hope the Sharmas get back full custody of Abhir before that child gets damaged. The so called father is really a piece of crap work. I now believe all the good things we see in Ruhi are because of Aarohi otherwise with a father like Toxicmanyu, even an orphanage sounds like fun.
@Rach
You and I both.
Dumbimanyu and his nutjob psycho mum should go bang their heads in a mental hospital…Dumbinav and dumbshara should also do same. Other than arohi and kairav no one else seem to behave sensibly when it comes to a kid of their own family… Also are we every going to see arohi in a fancy getup of a bride? Don’t she deserve any happiness? She deserves a guy who’ll love and take care of her along with ruhi unconditionally. And what nonsense the idiot makers are trying to show? Do parents have to take permission from birlas to meet their own child🤡next level clownery in all desi shows. Makers have successfully ruined the charm orginial akshara and naitik along with singhanias and maheshwasris had created in this show. This should should really have ended after the first gen. It clearly shows makers don’t have one ideas on how to show a drama in a sensible storyline.
@Lara she isn’t the FL sadly so her happiness comes second to Akshara, as it is all the gossip sites are hungry for Abhinav’s character to be killed off. They keep writing the same irritating articles, I wonder if these people run the gossipy sites are 13 year olds 🤨 they really really want their toxic Abhira together
Jade that is what angers even me they are so obsessed with cringe abhira when that pair literally has no compatibility just like anupama anuj and vanraj kavya… Why are they circulating the same articles all over? I bet you they don’t even bother to read the comments in here since our comments want progress in the show while their heads are filled with rubbish. In social medias all yrkkh fans should start a trend with the demand of seeing arohi as a bride and she better be paired with a handsome hero and that better be the same guy who played neil i wish they start this demand and they continue the demand until the creative directors finally start that track in the episode.
Lessons are being learnt all around. ‘Abhimanyu and I are not so different afterall,’ Akshara tells Manish as she admits like him she is using every excuse to be near Abhir. Manish tells her:
‘There is no difference between a mother and father no matter how apart they are. The pain of separation from their off spring is the same. Just their way of expressing it can differ. (Abhinav feels a pitch)
‘ Yes, you are behaving the same. A father looks at his pain, and a mother at the child’s comfort. A mother loses herself in her child’s needs when it is by her side, and when apart she worries if the child is in pain and discomfort.
If only Manish had shown an ounce of this wisdom on that fateless day in Kausali, Abhir might be with the Sharmas and Abhimanyu enjoying visiting rights.
Hopefully, Akshara recognised the generosity of spirit shown by Abhimanyu as he tells her not to be apologetic, that she and Abhinav are Abhir’s parents and it is their right to visit him when they wish. Contrast that with the dismissal, the insults, rubbing in his nose in that he is not the father which Abhimanyu had to endure from Akshara.
Using Manish’s sentiment, I suppose,
Akshara by suppressing the truth, enclosing Abhir in her formulation of a perfect family was ensuring her child’s peace and comfort. Abhimanyu, finally breaking and pleading with Akshara to reveal the truth was wanting to protect the child from the pain of being lied to, especially as Abhir poured his heart out to him over knowing he had another Dad and was expressing his love and trust in Docman.
As usual @Rai, thank you for pointing out exactly what was going on.
I must say, Manish is finally being wise when he also decided to open custody case again for Abhir especially.
Although Abhir was never in pain for being lied to, Manyu must have read Abhirs emotions upsidedown like he is even now. Once upon a time when Abhir was overhearing Navra, he became sad/was in pain as his dad is not his dad. Meaning he wanted Navra to be his dad. How would Manyu answer this pain? By saying yes to the existing verdict? Then curiosity and questions as to who is the dad then? Curiosity killed the cat indeed. This curiosity of Abhir, led to him trusting Manyu with the search for the real dad. Manyu fearful of his relation with his son, demanded they answer his question and so they did finally. But then again, Abhir is in pain now but Manyu again reads it as “scared” or missing his parents. Why is this dad reading it all wrong? He should read the correct signals and tackle them. But no, his son is going to grow up feeling he is a burden to his parents because of his parents foolish step taken to secure Manyus chance with Abhir. A vicious circle indeed. Abhir should just grow up, fast. Otherwise, many misreadings will occur in the future.
@Rai
This generosity that Manyu is displaying to Navra is hypocrisy. If Navra get caught, it will danger their visitation rights. And Manyu is choosing to show his generosity to the wrong people who never cared for him instead of showing it to his son. Hail generousManyu. Your son could do with your generosity now as he already knows who his father is, his name is changed already, but you hid it from him.
@Mark, to be fair Abhimanyu does not know that Abhir has been broken by the Sharmas’ cruel words to engineer his detachment from them. He thinks Abhir is struggling with the scale of the change and he is doing his best to maintain the familiar in the boys life.
The Judgement took Abhimanyu by surprise. He had hoped to be recognised as the biological father and to have visitation right agreed. The Judge decided otherwise and yes he is glad for himself, why wouldn’t he, but he is also pained for Abhir and the Sharmas.
Hopefully, a better future than having Abhir’s life turned into a custody ping-pong match in the Courts of Appeal between the Sharmas and Abhimanyu is hinted at in: Manish’s new found wisdom: Akshara’s realisation; Abhinav’s words in the precap that Akshara’s position as mother is beyond question, but not being the biological parent, nothing would change for him, and Abhir, has made an accommodation to call Abhimanyu as Dad. I think co-parenting is still the best option. That is if the plan is to keep the parents as a trio.
As I said @Rai, less thinking and more of feeling, from Manyu will help.
We have since been talking about how Manyu, “…yes he is glad for himself” is so wrong on many levels.
Even we audience had been expecting free visitation for the loosing side but this didn’t happen. If this was a shared custody where Abhir stays with all equally, Abhir would have never protested in the first place and Navra would have never taken this drastic step. But what happened did happen, but why is Akshu and Manish the only ones thinking to appeal? Why doesn’t Manyu think the same too for his son. Does he think his son having no moms influence will be good for him? He was supposed to advocate for an appeal so that his son doesn’t later have mommy issues. But he didn’t. The way I see it, the weekends will be spent pampering each other and Abhir will never share anything with Navra because he will not want to spoil their weekend with him or not pressure them with his feelings. Now since Navra is not always with him, they will not be able to monitor and catch up the minute indicators that Abhir needs their advice or input e.t.c. you see, this current arrangement is not good for anyone other than Manyujiri and that is what we are against. Okay, how about Manyu relocates else where so that Abhir will not hear maaa, maaa, maaa from everyone but him?
Appeal should be advocated by all, with Manyu leading the gang because he knows Akshu stand as she told it to him that she will let him have visitation anytime and will also come to Udaipur twice a year. Navra being restricted as strictly as they are is madness for anyone to accept let alone the child’s father.
So we can’t help but see clearly, Manyus reservations and priorities.
@Rai
“..He thinks Abhir is struggling with the scale of the change and he is doing his best to maintain the familiar in the boys life.” Is Manyu doing his best to maintain some familiarity or confused if he should let Abhir sleep in his blanky, because the blanky is familiar and thus will remind him of “old things”.
Manyu should just get his head out of his arse.
@Mark, why isn’t Abhimanyu launching a Appeal against the decision in his favour. Is that even possible?
@Rai
This decision is not in his son’s favor. Can’t he do that even for his son? For his son. Am I asking for too much. Why don’t they all appeal for a more favourable arrangement?
@Mark, but he place the older familiar blanket on the boy, so where is Abhimanyu confused?
@Rai
We need to thank Aru for that, don’t we? God knows Aru may not be around next time.
Like I said before, Abhir now see Abhi as his bio father no more the hero/ superman he once was for Abhir after knowing the truth, Abhimanyu’s love n care for him was just a biological father would do?
Akshara has to rise from her current state and be ready for the battle for her son. I wish a grand entry for her in Birla House along with Abhinav. After all, she will have exact same position of Manjari in Birla House. Manjiri is a divorcee staying for her son in Birla house.Mahima is sister of Manjiri and the same way Akshara to Arohi. If Akshara stays at Birla house, her position will be same and can easily challenge Manjiri. Akshara has to reposition Manjiri from mother figure to her rival figure and fight back the evil plans of Manjiri. There is no benefit in abiding to the rules and regulations of the Birlas as they are not ready to share her son in any way. So Akshara has to wake up and act fast. No mother will ever ready to give up her kid for any situation. Akshara being the lead cannot become weak and let her son lost in loneliness.
@Nitu that would be great but Akshu and is a fool who will never tell that psychoJiri off, she still treats her like a substitute mother instead of her enemy. The only person who really has psycho’s number is Mahima and I am waiting for the day she takes her sister on
@jade, yes, But I want to see Akshara roasting Manjiri. Anyway, Akshara has to be there for her son urgently else the child will suffer in loneliness. Either she has to be there at Birla house for her son or at his school as a music teacher or some thing.
Nice idea @Nitu. Music teacher will be nice.
@Nitu
I also advocate for Navra entry at Birla house and Aru being on Navra side.
@Mark 🤞 lets hope
Toxicmanyu: “Abhir what’s wrong tell me, we will do as you say please tell me” as he takes him away from his parents (don’t start with the blood crap because Abhir only considered Abhinav and Akshara as his parents, he still does) without ASKING HIM ONCE what he wants. Abhir had confessed in front of everyone what he wants but both Toxicmanyu and Manjiri turn a blind eye. LOLL Toxicmanyu can live with Akshara and Abhinav alone in Kasauli uninvited for a MONTH! BUT Akshara should’ve called or messaged while she only came to drop off her sons blanket and left without saying a word to him. HYPOCRISY AT ITS BEST. Perfect example on why neither are worthy of a child, I’ll vote for Abhir to stay with Aarohi as long as he’s in Birla house because she can totally sense and understand his feelings like a mother. Toxicmanyu is a father for namesake, he can’t understand shit about his “son”.
@Dropofthought
Agreed that Abhir should live with Aru in Birla house. Or Abhir should grow up fast because he will be getting requests from Manyujiri that favor Manyujiri daily.
@Rai, why didn’t you alert me that Manyu said “Abhir what’s wrong tell me, we will do as you say please tell me”. I mean, really Manyu???? So a certain scene at the court room is suddenly forgotten by Manyu?😂😂😂😂I love Manyus hypocrisy. He maintains it perfectly. It’s a constant.
@Dropofthought, this is why I said, Navra should finally take Manyus offer that they can meet Abhir anytime and request to stay at Birla house for Abhir. After all, they are rich and can accommodate two more people in their house without having to think of added expenses. @Rai, is Manyus generosity only to an extent? Can’t he offer Birla house invites to Navra?
@Mark I saw the episode and would’ve slapped Toxicmanyu when I heard him utter the dialogue. He says he’ll do what Abhir wants but didn’t f*coin ask him once. Everyone can see without Abhir needing to say but the great neurosurgeon and selfish Manjiri can’t see what Abhir is going through. Aarohi is honestly feeling his pain without any other motive because even she cries seeing his plight but blo*dy Toxicmanyu cannot. I feel so bad for Abhir, the poor boy has forgotten to smile let alone laugh and talk. This is going to leave a big mental imprint on him this is precisely why Abhinav was stepping back because he didn’t want to hurt his child. Toxicmanyu on the other the great, wealthy, smart neurosurgeon can’t see what he’s done to his son mentally, emotionally. The apple doesn’t fall far from the tree, Harsh was a sh*tty father so is Toxicmanyu. Harsh abused physically, Toxicmanyu abuses mentally. Harsh tried but couldn’t care for his son, Toxicmanyu doesn’t want to care for what his son really wants or SHOULD GET, he only cares for what he wants. blo*dy selfish b*stard. This guy, character, storyline is pissing my off because it’s completely ruined Abhirs childhood at the moment and in reality it would ruin a child’s adolescent but because this is a show I’m sure they’ll try to show some trash.
@Mark, not sure what quote you needed an alert on.
I share what hits me in the programme.
Fair enough @Rai. What about Manyus generosity? Can’t he extend it to accommodate Navra In Birla house?
@Mark, Abhimanyu open Birla House to the Sharmas, I would think he would welcome it for Abhir and their sakes. But would Abhinav accept. He has a massive complex about accepting help, he refused his in-laws. I get that. It’s a big no, no in Indian society to feed off the wife’s family. So, that being the case, living in the wife’s ex-husband’s house is completely out of the question. How many men anywhere in the World would do that?
@Rai
Let’s see if Nav will refuse. Manyu could do it regardless of Navra financial status. When it comes to Abhir, even Akshu realized she is not so different from Manyu. It’s just that they never got an official welcome invite.
Abhir ❣️
Akshara fans are irrecoverable, it’s about being fair, what justice when from the beginning the AkshNav is responsible for the mess.
Akshara and Abhinav weren’t mature enough to fix the problem while Abhir was still a baby, those who say they didn’t know the risks, Don’t act like the situation isn’t obvious, you understand the situation very well and so do they.. Akshara and Abhinav are adults not ignorant children, Akshara knew that lying to Abhir and depriving Abhimanyu of his fatherhood was going to become a problem, otherwise she would not have lived far from Udaipur. The mother who knows very well that her child will one day suffer from her stupidity, but who persisted in error and a bad mother, isn’t she? because after all it was Akshara’s joy of being with her son that made her selfish, not taking into account that her son was going to suffer from the situation if it was not resolved before he reached the age of reason , this makes Akshara more at fault for Abhir’s current misery than anyone else. because if the situation had been settled from the beginning Abhir would not have had to suffer from separation, choice making, or even would not have had to have to get used to a new life, because he would have already been used to having a dysfunctional family like many other children in this world, who are however not unhappy to live a life that is shared between their father and their mother. because he would have been used to receiving love from both sides, he would not have made any distinction between the love of his father and his mother, because at the time the situation would have been the same as today, l One of them would have had sole custody, and the other would have visitation rights. Akshara’s fans have totally erased from their minds that Akshara and the one who did not do things right after the birth of her son, it was not because she did not know that her decision would have repercussions on Abhir, because the truth she was afraid because she knew very well. but her selfishness as a mother pushing her postponed the inevitable, her happiness as a mother was greater than Abhir’s long-term happiness, whoever says she didn’t know about the risks is just trying to lie to herself. Akshara’s fans supported Akshara’s selfish and thoughtless actions because they don’t like Abhimanyu, yet Akshara’s actions were ultimately for her own sake, and her son was collateral damage to her decision, which she took for his respect and for his anger towards Abhimanyu because of their unhappy past. The mother who willfully ignored the risks to her son’s future, must she meet his death and completely lose her son, the mother who led her child into the abyss must she deserve her son’s hatred. For the story of Abhir’s current misery begins with the decisions taken by Akshara. Akshara fans don’t like Abhimanyu ok, but for Abhir living with Sharma with a bomb just waiting for the timer to go off was also not an acceptable choice. Whatever rancor between Akshara and Abhimanyu or even between Goenka and Birla, only Abhir’s future should have counted but Akshara was not ready to cede even a third of her rights over Abhir to Abhimanyu, she did not want to live a life where she often had to deal with Abhimanyu, even if this choice would have been a better solution for the future of her son. Some people talk about Abhir’s happiness but what happiness, the happiness that has been compromised since his birth, because his mother knew that the risk existed? When Abhimanyu had no right over his Son he went to Kasauli for his son, even though he knew that this situation could not be permanent because his life and elsewhere, the Sharmas when they returned to Kasauli without thinking about the delicate situation between them and Abhimanyu they neglected that to settle things quickly between them and Abhimanyu would have been for the good of Abhir, because Akshara beyond Abhir’s wishes she was ready to return home because her life is in Kasauli. If the Sharmas had custody of Abhir, would they have come to settle permanently in Udaipur if Abhir wanted to be at Abhimanyu’s side? the answer and no because Akshara would never have let this situation happen, because she built her life in Kasauli and where her life is Abhir should be. The story of the shoes proves that this mother for herself and her husband can brainwash her son in their favor under the guise of a lesson. Children follow adults and not the other way around. Why some are there as if Abhimanyu had separated Abhir from his family, the AkshNav also contributed they voluntarily went before the judge so that he decided they all knew that the chances were variable but they wanted sole custody of Abhir. the decision has been taken and for the moment cannot be changed, so some should stop their nonsense (he cannot leave his family but asks his son to do so). When the parents move the children follow, even if they are unhappy, the children live according to the circumstances of the parents until their majority. The children end up adapting to the new environment, has a new education and has a new way of living it’s just human nature, I speak several languages because I have moved several times since childhood, I have adapted even with the language barrier, all the children end up adapting to reality. We must stop dramatizing because Abhimanyu did not sleep on the same bed with his son, Abhir is at an age where he should sleep alone, he must learn to rely on his father. if Abhir feels the need to sleep in the bed with someone, he has to ask so that he can understand that he can ask anything from his new family members whether it is Ruhi or Abhimanyu. children are spontaneous they don’t need to ask each other to do things, he can go to Ruhi’s room just like Ruhi can come to his. Abhir has erected barriers in front of Abhimanyu and at the moment he cannot cross them without Abhir’s emotional consent because the situation does not allow it, the only thing he can do is try to keep pace with Abhir’s adaptation. Relationships are formed as we slowly learn to trust and adapt to the other’s usual mode of operation, letting them open up at their own pace. This situation and the result of parents who want exclusive rights over their child, and who are ready to fight at the expense of their son. I think the moment Abhir opens up to the Birla family and starts enjoying being with them, the Sharmas will gain custody of him, and another vicious cycle will begin where Abhir will want to be with Abhimanyu while he lives with the Sharmas. The fans make me laugh to believe that all parents do things the same way and that Abhimanyu should act like Navra. every parent has their way of doing and raising a child so why should Abhimanyu do like Navra, Abhir also has to adapt to his way of functioning, Abhinav slept in the same bed with Abhir for well known reasons. Fans support parental selfishness by wanting their favorite to think of themselves first at the expense of the child’s feelings. but when it’s other characters it’s something else. When Abhir was attached to Abhimanyu as Docman some for their fav did not hesitate to denigrate the child to give more attention to Abhimanyu than to Abhinav. Some talk about how Abhimanyu likes to be in control, but I see Akshara doing whatever she wants regardless of others, is a control freak herself, who wants things to go her way, even though for that she must go back on her word by breaking her promises. if things don’t go the way she wants she won’t stop until she does what she wants, even if the consequences are disastrous. Her sister is no better at her stuff until she gets what she wants she will persist even if she has to take a wrong turn. then the two sisters at the time of having to assume their thoughtless behavior, will victimize themselves and will try to justify themselves by accusing the others for their bad choice. while in the end they did what she wanted despite the consequences, their mania for controlling and doing things as they please will never be mentioned, and the fact that their word has no value because the sister elder and a champion at making promises and never keeping them and good at saying things and doing other things, she is a champion in the art of never keeping her word as she can never keep her promises, and the other is the queen to change color. The Kairav I will not even quote the character of this idiot, Manjiri is criticized because she wants her grandson and that she is a hypocrite, but Kairav and his direct competitor in his field. He had a bad behavior with a child who is also a member of his family, he made a decision by wanting to control, without taking into account the situation without taking the child into account, and he continues to act like an innocent angry, an inveterate idiot but of course his sister can tolerate everything concerning him because it is blood selection. Abhinav is controlled by his wife’s will she asks him to turn left he will turn, she asks him to do the opposite he will, whatever bad decisions his foolish wife might take he will follow in the end. Arohi is often controlled by her evil nature, when something goes against her will or thinks it might harm her, she won’t hesitate to take risks with other people’s relationships and conspire. Akshara is totally controlled by her savior mind and listens to her limit demonic impulses, which always creates problems in the lives of others, she is totally controlled by her demonic savior mind. Abhimanyu may be listening to his mother but what makes all the other idiots better than him 😒 in the end, people who are in the life of problematic people end up and will end up suffering because of their behavior. Fans love calling Abhimanyu a sperm donor, so Akshara is a surrogate because a lot of women are doing this nowadays, and others are raising their child. Akshara reduced Abhimanyu to be a giver, and Abhimanyu can also reduce Akshara to become a surrogate mother, if he denies visitation rights, the same way she denied him fatherhood rights to bond with her son. A child loves the parents he knows as a parent because since his birth he has lived with them and he has always known only them as a parental figure. many children suffer parental abuse in the world yet they love their parent, thanks to the privilege of being the sole parental figure of a child, it does not take much sacrifice for a child to become attached to an adult to whom he got used to. but some obviously play those who don’t understand to further discredit Abhimanyu, reminding that he didn’t have the opportunity to be there for his son. Abhimanyu gave his time, his love and his money, and his person for Ruhi, it was not a sacrifice it’s just parental love, but the public devalues that because he wants to be at his son’s side. what Abhinav did for Abhir Abhimanyu would have been able to do it for his son, but he was denied his right and today now that he wants to give his son his love he is insulted for that. Abhimanyu doesn’t need to sacrifice his position as a father to make his son happy, he needs time. I forgot Abhir will be and will certainly grow better next to the lying Sharma, who are emotional fools who don’t even know how to pay attention to their behavior in front of their child. the child must spend his time worrying about the feelings of AkshNav before being in his role as a child, he must go and protect the financial interests of his father and preserve the fragile feelings of his parents, instead of worrying about his child problem. The Sharmas who are too stupid to be rational and reassure a child properly, of course he will certainly grow up better by their side. After the stupid things the AkshNav said in front of Abhir, they sincerely think Abhir will adapt and live peacefully, he just spends his time being distressed by Navra’s stupidity. they know that Abhir loves them and their words will hurt him and he will not forget them easily or believe them easily, how is Abhir supposed to adapt quickly when his mind wonders about the his parents’ love for him, Navra truly believes their coneri was a solution, stupid parents. A behavior that is likely to reproduce because Navra and supposed to be a couple of Naif. After AkshNav action maybe I should assume it was also hypocrisy that they wanted to torment Abhir’s mind, so that he would not quickly adapt to Birla until they win the deal. Because it seems like all of Abhimanyu’s actions are seen as implied even when it comes to spontaneous.
@yeol
There is so much I am not agreeing with you as i am more advanced than you in terms of complains against these 3 failed parents but I am supposed to sleep now. We will chat tomorrow.
@Yeol, yes so much pain could have been avoided if only Akshara didn’t take it on herself to mid-shape her son’s destiny.
Abhir ❤️😘