Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai 12th May 2023 Written Episode, Written Update on TellyUpdates.com
The Episode starts with Abhi coming home. Akshu asks why did you come here. He says I want to take my son home with me if you and Abhinav permit. Akshu shouts Abhir. Abhir comes and sees Abhi. He says doc man and runs. Akshu stops him. She says you have to go home with your doc man. He says but you don’t like it. She says you like it, right, go, change and come. He goes. Abhi says sorry Sharma ji, our lawyer shouldn’t have discussed your financial condition. Abhinav says its okay, Akshu and I aren’t so weak, we have faced big storms. Abhi recalls Kairav’s words, and says say bye to Kairav. Abhir says bye.
Manish says you have sent Abhir. Akshu says I have learnt from my mistakes, Abhi thinks blood ties are bigger than upbringing, I m sure our upbringing will win in the end. Manjiri feeds the halwa to Abhir. Aarohi looks on. Abhir says its really tasty. She says its good, Ruhi is at the school, no one will disturb you. He says she doesn’t disturb me, I want both siblings to be together. She thinks Abhir came home, what will happen later. Abhi takes Abhir to his room. He lifts Abhir and says you are special and your entry should be special, just like… Ruhi and you are special to me. Abhir likes the room. He says you didn’t make me meet our Shiv ji. Abhi asks him to come. They pray to Mahadev. Manjiri says I can’t believe Abhir has come here. Shefali smiles. Manjiri sees Aarohi. Aarohi goes.
Abhir says wow, I saw this punching bag in movies. He plays with Abhir. Abhir coughs. Abhi worries. Abhir says I m fine. Abhi says I m always with you. Ruhi looks on. Abhi says see who came to meet you, come fast. Ruhi says I don’t want to come, what are you doing here, you are my dad. Abhi says yes, why are you upset with Abhir, will you become his first best friend in Udaipur. Ruhi says no, you are very bad. She goes. Abhi says don’t worry, she will become your friend in 2 days. Aarohi talks to Surekha on call. She says Abhi forgot Ruhi. Abhir comes and hugs her. He says I don’t want to make Ruhi sad, I m not snatching her dad, but just sharing, please talk to Ruhi. Aarohi sees Manjiri and says I will talk to Rihi. He asks really, I love you Maasi. He hugs her. Manjiri smiles.
Akshu says how will I make the jam favors alone. Muskaan says I will help you. Akshu says no, you focus on your job. Suwarna and Dadi come and say we will also help you in setting up the jam business in Udaipur. Akshu says thanks, I feel lucky, you have done a lot for me already. Suwarna says stop these emotional talks. Akshu thinks I told Abhi to get Abhir before 6pm. Abhir comes. She thinks Abhi dropped Abhir on time. She goes out. Abhir says Abhi dropped me on time, but he didn’t come inside. She says its okay, come. Abhinav smiles. She asks what happened. He shows the car and keys. He says I took this on rent, and I will drive it in Udaipur. She says its not needed. He says its needed, I can teach Abhir to live with respect. She says you can teach him everything. He says we are together. She says I thought to start my jam business again. He says no, you won’t do that work again. She says but we need… He gives her a form. She says law exam form. He says you couldn’t give the exam because of me, its time you complete this work, you have to get determined for our sake, we need this work right now, you can become Abhir’s mum and lawyer, get him his rights and also to those who need your help, you have to pass this exam, you can fulfil all your dreams, I will see everything. She says thanks for becoming my life partner. Abhir says I m going, vroom… They smile. She says I want to go Kasaulli now. Abhir says this car is better than old one. Abhinav says more cars will come. Abhir says doc man’s house is wow, its too big, he has many cars, there is a little waterfall also, its house is awesome. Abhi sees the boxing gloves and butterfly. He cries. He asks am I selfish, am I doing wrong, no.
Akshu says Abhi is ahead of Abhinav only in financial stability, Abhinav will always have the key to happiness. She goes and sees Abhinav calculating Abhir’s education expenses. Manish says Abhinav has shown much courage. Suwarna says Akshu is lucky to get him, he didn’t take the job, he wants to do it on his own. Kairav asks but why, court will not give any points for his sincerity, he has to prove his capabilities. Dadi says he is self sufficient, he has proved it, he can do anything. Abhinav says medical expenses will be there, he will ask for a bike also, I have to take a bike, total will be 60 lakhs, how will I arrange this money. Akshu worries.
Precap:
Abhinav says I took the cab on rent. Nishta asks Abhi to pay the cab driver. Abhi goes to give money. Abhinav asks for 1 rupee as shagun. Abhinav says Abhir is the most precious one, if I have not left the shagun, how will I leave my son.
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What makers wants to prove? That only abhinav deserves all the happiness and he is the best person on earth and also the most bechara person who works hard day nd night for his family, who is fighting for his son, whose wife doesnot share husband wife wala relation with him bechara ko sab zaleel karte hai.. Also giving all sorts of heavy dialogues to him as if all other person are hypocrites.. Ek abhinav ko saint dikhane ke liye makers destroyed abhimanyu akshu arohi’s character matlab hadh hai.. Acc to spoilers, abhir’s health will deteriorate and abhinav will run barefoot and beg abhimanyu to save his son😒 matlab hadh hota hai mahanta dikhane ka.. As if he is the only one who cares about abhir.. Ek ko uthaane ke liye sabko gira diya makers ne😒
They are not doing this for the 1st time har show mai hota hai, is show mai bi akshu ko mahan dikhane ke lie aru aur toxic ko giraya tha phir akshu aur toxicmanyu ko acha dikhane ke lie neirohi ko giraya tha.
Mind your word abhimanyu tumlog ko kis hisaab se toxic lagta hai bhai….. Sirf uska nature gussse wala hai aur jo uske mann mea hota hai wo bolta bilkul transparent hai…. Aur sab jaanta tha ki arohi starting se hi toxic aur jealous thi…….. Ab toh abhimanyu gussa bhi ni krta toh ab kisliye toxic toxic laga rakha hai……. So called frustrated people
Actually yes he deserves all the happiness and the way his character is written actually is not toxic ..we have seen so many mahhan characters Akshara,Anupama ..then why not Abhinav ..? Only because he is a male and to entertain the audience he has to be toxic af…Abhinav also has flaws but he is more humane character…aur kisko giraya batao …Abhimanyu toe nahi gira …, Toe gira kaun ?? …Abhimanyu ke character bohot shuru se confused tha …abhi bhi hain yahi Hain uska character …uska character designing shuru se hi Aisa hi hain …Abhinav ka character bhi jab se aaya hain Aisa hi hain … that’s just their character …
Right
Seriously?? Did makers destroy Abhi, Arohi and Akshara characters to glorify Abhinav character?? No.. the yrkkh show um watching has not shown such thing. Truth is before introducing Abhinav character all those characters were already ruined by the makers even the story as they went wrong. And now the only thing is that it is hidhlighted because they introduced Abhinav as a good character to save the show. I think you will never complain and will never have problem if that Abhinav is negative character because then the characters you say got destroyed will be highlighted as saint infront of more negative person. But what i noticed is from the beginning makers went destroying other characters to glorify Abhira.
If makers show he run barefoot to beg Manyu to save Abir, he will not need to beg as Manyu himself is always ready for his patients especially his son. In his panicking mode (Nav is excellent in panicking. This is his only flaw), he forgot to wear shoes. It is understandable. And another thing that is understandable, is Nav getting into a car accident in future and dies. Because you know what, good people never last.
If that really happen, I hope Akshara will not go back to be with Abhi! Coz I dun think Akshara n Abhi relationship will nvr be like b4
I mean will be as before*
@Surabhi, thinking the same as you.
I agree with u show ke liye saare awards aur appreciation laaye abhimanyu ka character aur makers bhagwaan abhinav ko bana kr rakhe hai… i really wish ki yaa toh Harshad show chor de yaa ek new female lead aaye uske liye….. rajan shahi only using harshad chopda….because of abhinav character i start hating akshara character……. Abhimanyu jaisa bhi ho but wo sirf akshara se pyaar krta hai lekin akshara….shameful….now i realise naira is better than akshara….she never give that hunsband wala place to any other man……
U r right Rajan sahi is using HC,HC shd leave the show,then c the trp.
The Ph is just taking a piss on low income and middle class people with values… poor people will lose and rich people win, they love pushing that narrative. Indian production houses live demeaning the working class. Now even Abhir will innocently look down on Abhinav… they should make the Birla’s lose everything and equal the playing ground, Parth has made enough mistakes for that hospital to be condemned and the family shamed
Yes your right! Abhinav deserves happiness n respect, what is wrong with him working hard day n night for his family’s happiness?? All the more we respect his endeavour! Instead of giving compliments your showing sour grapes?? WTH😵💫😵💫😵💫
Now that a certain someone created an environment for questioning Sharmas financial situation, Navra feels the pressure to get rich overnight. Especially Nav who in the presence of Manyu feels he better keep up. Inshort, Nav feels he has to compete with Manyu. It is natural. He needs someone to tell him this is not a competition.
Now that Akshu has soften up, we get to see if this foursome will work or not.
Ruhi and Abhir may later come to accept each other but maybe not. My guess is since Abhir is a boy, Ruhi will not be Arohi2. I.e. girls can be mean to each other as they are the same, but a boy and girl differentiates them to the point where Ruhi will see that its ridiculous to expect equal treatment as they are of different s*x.
Navra can later be financially stable but maybe not.
I advice Nav to accept the help of Goenkas as a side job if he sees his job is not making enough.
Arohi should show cooperation by not making it obvious that Abhir is here to take a part of Ruhi spotlight. She should participate in the process of adding Abhir in their family tree. She should make sure Ruhi doesnt feel that Manyu is sidelining her. She should act like “everything is fine Ruhi why are you sad!”. But with this attitude of hers Ruhi will feel that, Arohi also feels what Manyu is doing is wrong, so she is right to feel that Abhir should leave Manyu.
But maybe Arohi and Ruhi will remove their insecurity and possessive behaviour respectively but maybe not.
Manjiri today was like a madwoman. She doesnt understand Abhir at all but she wants to overtake everyone for Abhirs affections. Abhir was asking for permission from the elder responsible for him but she did not understand that. Tomorrow Abhir will say no to Manjiri for something that is justified but Manjiri will not understand him, Manjiri will end up saying ” you see, Akshu bad genes are making Abhir say no to me”. Manjiri is still not in a good position to act ENTITTLED to Abhir rights. She forsook her rights long time ago. She should first make peace with Akshu mother and ask Akshu to help her get familiar with his grandson. Like how Abhi asked Nav about Abhir when they were cooking in the camp.
Anyways, looking forward to who will make a blunder first. Will it be Arohi, or Manjiri or PromiseManyu. One of them or all of them are bound to screw up because of the strategy they are using to add Abhir in their family tree.
You’re right about certain aspects but it would be better if Arohi removed herself and Ruhi from the environment, she can teach Ruhi about independence and self sufficiency, and to NEVER depend on a man cause 80 % of them are lying filth. PromiseManyu can find a corner to die in and let stray dogs feast on his corpse, Harshad should walk away from this god awful role, his gamble with his looks can only last so long. Both kids deserve better than a “father” who can’t keep his word. That whole story about Ruhi being his soul is BS, he doesn’t understand the child if he did he would have been honest and said I only want to be your poppy instead of continually promising then breaking promises with the child… Arohi should tell Ruhi the truth and turn Ruhi against these irritating Birla’s…. The Birla’s are almost as bad as the Chavans
@Jade
Patience. It all comes down to the strategy they are using.
@mark what strategy abhimanyu is using? Manjri jo karti hai uska blame abhimanyu pe q dalna? We didnt blame akshu for kairav’s doing (legal notice).. I agree manjri is behaving like a mad woman but abhimanyu ne kya kiya? He took permission from akshnav and bought his son home so whats wrong in that? What strategy? Abhimanyu didnt even want this custody case to happen otherwise he would have filed a case before only.. He is just Responding to what kairav did.. Otherwise he wont be able to even talk to his son.. Abhinav is a saint but others are not demons but humans
@Surabhi, exactly Abhinav and just portrayed as an ultimate saint, who in the position of Abhinav who risks losing his son still decides to refuse a job offer which would allow him to support and meet all the needs of his family. It is not realistic, already for some people job offers do not run the streets, so refusing a job or he could have spent a period of apprenticeship and be qualified for the position it is simply not realistic. Abhinav if he continues on this path he will end up becoming like all the Fl who spend their time giving great speeches, sacrificing themselves for others and bearing all the abuse from others and their partners.
@yeol
Take a deep breath.
Now Nav is right as he feels he can make it right, with his one cab in a new city. Well, later this may not work but maybe it may work. But incase it doesnt work, i wish he will accept the help. If he do not then i will not support his ego.
@Surabhi
Manyu learnt a lesson so today asked permission from Sharmas. Good job. I see that you feel Manyu strategy is effective?????
Maybe it is but maybe not.
As i said, one or all or two persons is bound to make a blunder. Who it is, i leave up to the owners of the story.
But let me say one thing, Manyu screwed up but you didnt notice. In all his adventure of wanting to be his sons father, he never had a deep convo with Arohi his future wife. Even after they all knew Manyu is the father, Manyu never asked for Arohi cooperation to make his vision succeed. He did not share that he wants custody of Abhir which means he is adding Abhir in their family tree. Arohi his fiancee, was not given the leisure of getting informed let alone asked if she will be okay with it. So until Abhi is reprimanded by his mother, he will not listen to anyone.
@Mark, Arohi and Abhimanyu have a clear relationship, a relationship based on Ruhi’s needs. Ahohi knew that Abhimanyu was in the middle of a confrontation with Akshara, but in order to be able to plan her manipulations secretly, she didn’t say anything. Abhimanyu is Abhir’s father, he apologized for not telling Arohi and explained to him that he wanted to wait after the operation, what more should he talk about when a custody procedure has already been started, it it is obvious that it is to add Abhir in their lives and be part of their families. Arohi has already expressed her dissatisfaction to see Abhimanyu giving the same importance to Abhir as Ruhi, it is obvious that she has no intention of helping or supporting him in his endeavor. Arohi puts Abhimanyu in front of the same ultimatum that Ruhi gave him to either choose Abhir or choose Ruhi. Abhimanyu is aware of Arohi’s refusal, and he is right to move on without consulting anyone who is unwilling to help. Abhimanyu does not have to give an account to Arohi to accept her son in her life, Arohi is a mother she herself should understand the need of a parent to be with her child and if she cannot what is Abhimanyu’s fault. Abhimanyu didn’t show any strategy, he wanted to spend time with Abhir he went to look for him, he understood that his past behavior had both Abhinav and Akshara worried, it is rather Akshara who uses a strategy by claiming that she lets Abhimanyu take Abhir so that he realizes that his education has more weight than the relationship that Abhimanyu wants to have with Abhir.
When I say Akshara is saying one thing, but doing another. best example, Abhimanyu came with good mindset to ask permission to take Abhir, Akshara said she realized her mistakes but she firmly continues this rivalry while Abhimanyu is calm enough to discuss . Abhimanyu never said that blood is thicker than water otherwise he wouldn’t love Ruhi the same, Akshara is such a liar she said she understood Abhimanyu but didn’t see how much Abhimanyu loved Niel without even knowing they were related by blood. What does Akshara really expect Abhir to hate Abhimanyu? Akshara and Abhinav had more time with Abhir of course than their bond and stronger it has nothing to do with upbringing because since age of reason Abhir knows Akshara and Abhinav and he gets their love so well sure they will always have more place in his heart. Abhimanyu wants to make up for lost time and wants to make a place for himself in his son’s heart by spending time with him. Abhimanyu and aware that Abhinav and Akshara have had a lot of time to be a part of Abhir’s life and their stand is firm, in any relationship the key to love is time, and Abhimanyu has the right to having time with Abhir. And now, as Kairav pointed out, kindness is not always rewarded, and Abhinav will not be praised in court, the court will not award him any points for his sincerity, because he has to prove his abilities. He should start thinking big and this Akshara should encourage him to surpass himself instead of comforting him in his naivety, currently they have to prove that they can support Abhir’s medical expenses, material needs and studies, but at instead, Abhinav and Akshara think about respect instead of thinking about the best solution for Abhir. Akshara does not learn from her mistakes she accumulates her mistakes.
@yeol You see Abhir will actually hate Abhimanyu when he will come to know about the whole truth …and that’s why Akshara may be does not want to tell Abhir about Abhimanyu being his dad ..because that will raise questions among Abhir’s mind …and after that when he will come to know about the truth …Abhir will defined hate Abhimanyu and it’s quite a normal reaction and Akshara is doing this for Abhir not for Abhimanyu..
Yeas.
If Manjiri hiding the truth of Neil afraid of what reaction harsh take is ok then how can Akshara’s decison of hiding truth is wrong. But it is not that Akshsra never wanted to his tge truth like Manjiri. And Manjiri let Neil to be ill treated by his own father and he had to hold the orphan label even being with his father. He might had a luxury life bcz od Manjiri but what about mental happiness? And Akshara too was afraid to tell the truth bcz after hearing a painful reply from her ex husband she doubt how he will treat her and abbir will he and his fam take/snatch abhir and birlas have no good environment for a kid to raise. Its not only about self respect and Akshara fear seems reasonable.
Manjiri let Neil be abused by his own father, I don’t see that Manjiri had a choice, either or she should have left the fruit of her husband’s infidelity to the orphanage without hope of a prosperous and secure future, and abandoned to misery , because not all orphans end up well if their environment is not favorable. Either she take him and tell the truth to Harsh who would have denied
Niel and would have abandoned him. Manjiri gave Niel all the love Harsh couldn’t give her, Manjiri herself was abused by Harsh more than Niel and yet she raised Niel to be a good person while Abhimanyu became the shield of Niel and Manjiri to protect them from his father’s behavior which affected his personality. Niel loved and respected Abhimanyu and Manjiri so much that he never regretted knowing them thanks to Manjiri’s kindness, even though he was shocked. Niel had always yearned for his father’s love, but he finally understood that Manjiri and Abhimanyu’s love was more important to him and decided to let go for Harsh. Niel had a life of luxury thanks to Manjiri, and he received the love of a brother, the love of a mother, the love of a sister and his uncle. I could never compare Manjiri’s situation to Akshara’s who had several other choices, Akshara’s choice was wrong she didn’t have to hide the truth because she could have easily got custody of Abhir at birth because of the divorce, she could have really tried to contact Abhimanyu who would have forgiven her and apologized in front of her, Abhimanyu would never have taken Abhir away from Akshara, Abhimanyu would have forced his mother to accept Akshara and forget the past. If Akshara knew Abhimanyu well, she would have known that he would never abandon his son and take him away from his mother. Akshara would also
was able to contact his family to help him claim his rights. Abhimanyu had to face so many things because of the mess Akshara left him, between his mother, his sister-in-law, the baby and the hospital, they were certainly more important at this time than Akshara who continued to feel sorry for himself and left no room for others to mourn Niel. Abhimanyu apologized for everything but Akshara persisted in not wanting him in Abhir’s life, the result of the legal process and entirely because of Akshara’s choices. She had solutions to each of her fears but still made the wrong decisions.
@Yeol, and of course the upbringing Akshara is so proud of is founded on a lie. The moral training of a child as they develop a consciousness is to not tell a lie, not to hurt others, and not to steal. How is Akshara going to prevent being cast as a hypocrite in her child’s eyes when he learns the truth about his biological father. Yes, there are always explanations and defences, as we will hear in the court battle. But these will do nothing to mitigate the feeling of having been made to live an untruth.
@Rai so true.
Now court knows Navra is bottom poor. What they can do to salvage this point, is to make a financial plan which the court can consider and do follow up. Today, Manyu was a good boy. But also Akshu was a smart parent. Abhir has to know that for him to go to anyones house, his mother or dad must give him the go ahead. This was smart of Akshu.
@yeol exactly.. Right now she herself is the most toxic one.. She leaves no stone unturned to insult Abhimanyu as well as abhinav.. What was she expecting yesterday in court? That lawyers will play family family? She will cry her dukh dard like always and lawyer will get melted and she will get abhir’s custody? She is studying law she must be knowing how serious such cases are.. Remember during kairav’s custody case, kartik’s lawyer started questioning naira’s character.. Yei sab hota hai cases me.. She can say or do whatever she wants do par jab khud ki ya nav ki beizzati ho to victim ban jaygi..
@yeol acc to akshu mata she is always right.. Even at neil’s shradh she was asking “meri kya galti hai” And even after leap she didnt apologize to anyone not even arohi and ruhi for Neil’s death.. She will do any stupidity in the name of good intentions and will never apologize for anything
And surbhi she was upset and sad for not being able to put flowers on niel’s pyre and not about him dying.
Agree that, akshara is worst fl of itv she is never wrong she has speciality in victimise herself.she has always tortured abhi,now abhira shd never meet as this idot lady does not deserve abhi.
Abhimanyu is in a very complicated situation.I.empathise with him even all three are in a complicated situation..
People still blaming Akshara for Neil’s death ..I repeat it was an accident …Akshara also went to save Abhimanyu before …she tries to save everyone that’s just her character …She thinks of others before her own …Now Neil’s death was unfortunate it could have been her to …
No point pointing out abt Akshara being blamed for Neil’s death, what is the use of dwelling on who is right who is wrong? Move on, look forward, ur eyes are in front of you not behind🙄🙄🙄
@yeol and yesterday what was she expecting? Ki lawyers ke samne v apna dukhra sunayegi Or custody le legi? Normal hai financial suitation discuss honge.. Court case v hone dena hai par jab usi case me ungli uthe to as usual abhimanyu pe chilana v hai.. Nd exactly if abhimanyu thinks blood relation is most important thn he would have never loved neil so much so akshu should stop her bullshit and blame abhimanyu for what he did and not for her stupid decisions
@Surabhi, Akshara studied law why? if she had followed her courses well enough she would have already participated in a closed or public trial she should have already been informed that lawyers to defend their client, first attack the most obvious shortcomings of the adversary before starting to use an even harsher strategy. Akshara if she really had studied she would have known that their financial situation was the most obvious thing and easily attacked.
So what? @yeol what is ur point??
@shilajit i dont think he will hate abhimanyu.. Abhira fandom is very very big makers will definitely reunite them in such a way that akshu dont look like a two timer.. Sairat destroyed forever coz neil himself didnt want to be in sairat but here its nothing like that so definitely they will reunite and with abhir and most probably abhinav and aaru will unite.. Just my opinion as abhira always win no. 1 jodi everywhere and also coz here both are wrong but in sairat only virat was wrong and ghatiya and what not
Yeah people keep comparing abhimanyu with virat and that baffles me and no i am in no way saying that abhimanyu didn’t make mistakes or he didn’t mistreat akshara but dude that virat is some other level douchebag he went on to question sai’s character that too more than once. In fact he didn’t question her character he straight up issued her character certificate.
@surabhi but abhira did not provided them TRP post leap the TRP skyrocketed …you see if by any means Abhira comes back it will be very immature of them because Abhira didn’t stayed together for more than one year …while Navra stayed together for 6 years ..and if by any stupid means of “True Love ” Abhira comes back it will be very insignificant and. Stupid and yess any child who will come to know about her mother’s struggles will hate the person who was responsible for it …
@Urmi yes urmi Abhimanyu is flawed But Virat is pure evil …
@shilajit 70% of akshu’s struggle was chosen by akshu only.. That day abhimanyu lost his brother nd also his child.. Upar se manjri’s health was deteriorating..what do you expect from abhi at that point of time.. Aise time pe akshu kept annoying him asking “meri kya galti hai, mjhe v niche ja ke neil ko dekhna hai”nd all.. Anyone would lose his mind listening this bullshit.. Ok abhimanyu divorced her.. But did he ask goenkas to leave akshu at roads? She herself decided it.. She took help from a stranger regarding her baby and not from her family.. She chose to leave in garibi and all.. God knows ye aurat kaha se victim hai😒
@Surabhi expected Abhi to not divorce her and tell her to go out …his wife who also miscarried ..
@Surabhi Akshara wanted to go back to Goenka …remember but decided to change her mind when she also heard her bade papa blaming Akshara and Abhimanyu telling that he did not want to see her face again …now she came to know that she had a child …do you think If she was leaving with the Goenkas …Birlas would not taunt her and who knows her pregnancy was complicated she needed mental peace for her baby’s sake as well which Goenkas and Birlas were not at all able to provide to her ..what did you expect of her …to go back …in the same toxic environment where she was constantly blamed …and risk her child’s safety ??? I am saying that neither Abhimanyu ,Akshara ,Aarohi or Abhinav are at fault …the things they did are their characters ..
@Shilajit, Manish wanted Akshara to stay at her friend’s place to have peace of mind and not face the consequences of Niel and Birla’s death. Manish would never have forced Akshara to return to Birla if she didn’t want to, nor would he have let her stress out knowing that she was at great risk if he knew she was still pregnant. Akshara and the only one who has always exposed herself to danger and stress. Akshara had so many options that she could use, Akshara had so many possibilities to not suffer mental stress. But Akshara first rushed Niel to death because of her impulsiveness, then went to endanger herself on the roads.
🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄@yeol
@yeol.exactly ..Akshara has always “exposed” herself in danger ..that means even if Neil.was not there she would certainly go for help ..now apologies I don’t remember Manish wanting Akshara to stay at her friend’s place instead Manish was convinced that Akshara will be at her friend’s house …now Akshara didn’t wanted to tell Manish about the pregnancy …because if A goenka knows Birla would definitely know …and Akshara didn’t wanted to inform.Birla about Her being pregnant because she wanted to inform …Abhimanyu at first and he didn’t listen ..
@Shilajit, do you think putting yourself in danger is an admirable thing? If Niel hadn’t been there someone else would have died either one of the children or her two babies or herself, there is nothing glorious about taking risks with life. Manish would never stress Akshara knowing she was pregnant, he would try to convince her after birth as Manish thinks Akshara’s choices will hurt Abhir and it is true. He would have encouraged her to tell the truth and find a peaceful solution and if not he would have acted as now to support her despite her opposition, her status as a single mother supported by her family was much better because she was beneficiary of his family’s fortune; she wouldn’t have had too much trouble getting her son back. Stop justifying Akshara’s irresponsible behavior with his legendary goodwill.
What to do Akshara is born with that saviour nature!!! I just hope this world has more people like Akshara than you people who left people to die unapologetically🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
Now I know some people words speak louder than action humanistically🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
@WTH, I especially understood that some people glorify human stupidity, some can cause the death of other people and some people will say that it was heroism. Heroism is thinking before acting, the world needs intelligent and courageous people. Not people who run away from the problem by victimizing themselves, who do not think by putting others in danger and who think about the consequences of their action before intervening. Otherwise every person who will do this kind of thing and who will cause drama could use the excuse of his good liver as a pretext.
@yeol I am trying to say that putting her in danger is her part of the character she also went so save Abhimanyu from the fire without thinking about her …first Not glorifying but that’s her character …and she tends to help others and save others due to her childhood …see Aarohi always blamed her for Sirat’s death …so she is desperate now to take that blame again …yess you are saying that Neil have died even the girls also could have died …see .. perspective….just villanising anyone is not a solution ..I am not villanising Abhimanyu either ..and mocking her by calling her mahaan is also not a solution because being “mahaan” happened to be a good thing as far as I can remember…
@Shilajit I’m not trying to villainize Akshara her character renders her that way. With each good deed of Akshara there is a huge backlash to pay, as much for her family, as much for Abhimanyu and as much for her as her son. Being good isn’t a problem, but being blindly good has ruined her life and made her think she’s a victim. None of his good deeds can actually end in a result without negative consequences so no one can simply claim that being “Mahaan” in their case is a good thing. Abhimanyu sure tried the wrong way to try to stop all this emotional involvement with Arohi and this dependence on him to move forward but Akshara never even once took any advice from Abhimanyu whether it was about her or others, into account. Good people are those who think before they act so that they don’t end up hurting others instead of helping them. good people are wise and intelligent. Sahiba by teri meri dooriyan, didn’t just make big speeches to unmask Gary , she collected evidence and prepared herself so that Seerat would not be discredited without proof. Akshara acted unprepared in all situations and only made false statements, like the fact that she had been preparing to face Abhimanyu all her years, she was unprepared and Abhinav was discredited by her fault.
@Shilajit ur right it’s her true nature, can’t help it!
@yeol agreed actually the leads are still very much immature …if you look at all of them carefully …
@shubh true.. Sai was not at all at fault but still after leap she used to blame herself for virus death.. But here akshu huh usko yaad v hai ki neil or ek baby ne apni jaan gawaai thi iski stupidity ke wajah se? She never misses neil na mann me kabi sorry bolti hai neil ko yaad kar ke
Abhira wasn’t wrong as a pairing. I thought that the story telling was big on tamasha and romance and it worked to some extent, but people always get tired of things that are one dimensional. Massive TRP drops meant that the PH had to tweak the plot. Infact I dare say that They changed the story. The Abhira pairing is the highest rated in ITV no doubt, but some of their dynamics seemed toxic now viewers don’t want to see that. This doesn’t affect the fact that they are both popular and have engaged fanbases. However TRP defines the industry All the distributors, most especially StarPlus do not want flatlining shows.
The character of Abhinav has brought something inspiring to the show and many people are engaging with that. Efforts are made to rebuild Abhimanyu’s character and improve it. The PH wants to keep viewers tuned in. At some point they may reunite Abhira if the grounds are well prepared. However reuniting them just for it own sake before the story has evolved to support that might lead to show ending TRP drops. It is a fine line between what is desirable and what is necessary.
Before six yr leap. The story revolved around Akshara only. This is because Arohi chose to attach herself to her sisters pallu and desired to be her sister. And Kairav was not at a marrigeable age. Now all the spotlight was on Akshu which meant all her actions will be intensely scrutinized. At the end of the day, different perspectives termed Akshu as a full time trouble maker or a character that gets blamed always regardless whether she is wrong or right.
People with the later perspective, are happy after 6yr leap as now Akshu seems to not give a f**k to her abusers. But people with the earlier perspective, still feel she is a trouble maker still. But they are few people with this mindset.
So for me, I want makers to maintain this side of Akshu that doesnt give a f**k to people like Manjiri, Arohi and Abhi, but still smart, soft in heart for family, has values, good at balancing relations, not keep quite for wrong doers and also give her all to save someone else.
@francis they might reunite abhira but for that proper redemption, realization is required by both abhimanyu and also akshu.. Both needs to stop getting impulsive and should start listening.. Abhimanyu should not worship manjri blindly and akshu should also ask kairav and arohi not to interfere.. Abhimanyu should learn not to overreact and akshu should learn not to put anyones life at risk by taking impulsive decisions.. I dont think nav will die.. I think he will ne in coma and later he and arohi will unite.. Lets see
@Surabhi.
Yes the characters are likely going to be shown progressing on their journeys towards maturity. And I really think that this show will keep it tightly as a family drama. Abhimanyu will be shown keeping control of his anger and Akshara will be shown gaining more composure. So overtime the two will come back together as a major highlight. Yes they will figure out how to keep Abhinav onside it’s possible that he is paired with Aarohi as you posit. Let’s see what lies ahead.
@Surabhi exactly.
Then Abhira reunion is only because of huge fan base and not for a good and positive ending. Abira reunion can again complecate relationships and there is NO proper reason for the reunion with the story shown so far but can happen only with an idiotic and illogical way. Then Abhinav is that tissue paper gonna be thrown out when it is no more usefull by that Abhira.
If reunion happen for Abhira will absurb, I dun see any of their relationship anymore than enemy becomes friend again!
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@Pri.
That’s the thin line that the PH is walking on. Any major movements in the Akshara-Abhinav relationship is dicey because then the Abhimanyu-Akshara fans will no longer be onside. But the majority are those on the TV sets and they are engaged with the present story telling. Not that those on twitter and others aren’t relevant, they are and they are segments or percentages within the TRP rating numbers. But they rank higher on social media. If their numbers correlated with the TRP ratings then we would have seen massive drops in the ratings but that isn’t the case. The truth is that those on TV are the most addressable market for the producers who will get feelers as to how to progress the story. Eventually the Abhira pair may reunite or they may not. Two distinct possibilities.
I like Abhimanyu’s fatherly touch. He now has to balance between Ruhi and Abhir. Not easy but possible. In the matters of these children I don’t imagine that Abhimanyu and Aarohi are working together. It’s possible that they do that. I would have loved to have Abhimanyu in the background alongside Manjiri when Abhir was requesting Aarohi. Yet Abhir is a cute kid and Ruhi is likely to get over this phase if Abhimanyu spends more meaningful time with her, because he wouldn’t have all the time in the world because Abhir is there now and the custody case and his job and so on. But if he keeps creating special moments with Ruhi then she won’t feel bad about some lost time. It’s all about executing it with finesse.
I liked Abhinav and Akshara special moment today. So jam making cancelled and law examination procured. This is another example of the soft spoken and persuasive way that he puts his points across and she just agreed. He really makes her happy talking about keys. She is subconsciously comparing Abhinav and Abhimanyu which I thought will start happening in the future. She is preparing herself to choose Abhinav now. Akshara worries Abhinav a lot she doesn’t want him to stumble. Her family understand that he wants to find his way in life they worry that he may not make it. There might be something inspirational lined up for him and Akshara.
@Francis, yes, the empathetic, nurturing side of Abhimanyu with the children was good to see. He is more than the one-dimensional toximanyu character some like to cast him as now days. I also remember Abhimanyu, much like Abhinav is now doing, encouraging Akshara’s career and independence. He respected her faith in alternative medical cures and learnt from it. He set up a music therapy division in Birla hospital for Akshara against much opposition from Mahima and Harsh. His anger I saw more as frustration with Akshara’s do-good and self scarficing tendencies, warning her against the harm she attracts for herself and their relationship. Nothing wrong in that. I think ultimately in their co-parenting of Abhir, Akshara and Abhimanyu will begin to respect one another, and get a better understanding of each others personalities now they stand miles away from the blinding light of love at first sight. Good friends or reunited lovers remains an open ended question. The writers appear to be letting the characters rather than the plot direct the course.
@Rai.
Yes I agree. I think that the characters as they interact further during the co-parenting phase will ultimately respect each other and eventually forgive each other. They continue to show that while they have their distinctive features, they have more maturity. Yes I agree that more people misunderstand Abhimanyu than they would readily admit. However understanding the characters in any work of fiction is very important to interpreting the story itself. So understanding the motivations and mindsets allows the opportunity to see their future actions or how they may react in certain situations.
Now today ak after leap was shown sensible,but my husband jaap is irritating plus the spineless goenka,how the hell they think abhi will marry arohi,n mahan ak shd stay with God abhinav so that arohi is happy
What you all want is abhi the great unite with mahan ak and gid abhinav marry arohi. Is that right way? If ak go back to abhi the great then will she be the best girl?
@Hi no one wants Abhira, Akshara will definitely start to resume his savior duties and Abhimanyu will definitely be back to being his strict daddy who tries to control his fearless daughter and always gets angry at every thoughtless action of his dear daughter.
I agree. abhira had no understanding and mutual support. Abhira’s foundation is only blind attraction. They just fall for their patners features snd not the person.
@yeol
I agree with the word you used. Fearless daughter.
What this show is trying to show.? If abhninav can love Abhir like his son , even though abhir is not his blood Then think at what extend Abhimanyu could go for his son . If Abhimanyu can for Ruhi sake marry Aarohi. What cant be done by him for Abhir.
And the great Akshara , she always give example of Naira and her grandmother Akshara, why cant she understand that both the ladies were fighting against their family for many times , but never ditch the life partner or their family . even why Kartik blamed Naira after his brothers death , Did she found another love. and how the stupid kairav cant understand that when he was small and was away from his dad how much he wanted to be with dad once he knew, he didnt thought that time he shouldn’t be with his dad as even his dad blamed her MOM .
What this Show is trying to give to Society that when even your Father does no about your birth and he never said that he does not want him , the child should hate his father . for mahnata for akshara abhinav and trp this show can share any rubbish message.
I think you might need to watch the series from naira and kartik’s time again.
Kartik and Naira was another stupid toxic relation in the name of soulmates.
@c exactly.. They are hell bent on proving abhinav as the best father.. Abhimanyu didnt knew abhir is his son still cancelled his vacation and came for his treatment that too free of cost.. He didnt revealed the truth so that abhir’s operation can happen properly unlike akshu jo is haal me abhir ko US le jana cahti thi nd her bhagwan husband jo cow ke tarah akshu ke haa me haa milana janta hai bus
@surabhi because there is something called Doctor’s oath ….so he has to definetly come cancelling his vacation ..
Exactly, @Surabhi ur seeing that Abhimanyu as a human forgetting he is Dr Abhimanyu Birla
Thats one redeeming quality of abhimanyu i feel people dont see. That he was his nicest to the child that the woman he loved created with another man ( thats what his perception about abhir was back in the day) its hard for people to see their former partner move on here she looked happily married and had a kid thats a torture for the dude still he never misbehaved with abhir.. forget that he was at his best behavior with abhir unlike manjiri who told abhir to kinda get lost at the camp.
Everyone bashed abhimanyu for proposing akshara at temple as they should but did anyone appreciate him for being at nice to abhir even after being rejected by his mother.. people called him out for being rude with abhinav when he had received the news about abhir and he was high on emotions back then but did anyone appreciate him for being nice with him when akshu rejected abhimanyu because of abhinav.
Now people be like abhinav was also nice to him knowing he proposed his wife.. thats true but Everyone appreciates abhinav for everything he is the best of these all its an established fact but when it comes to abhimanyu people straight out call him toxic n that hia son should hate him ruhi should leave him n all without acknowledging that he has good traits too.
To be nice towards any kid is your so called best behaviour, dun forget he is a doctor! Not to mention even any nice man will behave the same to any kid, kids are innocent why drag them into ur ex’s situation?? Instead if he did what Manjiri did, he is not even suitable to be call human!
@surabhi have patience you guys hve so much hatred towards abhinav just bcz akshara chose abhinav over abhi. Then you believe that wife has to be stick on her husband no matter how bad he treats you be ut physical or mental ill treat os ill treat. Akshara being too good is a problem but abhi because of that tried to control her everytime. Everything is bad when it is too much. And what’s wrong if akshara decided to move on when she realised she had no place at birla house? Ok akshsra might be wrong in hiding truth but akshra and abhinav never made abhir hate abhi. They never sow hatred in abhirs mind against abhi. And again have patience we cannot decide on what plan is going on in makers mind right now. They can turn everything upside down and show abhinav being negative near future and abhi being the best. Then you guys can celebrate but um sure they will show abhi realise his mistakes and correct them.
@Urmi and @Hi
I agree. For some people Akshu is a trouble maker and everything she does destroys others life. But they never analyse the good part of her actions. In every Akshu decision she made, there is a very positive and some negative about it. From Mayaa issue, Manjiri marriage, Neil birth secret, Neil death, e.t.c. one can choose to focus on the positive implication or the negative or both.
Same goes to Manyu. Where his action were either pure negative or pure positive but when bashing his negative actions, try to remember his positive actions.
@Surabhi u are fool to think that they are hell bent to show Abhinav as best father.
The Truth is they instead trying to show how Abhir and Abhimanyu having so much coincidences. They have so much unknown Connection because they have same blood.
It’s so illogical.
Didn’t you seen such serial where the Real Mother takes advantage of Emotional son and create problems in her son’s life while the Stepmother is so good yet suffers due to Real Mother’s Emotional blackmail drama.
But at the end the good wins.
Abhimanyu maybe good but definitely not his family.
Abhinav was better from start.
Kindness is still not a niche.
What will you say when Abhir himself will choose Abhinav over your obsessed Abhimanyu?
Abhimanyu is obsessed .
And if you like Abhimanyu then don’t try to degrade Abhinav just to make Abhimanyu look less worse.
You have Argued most for the day. Take rest. Don’t let Abhimanyu and Akshara’s Toxic relation get over your head and make you toxic as well.
@Rachna Totally agree
@urmi exactly.. He was always kind to abhir despite knowing he was akshu’s and her 2nd husband’s son.. People bashed abhimanyu for proposing akshu at temple but what encouraged him to do so? Akshu came running and crying after hearing about his accident so obviously he will assume that she still loves him.. So he opened his heart.. But did he force her? Nope never.. But akshnav fans were saying he will use abhir to stay close to akshu, he will try to get her back after knowing that akshnav dont have that type of relation, and what not
@Surabhi exactly Kairav himself who thinks himself so much better than Abhimanyu was unduly rude to Abhir but only Abhimanyu’s behavior is highlighted
Regardless who is Abhir, be it Akshara her husband’s son, isn’t it human to be nice to kid who are innocent no matter? Is it right to propose to a married woman? All the more he is even related to her family? I just don’t get it that after he did that he still has pride to face the Goenkas, Abhinav n Aarohi??
So here’s my script….
Abhinav gets into an accident while riding the bike (maybe the famous Starplus cliff scene 🙄)….his body was not recovered…and because he was not found, was presumed dead….
On the other hand (and obviously by then 😒) Abhimanyu ditched the Aarohi wedding idea and decided to focus more on parenting both children, than forging unsatisfying relationships….
Somewhere on the outskirts of Kausali…a guy emerges from a hut to acknowledge a new day….haan Abhinav…. however, his intention was to separate himself from his old life of not being able to support his family, with the hope that Abhimanyu will take control over Abhir…. and eventually reunite with his true love Akshara 😏….
However, we all know that Akshara had indeed moved on from her past relation and still mourns and yearns for her lost fate with her second husband Abhinav…. and could only manage to remain friends with Abhimanyu for the sake of Abhir….
…..that’s all I have for now… hope you guyz enjoyed it….😁
@Naina a.k.a uknowho Akshara and Abhimanyu skirt around each other, she resisting him, he professing his love. Then one miserable day Abhimanyu has a heart attack and Akshara suddenly realises she never stopped loving Abhi and can’t continue now without him. Tears falling from her eyes on to his dying heart reviving Abhimanyu. They live happily, welcoming more children and later grandchildren. Then one day news reaches Abhinav in Kausali, who now is very rich, that Akshara is Abhimanyu’s widow. He comes leaves the mountain for the desert to reclaim Akshara’s love. He declares he is alive and stayed away because he knew Akshara never stopped loving her Abhi. He himself never stopped loving her. They then reunite as old people and resume their marriage of companionship. I have to admit, I lifted the plot from ‘A Love in the time of Cholera’ by the South American author Gabriel Gracia Marques. A wonderful story of love over the ages.
With your continuation of story seems like akshar is a ping pong ball passing between two men. 😰😰😰😰😰 but in yrkkh also i think we will be able to see such ping pong ball with abhira reunion.🙄😏😏😏😏😏
Nice description!🤣🤣
@yeol kairav is a loser.. His sisters dont listen to him isi baat ka frustration nikalta rehta hai ye
@Rai, they all forgot that Abhimanyu did a lot for Akshara and every bad behavior from Abhimanyu was a reaction to Akshara’s actions. Abhimanyu was a good brother he used to pamper Niel and yet Niel did not become a bad person, Abhimanyu and executive in his love because because of his father he always felt the need to fulfill his loved ones much love, because Niel and his mother desperately needed this father figure and a lot of love so he played the role. Abhimanyu wanted to give all his love to Akshara and he knows he was too overprotective because he always wanted his good and the prosperity of their couple, it could seem dominant but it was his way of expressing his feelings. Akshara is not the same girl anymore who used to like to meddle in other people’s personal issues maybe there is a chance that the end of the trial is friendship for Abhir’s sake. I believe that if Akshara had had the current state of mind in her relationship with Abhimanyu, it would not have ended so dramatically between them. They did not understand each other unfortunately, Abhimanyu on the other hand understood Akshara better on certain points he supported her in her career wanted to protect her from the toxic influence of Arohi and her family dependence. Someone said that Abhimanyu loved Manjiri and Niel more than Akshara but he blamed Akshara for loving his family more. I think Abhimanyu is more legitimate to love his brother and his mother than Akshara’s affection for his family. Abhimanyu was always at Manjiri meadow and Niel they went through everything together even Harsh’s behavior they supported each other unconditionally since Niel came into his life but Akshara didn’t have that kind of bond with Goenka they did. Goenka neglected Akshara in favor of Arohi for several years yet she kept wanting to sacrifice herself for them Arohi or even Kairav. people still despise Abhimanyu’s family love but it is certainly more understanding and legitimate than Akshara’s for Goenka.
@yeol, completely agree. Earlier @Francis are I agreed that there is more depth to Abhimanyu than the reduction to toximanyu. And, yes, much of encouragement and support shown to her today by Abhinav we all applaud was also given to her by Abhimanyu during their relationship. I would go further and say while Abhinav is dealing with external factors – a roof over her and Abhir’s head, holding her hand in the battle for Abhir-Abhimanyu help her with emotional, psychological impediments for example getting her to see how she was trapped by Arohi’s emotional manipulation of her over Sirat’s death, how her do-good and self scarficial tendency hurt her and he learnt to engage in love and relationship with others from her.
@yeol
“…..every bad behavior from Abhimanyu was a reaction to Akshara’s actions” this means Manyus bad behaviour is justified since Akshu is the cause. Yeol, i dont know if its your english or the effects of writting when you have alot in mind or something else but the above statement is not what @Rai and @Urmi meant.
Let me elaborate. Akshu had trouble ignoring a call for help or interfering when something is not right. This is (evil) of Akshu. Abhi had two options to clip Akshu mahan wings or show her an alternative way to deal with other people issues. When Abhi chose the earlier, this is on him and this is what people didnt accept. You cant justify Manyu by putting the blame on Akshu like how the quoted sentence means. Use other way.
Manyu did not understand Akshu better just because he supported her in her music. Support is because he wanted Akshu to be independent. Use another example of how he understood Akshu because the example you used doesnt match the context.
“I think Abhimanyu is more legitimate to love his brother and his mother than Akshara’s affection for his family” you are right about Manyu legitimacy to love his bro and Mom more than Akshu. But you are wrong that Akshu love for her family is not legitimate. Here is why. According to psychology, one who is devoid of love, will keep looking for it or demanding it without knowing that it is impossible. Eg. Some women are phically beaten by their spouce, some but they dont leave the marriage because of many reasons. One of the reason is they still love their spouce.
This is unrelated but in the case of Akshu, psychologically, she kept craving for Aru to love her but she didnt know that she is hurting for no reason at all as this is just Arohi knew exactly what she was doing and she had motives. And since she was an orphan, she must have felt she needs to sacrifice everything for her family affection.
Inshort, Akshu is an orphan and was psychologically and emotionaly manipulated by Arohi. So her love for her family though they dont deserve is legitamate for these two reasons.
@Mark, I maintain my point of view Abhimanyu understood Akshara better than Akshara could understand Abhimanyu. Just the fact that it is realized and understood that Akshara and Arohi’s relationship was bad for her, while Akshara herself and her family didn’t realize it and proof of her understanding. Abhimanyu also very much understood that Akshara’s “too charitable” nature was a real problem that was going to end up causing him problems that’s why he tried to control his problem, but Akshara never took Abhimanyu’s remarks into account. Akshara said yes in front of Abhimanyu but behind him Akshara always ended up causing big trouble, like a child. Abhimanyu also understood the importance of music in Akshara’s life and his nature always wants to help, that’s why he opened a music therapy section to satisfy his need for help and his passion but unfortunately his still failed to calm Akshara’s problems. Abhimanyu really tried even being a little too dry with Akshara to make her understand that she had to leave her family and her sister aside a little to devote herself to them, because only if she focused on their couple and developed their love it was the only way for Akshara to stop always wanting to be a savior for the world and seek the love of others. Abhimanyu made mistakes in his steps but every mistake was initiated by Akshara first and that is a fact. Her love for her family is not really legitimate because she has relegated the love that Abhimanyu offers her to the second level for his family who didn’t even give him half the importance and attention that Abhimanyu gave him. She also never understood Abhimanyu’s thoughts his relationship with his mother and Niel’s importance in Abhimanyu’s life. Even Manjiri gave Akshara affection until Niel’s death changed his personality. Some mothers would never support a girl who couldn’t give birth to their little child, but Manjiri supported and comforted Akshara. Shefali, Niel and even Abhimanyu’s little sister gave Akshara love but she always acted stupid even Harsh ended up accepting Akshara.
Why dun you just name urself Anti-Akshara?
@Surabhi u are fool to think that they are hell bent to show Abhinav as best father.
The Truth is they instead trying to show how Abhir and Abhimanyu having so much coincidences. They have so much unknown Connection because they have same blood.
It’s so illogical.
Didn’t you seen such serial where the Real Mother takes advantage of Emotional son and create problems in her son’s life while the Stepmother is so good yet suffers due to Real Mother’s Emotional blackmail drama.
But at the end the good wins.
Abhimanyu maybe good but definitely not his family.
Abhinav was better from start.
Kindness is still not a niche.
What will you say when Abhir himself will choose Abhinav over your obsessed Abhimanyu?
Abhimanyu is obsessed .
And if you like Abhimanyu then don’t try to degrade Abhinav just to make Abhimanyu look less worse.
You have Argued most for the day. Take rest. Don’t let Abhimanyu and Akshara’s Toxic relation get over your head and make you toxic as well.
Also if you are familiar you can’t deny that If Abhira Reunites, there will be seperation track again with their next child incoming.
And Your Abhimanyu will again proove he is as equal garbage as Akshara
@rachna excuse me madam, whatever I wrote I wrote for akshu as she is as equal garbage as abhi (as you mentioned) .. About abhinav i only say that he is bhagwan husband for akshu but actually is a puppet husband.. His own wife doesnot leave a chance to insult him (running to abhimanyu after his accident, revealing that their relationship is not like husband wife, custody drama where its obvious that financial situation will be questioned)
She even told him that she will give a chance to their marriage and told him to apply sindur and that swing scene.. Now suddenly she is saying that they dont share any such relation.. Abhinav is spineless otherwise he would have confronted akshu for playing with his feelings or atleast warned her to think before speaking nonsense but nahi is bhagwan husband ko aadat hai akshu ke isharo pe nachne ki.. Harsh but facts
I am not satisfied with your defined indicators of a puppet husband.
@mark thats upto you but he is a puppet husband.. Even anuj was a great husband but sometimes showed his disappointment but abhinav 😒 he needs to understand that he has the right to question akshu for her hypocrisy
Maybe to you he is but to Akshara he is not! and vice versa maybe to you Akshara is but to him she is not!
@Yeol
Manyu was many things good or bad but “understanding Akshu wasnt on the list.”
Same with Akshu did not understand the real Manyu.
NB: you cannot justify ones actions by blaming someone else. Peroid. Always refer to this saying “Dont blame anyone but yourself”. If its a must to blame someone, blame them but also blame yourself first for falling into their trap.
NB: Manyu and Akshu loved their family more than the respective partner, is legitimate both ways. Each had their own twisted reason by their reasons is credible.
Manyu loved his family more, stems from the what they went through at the hands of Harsh.e.t.c. Now we came to see how this love for them is a curse to him even now. It is up to Manyu now to realize what Manjiri is doing to him is harmful to him. He is grown up for chrissake.
Akshu loved her family more, stems from a place of emotional and psychological manipulation, her loss of her parents at a young age and her upbringing. Now Manyu saved Akshu from Arohis cage, but one can view this step of Manyu as interfering the sisters relation. It was not a must for Abhi to choose to mistreat Arohi in the process of saving Akshu. Abhi had a choice of counselling and therapy Akshu or encouraging Akshu to let go of her yearning for Arohi acceptance and forgiveness and love, but Abhi chose to fight with Arohi instead. He could empower Akshu to fight Arohi on her own but he chose to degrade and falsely accuse Arohi instead.e.g. wedding card incident. So this speaks volume of the kind of person Abhi is. He has a safe option but always goes for the bad option. And the fact that Akshu was an orphan didnt help the situation. So both Abhi and Akshu had legitimate love for their families though their families did not deserve it but they did anyway. Like how Manjiri doesnt deserve Abhi patience now.
And someone pointed one perspective of Manjiri, harsh, Abhi relation in a way that makes Manjiri undeserving of Abhis love. Will talk about this perspective some other time and will tag you.
@Mark I accept a lot of the thing you quoted. I’m not saying Abhimanyu fully understood Akshara because his mistakes prove that he didn’t, I’m just saying he had a better understanding of Akshara than Akshara had for him. Abhimanyu has always been the helper because of his mother and brother, Niel even said he was like a father to him
Abhimanyu never learned to be helped and even Akshara never really tried to understand and help him and even now after Niel’s death he is the one who has continued to help his family through hardships . Abhimanyu transferred and translated his mother and father’s abusive relationship, in Akshara and Arohi’s relationship, he wrongly accused Arohi as he witnessed Arohi’s bad deeds and did not trust him , when there was a problem, he naturally thought that Arohi was involved. Abhimanyu has witnessed too many times how Akshara bowed her head at Arohi’s mistreatment of her. Abhimanyu felt it necessary to intervene otherwise I believe he was worried that she would end up like his mother (that’s a guess on my part). And back then Goenka was more on Arohi’s side so he didn’t appreciate his devotion to them. Abhimanyu was so used to being the helper that he never thought he needed help himself and that is his biggest problem. Meanwhile, Akshara has never really understood Abhimanyu, but she herself blames others for her own actions, while Abhimanyu has now taken responsibility for her wrongdoing. She blamed Niel’s death for his miscarriage, she blamed Abhimanyu for hiding Abhir and yet she is half responsible for all his things. Akshara certainly can’t be blamed for all the problems, but she was at the heart of every one of them. I understand her passed but that does not justify all the same for Abhimanyu.
@Yeol
In the aspect of understanding each other, both had equal marks and that is “poor”.
Manyu is good at taking responsibility but what you didnt realize, he never knows when he is wrong. Until someone points it out to him. Its either manish or akshu or Aru who end up breaking it up to him.
Now i agree Akshu is partly to blame, the other part, why shouldnt she express it??????
If you come to think about it, Manyu and Manjiri never understood Neil. If they did, then they would have known that Neil was not okay with being treated as a step bro and always be below to his bro.(that is why Arohi easly manipulated Neil as he knew Neils insecurities well). Another instance is Neils death. If they really understood Neil, then they will know that Neil didnt wish for people to punish Akshu.
@Mark, Niel was just used not because he never agreed to be a half-brother, but because he always yearned for Harsh’s fatherly love’ he eventually stopped wanting it accepting that his brother’s love and Manjiri were more important to him. Arohi used his lack to twist his mind and make him want more. when Niel knew he was going to be a father, he talked with Abhimanyu and told him that he did not want to become a father like Harsh and he wanted to give his child as much love as Abhimanyu had given him , remember well. Niel had grown into a good person under Abhimanyu’s protection and her overflowing love for him and Manjiri, back then was not so poisonous, so Niel developed well. Abhimanyu understood Niel and that is undeniable, Abhimanyu did not love his father but he claimed for Niel the rights and share of inheritance that Niel deserved as he knew how much Niel had suffered from the rejection of Harsh who never nothing wanted to give him. Manjiri and Abhimanyu, although they know that Niel would never want anyone to be blamed for his death, Niel’s death was too brutal and painful, just like Akshara proclaims his pain and didn’t forgive Abhimanyu. For Abhimanyu, it took him time to realize that Niel would not have wanted him to blame others and to accept that his behavior was wrong. Majiri was Niel’s mother and she knew Niel, during his divorce proceedings, she said that “I have to do this for my children, they suffer too much”. She knew but she had always lacked courage. Unfortunately, Manjiri went completely unreasonable after Niel’s death. And you are right Abhimanyu finds it hard to see when he is wrong but when someone points out his mistakes he does not deny them like the Goenka sisters who always find excuses if he had a guide a figure who is not toxic for the advisor, he would definitely be a better person. Better a person who understands too late than a person who never understands, like Arohi who always blames Akshara’ and Akshara who always hides behind others or his good intentions to justify himself.