Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai 17th April 2023 Written Episode Update: Abhi opposes Akshu’s decision

True! @Lavender

Oh god..how can you say such a thing that a woman can’t live in her husband’s house with her in laws after the death of her husband? Does a woman has no right to be with her in laws after her husband dies? I have heard that in past people considered a widow as an invalid coin and they had to sacrifice their lives by sitting atop her deceaced husband’s funeral pyre. Do you still believe on those and still live with those ideas? Then sorry to say rather than arohi and her supporters i think that thought of yours is more evil. Before commenting such things plz think and put your self in to such situation how you feel? If that widow is you/ your sister/ mother or daughter.

you say he wanted to control Akshara’s life, but remind me of Akshara’s behavior? Akshara always let herself be walked on by Arohi she always conformed to her family’s idea. If Abhimanyu doesn’t push her a little Akshara loves playing the nice girl who accepts everything and tries to solve everyone’s problems. Abhimanyu can’t stand Akshara’s behavior always wanting to sacrifice himself for his family. He could not stay objective about Akshara’s love for his family because Akshara spent his time making sacrifices for them, when there was an accident that involved both Abhimanyu family had a tendency to believe that she was going to start over. protect them. Abhimanyu never really understood Akshara but Akshara encouraged his behavior. Just look at all the incident related to her pregnancy Abhimanyu kept warning Akshara one would think that he wanted to control Akshara, but he knew too much about Akshara’s savior character which constantly put her in danger. Many times Abhimanyu asserted his stance at the beginning of wanting to be with Akshara, even though his decisions were wrong he was always firm in his stance. Even when he went to find Akshara who had become a married woman to win her back, he was firm in his decision and ready to bear all the consequences. The death of her brother makes her become even more tender with her mother and weak towards her because she was the most affected by the loss of Niel, she needed comfort. A mother never forgets her dead child and Akshara reminds her that she was involved in Niel’s death. the only thing Abhimanyu is left with is the promises he has now promised to fulfill, and he was honest enough to confess everything to Arohi, and shared his feelings with Akshara and apologized to Abhinav. Abhimanyu made a lot of mistake and often he asked for forgiveness and was forgiven unjustly, but it is also exactly the same case for Arohi and Akshra who did many things but were easily forgiven

@Fave Akshara has she ever asked for forgiveness for her involvement in Niel’s death, I’m sorry but Abhimanyu has repeatedly tried to temper his temper and be careful of his behavior with Akshara. Abhimanyu had always advised Akshara since the first track to always talk to her about things before acting and what did she do, instead of consulting Abhimanyu’s opinion she wanted to play her savior and disappeared for two years without explanation while his brother was accused of murder. One valid reason to get angry was clearly a betrayal that didn’t help his anger issues. Abhimanyu supported Akshara throughout her process of wanting to pursue a music career, even after the moment she learned of her pregnancy at risk and he was against, he finally gave in to her. But what did Akshara do? She continued to act without warning him, which put her in danger on several occasions and which ended up costing Niel’s life. Abhimanyu loves his Birla family but Akshara loves his Goenka family who were never reliable with her, Goenka I don’t even pity them after the behavior they had towards Akshara’s mother’s family. Abhimanyu lets his mother do wrong without questioning her, so Akshara does the same lets his family do it, he never defends her he spends their time keeping her away from them then he plays exactly the same games as Manjiri the family ready to do anything for the happiness of their child. While by accepting Arohi’s marriage he condemned Akshara to always remain in discomfort in his own family. Akshara should also stop acting like a puppet and stand up for herself and eventually question her family’s behavior. instead of listening to Goenka’s silence every time Birla and Manjiri insult her.
and the day Abhimanyu went to the temple everything was said Akshara was clear and put back in her place there is no longer any question of forgiveness because she does not want to forgive him for their past. Abhinav it was obligatory he treat her friendly and was always straight with Abhimanyu but he didn’t play fair with Abhinav an apology was obligatory. Akshara also knew Abhimanyu’s personality but she never listened to his advice and never made efforts to stop his savior character.

it’s true Manjiri by dint of wanting to want and think that she wants the good of her son no longer has Abhimanyu’s interests at heart. It’s true that she also wants to show Akshara that after destroying all of Abhimanyu’s life with his savior actions he can still find happiness. But of course the main goal and Ruhi stays with Abhimanyu. Abhimanyu raised Ruhi by Arohi’s side and she knows that if Arohi finds someone Ruhi goes with his mother, in Abhimanyu’s life there is no more father or father figures, there are no more brothers as moral support, and Ruhi unfortunately as he does not have his father he could lose her at any time. Manjiri is a person who has spent her life sacrificing herself for a man and loving him, she has seen very well that Akshara is the same and that in the end her behavior will end up creating problems. But Manjiri before being Akshara’s mother-in-law and Abhimanyu’s mother so she doesn’t want him to suffer through Akshara’s fault. Due to Akshara’s indecision Abhimanyu almost married Arohi and he came into conflict with Goenka because he did made Akshara change his mind at the last moment because he was sure of Akshara’s feelings, but as always she wanted to sacrifice herself. Because of Akshara’s silence a war broke out between Goenka and Birla she could have avoided this situation. Because of Akshara Abhimanyu had to get involved in Goenka’s problems just to defend Akshara from Arohi’s behavior. Because of Akshara Abhimanyu was often in depression. Akshara’s character was literally driving Abhimanyu crazy. Manjiri warned Akshara to make Abhimanyu happy and listen to him as he only wanted his happiness. but Akshara was always stubborn. Without looking at things externally or we notice that Abhimanyu and Akshara had a destructive behavior together. For Manjiri she only saw the negative things that Akshara bring in Abhimanyu’s life. As Kairav ​​sees the problems Abhimanyu takes to his sisters

To explain that Manjiri even though she is certainly aware of everything she thinks Abhimanyu will be able to find happiness with Arohi, she certainly wants him to continue having the same type of quiet and respectful stable relationship that they have shared for the past 6 years. She certainly thinks it’s going to work since they’ve never had any understanding problems over the years, which makes sense. Manjiri in the end certainly sees two people who have a common goal who know each other and who can succeed in building a family life as they manage to agree on Ruhi. To move forward some people need to move on and not just find love again but build something more meaningful like a family

Akshara also wanted to change Abhimanyu and his family, even in love there are unbearable behaviors that no one should accept even in the name of love. Aksara was right in wanting to fix Abhimanyu’s family and behavioral issues as its destroying his personality and his life. And Abhimanyu was also right to want to control the saving behavior of Akshara’s great saviors, because its literally destroying their relationships and putting Akshara in trouble and danger. Akshara and a person that if you don’t stop her she keeps putting herself in danger. Look under what circumstances she met Abhinav and what kind of trouble he got her out of. Akshara managed to stay quietly all her years without doing anything dangerous because she was far from her family and Abhimanyu’s family so she didn’t have to play the holy sacrifice ready and who listens to all her family members . Love doesn’t allow our loved ones to mistreat or mentally abuse us, and it doesn’t allow us to be deaf and continue to create problems. Abhimanyu had told Akshara to stop worrying about other people’s problems and opinions she would not listen to her. Just look how much better she is since she only cares about her own problems and her son without meddling in other people’s business, she should have listened to Abhimanyu.

Yes! Abhinav’s love is unconditional

@catnap.
This reminds me of a book by Jane Austen. I think that Abhinav is a sensible person whereas both Abhimanyu and Aarohi are sensitive people. And your given explanation already slots into this line of thinking. Sensibility is an attribute that makes one react to varying emotional situations with calmness and understanding as we often see from Abhinav. On the other hand, sensitivity implies reacting to an emotional situation without having all the facts at hand. Sadly that is what most people do. This has probably cost Abhi his fatherhood and marriage. Yea the PH wants to rebuild Abhimanyu’s image as that will help the TRP and I think that they want to reduce the toxicity that viewers complained about.

@Shen.
Yes I am. I’ve read some of them multiple times. Timeless classics.

@Francis can it be Aarohi loves Abhimanyu n from what she is trying to reduce the image of Abhi is to make Akshara hates Abhi and never get back to Abhi??

@Funmi.
“Someone said she’s thinking as a mother!. How can it be” ok be this “someone” me or any one else but since i have also comented that i see arohi as a mother i want to clarify this. When children are in danger doesn’t a mother’s eyes first check whether her child is there or not?? Doesn’t she go and try to save her child first? Doesn’t she first make sure that her child is safe and go save other children. Um not blaming or downgrading motherhood. But i think most of the time the priority goes to her child and then rest. That’s what i wanted to tell bcz i feel arohi is prioritising her child and want to make sure she is safe and she has no intension to harm abhir although her steps make it worse.
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And wanna say this once again this is not questioning motherhood and not devaluing it. So plz don’t get me wrong.

Yes, can Aarohi sees Ruhi happily with Abhi after sacrificing Abhir’s life???

Abhir’s case is anytime danger can happen, but for Ruhi n Abhi’s relationship to change is yet to happen, and may or may not happen right! Aarohi taking things into her hands by manipulating is totally absurb, not to mention whether she is a mother or doctor she has no damn right to take a child’s life for granted!! Or 99.9999% at stake!!!

@Cat.
Yes it is possible that this is the reason behind Aarohi doing this. Well she may not be as expressive as Akshara and this is why she hasn’t shared her feelings if this is the case, with Abhimanyu. In the circumstances those proposals are hard to reject as they will be occurring within a marriage. So there is almost nothing wrong with those. Likewise Akshara has probably expressed those to Abhinav and therefore Abhinav no longer insecure about Abhir and Akshara leaving him as he knows the state of his relationship. So yes, I align with your view. If Aarohi knows her place in Abhimanyu’s life then she won’t have to resort to the worst behaviour to keep Abhimanyu.

@Shen.
Yes I think that a confrontation is likely as the promo indicates. So the facts will soon come together. Then Abhimanyu will understand why the Akshara train left the station. This looks like the temple confrontation and this time I don’t see Abhimanyu winning it. He will soon remember his words when he was talking to Abhinav about not wanting to have anything to do with Akshara or the baby. Then he will repent for not being more thoughtful in the circumstances.