Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai 17th July 2023 Written Episode, Written Update on TellyUpdates.com
The Episode starts with everyone dancing with Akshu. Hafte me char shanivaar…plays… Abhinav smiles and showers flowers at Akshu. They dance. Abhi and Ruhi also dance. Abhir gets happy. Abhi smiles seeing him. Manjiri waits for them. She asks where is Shefali, doesn’t she want to have food. Nishta says she is having dinner in her room. Manjiri asks Mahima to think again. Mahima asks shall I go to court and same thing should happen with Shivu that happened with Abhir. Akshu asks Abhir about his first day at school. Abhir says whatever happened before going to school wasn’t good. She says Manjiri is elder to me, she can scold me, focus on studies. Abhir says you have become a lawyer now, ask the court uncle to let us spend time. She cries. Abhi says its late. Abhir says yes, I m also getting sleep. They leave. They come home. Manjiri asks them to have food. Ruhi says no, we already had many things, we danced there, you should have come. Abhir goes. Manjiri explains Abhi. She says I m a mum, so I m saying this, moments spent with mum are imp than moments spent with dad, make your bond strong.
Akshu makes a list. Abhinav wipes it. Akshu asks what did you do. He says I m helping you. Manish says this is called help. Abhinav says a mum wants to do everything, but this wheel will decide it. Kairav says yes. Akshu thanks them. Dadi says we will always regret he is not here, when he is here, lock this sorrow. Suwarna says yes, else you can never live this joy. Akshu says yes, he will stay here for 2 days, we will be with them. Manish says he will be just with you two. They ask Akshu and Abhinav to spend time. Mahima does aarti of Shivu and hugs him. He hugs and runs Shefali. Shefali cries. Parth asks him to meet everyone. Ruhi comes. He says you have grown up. She says I have made the butterfly card for you. Abhi comes and hugs Shivu. He says you have grown up. Shivu calls him Sir. Abhi says call me Chachu. He introduces Abhir. Abhi gets a call and goes. Parth asks Shivu to share the room with Abhir, until his new room gets ready. Shivu steps on Abhir’s foot and goes. Ruhi asks what happened.
Akshu calls Abhi and asks about Abhir’s PTA assignment. Abhi says what do we want Abhir to become, its simple, doctor, sorry he will become anything he wants, what do you want. She says I want him to become singer. They both argue and end the call. The kids play. Mahima says party snacks and chits are here, enjoy now. Abhir refuses to have juice. Mahima says Shefali, Shivu is so happy. The elders go. Shivu explains the game to the kids. He points towards Abhir and asks him to speak. Ruhi spills some juice on her dress. She goes to clean her dress. Abhir takes the chit and sees Papa written. They ask him to speak. Abhir says my Papa’s name is Abhimanyu Birla. He thinks of Abhinav and gets confused. Shivu asks why are you confused, do you have two dad. Shivu and his friends make fun of Abhir. Abhir cries and goes. Ruhi comes back and asks where did Abhir go.
Shefali cries and says I m a bad mum, I m not happy that my son has come home. Akshu says you worry for him, you want the best for him. Shefali says sorry to call you and talk about this, I want to tell Shivu about Parth and me. Akshu asks her not to rush. Shefali thanks her. Akshu asks what is Abhir doing. Shefali says he is playing with Shivu and his friends. Akshu says good, the kids will take care of each other.
Precap:
Abhi says we are coming home. Akshu smiles. Manjiri says I don’t find this right. Akshu comes to Abhi and asks where is my son, you said you will get him home, he didn’t reach me.
Update Credit to: Amena
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Now makers destroyed shivu also.. Made him a bully😡😤 now when he will realize his father beats his mother thn he may realize how it feels..
Will shivu do something to abhir tomorrow? I hope not..
Shefali should take a stand now.. Mahima cant pressurize her to stay with her loser son.. She should file for custody..
Doctor vs singer😂😂 loved that scene😂😂
But y giving abhira scenes.. Focus on akshnav na.. All we see is akshu crying and abhinav consoling or abhinav crying nd akshu Consoling.. Makers should come out of abhira nd focus on akshnav.. Even abhinav’s character is getting sidelined it seems..
@Surabhi
Akshu is being foolish again. How is that banter going to help her son? Instead of seeing Manyu for who he really is, she is getting trapped in Manyus sweet talk again. She should focus.
@mark I dont know what to say.. U are the biggest hater of manyu here nd you always doubts his intentions.. U write long paragraphs about him.. Keep writing 🙏
@Surabhi
You doubt my intentions I see. Manyus character is one that I greatly understand more than most other characters here. Have you ever asked yourself why we rarely get to hear his thoughts and when we do, it’s only on trivial matters. I am confident to say, Manyus character has many layers and shades to it. He is not as vanilla as you paint him to be.
@Surabi,If she’s the biggest hater of Manyu then you are the biggest BLIND supporter
Look how he glided over the fact that Akshu was hurting over the separation from her son and immediately made it about his mom
He is a self absorbed man who is struggling with damage from childhood, part of the reason he desperately wants Abhir to stay with him is because he wants to recreate his childhood and be the father he himself needed, too bad his going to fall on his face because he has neither the skills nor the mental commitment to Parent anyone or to stick to anything long term
He will soon start getting frustrated with Abhir’s motherlessness and his natural love for his father Nav and start being snappy and distant
That will then continue to ignite the cycle of abuse and poor parenting which will make Abhir grow distant and hateful towards him and so the shit goes on
His best bet at having any semblance of a relationship with Abhir was when he was docman who could visit at will and take Care of Abhir until he gets old enough to understand the dynamic of situation
Akshara’s biggest mistake was marrying and being inseminated by Manyu
If only Abhir was Nav’s son biologically, all these problems would be non existent
Then there will no dramas n no drama can survive without dramas🤣
@Vaijyanthi
Exactly. You said it all.
I felt gay vibes from Shivu 😂.
Gay prisoner
@shyra 😂😂😂
@@mark surely manyu is not vanilla.. He has made many mistakes just like akshu has made arohi has made.. But he is not some villain as you think
@Surabhi
The journey has just started. We will know who is villain and who is vanilla. But whether Manyu is not a villain is too soon to tell. Just like we are only finding out now that Shivu is a bully. Same way we will get to know Manyus villainous deeds in the future.
There’s this series I watched call big little lies,in that show, their father was the most wonderful dad to his children, but use to abuse their mother. Not knowing that the children knew what was going on until one of them started abusing a classmate, before their Mom decided to leave the abusive husband. Maybe shivu behavior is what shefali need as a wake up call before she will divorce Parth.
@Ahmad Rukayyah
In this 3 gene yrkkh. The main message is spouses shouldn’t hold on to broken relations as it becomes a problem to them and their children. We saw it through Harsh-Manjiri marriage where Manyu was affected and Manjiri became the version we are seeing now. Then came Abhira where Manyu held on to Akshu despite not liking who she is, the outcome is he made Akshu be repulsed by him now. Then came Shefali and Parth, then there is Mahima and Anand. So the main moral of the story is to have the convictions to say no to abusive behavior from your spouse. The only person who got the balls big enough to break free from such toxicity is Akshara.
@ Mark well said.
Like Manjiri said it’s blood, so it’s blood/gene in Shivu to be a bully like his father? Like father like son?
Looking forward to big show coming, Shivu, Abhir, Mahima, Manjiri, Shefali, Parth n Abhi
Now @Mark, I thought angelic Akshara was more you than the very dark understanding you have of Abhimanyu. I’ll make sure to give you a wide berth should we ever find ourselves at the same spot on this earth. 😳😉😊
Have you people noticed women in this show are like anupamaa’s character..eg-
1.Akshu keeps changing her career decisions just like anupamaa..
2.Shefali is stucked with her loser husband for her son just like kinjal is stucked with toshu for pari
3.arohi is a strong classy character like kavya but still isnt independent just like kavya
4.anupamaa destroyed her own home for dusro ki khushi just like akshu did for helping others
Rajan shah shows bullshit in the name of women empowerment
Like Anupama said that she will begin her new journey for 7 times and returns back to the same point called ‘Maa’,
Same Akshara also will change her career 7 times and return back to same point which is called Abhimanyu Birla
@shyra haha idk if she will return to him or not but surely after custody case she will forget that she is a lawyer nd will be seen selling jams
I meant they reunite or stay separated,like whatever happens Akshu’s life will always revoke around Abhimanyu 😆.
They will share screenspace again again.
Same like Anupama and Vanraj still share screenspace with and without other characters
Akshara did not change her career but adapted to her circumstance which make her change her career unlike Anupama!
@Surabhi true. I hadn’t picked this up. But I do think mothers don’t get a good hearing. They are manipulative, conniving, confused, combative. While fathers are wise, conciliatory and moral.
I couldn’t help but notice Manyu cutting short Abhirs conversation with his mom. Almost as if he was drawing a line between them. Funny thing is that Manjiri advised Manyu, to beware of Akshu-Abhir bond after he did exactly that. People kept saying Manjiri is influencing Manyu badly, but no, Manyu can manage well on his own. After all, he is Manjiris son, is he not?
Akshara should get serious with this mothers boy. After everything she has gone through, she has to be alert around him because some minor details like his jealousy of her bond with Abhir will escape her notice.
Mahima is right. Shefali shouldn’t risk loosing her son’s custody. Mahima learned well I see. She knows that her son can win custody as easily as Manyu divorcing Akshara. Mahima is better than Manjiri this way.
Looks like makers will use Shivu for all the dramas from here on out. Makers know we can’t bash children. Makes me think that Abhir did not appear at Goenkas because Shivu will be the one that hid him maybe?
The kind of irresponsibility that Manyu is displaying is of great proportions. Manyu doesn’t take the time to guide Abhir. Untill now, no one is there to tell him what is the right path and which is not. He is now confused on what to say because Manyu doesn’t have time for Abhir to clear his confusion. Manyu should have built Abhirs confidence on papa topic but he didn’t. This is called negligence. Manyu hasn’t done anything to shape Abhirs new reality. All he did are what shallow, show offs parents do. This is unacceptable.
I agree with @Meed, Manyu is having victory hangover. But what is this hangover that has persisted for almost a week?
@mark y you hate manyu so much? Vo kuch kare na kare but you always write a long paragraph about how wrong he was in the episode.. Was abhimanyu looking uncomfortable seeing abhir enjoying with akshnav? Normal hai next day school hai to tu me se ghar le ke jayga hi.. If he had any wrong intention thn makers would have shown it.. Plzz come out of this blind hatred.. I dont like akshu but I only point out her mistakes and even point out if she does something good.. I dont write shit about her unnecessarily.. Manyu is just a fictional character so relax
@Surabhi
Did you notice how Manyu stopped Akshu and Abhir talk? No respect. It’s like two kids were talking past their bed time. If he was really as innocent as you say, any normal adult would have asked Akshu to wrap up her conversation as it’s time to go. But no, he called Abhir straight up and told Akshu goodnight. So disrespectful. It’s like Abhir was not talking to his mom. Like who does that?
@Surabhi
It was rude too.
Mark –
I think i can give benefit of doubt to manyu on asking abhir to go back home..its late and they have school..so makes sense..
On the other hand – psycho advising her son to not make the relation of akshu-abhir stronger is just pathetic..maybe he subconsciously knows that if he tries to break the relationship it ll only grow stronger.. so am hoping he doesn’t blindly follow psycho for this part atleast !
Surabhi – yes, the doctor- singer banter was not needed coz it should ultimately be abhir’s call and he is too young to decide.. and yes , like you pointed out- nav also should be part of that useless conversation if at all they are anyway having !
That scene was disrespectful and rude to Akshara. He should have told Akshara that time is up but instead he told it to Abhir.
True…he could tell akhsara instead of pointing at watch..but what I was more concerned is why is he so blind with what’s happening in his own house and hypocrisy of his mom and everyone around including himself!..and how he assumes kids are gonna be happy there when so much drama and tensions are around.. already abhir is affected by his dad I.. now shivu also may get affected once he knows his mom n dad are fighting.. better arohi takes ruhi n leaves that mad house
And I am sick of mark doing that.
So are Akshu n Abhinav are fictional character! But u too bash Abhinav for his crying scenes! Not once but many times! 🙄
@Mark
I agree with you.Abhimanyu is negligent about Abhir’s mental health and is in victory hangover.
High time shefali takes a stand…what exactly does she want..now that her career resumed, why is she staying alone in Birla house when her son is also not around ?.. atleast arohi n ruhi are together.. what support is shefali getting apart from hypocrisy from psycho and constant push from mahima to give second chance to parth ?..and arohi already distanced from shefali last time..
Does she really want to give a second chance to abusive husband for sake of shivu or does she want a divorce and then fight for custody ?.. maybe she is scared that given Birla’s use of financial grounds as a tool, she will lose custody same way like akshara..and mahima even pointed this n shut psychos mouth..
This whole Birla house is having such toxic family relations.. except that Anand and mahima, everyone has marital issues.. its just not a safe n healthy environment for kids to witness this drama !
True @Rak. Shefali must be afraid that she may loose custody like Akshara. The entire Birla household could not help Shefali. But I feel her telling Shivu the truth will help her against Parth who is opting to play house with her which is preposterous.
She can either save herself or delay the inevitable and sell her soul in the process.
@Rak n @Mark
Shefali could have gotten custody very easily if she had collected proofs of domestic violence and filed a case against Parth, but the dumb journalist she is has made her own path difficult to get custody.
Parth can be imprisoned,the law can protect her from being thrown out of marriage home, but to get custody she has to first file for for divorce and then all the drama(financial status etcetc) So her path is not so easy.
@Mark watch me bash this child!!! These makers don’t know that if we can bash old people acting faulty we can do it to kids too, we bashed that jnr 🐖 in GHKKPM all the time cause he was a bratty, selfish little retard and we were right, he turned out just like his Lusty surrogate 🐖 of a mother. Ruhi was written as a clingy princess but that’s cause Manyu raised her that way, now she’s maturing and becoming better than the adults, she’s the only one who tries to make Abhir comfortable in that house and stands with him. Ruhi is like a cross between the Goenka sisters and Kairav, though she can activate that violent Birla streak and break stuff
At Jade maybe they are trying to show how his father’s behavior is affecting him, maybe this is the wake up call shefali need to divorce her useless husband.
@mark this was disrespectful?? Wowww only akshu knows how to respect 😂
@Mark.
I agree. Abhimanyu naturally does things for his convenience. Before the surgery, I never saw the Sharmas cutting short Abhir’s visit to Abhimanyu. Your assertion is right to me. He could have signalled Akshara or intimated Ruhi to draw Abhir out. It is still the same as it’s time to go, maybe nicer.
We cannot expect too much from this man. I’m sure he was shocked when Abhinav sprinkled the flowers on Akshara while the family was dancing. Everyone knew the kind of gesture that was. Do people sprinkle divorce papers? Or throw them? Am not sure what to say. Abhimanyu will feel like the odd man out here. He would have been throwing the flowers but he first threw divorce papers and so he cannot now throw flowers.
Manjiri is bound by the pari-passu or live and let live understanding that she struck with Mahima. Now she and Abhimanyu cannot help Shefali. Shefali in turn, has to turn to a newly-minted lawyer Akshara, for help. Yet Akshara is too innocent about Shivu making Abhir at home in the Birla house. Shivu was in the boarding school. Ragging, hazing or beasting, take your pick, is common in such institutions. These kinds of behaviour that Shivu and his friends were carrying out would be unknown to Abhir. Yet if Abhir fails to fight back, Shivu’s aggression will continue.
The thing with Abhimanyu is clear as day. He doesn’t know what to do. Our assertion yesterday that he didn’t have sole responsibility in arranging Abhir’s visit is so true. He cannot do much. Secondly, I reasoned that Abhimanyu should have taken time to prepare Abhir for his homecoming for at least one month. Abhir would have been ready to face his new life without having mental health issues. But then.
Yes, he is stuck in his victory hangover. He just doesn’t say much to Abhir who has a bad mood. Since he is working at a family business, he can fashion out time to teach Abhir about his new life while learning about Abhir’s old life even reading the instruction manual. Yet he isn’t doing anything. He just takes calls and exits. That’s it.
‘Do people sprinkle divorce papers?’😂😂😂😂
@😎.
No, I don’t think so.😂😂😂.
@Meed
I like that Akshara has given us the opportunity and the privilege to compare the two men to ever utter I love you to her. Or can I say, one has uttered I love you for like million times and the other showed it a million times. Now we can all be sure that we can differentiate Manyus type of love and Nav type of love. It’s very helpful to majority of us here. Now I know there is one who oust from his house and the other gives you his house. I know now that one can shower you with flowers and the other with divorce papers and curses. I am really liking how we can compare them and choose our pick. Please do point more in the future.
Akshu is so naive. The moment she is placing her believes on Shivu is when Abhirs confidence is being shattered and no one is there to boost his confidence. Well, they have too many calls to take and the other is cornered by Mahima and the other who we can really rely on is dealing with spilled on t-shirt. We have a long and tiresome way ahead of us. But I sure as hell enjoy this journey.
@Mark.
I agree. Here again, I cannot help but wonder out loud, how saying something, with intent of course, and doing it thoroughly are two different things. The two men are so different. Yes, more differences will crop up in the future.
Akshara and Shefali have high hopes for Shivu. He may be won over though by Abhir’s good manners. This merry-go-round circuit, or should I say teary-go-round, will continue as the makers are unable to move Abhimanyu’s character past well, his past. Now they bring implausible scenes. They have been doing this for five months now. We do have a “long and tiresome way ahead of us.” Also, an enjoyable journey. I concur with your assertion.
Relax Guys another Birla is in the house …Shivu is here …another character that got destroyed…and why he keeps calling Abhimanyu sir ?? I think Maybe Parth manipulated him ….to think that Abhimanyu is the reason between Shefali and Parth and why that kid is hating on Abhir …and I really felt sad when Abhir asked Akshara that he wants to return …Damn that hurts …
@Shilajit
Highly probable assumption. It would explain a lot.
@,Shilajit ,Right !! it was Abhimanyus support to Shifali that caused Parth to be sent to Dubai
Same old pattern.Such a stupid writers.
Initially, Rooh was shown as insecure and rude, now Shivu. Why destroying even kids character to uplift the main???? Why can’t they bond beautifully and have chotu chotu fights????? Why bullying on their first meet???🤦🤦
At the beginning,to uplift Abhira cringe,Arohi,Neirohi now manjari, all their characters are destroyed.There are lot of stuff to deal with, Abhimanyu and Manjari’s redemption, Abhinav’s parentage, Aarohi’s new love life or Abhirohi relationship going forward,Abhinav starting a business and improve economically,
Parth’s redemption or Parth & Shefali separation,kairav and Muskan’s wedding life, Hospital management politics, Abhir’s new school adjustment, Akshara joining a law firm & focusing on the facts of the custody case, Manjari & her son going for therapy. There are so much of stuff to focus….But Nooooo, we will focus only the cringe,distribute cringe and whitewash characters,mute the important arguments at the court.😤😤
Stupid Abhira,why are they making decisions about Abhir’s future now(not taking any action about his present situation)? Singer, Doctor, singer, doctor…. Uffffff.. ultra cringe max pro
Abhinav seems to sensible that these people. He was like let him do whatever he want, but he has to love it…he told this when he was tieing the ribbon 🎀 to the dream catcher.
I am done with this show,it is damaging my brain cells.
@😎 the problem is akshara and abhimanyu discussing everything like nav has no role in it.. Atleast alshu should take nav too in such discussions.. Thats y i say nav’s character is getting sidelined.. Its all about akshu nd abhir, abhimanyu nd abhir, akshu and abhi now.. Makers are sidelining nav after showing him the best father
@Surabhi,since 3/4 episodes Abhinav is just standing there with maybe one or two dialogue. Least they can show he’s making some effort to improve his financial.And hey there is a third parent (Abhinav) tooonly discussion of profession is Doctor?Musician?
So they turned Parth’s son into Parth’s shadow, Parth was bullying his wife cause he can’t cope with his own insecurities now Shivu is doing the same with Abhir. Abhir can’t live in Birla house, there is way too much toxicity there for any child. Ruhi will eventually see the bullying, she’s the only one who seems to bother about Abhir in that house, I worry Shivu may hurt Ruhi in which case Abhir might fight back… was the fighting between the parents not enough now we must see all this awfulness with the babies.
Mahima will keep milking all psychojiri’s selfish acts to get all the rights back for Parth that he lost, next he’ll be openly electrocuting patients 🤨
Where is Aru? I suppose she’s a career woman so she isn’t sitting at home 24/7 but it would be nice to see more Aru, Kairav and Akshu.
Ruhi wasn’t really negative initially, she was just very possessive of Manyu and she felt Abhir was taking her Poppy away but she’s okay now, she wasn’t like this Shivu.
Why are these parents deciding Abhir’s future career, that’s Abhir choice and this silly nibba argument between Akshu and Manyu was so out of place, they are parents now not high school kids. Poor Nav, as long as he is Akshu’s husband he’ll have 3 kids; Akshu, Manyu and Abhir 🙄 cause Abhira devolve into children when they are together, Abhir acts maturely as he has a lot of Nav’s qualities. I don’t think NavRa will have their own kid, Abhir is enough for them and didn’t Akshu have some complications that would prevent her from falling pregnant 🤔 wouldn’t it be funny if he told his Dada and psychojiri he wants to be a host when he grows up and entertain lonely women in a club 😂😂😂 though if he picked tour guide or driver that would really piss of Manyu 😂😂😂
@jade nav is tooo mature for akshu and abhi.. Y is nav taking a backseat nd all discussions are done by abhira?
Also yaa roohi is much better thn shivu.. She was hurt that time.. But shivu is unnecessarily bullying abhir.. I wish parth goes to jail thn abhir should laugh at shivu although it wont happen coz abhir is a cute kid
Bcoz he is fed up off life’s complexities. He wants harmony
@Jade
May this Abhirs from hell stay there forever. We were scarred seeing their pretend love story. Please may it never resurrect.
I like how Ruhi is there for Abhir when all grown ups in Birla household are so busy.
I agree. Makers should stop making everyone toxic. Boarding school can turn a rich kid like Shivu into a bully but it doesn’t make sense that he will bully his brother. Because that would mean he is jealous and a bully. Which is too much negativity. Instead they could start to punish and reform all the people at Birla starting with the one who is closely to insanity to the king of all issues, Manyu. It’s high time they start paying for what they have done after so long.
@Surabhi Abhir is a decent kid, unlike most of the adults on the show he has a high level of empathy much like Nav, he wants peace in his life and not much else. I think Shivu has a higher attachment to Manyu than Parth, DKP is kinda ridiculous though how is it Manyu is having a flashback of this child and not his own parents and grandmother 😂😂😂
I’ve said before Birla house will be bereft of kids, Shivu’s behaviour will prompt Shefali to sue for custody and Manyu will be her domestic violence witness in which case Mahima might speak against Manjiri for Abhir’s custody… things are about to get messier 💀 only Ruhi will be at peace cause she only has her mom and Aru doesn’t need to fight against anyone for her daughter.
@Jade @😎100% correct.@Mark Abhimanyu was angry.Watch the episode and see his expression when Abhinav throws flowers and when Abhina dances with Akshara and Abhir and yes he was disrespectful and rude.@ Surabhi yes Abhinav is being sidelined ..
@Rr
When Nav carried Abhir and they were dancing with Akshu, Manyu was smiling and I could see it was a smile of envy.
Then came the time is up. You know when two people are having such heated conversations, it’s okay to clear your throat to gain the attention and them tell them to wrap up by giving them a limited time. But what he did was like he intentionally cut them short by using Abhir. He didn’t address Akshara as she was the elder there talking something important to Abhir. Even if it wasn’t important, Akshu is elder and is the one to be reminded of time. He was supposed to just remind them it was time to go or tell Akshara that he meant to stay until now and she should wrap it up. Inshort, it’s like Abhir was not talking to his MOM but instead was talking to a fellow child where you need to tell him time is up.
I agree that Nav is being sidelined but it’s by makers and not Akshara. Because obviously Akshara was to find out about the project for next PTM and obviously she will discuss it with Nav later. So it’s makers who sidelined Nav so that Abhira fans can have something to swoon over.
Manjiri you pathetic woman can’t you see that’s exactly what your son is doing ? He’s trying to break the wall between himself and Akshara and at the same time entangling her with threads of her mamta and thus the useless banter of future profession of Abhir excluding Abhinav completely.🙄
@Rr it felt like a smirk, like he was saying indirectly Akshu will return to me so enjoy your time now… no one can say Manyu is not hung up on Akshu, woman has moved forward and is happy in her life and the Goenka’s (except Surekha cause she hates poor people) are happy with her life partner.
I have one complaint, Akshu is in Goenka house now, can she stop dressing like a baggage lady at a checkout counter, everyone is not dressed to the nines but dressed nicely and here’s Akshu looking like Anne of green gables who just got adopted by the Goenka’s 🙈 even Manish is more fashionable than this Akshu,
Exactly @Jade.
@Jade baggage lady 🤣.. 👌
The makers have limited Abhinav and Abhir’s bond, not liking it. It was so soothing to see their childishness rather than the cringing fight of Abhira.
Abhimanyu was shown at the start as a person who was very good at grasping the wrong situations and problems, but why is it now that he is no longer able to understand his son and his pain?
I feel like Abhimanyu can only see the pain of Manjiri and no one else.
According to Abhimanyu, When Arohi was bullying Akshara using Sirat’s death, she was wrong, but why is Manjiri getting a free pass for using Neil’s death for bullying Akshara and Abhinav (it’s like Genhu ke saath ghun bhi pis raha hai)?
Abhimanyu should be glad that his son is not like him; otherwise, he will be the first one to receive hatred from Abhir, and Abhir will only know how to live in one relationship, which is with his mother, Akshara, and the rest of the relationships will be burned. (I don’t want Abhir to turn out as Abhimanyu or Akshara.)
Why is Abhimanyu not calling or seeking Abhinav for Abhir’s related matters when Abhinav has always involved Abhimanyu despite Akshara’s denial? It’s like he can finally slowly remove Abhinav from his son’s life.
@Ara.
I agree. Abhinav’s screen time and space have shrunk. Your observation is very astute. He was very observant at the beginning able to grasp and decode people and situations. After the leap, he seems detached from everyone. He used to have this understanding with Abhir. Now when more of it.is needed he isn’t on the same wavelength anymore. He has also grown distant from Ruhi as well. His inability, you understand his son, who he put in a lot of fight to gain his custody, is so baffling.
Abhir thankfully has Abhinav’s upbringing. As long as that isn’t forcefully erased, Abhir will turn out a better person. But if erased, Abhir will be just like Abhimanyu. I guess Akshara doesn’t want Abhir to change. This is why she wants Abhinav to raise Abhir.
I like your last question. Even I have asked this recently. Abhimanyu has the never-voiced-out reasons for not involving Abhinav in these discussions. I can say that he likes it around Akshara, he likes talking to her and he mainly thinks of her. He prefers dealing with her on Abhir’s matters than Abhinav. He has respect for Abhinav as a human being but an awkward feeling about the man that replaced him in Akshara’s and Abhir’s life.
Meed and Ara –
True- they are not showing nav involvement much.. while all can understand that it’s not just akshu but nav also who have lost his child in custody..
And yesterday manyu sent pic to nav as courtesy- but he doesn’t consult nor talk to nav about abhir , it’s understandable that he is comfortable around akshara as she is abhir mom.. or rather he wants to be around akshara as i dont really clear him yet coz of his creepy nature in recent past…and ofcourse his moms chameleon attitude..but its high time he stops treating nav as akshara husband and start treating like abhir’s dad
@Ara
True makers are limiting Navs bondings. But makers have not done anything different on Manyu. Since the beginning, Manyu was shown as a person who was very good at grasping the wrong situations and problems yes, but only when it suits him or it’s in his bests interests or as long as he is not the one getting hurt. That hasn’t changed even now. It never changed for Akshara and it hasn’t changed even for his son.
At first, he could see Arus misdeeds and could deal with Aru perpendicularly, so that he gets his obsession. Now, if he notices his son’s sorrow, it would mean letting him go or giving up his possession and of course it’ll mean him getting hurt. So he chooses to ignore.
As long as he is not the one to get hurt or hurting, he opens his eyes and accepts the reality that is presented infront of him. But if he is the one to get hurt or hurting, he doesn’t open his eyes and doesn’t accept any reality even if it means someone is dying.
Sadly that is Manyu. He will never change. He will never notice his son is miserable ever. After all, who will be miserable when Abhimanyu Birla is the dada?
How long will this appeasement of both jodi fans continue? Totally fed up of AbhiRa. This show has made a joke of custody. Abhimanyu fought the custody case, not Manjari. Akshara will appeal for custody again. Yet, AbhiRa are way too friendly with each other considering they are fighting with each other to keep Abhir with them and scold Manjari. If they are so happy with each other, why not opt for co parenting?
@Happy, Akshara is at fault here for not creating boundaries, same with the Goenka’s they should have never tried to play hum saath saath hain and invited the Birla’s for Kairav’s wedding. Like someone needs to tell these 2 children their useless need for “Dida” caused the problem. Don’t know what these 2 were missing that Hag in Kasauli for that they had to call her to come, she had no purpose other than spoiling the environment, Nav couldn’t enjoy his sister’s wedding cause this mother india came to put show and make everything about her.
Until Akshara makes clear boundaries with the Birla’s they will be in constant turmoil.
@Jade
True. Boundaries. And it didn’t make sense today’s scene.
@Happy
Agreed. Makers should choose a side.
So, Mahima’s progeny turn out to be bullies like her. Lets hope after this less than complimentary introduction the boy Shivu’s Shefali gene kicks in and he is mortified at stepping on poor Abhir’s toe, and taunting him for his mother’s befuddled actions for burdening him with two Papas. Definitely, the wife beater Parth is poisoning his boy against Abhir and Chachu Abhimanyu with the loathed reference to Sir.
Manjiri continues to guide her son on how to compete, how to win over the place children reserve for mother in their heart. Obviously she used this privilege to create loathing in Abhimanyu’s heart for his father Harsh. She wants now in her son’s case to reverse the effect. Abhir won’t let her near him, so she could work her hatred directly.
While at the Goenkas, the family are melting in the background, so over the two days Akshara has Abhir she can work her magic to sustain her place in Abhir’s heart. Battles, battles – where is the love!
That scene with the biological parents exchanging views on their ambitions for Abhir was an utter fail. I mean, Abhir a singer, didn’t Akshara notice back in Kausali Abhir shifted from astronaut to wanting to be a doctor. That why his attachment to Docman started. Footballer may have been even more believable if she was resisting a doctor. But why am I surprised. This is the first time we see Akshara focused on Abhir instead of Abhinav. By the way, where has he, the great love of her life disappeared!
Is it a thing to surprise? It was because she prioritised Abhir over Abhinav that she didn’t realise his feelings towards her and her feelings towards him. It is because of Abhir’s priority that she got 6+ years to think about Abhinav.
@Pri, Abhir himself has said he would like to be a doctor. So surprised Akshara missed that and then rejected it in conversation with Abhimanyu, just because that is the father’s profession. The boy is also completely football mad, how come Mum missed that? But because she once aspired to be a singer she now thinks that a noble ambition for Abhir. A little egotistical. I am surprised tour guide and taxi driver, her darling Abhinav’s very decent ways of making a living didn’t make Akshara’s list.
OMG..can we take that stupid phone call conversation seriously? It’s so stupid. Yes Abhir wanted to be a doctor. But Akshara from that time also didn’t want to see Abhir as a doctor and that shows her dislike for Abhimanyu. But it’s one of her foolish decision. She tried to convince Abhir to wear that astronauts suit but she failed. While Abhimanyu keeping the Birla legacy said a doctor which made Akshara’s hidden anger towards her ex come out. So she decided a singer. That’s only a stupid competition between two stupids. It’s just about their hidden anger and fight. Abhirs ambition they turned it to their personal fight. Nothing related to Abhir or Abhinav an priority.
@Pri, I actually get that very peculiar chat between Akshara and Abhimanyu. He fell in love with Akshara’s singing before seeing her. I wonder if memories of Abhira are being evoked, to keep hold of that substantial segment of the audience.
True. Abhira memories, moments and fights writers will not stop showing them because they want all the viewers. They are not ready to loose any viewer. If not Abhira moments they will show at least Abhira fights because Abhira fans find cuteness and chemistry even when they fight and that is the thing which make me surprise. Actually i don’t see any chemistry or cutness in Abhira just stupidity, ego and selfishness.
@Pri, you are right the call is not about Abhir or Abhinav, it just the unresolved dynamic between Abhimanyu and Akshara still playing out.
So here’s dumb me thinking that when a child is sent to boarding school they learn new things early in life….like proper etiquette….maybe learn a new trade….be taught about discipline 🙄 etc etc….but here…. yeh rishta shows that when they send their kids to these boarding schools….they either come back as criminals (Luv and Kush 😐) or bullies (Shiv 🙄) ….am I missing something here ?? 🤔
Btw…I’m thinking that Shiv may have something to do with Abhi’s disappearance and not psycho mom….but lets just wait and see….
@Naina a.k.a uknowho, not surprising. No soft cuddles just harsh teachers, hard regimes, competing gangs – you either sink or swim in the survival game that is board school. Loss of innocence traded for independence and a certain hardness of spirit.
@Rai….but my dear…isn’t it rich kids who get sent to boarding schools ?? …cause from my understanding…. there is a certain amount of money paid to the institution for their services in helping these kids cope without their parents, right?? 😐
….I also thought that the fees were expensive 🤔
…am I deluding myself into thinking that when this money is paid…it is to educate the children to a certain level… a certain class…so that when the parents speak to their family and friends about this “boarding school” they speak with pride and not be looked at with any form of disrespect ?? 🤔
…or are the level of these institutions different by country?? 😐
I am so confused about this now…. 😞