Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai 18th July 2023 Written Episode, Written Update on TellyUpdates.com
The Episode starts with Mahima saying we will cut the welcome cake. They all see the cake smashed and asks who did this. Parth scolds Shivansh’s friends. Shefali says you are scaring the kids. He says the cake was for my son. Anand says we will get another cake. Abhi says yes, calm down. Mahima sees the cake cream on Abhir’s shirt. She asks did you do this, Abhir. Nishta takes the kids with her. Mahima shows the cake on his sleeve. She asks why did you do this, answer me. Manjiri says enough, will you scold him for a cake, he won’t do this intentionally, don’t do a drama. Shivansh says maybe nobody needs me here in this house, Abhir replaced me, he doesn’t like me. Abhi says no, I will talk to him. Parth says don’t think so. Abhi asks Abhir to say sorry. Manjiri says it happened by mistake. Abhi says even then, he can say sorry. Abhir says I won’t say sorry. Abhi says he is your elder brother, its okay if it happened by mistake, say sorry and move on. Abhir refuses and runs upstairs. Mahima and Manjiri argue.
Abhi and Anand ask them to not fight. Mahima asks Abhi to talk to Abhir. Abhir recalls Shivansh’s words and gets angry. Abhi comes and holds his hand. He says you know you got this anger from me, it has just harmed me, I know its difficult for you, its weekend, you will be meeting your mumma tomorrow, are you excited. Akshu sees the time and smiles when the alarm rings at 4am. She shouts good morning. Abhinav wakes up and says its not morning. She says we have to take Abhir to Jaipur. He asks her to sleep for some time. She says Abhir would be excited to meet us. He says I also feel sleepy. Abhir gets ready and packs his bag.
He says mum and dad would be excited too. Abhinav and Akshu make arrangements. Manish and Kairav smile. Manish blesses Akshu. Shivansh says Abhir, you won’t look smarter than me. Aarohi asks are you excited to meet your mum and dad. Shivansh says Abhi is his dad, where is his mum. Aarohi says Akshu and Abhinav are his mum and dad, he is lucky, Akshu stays at Goenka house, Abhir will enjoy a lot on weekend. Ruhi says I will also come with you next time. Abhir asks when will Abhi take me there. Abhi says yes, we are coming, I know you are taking him to Jaipur, okay bye. He drops the phone. He keeps it aside. The call is still connected. Manjiri says I don’t find this right, Akshu is taking Abhir out of Udaipur, if he doesn’t like to come back then. Abhi asks her not to worry. She says his heart isn’t connected to us. Akshu and Abhinav hear her.
Manjiri says Akshu is already meeting him often. Abhi says its tough for them also, they are following court orders, we will also do it, they are still Abhir’s parents, Abhir is our responsibility, we three are his parents. Abhinav says Abhir isn’t with us, but he is with Abhi, he is a nice person and good father, he will never snatch our right. Aarohi is on a work call. She says Abhi, we need to rush. Abhi says I have to go and drop Abhir to Goenka house. Manjiri says I will drop him. Abhi asks Abhir to enjoy well. He says see you soon. He goes. Abhir doesn’t sit beside Shivansh. Ruhi says I will sit in between, no fighting.
Manjiri asks Abhir to have kachoris. She says I m going to drop Abhir, shall I take Ruhi and Shivu. Mahima says I will come along. Anand says I m getting jealous now. Manish says Agarwal shifted to Jaipur, call him if there is any trouble. Kairav says yes, I will come if there is any problem. Dadi says everything will be fine. Surekha says its raining since night. Dadi says the world won’t sink. Surekha says I think their plan will sink. Muskaan says there isa good news. Dadi says wow, congrats. Surekha says you are fast, I thought you will do family planning after 1-2 years.
Muskaan says no, I got a promotion. Everyone congratulates her. Akshu thinks why didn’t Abhir come. Abhir asks Ruhi when will we go. She says just some time. Mahima asks Shivu to buy anything he wants. Manjiri says Abhir, you can also buy anything. He says I just want to go to my mum and dad. Mahima says after dropping Abhir to Goenka house, we will take Shivu to the new bakery. The man says you can’t go that way, the bridge broke down, water got filled in that area, you don’t take a chance, kids are with you. Manjiri thinks I should call Akshu. She recalls Akshu’s words. She thinks she might feel I m lying. Ruhi asks how will we drop Abhir, they would be waiting. Shivu says you can’t meet them and they will forget you. Abhir gets angry.
Precap:
Akshu argues with Abhi and Manjiri. Abhi says I don’t want my son to become like you, he runs from every problem and lose before fighting. She goes to Abhir’s school and sees him.
Update Credit to: Amena
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Goshhhh I am so done with this mad show nd its characters🙄🙄
Parth- this useless fool is flying too much.. Even now he has the audacity to misbehave with shefali.. Khud kuch karta nai or wife ko v ghar pe bitha diya.. Maa ke dum pe he is flying too much.. I just hate him
Shefali- stupid woman cant open her mouth.. Soon a day will come when shivu will hate her nd love his dad who will support his bratty behavior.. Nd she will just sit nd watch nd cry..
Mahima- woww this woman hated kairav as she thought he did something wrong with her daughter.. But now when his son is doing wrong with his wife from 5 years this woman is silently watching.. Anpadh gawaar hoti to samajh ata but she is highly educated still supporting this domestic violence..
Manjri- she needs to understand that she is not the only victim for whatever happened 5 years ago.. Everyone suffered.. Move on psycho woman
Shivu- yea he is jealous of abhir.. Like father like son- a loser.. Shefali better takes a stand nd discipline him or he might end up like luv kush
Abhimanyu- yaaa children get a lot of love nd gifts nd luxuries in birla house but can abhimanyu give a peaceful environment to abhir? Why dont he shift to another house.. He can maintain his relations by staying at some other house also na.. Or atleast separate your family from mahima’s family.. Mahima is way tooo toxic + revengeful.. The day parth will be thrown out mahima will show her dangerous avatar like she showed when anisha died.. Abhimanyu is working on his anger issues wich is a good thing but still surrounded by his toxic joint family nd giving the same to poor abhir..
Akshara- finally abhimanyu said that he dont want abhir to turn like bhagodi akshu..akshu is a big victim player.. She never takes a stand when her family is wrong nd starts blaming fate nd even God.. Get yourself treated dear you are still in trauma..
Abhinav- another spineless character.. Is he even doing anything to get abhir back ya sab kuch akshu pe hi chor diya? They lose the case coz of being financially weak right? So what is he doing to earn more money? Ya is bharosa me baith gaya ki akshu lawyer ban jaye to abhir vapas aajayga.. Vapas haar gaye to? Man plzz try to earn more money.. Last time during custody he was working hard instead of working smart..ok understandable.. But this time is he even doing anything to earn more? Is he even trying? He is not even getting proper scrnspace now
Abhir- betu plzzz speak the truth.. Sabko batao that you are getting bullied.. Atleast to abhimanyu or atleast to arohi maasi or roohi cuhi.. Your mom kept getting bullied coz she never took a stand.. Plzzz betu talk to someone.. Poor abhir yaar..
Its good abhimanyu realized that his anger ruined him.. But when will akshu realize that her lies, hiding secrets, always running away has created so much problems not only for her but also for others.. Nd when the hell will she stop yelling ufff its annoying
Anyway do you people know why manjri mahima arohi shefali are so blind in their children’s love? Coz ye log maa hai or ek maa bla bla watch todays anupamaa’s episode nd you will understand 😂😂😂
@Surabhi really crazy show I should also take a break anyway I’m too busy with my work to really be interested in this stupid track
@yeol makers are showing so many tracks together to delay custody case
@Surabhi Hey, what happened to luv and kush? I used to watch this show when Akshara and Naitik were the leads, but I stopped watching later on. However, I remember Luv and Kush when they were kids. They were always with Naira and had a good bond. Can you tell me what happened to them later on?
@sara they molested a girl after coming back from hostel.. Thn kept lying nd started dirty planning nd plotting to prove that girl is lying.. At last kaira proved that they are molestors nd thn goenkas send them to jail
But they became good later and returned back from jail with positive transformation.. They supported Naira in gayu Naira fight …
When did gayi and naira fought and why??
Every thing is correct but I want to add something to this
Shivansh-wants all attention doesn’t want another male child or waris to enter his house such that love of this dysfunctional family will not get divided to other waris of family useless and psycho like his father who is fit for nothing disrespects his elders and doesn’t love his younger ones characterless and mannerless and a waste fellow like his dad
@abc true.. Shefali should school him or he will be turned into a complete brat
@Surabhi
This is how it is, Manyus incompetency and vengeance. Good that you noticed something about him today. In the precap, Manyu says, “Abhi says I don’t want my son to become like you, he runs from every problem and lose before fighting” and I can’t help but pitying him and supporting Akshara. Just when Akshu said she doesn’t want her son to turn like him, Manyu threw the same words on her face when she was speaking against the injustice that was happening to THEIR SON. I can’t help but frown and feel disappointed.
How will Abhir turn like Akshara when the environment at Sharmas is far from warranting such behaviours? Akshara has being fighting her whole life. If it’s not against her abusive sister, is against her feelings, it’s against misunderstandings, against false accusations, against curses, against abuses, against loosing hope, against a complicated pregnancy, against poverty, against an incompetent father. If Manyu is really, really, really deserving anything in his life apart from sorrow and lonelyness, he would not abuse Akshara’s fights and deemed them null and void. The only thing Akshu didn’t fight for was him. Akshu didn’t fight for Manyu when he divorced her and talked about Sirats death. This is what Manyu means. In the end, it’s about a fight for him, Abhimanyu Birla.
How will Abhir run from problems when he was taught to fight bullies and against unfair practices. Does anyone remember Akshu cheering for a fight between Abhir and his friend and Nav was telling tourists that in India people don’t fight. How did Abhir handle people in the camp, how did he handle his school PTM, how the hell did he stand up against so many people in the past?
Let’s be real guys, Manyu broke his son for his rights as a father. In his entire life, he never loved anyone apart from him. It’s about time Akshu gets this in her stupid brain and see him for who he really is.
@Mark
I agree with Abhimanyu @mark 😈
I accept that before marriage Akshara never took a stand otherwise she won’t have been married to Abhimanyu 😅.
Even after marriage and leap akshara was dumb and didn’t fight back otherwise Manjiri wouldn’t be spitting poison every now and than.
If Abhimanyu is talking about the situation where he threw her out by divorcing her in a vulnerable state and she didn’t fight back by denying the divorce that Akshara did right because he didn’t deserve her fighting for their relationship when it was so easy for him to bring divorce in every disagreement between them. Also akshara won’t have met Abhinav.
@Ara
I beg to differ. Akshara has been fighting but she always loose. That’s the issue. She never won. If she won when she fought to hide her feelings, she wouldn’t have married Manyu and we would have rid ourselves of a headache.
@Mark
Above I meant in sarcasm but honestly Akshara before marriage never fought against Arohi also lateron when she took a stand her foolish brain didn’t allow her to give logical support to her arguments. She never analysed any situations logically. Abhimanyu’s decision to marry Arohi to make her jealous after her rejection showed that what Abhimanyu feels is not healthy. Him wanting her to stay away from birla matters after marriage was red flag. Abhimanyu’s regret on marrying her after Neil’s DNA was a sign that showed that he doesn’t value their relation and only sees her a possession.
Even I agree that her going away from udaipur before leap was a good decision seeing Goenka’s blind fan following of Abhimanyu and Manjiri if Akshara stayed back than Abhit would have long been given to birlas on a silver platter.
@Ara
I know it was sarcasm.
Akshara was fighting Aru in her own way. She was fighting by not giving up. She kept pushing for Aru to accept her love but her method was tiresome and taking longer to bear fruits. But she persisted in her method. But Manyu, inorder to not loose his possession, he introduced a new fighting technique that yield positive results fast. So it’s not that Akshu wasn’t fighting but it’s that her method was polite and took longer.
I think makers will kill arohi and abhinav and let akshara take ruhi custody becoz of her dying sister wish and after wards abhimanyu and akshara will be reunited and a daughter is born to them where akshu will rename her after her late mom as naira.So,4th gen will be on shivu,sbhir,ruhi,naira.And ruhi will like her mother the initial psychotic and jealous ridden arohi where arohi was jealous of akshara intially and now changed for good.Ruhi will also follow the foot steps of arohi(intial arohi) and will be jealous of jr.naira,And I guess 4th gen love triangle will be formed by these 2 sister with one male guy.
Like 2nd gen:- gayu-karthik-naira;
3rd gen:- jr. Akshara-abhimanyu-Arohi
4th gen:- roohi-“?”-jr.naira
“?” Means-4th gen male lead-hero.
Roohi will be jealous of jr.naira like arohi used to be jealous of jr.
Akshara
@Abc
God forbid. May they never reunite. If they reunite and get another baby, I will sign off.
@abc haha nd abhir will be sidelined and shivu will never be seen
Why? Same script? same old same old? Why leap again when the present story is nonsense! @Abc I rather they end this serial with this generation
Abhimanyu doesn’t only need to stay away from Mahima but also from Manjiri.He doesn’t just need to work on his Anger issues but on many other things. He is treating Abhir as a possession in the same way he treated Akshara as a possession. He is forgetting that the people whom he is treating as possessions themselves have their own opinions, feelings, and shortcomings. He needs to learn to listen before jumping to conclusions. He needs to stop supporting Manjiri in her acts, and instead of just doing Maa Maa… he needs to cure her hatred. His mother is not some queen that other people are bound to be understanding and giving of her irresponsible acts.
Exactly x3 @Ara
@ surabhi you are right Abhir will be sidelined and will have a traumatic love story like his
Grand uncle-Naksh(with tara) and
Uncle- kairav(with anisha) and then he will get a second of love in his life like his grand uncle(with his grand aunt keerthi) and uncle(with his aunt muskaan)
And shivansh will be sidelined in 4th generation like vansh in 3rd generation
They will end this serial no leap I am sure!
In fact Abhir did not ran away from problem, he ran away from accusation!
quite a big problem breaks in Abhir’s life. Abhir has never lived in a family of several, his house was made up of dad and only mom, now between the sorrow of living far from those who constitute his house (dad and Mama), he discovers for the first time the wickedness of children and their teasing. Ruhi has already faced the unreasonable behavior of children who can be intentionally hurtful and she had not been able to keep her calm, she had been so hurt that she had ended up demanding the impossible from her loved ones. Abhir is confronted with the wickedness of children and especially a child who is part of his own family, a child with whom he will now be forced to stay. He ended up losing his cool because of the teasing, and no longer trusts enough to open up and tell the truth. Abhir’s behavior was excessive as he responded to the provocation with another provocation, and he failed to show that he is better than his bullies by agreeing to acknowledge his mistake (waste is nonsense), then to explain why he didn’t feel sorry for his action, Abhir has a bad habit of internalizing everything until he explodes. Shivu knows his privilege in Birla house, Shivu knows Mahima’s behavior well and knows that his father and Mahima will support him in his mistakes so he takes the opportunity to hurt Abhir out of jealousy as he clearly does not want to accept another male children in the house. It seems that Shivu has already started being groomed by Mahima to become competitive for the title of future Birla heir. Shivu wants to trick Abhir into not trusting Sharma anymore by wanting to put some wrong ideas in his head. which boils Abhir who doesn’t like to hear bad things about his family, but is still hurt because he is afraid that maybe Shivu’s words can hold some real true. Shivu wants to make Abhimanyu and Abhir’s relationship deteriorate even more, wanting to make him feel that he is more important to Birla family and Abhimanyu than him, to make Abhir feel even more abandoned to push him to do more more error. Shefali’s son has become a real seasoned manipulator. Sharma’s actions in hurting Abhir’s heart, Abhimanyu not being able to open Abhir’s shell due to lack of vigilance, the new environment, and now Shivu’s behavior all contribute to tormenting Abhir. Anyway Abhimanyu said one thing true Abhir should not become like Akshara but also not like him. but too late this child has the characteristics of her two la. It’s two adults will start fighting again and Abhir will just be caught between them in the end, which means more suffering for Abhir because of his parents who can’t get along. Life in a big family is not easy, fights can happen, disagreements between adults, and problems between children can happen, and if things can’t be handled properly everyone finds himself suffering, but things also always end up calming down. the old saying that says, you can’t choose your family and you can’t run away from it either and a reality. many children live and grow up with conflicting, dysfunctional families, where the members are often in competition, there are often ups but also a lot of downs. some will grow to be more positive and silly demeanor like Niel and Akshara, and others will grow up with tougher demeanor like Arohi and Abhimanyu. The next generation of yrkkh will surely occur in the Birla family because the children will all end up gathered there, and the Goenka are now too old according to the script and will certainly not be there during the next generation, only Kairav and Muskaan will be able to survive. Anyway the next generation starts with Shivu, Ruhi and Abhir. As Abhimanyu said so well to Akshara, she likes to run away from her problems she is often in denial about her own behavior, because she can never admit that her decisions often have a negative impact on others, because there is only his intentions that matters. it would be time to face reality, start by realizing that even if she wins custody of Abhir, Abhimanyu will and will remain a part of Abhir and that he will always have rights over him. Abhir will also grow alongside the Birlas as Abhimanyu will always have visitation rights, or weekends with Abhir. She can claim all she wants that Abhir will not be well with Birla but she can never separate him from his Birla roots. It’s time for Akshara to apologize to Manjiri about Niel, so she can confront Manjiri and fix their situation, for good. because she knows very well that Manjiri is using Niel’s death to justify his hatred. she must tell him that she may or may not accept his apology, but that she gave her guilt even if it may not relieve her, but if she decides to remain in the animosity she will do everything not to let her be in the Abhir’s life, quits asked the court for a restraining order. She has to face instead of fleeing because it is about Abhir. And his relationship with Manjiri only Akshara and Manjiri can decide to settle it whoever must first, must give so that we can give him back or not because the hypocrisy must end. Now Abhir’s life will be split between his two families no matter who gets his custody, the issues between the two families need to be settled, before another generation of children with family sequelae are born. Many criticize Abhimanyu for getting angry without necessarily knowing all the details before judging, well Akshara and exactly the same before listening she prefers getting angry and shouting. Abhimanyu’s advice for Abhir was quite true siblings can argue and prank each other but respect should always be maintained. but if one goes too far like Shivu and forgets respect he should be reported so he can be punished otherwise his behavior will only continue and get worse with time. It may well be that Abhir will fight at school and Abhimanyu and Akshara will end up being summoned. trio of useless parents, messy family and nobody does anything
@yeol yaa abhir has this habit of keeping things to himself nd cry silently
@Surabhi
This habit is common to children who are new to a place. Abhir has never had this habit in his entire life. Even his genes don’t allow him. He just needed someone who really cares for him and who is there for him. He had Ruhi, and Aru. Infact, unlike other kids in this new kind of environment, Abhir is not closed off completely. Aru and Ruhi proved this already. But since this is new environment i.e. siblings and a big family, he needed someone to understand him, be there even in his silence and hug him tightly. But no one did. He is alone in a house full of people and one calls himself dada.
@mark I agree.. Abhimanyu should try a bit more to understand abhir
@yeol
Should I remind you of camp incident, PTM at Kasauli, a fight cheered by Akshara in Kasauli, that’s a few.
Before concluding that Abhir did spoil Shivus cake, let’s wait until it’s confirmed.
Manyu said the truth? Which truth? Do you call the precap as the truth? The way I see it, the precap is the beginning of unmasking the real reason Manyu took Abhir from Navra.
@yeol
I am going to say it. Nothing you wrote today holds up. It’s not the reality of recent events. You want Abhir to get used to his dysfunctional Birla house when he has an alternative? You want Akshara to not confront Birlas and fight for custody yet you say Manyu is right to say “….. lose before fighting” when Akshara wants to do exactly that, fight.
@Mark, don’t twist my words. I have always said that Akshara has the right to fight for her son. Abhir has a yes and no alternative as he will always be linked to Birla. I said that Akshara should get it in his head that even if she wins custody of Abhir, Abhimanyu will still have rights over Abhir, and he will also have rights to visits or weekends with Abhir. So instead of throwing stones at random she should understand that it would be better to just try to clear things up with Manjiri. because she and Manjiri must settle their account, instead of playing the hypocrite who continues to call Manjiri mother. because their relationship is far from being that of a mother and her daughter. She has to set her limits and give warnings to Manjiri about her son, because Abhir will never be completely separated from the Birla. It would be better for her to fix the problems, just like Abhimanyu should fix the problems at his house. They must try to keep some semblance of understanding for Abhir’s sake instead of spouting nonsense like idiots. there is no point in acting like she doesn’t know that Abhir now that he is recognized as Abhimanyu’s son, can never be totally separated from him again. she had better be smarter and want to impose conditions for the well-being of her son. Akshara is an idiot but she should at least try to work her brains.
@yeol
Again your argument doesn’t hold. Ever since Akshara gave the instructions manual to telling the principal that Manyu and Nav will do everything for Abhir, to her Convo with Manjiri that she thought Birlas will be responsible, to asking about the next PTM, proved that she accepted that Manyu is now a part and parcel of Abhirs life. Inshort, ever since telling Abhir the truth, she stopped excluding Manyu as it was pointless from then on.
Your argument is outdated and irrelevant.
@Mark you see it as you wish but Akshara said, she will get her son back and won’t let Abhir live with them include Abhimanyu. as if she ignores that Abhimanyu whatever the outcome of the next trial will keep his rights over Abhir, and will get visitation rights. Akshara at the slightest problem does not seek to speak in a civilized way, she accuses and threatens. Akshara said she won’t let Abhir live with Birla, so I’m sorry but she wants Abhimanyu out of Abhir’s life. While she knows very well that Abhimanyu now has legal rights over Abhir. Instead of just coming shouting and threatening without interest, she should have asked for explanation why Abhir had drawn, asked for the reason. But no, the truth is that Akshara is just looking for excuses to be at loggerheads and justify her desire not to actually share Abhir. She knows that Abhir is staying with the Birla’s and that until the law decides otherwise, nothing will change, instead of coming and screaming like a hysteric she should have thought of Abhir’s well-being, asked for an explanation, and warned them to remain more vigilant towards Abhir, and especially advise them to find solutions in a peaceful way. She is not really looking for agreement with Abhimanyu she wants to look for excuses for discord. She knows that for Abhir’s future a conciliatory relationship between her and Abhimanyu would be better, that it would be better for them to try to warn each other if they notice any strange behavior from Abhir in this complicated period. because it could also happen that Abhir comes back from Navra’s house with a strange behavior, since Navra has proved that they are not spared from stupidity either, and that they too can ignore Abhir’s worries thinking that everything is fine as in Kasauli. Akshara is an idiot who doesn’t think much and just wants to blame without consideration. Akshara will become like Manjiri one day
@yeol
I agree Akshara doesn’t consider her enemy who will perish her son. Why should she? Should Akshara help birlas solve their mess when she also wants more than weekends which may turn to be like this one? Those weekends have no guarantee of being successful. Do you want her to help them when she did exactly that in the past and it caused problems for her? @yeol, yourself deem Akshara’s actions as catastrophic. Why should she act now and make things worse????? She just has to steer clear of Birlas by appealing and when things get solved in Birlas, they can work together again.
Abhi is the one who told Akshu he is bringing Abhir, n when Abhir don’t turn up who do you think she should confront??? Manjiri? Mahima? Custody case will never stop
the other parent from visitation right unless for a valid reason! So what you mean Akshu is gonna stop Abhi’s right?? Absurb! n your arguing for the sake of argument!
An idiot can becomes a lawyer better than an idiot that know only argument for the sake of argument! Mind you, never call someone idiot unless you prove urself better than an idiot! Smh…why judge someone stupid, idiot, dumb when u urself don’t seem to be better??? Anyone calling someone else names should realise that she herself is such as she judges, what you put out is what you get back! Period! @Yeol
@Nonsense, Akshara’s words it was her who said she won’t let Abhir be with the Birlas, but you act like you don’t understand the words when it sounds very clear though. If Akshara knows why create a conflict, and be able to say that she will not leave her son with Abhimanyu when she knows that he has rights over his child. Besides, it’s not even about the case to depose Abhir, but about the case of the drawing. Threatened and blamed without seeking to know the background, just like a certain person. Yes I’m a satisfied idiot, but before giving your opinion make sure you understand everything, because it does not make you better than you accuse me of being. Really you are very attached to this fiction it seems.
@yeol ur tge one who are attached to this fiction to always write an essay about it for the sake of argument!
It’s good at least you admitted ur a satisfied idiot!
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If u know about custody case, the other parent will get visitation right, then why focus only on what Akshu said, she knows about law isn’t it?
Yeol-
I will not respond to your whole essay.. but akshara doesn’t have to clear things up with manjiri…
Psycho had done enough damage to her relations.. she had audacity to ask nav to leave akshara..so pls..her dumb son may support her..but no sane person will ask !
She needs to deal omly with manyu coz he is father and manyu has to deal with navra.. thats it.. no need of anyone else!
@ Yeol isn’t it sad how negatively Rajan Shahi is showing Joint families and role of boarding school both in this generation and previous? And Abhimanyu has not decided whether Abhir was at fault or not ( he asked if..) but he should have probed either way Abhir needs help
@Rr
True either way, Abhir needs someone to be there for him. And sure as hell Manyu isn’t qualified. He only took help from Aru when he wanted Abhir to say yes to going to Goenkas so that he can go and see Akshu.
@Mark Abhimanyu as a husband I have a lot of problems but Abhimanyu as a dad I have less problems😂.He has rushed this whole dad thing because of Manjiri, and his victory of winning the case has dulled his instincts both as a father and as a health professional.He could read Ruhi and solve her issues but with Abhir he’s going all wrong? He should be dealing with Abhir himself and not through arohi or God forbid his mom.You were right he should have either moved out of Birla house or informed the court that he will delay custody.The bonding of Docman and Abhir is lost forever and there is no new bonding of father and son .He can’t replace Abhinav role in Abhir s life but he deserves to be a dad too and he made it very clear to his family that he is co parenting with Akshara and Abhinav .Today I believed him .He just needs to get his act together and make Abhir his priority inspite/ despite his dysfunctional family.His feelings for Akshara though…well I don’t what to say.
@Mark ” so that he can go and see Akshu ” Lol🤣🤣
@Rr, indeed Rajan Shahi only shows negativity I also agree that Abhimanyu should be more attentive. Abhir really needs support
So it is Manjiri after all and a side dish of Shivu. I must say, at Birla, Abhir has being exposed to hatred, bullying, accusations, threats, misunderstandings, insecurities and fear that Navra will forget him. All this happened in his dada’s presence. If Manyu couldn’t handle Abhir and Abhirs new reality, why didn’t he seek help from any capable person. He has an instruction manual but he is yet to use it. Aru has proven her capabilities to get to Abhir, why didn’t Manyu seek her help today? Today, Abhir’s reputation was at stake. Today, Abhir needed someone to listen to him but no one did. The way Manyu talked to him, is no way to talk to a kid. No Wonder he can’t get to Abhir no matter how welcome and open Abhir is. Kids need probing and coaxing which Manyu doesn’t do or try to do.
I thought Manyu wanted his rights as a father but no, this is more than that. It’s not about being called dada or about Abhir getting to know him, it’s deeper than that. Because ever since Abhir said dada, he has been neglected, sidelined, and left at Birla house to fend for himself. Abhir has been lonely, and alone. In his entirety of 6yrs, the only feeling Abhir got was happiness, excitement, joy, safe, satisfaction, and a side dish of little lies. But in a week, Abhir not only lost his family, he got a bonus of everything negative.
It’s official that Manyu failed again. And the reason he failed is because he had other priorities than being Abhirs dada. He allocated little space for Abhir and the rest of the space was for his work, fulfilling Manjiris wishes of snatching Abhir from his parents, and rest was for punishing Akshara. That is the harsh truth.
@Mark. I agree. And Abhir didn’t say sorry may be because he has done nothing wrong. High chances for that. And if so then Abhir is taking her mummas advice of not acccepting the defeat until the oponent say sorry. Remember at very begining of 6 yr leap Abhir had a fight with a boy and Akshara didn’t stop them while Abhinav tried to stop them. Abhir might not done that mistake so he is not ready to say sorry but Abhimanyu without finding the truth asked him to say sorry. Though the birlas are known people to Abhir he has got away from them a bit even from Abhimanyu. Now they are lacking that friendship also docman-junior. So Abhir is now seems to live at birla house keeping a distance. So he is not ready to tell any one on what shiv did to him. He is silently bearing them but there will be a point where his patience get vanished and take a wrong step. Aren’t the elders in birla house responsible for it? Elders just introduced siblings to each other and they concluded kids will be happy together. Didn’t observe kid’s behaviour and how kids react with each other. Isn’t it necessary to keep an eye on the kids for some time in such occasions? Birla house is not a safe place for a kid to raise.
@Pri
Exactly. They just introduced the siblings and retreated to their busy lives. Everything wrong with the kids beginning with Manyu, Parth, Anisha, Ruhi, Shivu, and now Abhir, parents are to be blamed. Not the kids. It’s the parents who are in the wrong. They did this. Even if Abhir really did it, it’s maybe he avenged for what Shivu did or maybe he wanted the cake so badly. All this is on the parents. It’s just so disappointing to see Manyu sideline his son after he dismantled his son’s life. After an entire month with Sharmas, Manyu didn’t learn anything. Abhir was used to Navra attaching themselves to him like glue. But now? No one is there for him.
@Mark.
I have to agree with you on Abhimanyu’s incompetence. He is there and Abhir’s life is unravelling. Abhir is getting broken right before his eyes. Abhir is left to fend for himself which isn’t right. He is only six years old. He needs parental love, care and protection. What has been clear since day one is that this phase of Abhir’s life is tough and will leave extensive imprints on his personality.
Discussing personalities, I think Abhimanyu’s narcissistic personality doesn’t allow him to ask for help when he needs to. He could avail himself of Aarohi and Ruhi. He doesn’t. He has the instruction manual unattended which would have helped him assess Abhir’s mindset early and continue from where the Sharmas were. He does things for his convenience.
Yes, I agree with you that Abhimanyu loves no one but himself. He spends less time with Abhir than Aarohi which is quite revealing. It is easy to manufacture excuses for his negligence. After the hard sprints to win Abhir and the custody award, Abhimanyu seems to forget the effort that he put in. Or, is it? This indeed, is more than slacking off after winning Abhir’s custody. It can only happen when someone is oblivious to the true feelings of people in his life.
He couldn’t apprise Akshara of his schedule change. He must have been in dreamland to hand over Abhir to his mother when she spoke categorically against the visit. Yet, he could have texted Abhinav about the new development. He leaves these significant moments to chance because he hardly sees beyond himself. It is like his connection with Abhir went on vacation after the custody victory.
@Meed
The worst thing is that Manyu will get away with this. Why?
@Mark.
He is unlikely to get away with this. The makers don’t want to damage him in a major way. I think that the Sharmas will win on appeal at the High Court, which I believe, sits in Jaipur, incidentally where they had planned to take him on the weekend trip.
Maybe no punishment for his divorce if Abhir’s mother but the custody appeal may hinge on the mental and emotional harm done to the child while staying at the Birla house. The man will not escape it.
Both Abhi n Manjiri jumped to conclusion that it’s Abhir who did the destroy of the cake from Mahima accusation without finding or getting Abhir’s explanation, one wants him to apologise the other just said that it happened, both just give their verdict that Abhir did it which made Abhir more mad. Why apologise if he did not do it?
Which govt. Job gives promotion in just two months and that too when you’ve been on leave for one month??I also want to join that.
No matter how much anyone try but abhir will still become like akshi who just likes to run away from problems instead of facing them bcoz even akshu got this from naira who was also a bhagodi.
Akshara naitik and naksh were never bhagode. I don’t know from where naira learned to be a bhagodi
@shubh naira to ek baar bhagi.. Akshu did it twice nd both the time it was unnecessary..
Naira also twice 1st when she thought her mother is goint to put her in jail for murder of sukanya and 2nd when kartik pointed finger on her character. She should have never ran away from her family in the first place. Naira and akshara would have easily tackled the situation akshu fell into
@shubh ooo yaa.. I forgot the first one.. I dont understand why people run away from their own house nd family? Dont they trust their parents and siblings..
Naira saw the police who came to the house n mistook Akshara had called the police, Karthik questioned Naira dignity n character, isn’t it valid reasons on both occassions for Naira to leave??
@mahi true.. Mjhe v aisa hi lag raha hai.. He should fight his battles or take help but should not become a bhagodi like his mother
@Shubh and @Mahi
Situations makes someone to choose flight instead of fight. The environment he grows in makes him make that choice. It’s not a genetic trait. It’s circumstances, environment and situation. Naira loved Kartik so much and she lost herself in the process. Her survival depended on flight. Akshara, was exposed to Aru since childhood and she chose to keep her bond with Aru and kept proving her love to Aru instead of giving up, she left home for her sister and now, it looks like her efforts will finally pay off as Aru is helping Abhir and feeling for Abhir. The next time she run, she actually didn’t run. She was fulfilling her promise to Dr Kunal and in turn help to bid Kairav time.
In my opinion, if given a proper upbringing and a safe environment, anyone will never run from problems. Running from problems is not hereditary.
If naira and akshara would havebeen in place of akshu they would have easily solved the situation without running away. If was ok naira chose to run away from kartik but she had no right to make her family go through the pain of losing her. She should have never ran away from her maiden family
Can anyone tell me what Abhir was Scratching in the note book?
The makers are proving my thoughts right that Abhira are not good together or alone for Abhir’s upbringing. I always felt that Abhinav and Akshara, or Abhimanyu and Abhinav, were good for upbringing Abhir. Abhinav, without his insecurities and lack of confidence, is the best parent for Abhir.
I’m sure Abhir didn’t destroy the cake; his nature is not as such, because if it were like everyone saying that he did it in anger, then firstly he would have hurt Ruhi after the Camp incident, but he was very understanding and giving to Ruhi’s jealousy. So how can he do that to Shibu? Abhimanyu should have trusted Abhir and asked him if he did it by mistake instead of just asking him to say Sorry.
Parth is an irredeemable character. Should be jailed instead of roaming freely around his son.
@Ara you are right abhira is horrible together they both are toxic with each other without any proper understanding between them. Apart from that both are pro at blaming each other. Yaa Abhinav is best for abhir as compared to abhira. I think main reason why abhir is somewhat mature is just becoz of abhinav only
Yes @Momo
Joint custody is best solution but obviously with Abhir’s preference.
@Ara.
True. Abhira don’t have sustained understanding. They connected emotionally in the past, however, they are too different from each other. Ironically Abhimanyu, if he decides, should move on from Akshara and his past. Maybe this would ease the co-parenting journey from his side. The pain he feels from not having Akshara in his life is massive. Now though, he has a son to look after. He has to do that very well.
His inability to get a handle on the situation is concerning. Parth’s and Shivu’s homecoming along with that if Abhir seem to overwhelm Abhimanyu. He needed to supervise Abhir’s first interactions with Shivu. Instead, he left that to chance. This is incompetent. Abhinav is the better parent. He works in concert with Akshara and that is the environment Abhir needs. Abhimanyu doesn’t send s text message that he is going for charitable work at a camp, or that he has an emergency at rye hospital on the day that Abhir was supposed to visit his parents.
I think Abhimanyu can ask for help from Aarohi in Abhir’s matters. However as he continues stumbling in the not-so-small matter of Abhir’s upbringing, he will likely lose Abhir in all the possible ways.
@Meed
Abhimanyu could have been a very good husband and father after his childhood trauma if he healed from it but he never focused on any relation other than his mother. He treated Akshara as possession and the same now with Abhir.
Abhimanyu’s character had so much growth potential but makers ruined this character.
@Ara.
Agreed. Abhimanyu has some way to go in raising Abhir. Yes he is putting in a lot of effort, alone as it is. He can do better. He has his childhood experience but he shouldn’t derail Abhir’s life because of his incompetence.
The makers try to show his inability to do this alone. I don’t like to think that a reunion is hinted at through his failings as a single parent. His character has been a shambles for long. He has not improved and that is so sad.
@Meed Unless Abhimanyu plans to make Aarohi Abhirs step mom ,he needs to cover the distance between Abhir and himself relying on his instincts only.Abhimanyu is more experienced with children feelings .Its he not Aarohi who dealt with Ruhi insecurities.Aarohi could have made one phone call to Akshara or anyone in Goenka family and figured out what was said to convince Abhir to come to Birla house but she did not.She is only fulfilling her promise to her sister to look after Abhir in a physical sense but not so involved emotionally She could have also come to Abhir s defense today instinctively as Abhimanyu and his mother did (though we don’t know the truth there)
@Rr.
True. He puts in some effort to take care of Abhir. Just like his many relationships, he doesn’t remain fully invested or committed. He resolved Ruhi’s issue with Abhir. Given time, he could try. I think the answer to this lies in the kind of children. Ruhi takes after Aarohi she is a more rational type and Abhir seems to be more emotional or sentimental like Akshara and Abhinav.
As such the methods to cajole Ruhi wouldn’t necessarily work with Abhir. Whereas Abhinav’s methods were seen to have worked wonders on Abhir. The little things to get Abhir to laugh aren’t too hard. Abhimanyu doesn’t have the skill set yet.
Your point on Aarohi is credible. She didn’t defend Abhir and we don’t know why. It isn’t clear as I would agree.
@Rr. “.Its he not Aarohi who dealt with Ruhi insecurities.” Yes. Abhimanyu solved the issue. But dis he realised first that Ruhi is having a problem with Abhir. She is feeling insecure. No right? Abhimanyu never realised it but he was made realised that by Arohi and Akshara. It was after tht he made Ruhi understand the situations. And now the same goes to Abhir. Abhimanyu has beem unable to recognise Abhir’s state of mind his feelings and what he want. But of course if some one make Abhimanyu understand about Abhir tgen he will take tge right decisions. But is that tge thing that need to be happen? Abhimanyu has been with shivs, ruhis childhood but still he is unable to understand a kid’s mind. Actually not only kid’s but also others except his and his mom’s.
Parth has no other role than antagonist. He isn’t even a grey character. It’s strange how this Shivu’s parents can’t see their child is a manipulative little monster then again that is the Birla family trait.
So Abhir is held back by bad weather… they should have sent Abhir with the driver straight to the Goenka’s what’s the need with all the side trips. As for this Surekha it’s like she invites trouble with her bad luck mouth, someone should cut off her tongue.
I said this was going to get very messy, kids are fighting, Mahima and Manjiri are fighting, soon Parth and Manyu will be fighting as well, we just have our little Ruhi trying to make everyone get along, Ruhi is a definite mix of the 3 Goenka kids with a sprinkle of Birla violence against objects.
This episode was dumb Surekha got on my nerves, so what if Kairav and Muskaan have a baby it’s not her problem, she behaves more like jealous ex than Kairav’s aunt, it seems it’s only Kairav and Arohi who can shut her up
@Jade
Manjiri did it intentionally to delay Navras trip to Jaipur. What they did today to Navra and Abhir is unforgettable. Abhir was so eager only to get held by Manjiri. I swear if Birlas don’t pay for what they did to Abhir till now, then I will not be watching this shit anymore.
Did anyone see that only abhir did this no and after that mahima started shouting on him and what abhimanyu did is without listening his explanation he asked abhir to say sorry to them 🤦. Is Abhimanyu such dumb or what.If abhir didn’t say sorry means either he didn’t did this or there is some problem happen between shivyu and abhir. he should confronts both that either there is fight happen between them but no he will simply ignore that becoz its none of his business. And he expect that abhir will share his worries with him who without listening his side story conclude that abhir must done something wrong. How abhir will able to believe that abhimanyu will always with him. As I said birla are pro in blaming without even knowing exactly what happened they still did with this small kid who is struggling with his own problems. I must say its high time abhir should leave mad birla house.
@Momo
Agree with that Birlas are pro at blaming without even trying to know what exactly happened.
But the only happiest thing here in this serial apart from this bagodi akshu and dysfunctional birla crap the happiest thing is Karthik children(3 children), including that bagodi and not remorseful(for Neil death) akshu also settled with a career in life.
Kairav-Mba degree and profession: business man. Hobbies:- Painting.
Bagodi Akshara- law degree(LLB) and profession:-lawyer. Hobbies:-Singing(ex-profession)
Arohi-MBBS degree and profession:- doctor.
Hobbies:- No Hobbies.
These two mad sisters for sure will burn the house down..which cousins/ siblings don’t fight ?.. instead of parents explaining and listening to kids.. the grandmothers defend their pota .. stupidity…then what is the role of parents here ?.. manyu tried to talk..but he just talked and left and dint let abhir open up…if this calm abhir was upto something like destroying a cake.. isn’t that a red flag for any parent..should he not dwell on reason instead of assuming things.. dont know how and in what area is this dumbmnayu an expert in ?.. and parth and shefali also were just standing watching instead of talking to shivu..
And did ppl notice ?.. why does psycho ask permission from mahima to take shivu when shefali is right there.. like why do these grandmothers assume more rights than parents ?
@Rak
Couldn’t agree more. Very important points you noted. Grandmothers are reserving more rights to themselves than parents. And these grandma’s are mostly stupid than wise.
Abhimanyu questioning about Akshara ‘s parentage that he will not like his son to run away from problems …LOL he should ask why are people always running away from Birlas and Birla house only .?? Why are they creating problems …for everyone to run away from them ….
@Shilajit, Abhimanyu was mostly talking about his tendency to run away instead of confronting his problems. Like stepping away from her family to let Arohi do whatever she wants, instead of confronting her relationship with her sister. Or after returning instead of trying to confront Arohi and their relationship, she chose to continue avoiding confrontation, letting Arohi make mistakes as she pleased. Or the fact that Akshara always tends to victimize himself instead of facing the situation early to avoid repercussions, he was also talking about his choice to hide Abhir by choosing flight so as not to face a legal battle at the time. He knows that Akshara has a Runaway nature when she feels cornered, she chooses to flee by victimizing herself instead of facing it, she always chooses to avoid looking at the negative side of her actions because she prefers to run away from reality.
Everyone has her own ways to deal with situations, so it’s her ways she chose that she thinks was best for her at that moment of time! She did what she did was comfortable for her, isnt’t it? And she bear the consequences didn’t she?
Kairav also ran away from home . Alisha was also staying away from Birla.
Yeol –
Well , she did have history of running but..
Now akshara has changed – she is fighting custody and fighting for her navra relation and standing by it…so how exactly she is running now for him to blame..
Manyu is jealous that she dint fight for abhira that’s it !
Karthika also ran away from home because of Manish and suvarna marriage. And Abhimanyu also away from home when he gets angry with Harsh and after Akshara’s first ran away when his hand surgery was going on. So in this serial run away from home is just like kidsplay.
the words Abhimanyu said to Abhir he said to him (if you made a mistake you should say sorry). it should be clarified, that Abhimanyu told Mahima that Abhir was not able to do such a thing. but Mahima showed Abhir’s sleeve which was stained with cake. Abhimanyu tried to explain to Abhir that if he indeed had a mistake he should apologize. (noted that he said only IF he had made the mistake). He wanted to ease the tension between the kids, when Abhir refused and ran away, he said adults shouldn’t quarrel because of the kids. Manjiri argued to the end that Abhir was incapable of doing such a thing, and that Mahima shouldn’t overact for a cake, but Manjiri was obviously in the worst position to speak, as she keeps overacting when it comes to Abhir. Then Abhimanyu went to find Abhir, he saw her unleashing her anger on a leaf, and he told her that from personal experience he knows that anger only hurts the people one loves. he also told Abhir that if he had something to say to him he was ready to listen to it. and that he understands that his situation has changed and that he now lives with his siblings, and gave him advice on child relationships. Afterwards, to comfort him, he talked about his weekend with the Sharmas. Abhimanyu should mostly observe the situation in the Birla house. Besides Akshara had told Abhir not to apologize if he considers that he did nothing wrong. Which implies that even if he made a mistake but he does not consider his action as a mistake he should not apologize
Agree with your pov
@Yeol. “Which implies that even if he made a mistake but he does not consider his action as a mistake he should not apologize” This depends on how we take it right? That action for every one seem not a mistake but for rest it will be a mistake. That depends on how we see it and take it. And akshara is right i guess. She is not telling that not to say sorry if you feel you did a mistake somewhere. But if you think what you DID is right and your intensions, then no need to say sorry.
In Akshara’s situation her intension was good but she n neil did a mistake while doing what they wanted to do. So akshara has to say sorry only for her mistake of not taking best decision at the right time. Her intensions are good but her method was wrong.
Dear Dr Abhimanyu Birla ,when you were studying for MBBS case studies have you forgotten you were taught to observe and ask questions OF WHAT THE PATIENT WAS NOT SAYING?Today did you ask even once ‘WHAT HAPPENEND ABHIR’ your whole tone was o don’t let anger get better of you etc..It was imp to get to the bottom of the issue either way( If Abhir did destroy the cake ..never mind the reason it was WRONG as the cake was someone else’s) but you just changed the topic ?? As a parent you failed and ran away from the issue…running away from issues is also what you do.
True. Agree @Rr
Agreed @Rr
Abhimanyu’s first question should have been to ask Abhir that did he by mistake ruin the cake and not jump to conclusions that he MUST have did it by mistake when mahima pointed out the proof. Also when Abhir refused to say sorry he concluded that Abhir MUST have done it in anger because of his fight with shivu. Not once did he realise that Abhir didn’t do it and that his son is of a very calm personality, when he never once hurt Ruhi for her rudeness than why will he destroy someone else’s cake out of anger.
And IF he did destroy that cake it is red flag that Abhir is struggling inside that he had to reduce himself to such means as destroying a cake out of anger knowing his maturity.
@Yeol You can’t justify Abhimanyu’s nature of jumping to conclusions and inability to understand or better said deliberate negligence of Abhir’s pain.
@Ara, Abhimanyu asked Abhimanyu to apologize only if he made the mistake. and when Mahima pointed out the evidence, he said maybe it happened by accident and and if Abhir indeed did it by mistake he should apologize. Abhir could have spoken, but Abhir was still upset with Shivu’s behavior, and he doesn’t feel confident in Birla house yet. When Abhimanyu went to find Abhir he understood that Abhir had not expressed everything, and he told Abhir that if he had something to say to him, he was ready to listen to it, if Abhimanyu had insisted it would have ended like the other times, Abhir would have withdrawn even more into himself. Abhir is not ready to open up yet and confided his feelings to Abhimanyu, he also understood that Abhir has low spirits so he wanted to cheer him up by talking about his weekend with his parents because he knows that he misses Abhinav and Akshara. I agree that Abhimanyu should pay more attention to everything around Abhir, and pay full attention to Abhir’s feeling, because currently Abhir is going through a difficult time and he needs to know that he can count on him in the Birla house
In other words, the adults attacked Abhir with accusations and demands and Manyu wasn’t trusting Abhir either after the cream was found on his shirt.
That was not a good atmosphere for any kid. Manyu didn’t do anything praiseworthy. He should have subdued everyone, mobilize the situation and make Abhir comfortable but he didn’t.
When Abhir said no to apologizing, doesn’t that mean he didn’t do it even by mistake.
You cannot do something wrong knowingly and call that a mistake? Eg…I took his wallet by mistake so I am returning it now ..
“Which implies that even if he made a mistake but he does not consider his action as a mistake he should not apologize” @@yeol
A mistake is a mistake! PeriodT!!!
Doing something wrong knowingly is not a mistake! Doing wrong subconsciously n consciously is big different!
As,old people say women are gar lakshmi ,Shanti(peace) and devi maa ka roop hai.But here it is quite opposite I feel mahima,manjari parents have not given good upbringing to them(manjari,mahima) they gave more wings and freedom to mahima and removed freedom from manjari that is why the reason these sisters are poles opposite. If manjari,mahima parents have treated mahima and manjari equally then birla’s wouldn’t have been ruined. As,Mahima was studious and intelligent they gave independence to mahima and as manjari is poor in studies and intelligence so,they house arrested manjari completely.Their parents would have asked manjari and mahima what were their career choices and value their career choices would have treated them equally,gave good values and upbringing,gave good manners and also would have teached them to love each other.If the parents of manjari,mahima good things to manjari, mahima then mahima would’nt have been selfish and manjari-would’nt have been sacrificial now turned to a selfish women. So,mahima and manjari due to lack of their upbringing in their maternal house they entered in-laws birla house after marriage with birla sons harsh and Anand and started to satisfy their ego,mannerlessness and shamelessness by ruining birla house family members. Firstly ruined and spoiled Anand,Harsh next their children-Parth,Abhimanyu,Anisha,Neil,Nishta and now the 3rd generation of birla family that is Abhir,Ruhi and Shivansh.
Mahima and manjari maternal house(her parents) not only destroyed mahima and manjari’s life but also ruined birla’s life too.
I think according to upbringing part in this serial the good elders who gave nice up bringing were 1st generation Maheshwaries and Singhania’s(Sr.Akshara’s maternal and in- laws) house was best according to the upbringing of children
Exactly
Maheswaries and Singhania’s were the best in upbringing.
They did make mistakes and had problem with new generations but they changed their ideology for their children.
No singhaniyas were not that good Gayatri ji was some times behaves like Birla sisters .
@surabhi people are stupid to think they will be fine if they run away, and in shows they are made to run away cause they have no good ideas.parth should have used rubber during shivu atleast abhir would not have had any bully. Thankfully ruhi and arohi are there otherwise the kid would have been alone.
Don’t know why shivu is unnecessarily bullying abhir. This kid sure havesome pentup anger which needs to be addressed because no person with sound mind harm another person.
Even abhimanyu is also bagodi like akshara where he will run away from his relations becoz fear of of mother and her health.He doesn’t care about anyone rather than himself and his mother.And always he runs away from his relations by divorcing the people either through papers or verbal spat
You gave new thinking process to me 🤣 never thought from this view
@ABC
Manyu is a worse “bagodi” than Akshara. Instead of running from his relations, he breaks them completely.
@ABC 👌 correct!!both Akshara and Abhimanyu run away from problems
Deafmanyu knows only to scream,roar but he don’t even know the spelling of listening I guess. His lack of communication is the root cause for all troubles,he never listened to his father, akshara, Arohi,other elders, not even his own son but still wants him adapt according to his good for nothing mood swings. Precap is a proof that godfather didn’t stop his pyscho mom every time because he also wanted that. Akshu is right. This saddist can’t give good upbringing to abhir. Poor boy’s condition is very serious, Navra should immediately take measures to save the kid from this monsters.I don’t even care a damn about other useless characters which were turned negative for no reason, nothing can be expected from them too. Instead of taking rest at this age, oldies are playing games with others life.
@Msdism
I have been saying same thing all this time but no one paid attention. Manyu only heard but doesn’t listen.
No not true,@Mark I hear you🥰
@Sivk
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@Mark; @Sivk.
Unlike Abhimanyu, I heard you and listened as well.
@Meed Thank you🥰
@Meed
I can see that.”Unlike Abhimanyu”
@Mark.
😂😂😂. Unlike Abhimanyu. Well he cannot give what he doesn’t have. @Sivk drew attention to his questioning of Abhir after the cake toppled. He is full of contradictions. It’s official now that the camaraderie between Abhir and Abhimanyu is getting over. Over and out.
@Meed
Hope that it will be over and out.
Ohh .I didn’t notice. But couldn’t agree more.
Excusemanyu is full of contradictions. He fell for Akshara because she was like his mother until she started to speak back and voice her opinion against his way of handling family issues and conflicts. He thought he was going to get a docile pretty doll 😂😂 like a Barbie doll.
There are many ways to fight and most times, you don’t have to act violent or bark at others to show you are fighting. Silence, rebellion and walking away are also forms of fighting. One just needs to choose which works where.
Makers are creating a khichdi of drama but is it necessary especially when kids are involved.
Anyway, the process of Abhir hating Manjiri and Abhimanyu has started and he will hate them fiercely. While the Sharmas can explain Abhir for their actions and get him back, the mother and man child duo won’t have that privilege as they are busy fortifying their custody win forgetting that they are dealing with flesh and blood that can think, reason and form his own opinion. With Shivu, Manjiri and Foolishmanyu is actions, the makers are creating a recipe for Abhir to run away from home. He can’t stay and fight as his dada wants him to because Birla House is full of selfish, self centered, narcissistic and hypocritical people who will not give him the time of day. They are hellbent on proving the Sharmas gave poor upbringing to Abhir instead of actually giving good upbringing to Abhir.
@Rach
I agree completely. Mostly agree on, there are ways of fighting and people fight in different ways in different situations.
I also agree that, in the precap, now that Manyu failed, he did the most low thing ever, i.e. proving that Akshara is also not fit to raise Abhir. But he forgets that it’s not Akshara now, it’s Navra. I thought Manyu will never sink low but everyday he comes with a new low.
Mark – while we do have a few episodes to see the precap.. I wonder what is it that manyu wants ?.. first he said akshnav gave abhir a great upbringing and he is such good kid.. now that his behavior is getting bad..its normal for navra to raise questions and concerns..after all, it’s their kid who is gonna suffer if he turns stubborn .. instead of focusing on kid as parents.. as usual dumbmanyu became defensive of his mom and blamed akshara .. fine. You don’t want your kid to be like his mom..do you want him to turn as a psycho like your mom instead ?.. coz being in that birla house for sure will make abhir mad..also why couldn’t you say that about akshara before when she was accusing him of his anger issues..did he suddenly realize akshara had history of running?.. why did you show fake concern for navra and praise their upbringing?
And good that akshara ran away from manyu.. else abhir wouldn’t have experienced pure love of parents atleast for first part of his childhood!.. she may have faked a certificate..but atleast navra didn’t fake love the boy or subject him to toxic drama…
Manyu really is turning blacker day by day
@Rak
Agreed. Manyus remark is wrong and questionable in many aspects. And I understand Akshara’s frustrations with this kind of person. Even if she shouts and screams, it’s fine.
@ Mark
No matter what Excusemanyu supporters say that character is worse than Kaithik. I thought Kaithik was the worst male lead of YRKKH but Abhimanyu surpassed him. Kaithik loved and put his children first but Abhimanyu puts himself and his mother first before his child. He doesn’t deserve to be a father. He should have found out about Abhir after Abhir had turned 18years. Six years wasn’t a befitting punishment for what he did. He deserved more.
“There are many ways to fight and most times, you don’t have to act violent or bark at others to show you are fighting. Silence, rebellion and walking away are also forms of fighting. One just needs to choose which works where.” @Rach
Good points there!!!
@Rach.
Agreed. Abhimanyu is a man of contradictions. He has two faces and two sides. He isn’t consistent. He knows that his mother’s position is so far from that of Abhir. Yet, he doesn’t try enough to bridge the gap. When his family were asking Abhir questions, he couldn’t intervene in a way to bring comfort to Abhir and assuage Mahima and her family members. Manjiri, did more in the circumstances even though her approach wasn’t going to clarify the situation. Her belated attempt to mend ties with Mahima and Shivu for Abhir’s sake is going to cause another misunderstanding between Akshara and Abhimanyu.
He tried to control Akshara in the past but now he feels pain because she is no longer his to control. He, doesn’t have any ongoing plans for Abhir’s upbringing apart from seeing him everyday. Whereas the Sharmas and the Goenkas have lined up fun activities for the little time that they will have with Abhir. He is unable to see beyond Abhir’s and his ressemblance. Abhir is more like Akshara and Abhinav. That’s the upbringing which is almost indelible. Abhir’s prior upbringing will not be supplanted because the alternative is so bereft of life, that it is so depressing as the precap tells.
@Meed
Nav was busy trusting that Manyu will safe guard their rights of having Abhir on weekends but Nav was just signing up for more disappointments. Manyu easily forgot that Abhir was excited to go to Navra. And after his mom showed alarming behaviour he didn’t mind entrusting her with the most wanted person in the his entire world. He created this disturbance.
Now Navra will have lost an entire day with Abhir and Abhir would have been disheartened and heart broken and believed Shivus words that Navra will forget him. All this could have been avoided if he had resolved all tensions between Sharmas and Manjiri and if he hadn’t settled for weekend custody to Navra.
But at the end of the day, the damage to Abhir is already done. It’s too late for Abhir. He is already affected.
@Mark.
Yes, Abhir will undergo these depressions at an early age. This is undeniable fact that everyone including Abhimanyu’s most ardent supporters know well. Abhir is just an afterthought in the machination and puppeteering of s family of self-centred people unlike any that he has ever seen. Just like Abhinav, Abhir would be so disappointed in Abhimanyu. Akshara, as well.
Talking about intents and deliverables, Abhinav was comforting Akshara, after the phone call, that Abhimanyu will turn up good. But, but, but, a mother’s intuition isn’t there for nothing. This stand up is the mother of all disappointments. I agree that it will affect Abhir a lot. Yet, the Navras may have to involve Abhir if their ties with him is about to get jeopardised by telling him everything about the past.. Where everyone went wrong and how she got to Kasauli. So that he does think that they abandoned him, rather that Abhimanyu, using the custody case, forced him away from them.
@Meed
How will their ties be in jeopardy if soon, appeal Will start and in the meantime, Manyu will be extra careful of Abhir?
@Rr.
True. He puts in some effort to take care of Abhir. Just like his many relationships, he doesn’t remain fully invested or committed. He resolved Ruhi’s issue with Abhir. Given time, he could try. I think the answer to this lies in the kind of children. Ruhi takes after Aarohi she is a more rational type and Abhir seems to be more emotional or sentimental like Akshara and Abhinav.
As such the methods to cajole Ruhi wouldn’t necessarily work with Abhir. Whereas Abhinav’s methods were seen to have worked wonders on Abhir. The little things to get Abhir to laugh aren’t too hard. Abhimanyu doesn’t have the skill set yet.
Your point on Aarohi is credible. She didn’t defend Abhir and we don’t know why. It isn’t clear as I would agree.
@Meed Aarohi is part time parent !!Ruhi s bag packing responsibility Abhimanyu
PTM responsibility Abhimanyu
Daughters food /entertainment Dadis responsibility. As a doctor she has not even worked on her daughter border line dylexia( Ruhi reverses words) Please don’t ask Abhimanyu to take her help she’s just not emotionally in vested .Ruhi is of course far more empathetic and sensitive
@Rr.
Yes, Abhimanyu showed capacity in the past. Better than Aarohi. Abhir loves both of them. Yet, it all boils down to this fact. Abhir is not comfortable, neither is he happy at his second home. He is getting depressed and he knows where he is happy and comfortable.
Rach and Mark-
For what I think – Akshara did not RUN AWAY like manyu pointed coz she was scared…atleast not on the day of Neil death..she did not run away..she chose to walk away..
She walked away from toxic relation with birla house/ murderer blame that hit her exactly like sirat death blame / walk away from the so called great lover romantic husband who just threw her out when she just miscarried despite he being a doctor and knowing fully about physical and emotional affect…
She CHOSE to walk away coz manyu was not worth fighting for coz the moment he signed the divorce on one of lowest days of their life was equivalent to death of their relation!!…
Still- she did call him to inform about the surviving twin..but as usual his anger was better of him..she is dumb and naive but definetly not black like manyu..
How does dumbmanyu think he can decide which battles akshara should fight ??…
And currently she is fighting for her child and standing by Navra…coz obviously these relations she cares for !
@Rak so true.
@Rak
Exactly. Yet this is what Manyu is accusing Akshara for. I said, we will soon find out Manyus deeper desires and the precap says it loud and clear. He fought for custody partly for himself, partly for his mom and partly for getting back at Akshara.
Now that his failure is visible for all to see, he is running away from the spotlight and hiding behind Akshus stone age behaviour of “running away”. He is justifying his incompetency by using Akshus behaviour which she got due to circumstances, and a behaviour which is not credible enough and lost long back. As I said, circumstances makes one to choose flight instead of fight and the atmosphere surrounding Abhirs questioning today, is one of those circumstances.
I still stand firm on my believes that Akshara has never run away from problems ever. She was just fighting in her own way. And I agree that 6yrs ago Akshu didn’t run away. She walked away because there was nothing left there to fight for. He was not worth fighting for and this is his complaint. He is still hurt that Akshu walked away from him and this is why he is not letting her get away this time and is using Abhir to keep Akshu with him.
@Rak and everyone reading this, I know of a mom whose blood pressure rose when someone she left her son with, left her son alone in a house and left alerting the same to said mom. I am surprised Akshara didn’t claw this mom-son eyes out and sewn them as buttons after she trusted them with Abhir responsibility and they didn’t deliver. People are talking about screaming and shouting? How about acting crazy and drawing blood?
Hahaha….. Loving Abhir 😝 just like his mom….PISS OFF EVERYONE!!! GO SOLVE IT YOURSELF!! 😂 ….why should he have to tolerate that idiot and mannerless Shivu….n why didn’t my own “dadda” protect me from these horrible peoples accusations instead of putting blame on me (even if I am the guilty one)…. this is what he learned from his “real” parents….. That FAMILY STICK TOGETHER NO MATTER THE CONSEQUENCES…. grow up grouchy antagonists who are hating on a mothers upbringing…. y’all are either not parents as yet….or have had some faulty parenting in the past….👀
Sharmas are waay better parents than that whole corrupted Birla family combined…. Court better get their act together…. for all I see from hereon is a damned angry mom with a license to kill 😁 go Akshara !!! 🎉🔥
@Naina a.k.a. uknowho
Right. This is a license to kill. If she does, she will be forgiven by all Navra fandom.
@Mark 😝 I cannot wait for the next court date….hope these idiot writers at least show the viewers what will take place inside the court… instead of a skip to the next day episode 🙄 ….I also want to see Kairav grabbing Manyu by the collar and smacking that egoistical facial expression right off that pretty boy face 😂
Akshara’s insensitivity and Abhimanyu’s anger broke their marriage. Today, so far, her anger, his confusion, caught in the cross fire between his ex wife and mother, are jeopardising the peace and contentment of their son.
Yrkkh, has certainly created a pile of misery for Abhir and like Tagore’s tragic boy in the Holiday, he can’t share his pain to lighten his load. But unlike Tagore’s tragic hero Abhir is a fighter. The boy used to mounting sortees against clients who failed to pay for his weak and nice Papa’s work, or dodge gangs of gondas to make it his injured Docman’s hospital bedside, creates a belief in me that Abhir will pull through and then watch out Mama, Papa and Dadda.