Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai 19th May 2023 Written Episode, Written Update on TellyUpdates.com
The Episode starts with Abhi coming home and saying Maa, I m so happy. Manjiri asks what happened. He says Ruhi and Abhir were happy, they were playing with me, I will show pics, ward off their bad sight, Abhir said I m his hero, he wants to become like me, the day he calls me Papa, I will be so happy. Abhinav says I m afraid, what will I do if I lose Abhir. Akshu thinks I m also afraid, but we have to be strong. Abhi says I will do a lot for them. Manjiri says yes, give them much love and live every moment with them, go to work also, else I won’t get time with them. He says yes. Servant says this came from the lawyer’s office.
Akshu also gets an envelope. Kairav sees Muskaan. She goes. Surekha says don’t take tension, I know what you are feeling. Kairav says I will handle this situation myself. She asks him to listen. Abhinav says check what’s written. Abhi says case date has come, we have to go to court next week. Abhinav checks the hearing notice and says I have to show my love to Abhir. Akshu says its love, not any show off. He says I can’t lose him. Suwarna says Kairav, fine, you don’t love Muskaan, will you never love anyone. Kairav says please I don’t wnt to talk. She says whatever happened is the past, you have to move on, Muskaan will also live in fear. He says trust me, I had no such intention. She says please go and tell her sorry, save her from living in this fear. He sees Muskaan’s gift. Abhir is with Akshu and Abhinav. He asks why did you get me here, is there anything special. Abhinav says every day is special with you, sorry, I scolded you a lot. He hugs Abhir. Abhir says no, it was my mistake also. Abhinav says Abhir is so sensible, we will go and buy carom board. Abhir says no. Abhinav tells more options. Abhir says no, I have many clothes and doc man gave me super shoes. Abhinav sees Akshu. Abhir sees an expensive car and says its so awesome. He tells the car details. Akshu asks how do you know. He says cars are boy’s best friends, this is a wow car. Abhinav sees his car. Akshu says Dadi asked me to get some puja items, come. Abhinav says I will just come. Akshu recalls Abhir’s words. She asks why did you say, you were not talking to doc man, did anyone say anything. Abhir says Maasi said Ruhi is angry on me, so I thought to not meet doc man. She thinks I can understand her fear. She says promise me, you won’t tell this to anyone. He says but I told this to Dida. She calls Aarohi. She asks is everything fine. Ruhi takes the phone and talks to Abhir. She asks when will you come to meet me. He says very soon, I will get chocolates for you.
The man laughs and asks what, you want this car for trial, are you drunk. Abhinav says just 5 mins, please, I have a 6 year old son, its his wish, I can give you money, I have 2000rs. The man says 1 lakh, will you give it. He insults Abhinav.
Neela says I want you to meet Raghav, I convinced her with difficulty. Muskaan says as you find right. Neela goes. Kairav looks on. Muskaan packs her bag. She sees him and takes the gift from his hand. He says I m sorry. She says sorry, I don’t know how I believed that you can like a girl like me, everything got clear, I will do the packing. Kairav thinks why are you meeting Raghav when things got clear, that man isn’t right. Akshu asks the matter. Abhinav says Abhir, I will take you to the world’s fastest ride. He takes Abhir on his shoulders. He runs. Abhir laughs. Akshu asks them to be careful. Abhinav and Abhir fall down. Akshu shouts Abhir. Abhir and Akshu say you got hurt. Akshu says your love is enough for Abhir, stop competing with Abhi, we have to take you to doctor. They leave in the car. Mahima looks on and says he knows about Abhir’s operation, how can he get careless, I thought Abhinav is sorted. Neela says we will go to meet them for alliance. Manish says we don’t have to interfere in this.
Kairav says you can slap me if you want, you are going to make a mistake, that guy isn’t right for Muskaan. Akshu, Abhinav and Abhir come home. Manjiri asks what are you saying. Mahima says we have a relation, a sister will support another one, I will support you in Abhir’s custody, but you have to support me for Parth. Manjiri looks on. Everyone worries for Abhinav. Abhinav says I m fine. Muskaan takes Abhir with her. Manish asks what happened, tell me. Kairav asks is anything serious. Akshu says he had shopping bags in hand, he didn’t see the big stone and fell down. Kairav thinks they are hiding something. Akshu thinks how shall I tell them that Abhinav is scared of losing Abhir. She prays to Kanha ji.
Precap:
Abhinav and Abhir fall down. Akshu shouts. Abhi says my son isn’t safe with you, I will cross all limits to get his custody. Akshu says Abhi said his decision, I will do anything and win this fight.
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#Abhira is a good couple when it comes to Fights, Drama, Damage.
And so i now understand why it’s ITV best jodi chosen because they cannot relate much with their real life.
They never want masala in their life but will love to watch masala in other’s life.
@Any.
Well said easy to digest and no need to elaborate. People should look more to the real world and leave the fancy things alone. Life is real and not overly dramatic. Why returning to the family theme of this serial is working. Instead of couple fights and imbalances in relationships.
Before coming to udaipur abhinav looked like the best father,best husband and best person but now his character is being degraded day by day and he looks like most stupid father and loser husband (m not criticizing him but makers who wants to prove if a person is simple that means he will not be able to fight with circumstances well but will end up messing everything).I mean which kid doesn’t demand bigger than his father earn but that doesn’t mean we’ve to give him that,they even ask for helicopter so will you give them??? Abhinav’s concern is valid bcoz abhimanyu can give everything to abhir but he must trust his 6 yrs. Love which is much valuable to abhir and he will never ready to leave abhinav for any amount or gift.Though I want even abhimanyu to enjoy abhir’s love but I feel they must co-parent but among these three only abhinav was the sensible one but his insecurity isn’t let him think anything and the reasons are abhimanyu’s stupid anger akshu’s idiotic fear.
Abhinav is behaving strange with kairav even when he isn’t at mistake but fault was of muskaan.
Now a days, the way this show presenting Abhinav is totally wrong, writers must keep his innocence, clear and clean character. No insecure, no competition with Abhimanyu no low confidence towards Abhir. He’s just kid.
Writers must think that, how Abhir a 6 year old kid knows the configuration of a vehicle, (HP, RPM, SPEED etc. It’sjust joke?).
Seriously.. yesterday he read the word custody with so difficult but today he is describing car features. Even i don’t know such things. Kid may like cars but understanding all those i don’t think it’s normal🤔
Akshu is such a hypocrite.. During short circuit abhimanyu saved abhir still she hold his collar and bashed at him.. But today didnt say a word to her bhagwan pati infact wants to hide it.. Yei abhimanyu se hua hota to aisa guilt trip karti k banda 10 din trauma me rehta..
Nd whats this that abhinav getting insulted almost everyday.. Like sometimes by akshu sometimes by surekha thn by his boss thn again today.. What makers want to show that he is the biggest bechara on earth.. For God sake give him some spines.. His character is like some loser who can be insulted by anyone anytime.. There are many people who are middle class so whats the big deal.. He wants to fulfill abhir’s every demand that abhimanyu can is seriously illogical.. When akshu makes some stupid decision like not going back to udaipur, making him her son’s papa, hiding abhir’s identity, taking abhir to US, etc that time abhinav behaves like a donkey to agree with her unwillingly but now when akshu is behaving like a sensible person he is not ready to listen and continuing his nonsense
Akshu is a hypocrite.. During short circuit abhir was safe still she bashed abhimanyu badly but today didnt say a word to her bhagwan pati.. Yei abhimanyu karta to dho dalti usko..
And wat type of person is abhinav.. Every other episode someone insults him.. Does he love getting insulted? Plzzz give him some spines instead of showing him as the most bechara person on earth
@Surabhi I agree that Akshara is a hypocrite, She is ready to hide Arohi and Abhinav’s mistakes and she sympathizes with them but when it’s Abhimanyu, Akshara will definitely create a scene and blame him for being filled of bad intention
It’s not hypocrite, it’s downright straightforward!!
@@yeol.
Why I like your statement about Akshara is that is cuts both ways. She has moved mountains for Abhimanyu in the past so doing this for her second husband is child’s play. She accuses Abhimanyu to no end and Abhimanyu does her the same. See what I mean? They have this nice balancing act I don’t know yet if that is another device by the writers and the producers.
Exactly!@Francis
Aksharas position as Abhirs mom is not up for grabs but same cannot be said for Abhirs dad position. Navs fear, insecurity and not dizziness, made him fall with Abhir. If he was not thinking of proving anything to anyone, he would have ceased the ride at first sign of fatigue. I hope this incident has knocked not only his hand but also his senses. Nav has to realize he used to love Abhir as his son only but now he can love Abhir as Abhis son too. He should give what he has but not what he doesnt have.
Manyu made a mountain out of a molehill. He let this small victory get to his head to the point of abusing the capability of parents just because Abhir has option B. Him. His head must have expanded to touch the skies huh. Instead of working with Sharmas to see what the problem is on their end, he chose to heed his moms teachings of snatching a child from its parents? Just because of an accident that was useful to bring back Navs senses (I hope his senses are back or else Abhir went through the ordeal for nothing). Oh Aru curses, may you do your magic.
I dont understand Neelamma logic. Why go back to pursue Raghav? After repeatedly been warned, she went back to that mannerless? Parents!😟 so she is punishing Mus? I dont know how arranged marriages work, but i know if you were given the luxury of catching a bad trait of the prospective groom, you dont go to fix the marriage anyway.
@Mark.
True. The title of father is there for the taking and Akshara will help Abhinav until the end. His fears have overtaken him and I see from this the empathy that Akshara has for him. In this way they are very similar. He will stumble more times before the this battle ends. That’s for sure. He has to figure this out because losing Abhir will be too much to bear for him.
This is where Abhimanyu bond with his mother is much closer than that he has with Akshara. He assumed his mother’s position and explanation of what happened and acted on that. This is why getting back together isn’t possible for now because his key positions during critical situations are just like seven years ago.
You know that Muskaan had made a massive blunder so the next available proposal is attractive for her family. She looks defeated and hopeless at the moment. Her reputation is on the line and this matter has to be fixed soon.
But @Francis, why Raghav. When fate has given Neelam an advantage, she went ahead and threw it in the trash? Unacceptable and foolish for nothing. What is a character when someones life is on the line?
You are right, Manyu is still heading his moms sayings just like the old times and this is the gap of Akshus position to Manyu. Reunion is a bad idea forever. If anything happens to Nav in future, let Akshu be a single mom.
I hope this be the last time Nav stumbles. Literally and figuratively.
Yes agreed, the anger is overriding her sensibility. Later she will get over it. The entire family is angry with Kairav for the misunderstanding. They will soon see he had no bad intentions towards Muskaan.
Yeah that one I hope he doesn’t, he mustn’t fall literally and figuratively because he will be out of Akshara’s life and Abhir’s life as well. The writers will keep bringing the two old lovers in the same frame for as much as possible. Until they find a way to the ‘R’ word.
Makers have lost their mind i don’t even read complete update just scroll down read precap and comments then ok not worth watching 😂😂😂 even on hotstar they show summary so reading that no not worth wasting my data downloading 😂😂😂🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
They have too many plots
Exactly. I too lost my interest just read comments bcz there are soo many ideas that can be useful as life lessons. And i don’t know why now a days i just skip any of abhira scenes posted in any social media. Earlier even though i had no interest had no issue either with abhira scenes but now i just skip😏😏
Abhimanyu saying that his child is not safe with Akshara and Abhinav did he forgot about the short circuit incident …?? And people comparing a short circuit incident to a falling …like ….it’s like comparing going inside the burning building and a splinter that happens when you play with lighter …aur Abhir ko saans lene mein takleef ..?? Jab Abhi ne same Kiya tha Tab usey koi pareshani nahi …wah what a logic ..
Agree @Shilajit
Mahima is a doctor and she witnessed Abhinav’s irresponsible behavior, this little accident could have turned into a nightmare if Abhir had been injured Abhir’s immune system and weakened by the disease and a small cut can quickly become infected if it is not not noticed and care. Whatever one might say, Abhinav was irresponsible and yet Akshara did not blame him, whereas in this situation it was necessary to blame, to bring him to his senses instead of sympathizing with his insecurities. Akshara made her son promise not to say anything to hide Arohi’s intentions, and Akshara is ready to lie to hide Abhinav’s negligence but when it is Abhimanyu Akshara will cry wolf. Akshara can understand everyone even those who make mistakes but not Abhimanyu right? Abhinav’s character goes exactly where I predicted he would go, his kindness and often portrayed as naivety and sometimes even stupidity, his nature too willing to want to do too much like the old Akshara, will end up creating disasters. From the beginning Abhinav was badly built, being poor does not mean not having ambition or self-confidence, not wanting to rise socially or even looking for a better way to have a stable income. Abhinav has always been too portrayed as a person without desire and above all very insecure about himself and unfortunately it is his character trait, each time he has obstacles Abhinav will start to denigrate himself and lack confidence in himself and he will feel insecurities, and this insecurities will push him as always to commit stupid or dangerous acts. First time Abhinav wanted to leave Akshara and Abhir, second time he did anything and everything next time what will it be? Abhinav can’t stand the pressure and he doesn’t know how to manage it I believe that one day he will end up putting Abhir in danger. Abhinav’s insecurities will eventually push him to do the irreparable one day. he might pull himself together, but it’s in his nature to be too insecure, he’ll end up doing stupid things again
@yeol A cut can lead to infection such a sensitive situation then during the camp also Abhir could have been Hurt then Why Abhimanyu allowed and Akshara and Abhinav took it …Because it’s a camp …People are bound to get bruises …
@Shilajit you saw how much Abhimanyu was concerned about Abhir during the camp, although some only noted and noticed that his negligence towards Ruhi, Abhimanyu and doctor he knew that Abhinav and Akshara was just like him very sensitive to the Abhir’s health, he knew that Abhinav and Akshara would not take any risk with Abhir. and when Abhimanyu was at the camp he was very alert to any small injury concerning Abhir. But today Abhinav took unnecessary risks as he was aware of his health condition, Abhinav was aware of his overwork at work.
So well articulated Yeol!
Can someone explain why abhinav is a little weird around kairav as far as i can recall he just let muskan know that he doesn’t like her that too without insulting her neither did he lead her on purpose.
@Urmi.
Yes he feels awkward because Muskaan is his rakhi sister, Kairav has to clear the air with Akshara, Abhinav and Neela Aama. He shouldn’t resort to solving it with Muskaan alone because at this time her emotions are fragile. Not a fault of hers. He has to step in and resolve this with Abhinav.
Kairav made his feelings clear but the vehicle was so damning for Muskaan who must have felt like the biggest fool in Udaipur. Abhinav seems upset over this and he rarely gets upset, except over his family.
@yeol bhagwan pati nd pyaari behna can never be wrong.. Only abhimanyu monster will be wrong and will be bashed badly..
Everyone hated virat for making pakhi vinu’s mother.. But blind bhakts of akshu always justifying akshu hiding about abhir nd making abhinav his father..let me clear I am not comparing akshnav with pakhrat cringe.. I am just comparing the suitation.. Abhinav uncle ban ke bhi abhir ka khayal rakh sakta tha.. Aise hi kisi ka papa ban jayga to yeiii hoga.. Real father will obviously claim his rights..
I enjoyed the synergy between Akshara-Abhinav. They have almost similar reasoning. At the end Akshnav may settle for joint custody because Abhimanyu is fighting ferociously and for them losing Abhir isn’t an option. So settling down for something respectful and considerate to both parties is the logical thing to do. They haven’t lost yet. I liked how Akshara supported her husband in the circumstances. The man is under pressure and he was trying to make it up to Abhir with all his heart. He was a little to eager and missed a step.
Akshara saw that and she was right to not judge him on one act of carelessness. She has known him for a long time unlike Mahima.
Mahima made up with her sister/ sister-in-law Manjiri using Akshara and Abhinav as scapegoats for the fall. Now Mahima isn’t likely to sabotage Manjiri in this case because Manjiri will in future betray Shefali who wouldn’t realise when she changed sides. They will work hand in hand to gather all the heirs if possible, to the Birla house. No more hypocrisy no more talks about morality and what have you. These power brokers are deciding the fate of their family. So scary. Abhimanyu only heard the conversation in bits and pieces but, but, but, he leaped into action like a rampant lion, no checking all the facts leading to the clash with Akshara. Such a loop. The events tie in nicely.
Muskaan is so ashamed and distraught and heartbroken and sad. So much is on her mind and she has misunderstood Kairav and feels estranged from him and his family. Kairav is feeling bad because he didn’t read the note nor did he see the give which would have prevented this situation. I hope Kairav leaves his fears and tries to embrace the love of Mountain Girl.
Woah :O
I don’t understand why this keyboard changes the words that I use after putting full stop. This updated keyboard isn’t quite Grammarly or Microsoft Editor and yet it tries to.
@Francis
This is really GatheringGrandchildren Project by Birlas. My interest is what they will decide to do with their mothers.
Great review!
@Mark.
LOL. After gathering the children, the mothers are eventually sidelined and obscured from their lives, like Shefali and Akshara. The sons are rewarded by the custody of the grandsons. These sisters have some devious plans here.
@Happy.
Thanks a lot.
💯💯💯
@yeol I am sorry I didn’t see a scene where he was alert in the camp …Maybe my apologies but doesn’t change the fact that he could have been hurt in the camp as well …Abhimanyu will never hurt Abhir knowingly..(Birla Hospital )incident) and Akshara and Abhinav will also not knowingly hurt Abhir (Today’s incident ) …They have been together for six years situations like these have arised …I am sure he also have bruises like these …from.before as well while playing …but the fire incident at the hospital was not a regular occurrence ….remember Abhir was bullied by Golu in the kasauli scenes ..and if you are saying that now the situation is sensitive they should be extra careful yess they are extra careful …but people make mistakes sometimes ..so accusing Abhinav and deeming them irresponsible by Abhimanyu is a totally foolish act …
Yes it was a foolish act on abhimanyu’s part just how foolish it was on akshara’s part when she held abhimanyu’s collar but people be defending that as maa ki mamata thats what really doesn’t go down well with me. Akshara’s fans supported her back then n now blasting abhimanyu whereas abhimanyu’s fans supported him back then n now blasting akshnav. Idk why some fans have to be so hypocritical.
@Urmi there is a difference between a bruise and getting stuck in the fire for whatever reason …I don’t know why is it so hard to understand..on that day also Abhimanyu was not at fault …but he must also remember that even they are also not on fault this time ..
Agree wholeheartedly
@Shilajit, during his six years Abhir was not in a post-operative situation, during his six years, Abhir did not feel bad with each excessive physical activity. Abhimanyu gave permission for the camp as he thought Akshara and Abhinav like him would be very careful of Abhir and Akshara didn’t really intend to listen to Abhimanyu’s decisions. The hospital accident even though it was caused due to poor maintenance of Parth, Abhimanyu saved Abhir and he vouched for Abhir’s safety, yet despite the risk Abhimanyu avoided for Abhir , Akshara let off steam on him whether at the camp or at the hospital.
Abhinav was irresponsible he was aware of his overwork but still took a risk we can not excuse his gesture because similar small accidents have already happened in the past, in the past Abhir was not so sick. When Abhimanyu makes a mistake she is scrutinized by everyone and her behavior and harshly judged with no excuse so I do the same. Abhinav maybe meant no harm for Abhir just like Abhimanyu meant no harm Abhir in the hospital, but Abhinav was aware of his physical condition but because he is so eager to prove that he is better than Abhimanyu that he neglected his physical condition and took a risk with Abhir. And Akshara’s behavior is praised for understanding it but how long Akshara will go on non-stop reassured Abhinav even if he makes mistakes. Abhinav has a low self-esteem that constantly needs reassurance and his nature, which pushes him to constantly belittle himself in times of trouble, gradually becomes toxic.
Did Abhinav did it on purpose?? Ofc he is sure he can managed or else oo you think he will risk his son’s health? No one can predict what will happen next moment!
@yeol first of all he does not want to lose Abhir …not competing with Abhimanyu he just wants to provide everything to Abhir that Abhimanyu could have …given him…secondly no Toxicity and Abhimanyu are match words but not Abhinav …now reading your point ….Aarohi was also previously injured in Birla hospital why was not The machines checked then ….?? Why Abhimanyu the doctor trusted his machines again for the operation of Abhir …if we go on calculating many questions like this will arise …and regarding today no he had no idea he would be unwell …watch the episode when he picked up Abhir and ran he was being okay after some time of running he fell …due to dizziness …
@Shilajit, it is an observation that the nature of Abhinav is very unconfident and very unsure of himself and enormously put forward and I do not think it is for good reasons, because he continues and multiplies the blunders and even if he pulls himself together his nature will come back at a gallop and he will start to feel sorry for himself again and make mistakes. Secondly concerning the hospital there was already an investigation after the accident of Arohi and he asked that the machines be replaced and that the investigation be more thorough to quickly find the culprit, But Parth neglected his job again and Mahima covered for him and hid his misdeed so he wouldn’t be caught, which caused a second crash. and I would not change my opinion Goenka and Akshara had noticed Abhinav’s overwork and advised him to take care of himself, Abhinav was aware of his overwork at work he knows his body and during the previous episodes we clearly saw how exhausted and stressed he was, but Abhinav didnt listen to his body and took a risk with Abhir. Akshara told Abhinav to stop wanting to compete with Abhi as she is aware that Abhinav is taking risks with himself and now with Abhir as he wants to prove that he can do as much as Abhimanyu for Abhir.
Exactly!
@Shilajit
People calling Akshara ki harwaqt pati pati karti rehti hain …toh aur kya ummed harti ho …Apne ex ka jaap kerti rahe … Disloyal Bane …?? They are husband and wife …
@Shilajit
I agree with you. Manyu now is a stranger and his behaviour or attitude now is not known to Akshara. He may be battling with serious mental issues or something and Akshu is not bound to investigate or know or something. So hospital incident is okay for me as Manyu is a stranger then and no one will be lenient to a person they dont know. They be lenient to a person they know daily as at this time Akshu knows what caused the incident and knows it needs sympahy or empathy.
But as for Manyu, Akshu doesnt know Manyus intentions or his circumstances so how she will sympathize or empathize?. So as a mom she sees a doctor being careless. But with Nav, she sees ABIR’S FATHER did a careless act. Two different things.
@Mark I completely agree that Akshara sees Abhimanyu as an outsider 6 years is a long time humans change in the meantime. But after she herself advised Abhinav to take care of his health but Abhinav still didn’t listen and almost put Abhir in danger, Abhinav deserved a good scolding to get his act together, it wasn’t no time to think as a friend or partner of Abhinav but it was a time for her to speak as a mother whose child is seriously ill to prevent Abhinav from doing it again. But sympathizing with Abhinav is comforting him that it wasn’t so bad, and maybe Abhinav still hasn’t come to his senses (asking a stranger to lend him his car was so stupid). In the current situation Akshara needs to know clearly that Abhinav understood his mistake instead of getting stressed thinking that Abhinav’s fear might cause him to be even more reckless towards himself and Abhir. Even parents can argue about the education of a child or even about the mistake that could have been serious on the other to avoid repeating the same mistakes.
@Yeol
Its good that you got my meaning. I have also got to remind you the chain of events after Nav fell.
Akshu called out to Abhir only not Nav. She dived right in to scold Nav and check Abhir. She almost spilled the beans that Nav is competing with Manyu for Abhir father position. Then Abhir noticed Navs injury and that is when Akshu ceased the scolding and deed the needed of taking him to hospital. Then at home, she thought no need to pressurize the rest as she will work on it with Nav later. Remember she did the same after hospital incident.
NB: if you see someone is hurt too in the process, do you put salt on it or give him the help he needs first and deal with the primary problem at hand? Please answer this if you have time. Briefly if you may.
@Mark, true, you recontextualized the events well, indeed Abhinav’s injury was more important as Akshara after checking Abhir she found that Abhir was out of danger, but tomorrow I hope to see Akshara give Abhinav a good reprimand for his thoughts and actions are adrift.
@Yeol
I wanted to hear you say it. Well, more like write it down. I want to say that Akshu was wrong to scold first. Remember Akshu knows Nav daily as he stays with her, he is Abhirs father, he is her husband, the chain of events that led to Nav carrying Abhir, she saw. So Akshu was wrong to scold first. But i will excuse her behaviour of scolding first as a she is a mom and the incident must have messed up her thinking process. What she was supposed to do was first look if both are injured. If both are fine, scold Nav to death. But if Nav or Abhir or both are not fine, take care of their injury first and later give the culprit an earful, offer punishment, listen out for a sorry e.t.c. this is proper decorum. But as i said, Akshu slip is understandable as she did not see the injury fast enough.
You must wonder where i am headed to right. Or you must have guessed it. 6yrs ago, Akshu was hurt mentally, physically, emotionally. It was written all over her face. But Birlas didnt see it. Forget Birlas, the one who used to boast his love for Akshu, didnt see it. Instead, they rubbed in salt to her wounds. But i dont blame them. Their pyari Neil was killed brutally by Akshu right.
But Akshu was also hurt in the process. Why rub it in? So forgive me for accepting or excusing any feeling or thought that must have fueled her decisions from then on. Akshu said she held no malice when she decided to hide Abhir but I wanted her to have done it with a purpose of vengence, malice, hatred. But then again, Akshu is not me. And Akshu is a character.
Good point! @Mark
@Mark..👌👌👌👌👌👌👌
Right @Mark
Another thing, Akshu held his collar and said what if something would have happened to my son e.t.c. Abhi should blame Sharmas but not brand them as irresponsible parents. It is less excrutiating to be called a careless doctor than careless parent as it sums alot.
@Mark, I accept your point of view because yes Akshara was indeed injured by Abhimanyu, but Akshara with his behavior at the time did not look at the wounds she had inflicted on Birla and continued to pour salt on their wounds. Akshara had a miscarriage but she returned home because physically she was fine, it was mentally that she was not well because despite everything a miscarriage from experience I know it’s hard. But the death of a person a brother a father a child is even harder and Akshara did not think of them and continued to pour oil into the fire. I can accept that she too suffered and did what she thought was right for her even though I don’t approve of any choices she may have made. Akshara doesn’t think as stupidly as she used to, but she’s become too inflexible on some things that don’t have to be. And this inflexible has complicated a lot of things, but in the current situation she has a duty now that the situation has gone so far to fight with all her might just like Abhimanyu. @Mark, It might be time for you to admit that Akshara was really irresponsible at the time and a lot of his choices were really dangerous and stupid, Akshara never took the time to really think things through before acting, which led to several fiascos, because I freely admit that Abhimanyu also did a lot of bad things, as did his Birla family.
@yeol
The salt she used was showing her face to them and saying she doesnt want to go to her room. This is the only salt i know of. Other salts were added by other people.
I can see so much efforts on your side to decrease the amount of hurt.i.e. physical pain. We can never know her physical state.
Akshu did a mistake i agree. No one is perfect. And Birlas killed her for it also agree. I DONT blame either. But the moment Akshu decided to call Manyu to inform about his kid, means she was thinking about their pain and didnt hold it against them. This cleared Akshus slate. At this time both sides were vulnerable and anything said was going to be taken out of context. Now Manyus words were understood as such, and this put in motion many things. This is where i I dont blame Akshu for her decisions hence forth. I excuse them and accept them the way she frames them. Even now i wish she fights to the death and use all tricks possible to get Abhirs custody. You know why? 1. Because she doesnt owe them anything. Only the prospect of Abhirs need to get to know his real dad may have phased me, if I was on Akshus place.
2. Because she reconstructed her life anew. She began afresh and it started when she got the help she needed from Nav. As @Francis put it, she treated her past as fait accompli. She closed that chapter, put a key on it and threw the key at the bottom of the ocean. She did not have any intention whatsover to go look for the key. She did not want anything to do with them and so anything they did was not her business. Infact, they interrupted her life with their knowledge of the truth about Abhir, with custody cases, e.t.c. and she needs to blame them for it. Why are they interfering in her life? If they want Abhir then they should take him and see whether he will be okay with it. They are interfering in her life as without Akshus help, Abhir will never listen about having a bio dad even if they show him DNA tests. And the fact that Abhir doesnt know anything about reading, let alone read a DNA report, they will need a vocal admission from Akshu to confirm what they say. I call this interfering Akshus life.
Anyways, point 2 is all me. What i would have done and felt if i was Akshu. But what Akshu does is up to the makers. I know i am hurtless.
So agree with you!
Think how a person will feel when a dear person of him dies right infront of him and on top of that everyome blame him for the persons death. To whom he will tell his pain then how can he get rid of that fear? Yes the others had a lost but think when no one is helping you even with a word and instead accuse you how can that person move on with that fear? That person will feel the loneliness even though every dear ones are around him.
The worst thing is that Akshu watched it happen. It must have devastated her. Makers dont need to spell it out to me that it troubled Akshu greatly. And when Akshu said Neils condition caused her miscarriage, some people here said its not true. They said her miscarriage happened due to the disturbance the rescue caused. But all this is in the past.
What i am concerned over, is why Manjiri and Manyu act entittled to Abhir? If they want him, why not take him and see if they will not turn to Akshu for help to introduce them and unite them. They went head first grabbing Abhirs attention before solving their hatred first and asking Akshu why she hid Abhirs truth in the first place.
@Mark how could I not understand the pain of one miscarriage when I’ve had two. Akshara was not yet in the first stage of pregnancy so I can confidently state that after the miscarriage the physical pain was almost non-existent. Akshara called not because she cared about them or their pain, Akshara wanted to tell Abhimanyu her husband so that he would calm his anger on her and come and get her. If Akshara really understood Birla and Abhimanyu’s pain she would really try to call Abhimanyu or go to him in person to tell him, Akshara was in her own pain and never considered the one she inflicted on the other. all the hatred Manjiria has for Akshara because of Niel, Akshara does the same as Manjiri with Abhimanyu because of his divorce as both of them can only see the injustices they have suffered. No one interrupted Akshara’s life, Akshara turned everyone’s life upside down by keeping Abhir away from his father, the truth about Abhir could not be hidden forever and the fact that Abhimanyu wants his son in his life and his right in as parents. How to consider a quiet solution when Abhimanyu himself is not the one who first evoked the court it is Akshara then his brothers Kairav aggravated the situation. Akshara didn’t want to listen and give Abhimanyu a chance to be a part of Abhir’s life how then can Abhimanyu and Manjiri be considered responsible for the current situation it was inevitably because of Akshara and Manjiri. And when I talk about her irresponsible decisions I’m not just talking about Niel and Abhir but all of her choices and many are irresponsible and she deserves to be blamed at times. Akshara closed the key to her problems, her mistakes and her hurts without facing everything that was wrong to either face her pain or face her mistakes. In Akshara’s situation she only considered her own pain and that encouraged all her choices and Abhimanyu in her own pain made bad choices, Akshara did not consider the pain of Abhimanyu and his family, and Abhimanyu’s family lived a tragic loss greater than Akshara’s, they were completely legitimate while Akshara was at the heart of the matter for not considering her pain. Abhimanyu forgave and apologized to Akshara, but Manjiri and Akshara still live in the past that’s why both of them don’t forgive, but Abhir is another point of contention.
@Yeol
Most of what you are getting at is in the past. But i am currently wondering why Manyu and Manjiri is acting entittled to Abhir rights without following proper procedures.
@Yeol I am reading the dynamic between Akshara and Abhimanyu in your last comment in this thread pretty much the same as you.
@Rai
In your own words, please talk about this dynamics between Ak and Manyu.
@Mark, I do say I see the dynamic very much as @Yeol. Too much time, too long to say who did what to who, when and why. Happy, though, to answer a specific point.
As someone has been putting it, why dwell on the past? Nothing good will come out of it, never help to make the situation better but??? Look at the present moment! We solve whatever is in the present, past is past, period!
Arohi had the look of contentment seeing Ruhi Chooi happily chat with her Bila boy, cousin Abhir. Could she finally come on side as Abhimanyu’s ally in the custody battle with the Sharmas? Yes, Abhimanyu has money and status on his side, but as a single father he lacks a mother figure to offer Abhir. There is Dadi Manjiri, but her age puts a question mark over her longevity in the role. Akshara, having trained in the law, could ease Abhinav panic by listing their advantages: they come as a nice neat Mummy, Daddy package; there is the advantage of an established six year old parental bond with Abhir, putting aside the unfairness in how that gain was achieved. Abhimanyu is little more than a hero-doctor-Uncle for Abhir with a relationship mounting up to a few months. Yes Akshara violated the law by registering Abhinav and not the biological parent Abhimanyu as Abhir’s father. And yes, when thinking about what is in the best interest of the child financial capacity matters. But one cannot under estimate the power of already established familial bonds and poor Abhimanyu has yet to be declared as Abhir’s father let alone show a history of a father son relationship.
@Rai.
I really enjoyed your authoritative and factual analysis of the episode. By breaking it down to the main arguments on each side you have anticipated the court case and potential arguments in a clear and concise manner.
I await the counterarguments and the court proceedings with angst as I realise that the trio love Abhir to nuts and losing isn’t an option for any.
@Rai, as I said before Abhimanyu needs time to ingrain his presence in Abhir’s life. relationships are strengthened over time an advantage Abhinav and Akshara have had at their disposal for six years, Abhimanyu can win Abhir’s heart and can even be accepted by him as a father as he is still a child. Abhir likes Abhimanyu but accepting him as a father right away is impossible, there are relationships that grow over time like family relationships, a friend of the family can become like a second father for some children. And Abhir already considers Abhimanyu as a member of his family because he has a connection with his cousin Ruhi and his aunt, it will not be difficult with time for Abhir to see Abhimanyu as a second father, if Abhimanyu continues to give him love and give him time. The problem will be Abhir’s separation from his mother and father, if Abhimanyu gets full custody, Abhir can never accept Abhimanyu as he might see Abhimanyu as the person who broke his family.
@Francis, thank you. Prompted by your comment on a joint custody outcome. I hope that is the case. I can also see Akshara and Ahbinav get full custody with Abhimanyu granted visitation rights and required to make maintenance payment for Abhir’s education and quality of life aspects. Plus when films show a character in great celebration and jubilations, as Abhimanyu was over Abhir’s compliment that he wants to grow to be like him, they are usually heading for a fall. While the man in dread and misery, as Abhinav is over losing Abhir, comes out the victor.
@Rai
Good one. Its true. Films are like that. But also, Abhi is jubilant now, he can also be awarded his custody which puts Nav at a dispair and finally dispair kills him, then Abhi tells Akshu to come back to him and she goes like the obidient FL she is. Rest is history. This is also possible.
@Yeol in full agreement with all your points. Full custody to Abhimanyu would be the worst outcome, as you correctly note Abhir would resent Abhimanyu for taking him away from his parents. Sad for Abhimanyu given how this sorry situation arose.
@Rai.
You’re welcome. I really like that where no one loses. I hope too that this is the outcome. However I feel shivers now knowing that the direction of the fight is too ultra competitive and personal for reason to prevail. The lucky winner. That’s a device used by writers to resolve the conflicts in a story. I would still prefer a joint custody to a court resolved outcome.
Whatever the outcome, Abhir is still very much attached to his parents n Kasuali, when he is not happy he thinks of going back to Kasauli, even Goenkas n Abhi was not in his mind!