Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai 1st October 2021 Written Episode, Written Update on TellyUpdates.com
The Episode starts with Sirat saying I m not in practice, I can’t go, there is no time. Kartik says I think my wife has changed, you fought the world and became a national champion, you have everyone’s support with you, please start your training, we will see everything later, participate. She asks what’s the use. He asks what was the use of boxing and dreams. She says my priority is you and kids, I can’t go for boxing. He says I can’t go to office then, you all are my priority, we have to see kids’ responsibility together, sign on it. She says no, I don’t want to sign, sit with the kids, I will help Kairav in school project and come. She goes.
Kartik feeds Akshu and talks to her. He says my daughters can be someone’s dream, but not a reason that someone’s dream isn’t fulfilled, you both are the world’s best girls, you want the same, right, that your mum wins the trophy and brings it home. Akshu says yes. He smiles and says our dream will get fulfilled, I will make sure that she doesn’t forget it, promise me, you both will become good girls when Sirat goes for practice. Kairav says colour got spilled, oh no, teacher will fail me, I have to make project again. Sirat says we have to keep trying, don’t lose courage, we won’t lose. She asks him to add yellow colour in red colour, it will become orange, they will make a sunset. He says wow, I didn’t think of this, I will fix this. She says problem can be big, we have to make our courage bigger. He nods. He goes. Kartik comes. He says I have an alternate career for you, motivational speaker, it will be good if you imply to yourself like you tell others. Sirat says don’t force me please. He says I m doing the same which you were doing with Kairav, your decision is wrong, you think we all can’t handle two kids, don’t worry, fulfill your and Maudi’s dream. She says Maudi’s dream wanted me to see as a national champion, it completed. He says she wants to see your good career, sign this form, go for training, please.
Dadi comes and asks what are you making her do. She takes the form. Kartik says I want Sirat to participate in the Asian championship, I will handle the kids. Dadi, Surekha and Manish argue with Kartik. Manish says if Sirat decided that career is imp than kids, then what can we do. Kartik says its my decision, Sirat didn’t agree, she has proved that she is a good mum, Sirat is refusing because of you all, the kids aren’t a reason. Sirat says no. Kartik says Sirat is refusing to boxing today, why, I can’t see any other reason. Surekha says she has become a mum. Kartik says its not necessary that she stays with kids all the time, when Naira left, we all were scared, we thought how will we raise kids, we were with the kids, we will take care of Aarohi, why are we stopping Sirat. Akhilesh asks where is the match happening. Sirat says Panchwadi. Surekha says its far, she can go if she wants. Sirat says I won’t go, kids need me. Dadi says yes, she should not go for boxing. She argues.
Kartik asks what if you had to say this about me. Manish says you are a man, its a different thing. Kartik says this is hypocrisy, a girl isn’t allowed to go ahead, she can’t focus on career, she is tied in chains, all the titles of a good bahu and daughter are snatched from her, how will medals come this way, if Sirat doesn’t move on, then how will other women move on. Manish says like the way, your Dadi and family women are handling the women wing, don’t lecture us, Aarohi needs Sirat, we have no objection, whatever you decide. Kartik asks Sirat to fulfill her dream, and lead the girls who are learning from her, think of them and the country, just sign the form. Dadi says take it, get it signed. Kartik asks Sirat to sign. Sirat tears the form. She says I m sorry Kartik, I can’t do this now, I have to think for my kids first, I decided, I won’t leave them and go for any competition, please Kartik, end this matter here. He says ended, I m sorry, I did a big mistake, I thought I know you, I was wrong. She cries.
He says when Sheetal was boxing, you felt excited seeing the match, it was my misunderstanding, I thought you are interested in boxing, I had seen the shine in your eyes and happiness on your face when Aditi said about the championship, its all my illusion. She says I don’t know, I have to give time to my kids. She goes. Manish says its a sin to send her out of the house against her wish, don’t talk about this again. Everyone goes. Gayu asks Vansh and Kairav to come and have food. They say just 5mins. She scolds them. Kartik comes. Kairav and Vansh leave. Kartik says you did right, Gayu. She says they think everything will wait for them, when will they learn. He asks should every woman sacrifice her career after becoming a mum. She says not everyone, but mostly, our conditioning is such, the girls who go to work because they are helpless, they get sympathy, the girls who go for fulfilling their dreams, no one tolerates them.
He says you are a famous jewellery designer, didn’t you think to take the career ahead. She says I wanted to, but then I thought of the kids, same thing is happening with Sirat, a girl’s thinking changes when she becomes a mum, she sacrifices her dreams, till she realizes, it gets late. He says I don’t want this, she has lost today, girls will think a woman can’t manage kids and match together, this championship happens once in four years, I can’t wait. She says I wish Sirat realizes this. He says if she realizes this… its a great idea, there will be no problem, I accept Sirat’s wish.
Precap:
Kartik encourages Sirat. She does the practice. She calls Kairav. She thinks to go home and see if Aarohi and Akshu are fine. She comes home. She sees the fallen pram and shouts Aarohi.
Update Credit to: Amena
24 Comments
Kartik is too blo*dy headstrong 😡 for goodness sake….she is a mom….two baby girls….who does Kartik want to take care of them? Himself hahaha…..joke there Kartik….. you only had two kids to manage when Naira died….you kept roaming all over the place leaving them at home with the family….but Sirat has three now…..how on earth do you expect her to go off to work? She will still worry after the children, especially Aarohi 😡 Sirat should at least wait until they are toddlers before even thinking to go back to work….darn it Kartik arrgghh….even you said you were going to take “five months paternity leave” 🙄🤦
Here I am disapproving with your point. What Kartik wants is to let Sirat pursue her dream and whats wrong in that? Sirat is trying to fulfill her responsibility and for her responsibility of mother is at first place than her dream which is completely justified. But she is sacrificing her childhood dream of being a boxing champion. Somewhere or the other in her mind, there must be the desire to be in the ring but her motherhood is much more than. I am not saying that its wrong. She is doing a great job. But is it really expected from women to just stay back at home after giving birth to kids? And there are many people at home and its not like after going to pursue her dream again, she will forget her responsibility and stop caring her kids. Its not like that.
People say about woman empowerment and all. Kartik is doing the right thing coz he knows Sirat internally.
Don’t know why people are reprimanding him!
I am male and I am not holder of male patriarchy or conservative.
She is right . She is not asking sirat to sacrifice her dream , she is Just postponing it by few (3-4) years when childrens grew up little bit. And biologically also little children needs intense parents care , especially of mothers . And kartik wants sirat to concentrate on boxing , ok fine , but he wants to leave children on whose guidance ?? Dadi , Suwarna who themselves are housewife . If these elder woman would also have been working then under whose guidance he would have left children ?? Kyunki ek baar sirat practice pe jaati hai wo khud baccho ko chhod kar sirat ke peeche pad jata hai.
What kartik is doing is little bit immaturity. But it’s good he wants sirat to chase her dream . But till 3-4 years children needs intense parental care , love , specially that of mothers.
I completely agree that till 3-4 years of age, children must be given tender love and care but its not like that Sirat will forget her responsibility. Its will be just that she could afford to give lesser time than earlier when she joins back. Her love won’t diminish.
And we have seen in many cases that once a person leaves her work for a duration of 5yrs (at max) then it is just left out especially when she is living in a joint family. She gets acclimatize with the household situations and a point comes when she will leave her dream forever and think herself as incapable. Further with age, her mindset, body… won’t support her to do strenuous jobs so she will finally remain at home.
So in case of Sirat I think that its apt that she should join back if she really wills to do so. Its completely her ultimate decision. What Kartik is doing is- he is reminding her about her childhood passion. I agree his way is a bit immature.
I agree Sirat will not forget her responsibility and her love will not diminish . But remembering her responsibility is not enough , performing is also required.
Anyone who is mother of two small children will understand that it becomes hectic to do both official and children work. In practical life it becomes stressful. Now , in case of Naira handling kairav alone , this must have been hectic and I think she was dance teacher and was doing work from home.
And no , womens don’t forget her dream after 4-5 years after becoming mom . I have seen cases around me , when my cousin sister , bhabhis temporarily sacrificed their career for motherhood ( because handling both was becoming stressful for them ) , her children and joined back their office again , when their children grew up little.
Anyway if Sirat can manage to do boxing without reducing her time towards children , then it’s ok . But if not possible she can postpone her dream for 3-4 and can continue boxing practice at home , kartik is nice punching material 😂😂.
But frankly enough if kartik is so much concerned about career , then they should have planned children after 3-4 years.
And to be honest I don’t trust kartik at all , because once sirat will start practicing , he will start running behind Sirat , neglecting his own duty towards his children.
100 percent true first around naira whole day now around sirat. When akshu was about to be born whole day akshu akshu now aarohi aarohi
So haan….. I agree with most of y’all opinions…. but I still believe children should not be left without their mothers at that early age….remember it’s not one but two young girls😞…..and especially if they are left at home with Kartik 😂😂….no sry….some dads are great🤗……but mothers will still worry especially when they are that young…..what about br*astfeeding….or when they suddenly come down with the flu,etc….then we would sill have to take the time out from the job🙄……then when they recover a bit and we go back to work….the worry….stress….it’s a lot……. It’s also facts 🙏
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Another fact is that a working mom would miss out on those so adorable moments…like first step…. first word, etc…..you can never get these moments back 😞
So I say….lets give it some time…..be the judge for the right moment….. but don’t be pressurized into making a wrong decision….then go back to work 🙏
I understand your opinion. But its not like Sirat will be there at ring 24*7. She can balance both the things. Here what she is doing is that she is trying to forget her childhood, her most ambitious dream of being a boxing champion. Kartik is trying to make her realize her dream and I think that every man should do it. Further as already mentioned, its Sirat’s choice to take decision. Assume if she decides to put a full stop in her dreams, then I am sure that at somewhere in her mind once or twice she might think later on that what if she had tried to achieve her dream along with her responsibilities towards her kids! And that pain would be worst.
And its not like she will miss the adorable moments. She is not going away forever! I am just saying about balancing,…
Btw read my other comments coz I am now tired of writing the same thing again and again !!
As a Nigerian am very ashamed of ur comments,,so it wrong for husband to help his wife to pursue her career,,,I can’t believe we are from the same country,,I always keep mute on comments sometimes especially on imilie,,cos u always biased in ur comments,,, what u can’t accept as a Nigerian u will be saying it here,,,,radarada
I feel its totally immature. Have you ever seen kartik take care of any responsibilities other than running behind wife. I seriously hate kartik naira. If he wanted sirat to chase dreams child could have been planned after 3 to 4 years not immediately. And yes a child needs mother all the time atleast till 4-5 years.
I understand that a child needs mother till the age of 5 at each and every time. But who is saying that Sirat won’t look after the kids or will be completely engrossed in her work? Ok lets assume if she takes 5yrs break then she will be surrounded with various obstacles: her body and mind with age won’t support her, she will lose the flexibility to be a boxer (A boxer isn’t made in one day, it takes years. And 5 years break is a huge one. If she rejoins after 5yrs she will again have to start from scratch and at that time there might be a point when she won’t be able to cope up. Many problems arise with age)……….and thus she won’t be able to fulfill her dream.
In a general way just imagine if every women after giving birth to their children, take a break of around 5 years, what will happen? So according to you guys, a woman should take a break of 5yrs. Then it means all the woman of every profession be it a doctor, teacher, engineer……..etc…… should take a complete break of 5yrs! Today many women are in police, army, navy, IPS/IAS officers….. So according to you all they should take a break of 5yrs and just look after their kids right?
See its their personal view. Why are you all forcing it? Even today if a woman joins back after giving birth (after some months maternity leave), people start puts a tag of ‘bad mother’ on her. But if she remains at home she is sacrificing all her dreams, ambitions which she was seeing from childhood. Her life is just a life without her own dreams.
Coming back to the show, Kartik is absolutely right but after she starts doing her work, he should partially take her responsibility of caring the kids.
And you said that he always run after his wife. Yes its a bit immature of him but still….!
Well no one is telling Sirat to completely forgot boxing , there is something called practice From home with kartik as nice punching bag ( as she always punch kartik 😂😂 ). And yes maximum of these women who are IAS , IPS , even they also take maternity leave from their office for 1-2 years or either they reduce official workload to zero . Even my mausi , who is a police inspector , have also taken a leave 3 decades back for few years , joined back and now she is at retirement age.
And now no one gives tag of bad mother to working women , note happening around me , maybe in remote areas.
And don’t take it as sacrificing dreams , whole world lives on sacrifices made by others . For example our parents , they earn with a lot of hard work and instead of purchasing their dream car they spend their money on our career. And nobody is telling sirat to sacrifice , and no body doesn’t Stop supporting after 5 years nor age become obstacles , Mithali is still batting at 38 .
Anyway whether Sirat wants to follow her dreams or to become mother is not her personal decision , because it effect her children also. Sirat needs to find a balance between motherhood and official work . If she is unable to look after kids due to boxing , then she should postpone her boxing . If she is able to look after , like many women , then she should continue.
But you know what , things are quite different maybe I am wrong here , maybe I am assuming that it becomes difficult for working women to look after small kids , my assumption can be result of my young age and maybe in future I will learn lot with experience. I apologise if I have hurted , but no way I m male misgony or ego , etc.
Coming to kartik , wo baccho ka Dhyan nahi rakh pata hai Humesa aage pichhe ghumta hai sirat ke practice pe . Children are his responsibility also.
I understand you point.
Mithali Raj is batting at 38. And its highly appreciable but she didn’t take a long break in between. What I am saying here is that generally woman who take break of around 4-5yrs, two situations are put in front of them. Either they resume their household work (at ground level this happens majorly) or resume their job (which causes lots of problems for them). Now Sirat is a sport woman. In sports practice is the most important key to get successful. If Sirat joins after 5yrs, she will face lots of issue, infact with age her body too won’t support her (completely) to do such a strenuous task of boxing. If even her body supports she has to start practicing from scratch….
I know nobody is asking to sacrifice her dreams but she is a mother who like other mothers will always put a kids at first place which is good but that doesn’t mean that she has to take such a long break and put a full stop to her childhood passion. And regarding practice from home, its not like work from home. Or if she punches Kartik(her punch bag :)) regularly she will be practicing everyday! You also must be knowing that the real practice is very different from this one. As mentioned in one of the comments that its Sirat’s personal choice to take the decision. But Kartik is not wrong in supporting and motivating Sirat to follow her passion. What he is doing is praise worthy! Many woman balance their house and work both and Sirat too can do it. It will be difficult for her to manage both but if she just sacrifices her dream then its just portraying that: girls who have a dream to become something should give a full stop after marriage/giving birth to kids. They should forget their own ambition and start looking after her house. In this way it should be like- every girl has to forget a dream after giving birth to kids……..
This highly disturbing that people want women empowerment but want a woman to take care after children. Why? Coz she is a woman?
Again coming to conclusion, Kartik may be wrong in other things like moving around Sirat only but this time he is not wrong. He is absolutely right. Don’t know why people are hating him for this
Girls should forget her dreams , ambition after marriage . What ???? Who’s telling that ?? That’s weird. And nowhere women empowerment is discussed here . That’s completely irrelevant.
People want women to take care of her children . Why ?? Coz she is a women ???.
Where ?? How ??
Hahahahah 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 this is cute.
I don’t want to start this debate of man vs women , women empowerment as this will open a Pandora box , which is very time taking.
I Quit.
Your comments are indirectly saying this. If a woman takes a break of 5yrs (after giving birth), then if she joins back it will be very hard for her. Its just easy to say but come to ground level and see. You think its a joke that people want woman to take care of kids! In few comments you only said that a kid need mother’s tender love every time.
I brought woman empowerment here coz you people write a lot about t that woman should do work after kids birth……….. but when it comes to reality (take the views on this serial), you want a mother to take care of her kids.
She is right people talk about women empowerment but do not follow it they make reels , videos , posters etc. but do not implement them in there life they don not speak truth Kartik is speaking truth here we should follow satyagrah
Hmm. Today people just speak and never implement!
Nobody is against kartik sirat. All are for kartik sirat if they talk sense. We have all seen kids they need their moms around them always.If you feel you need carrer you should be ready to take responsibilities too. Whole life goenka family has been behind kartik naira nothing else. Now again they should run behind kartik s kids
I agree with you.
But my point is just constrained to Sirat’s work after giving birth………
And regarding other Goenkas always running behind Kartik-Naira and Kartik-Sirat, its because they are the main lead. I am joking! 🙂
The plot should indeed revolve around Kartik-Surat but they should not sideline other characters. The ways they have sidelined Naksh who was a lead (in childhood), it totally unjustified.
I hope that I made my points clear
I agree with your point regarding work after marriage
Ohh god I have published 2 long long comments , this why I avoid online debate , they’re time taking .😂😂😂😂😂
@Rahul…..😂 I know right 🙃
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But………how old is Sirat? 🤔 so lets say she is in her early 20’s…..a year or two will still have her young right?….. she doesn’t necessarily have to stop boxing….just not in the way a professional would have to devote their time right? 😐 hmmm
Madam in a sports if a person takes a break even if as short as 2yrs then it will affect him/her in long run! Its easy to say that they can again start but its the sports person who knows the reality.
@Nisha….ma’am…. I am an athlete as well as a mom…..so I know what I am talking about….you just shoo on along will ya 😃