Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai 21st April 2023 Written Episode, Written Update on TellyUpdates.com
The Episode starts with Ruhi asking Abhi why did you wear sunglasses, you look handsome. Aarohi asks him to have medicine for hangover. Abhi says I just have a headache, did you see my phone. She says no. Ruhi says I will write Ruhi Abhimanyu Birla as my name on all the books. Abhi hugs her. She goes. He says sorry. Manjiri asks what happened to you, I know something is bothering you, weak people drink alcohol, you aren’t weak. He lies in her lap and thinks how to tell you I m hurt with Abhir’s leaving. She explains him about Abhir. She says you aren’t able to give attention to Ruhi, she needs you, try to understand, I know Abhir is lovely, but we should have attachment with ohers’ child within limits, we can just pray for Abhir, you have to make your heart stronger. Abhir says I m 5 year old, how will these snacks get enough for me. Manish says have it, I will make biggest kachori for you later. Suwarna says I have made sweets for you. Abhir calls them nice. Akshu asks what are you thinking. Abhinav gives the letter. She asks will we talk this way. He says Abhi wrote this for Abhir. She asks why. He asks her to read it. She reads. He says you decide you want to give this to him or not. Abhi comes to the place and finds his phone. He picks the alcohol bottle and smiles thinking of the night. He hears an voice recording in his phone. Abhir asks why are you giving me a letter. Akshu says your doc man has sent it for you. Abhi says its not clear, what did Abhinav say. Abhi recalls. Abhir says don’t look at my personal letter. He asks Akshu to read it. Akshu reads it.. your parents are taking you to US, I will always be your doc man, I will worry for you, think of me if there is any problem, I will come anywhere for you, it’s a promise, eat healthy food, not fried and spicy, I don’t like your leaving, take care. Abhir says everyone is taking care of me. Abhinav thanks her. Akshu says I m helpless to make distance with people but hearts shouldn’t get distant. Abhir says I love you doc man. Abhi recalls Abhinav’s words and cries.
Akshu says Abhir’s file in in the hospital. Abhinav says I will get it in the evening. She says no, Abhi shouldn’t get it, I will go and get it. She leaves. Abhi leaves in the car. He recalls Abhir. He reaches the hospital. He runs inside. Akshu enters the cabin and gets Abhir’s file.
She leaves. Abhi runs to his cabin. He looks for the file. Rohan comes. Abhi asks where is Abhir’s file. Rohan says Akshara Madam. Akshu stops to have some water. Abhi runs to stop her. The man says that door is closed for cleaning. He runs downstairs. Akshu’s car door gets stuck. Abhi shouts stop Akshu, look at me. She turns. He says give me the file. She says I won’t give the file, you aren’t his doctor, by what right are you asking this. He says I m his doctor and his father also. She gets shocked.
Precap:
Abhi asks who gave you a right to keep a father away from his son. Akshu says Abhinav is his father, you can never be Abhir’s dad, I won’t let this happen.
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im curious to know how abhi react in upcoming episodes they did not give single hint
Abhi will have a psychological struggle with himself and with Manjari.
Akshu will be blamed by both Goeka and Birla families for hiding the truth about Abher’s identity. A war will break out.
Arohi will put pressure on Abhi, Akshu, and will have a new plan after the truth about Abher is revealed.
Hopefully everything that happened 6 years ago is resolved once and for all so that the lives of the children will not be affected.
Arohi should get out of Birla’s house and start a new healthy life with her daughter Ruhi..
@Flower I hope for Akshara that Goenka will support her but we know that nothing should be expected from them, apart from Kairav but even him and still stuck between his two sisters. With their behavior, Goenka almost gives the impression of being Abhimanyu’s parents, but maybe this time they will show Manjiri and Abhimanyu a mirror as they know very well how they treated Akshara. Akshara will need financial and moral help but my instinct tells me that Goenka will go and apologize and try to convince Birla while Birla will be rude and insolent towards them and Akshara
I feel like Akshara’s personality will not make it easy to dialogue with Abhimanyu to find an amicable solution. Abhimanyu has every right to be upset with this news, but if he and Akshara can have a calm conversation, that would help. Akshara and too adamant about his positions because of their past, the problem is that even if he doesn’t like it Abhimanyu remains Abhir’s biological father and legally that weighs heavily in the balance. She should adopt a less aggressive strategy, instead of telling Abhimanyu that he can never be Abhir’s father, she should rather say that you have lost your rights as a father because of your own behavior, because the more she denies Abhimanyu’s paternity and doesn’t want to give him a chance to be a part of his son’s life. more Abhimanyu will react exectively if Akshara fails to be reasonable Abhimanyu could very well take this matter to court instead of getting cooperation without the need for legal intervention. I said yesterday that Abhimanyu might come to understand Abhinav’s sacrifices and be more conciliatory with him. But Abhinav will be on Akshara’s side no matter what and if Akshara insists on ousting Abhimanyu from Abhir’s life, Abhimanyu to have rights over Abhir, he will definitely take legal action and his friendship with Abhinav will end. Many people say that everything was in Abhimanyu’s hands but everything is in Akshara’s hands. Akshara had traumatic experiences because of Abhimanyu, so she clearly doesn’t want him in Abhir’s life as her own. Abhimanyu learning all about Akshara’s experiences, he will feel guilty but he will not quietly give up his rights over Abhir. I feel there will definitely be a Birla vs Goenka showdown.
@Ariya
Abhi will not give up his fatherhood Abher. But if both are stubborn because of their egos, things will never work out well. And now Abhinav will be the mediator for disagreements, because he clearly understands the reason for Akshu’s objection partly for Abhinav’s interests, on the other hand, the guilt that separates Abher and his father the boy’s gut, will make Abhinav have many emotions and come to decisions out of love, responsibility, and safety for Abher.
I am wondering, if Abhinav told what happened to Akshu 6 years when leaving Birla house, how would Abhi, Manjari, Manish, Arohi and the rest feel? I just hope they, especially Arohi, don’t drag Abher, Ruhi into this. Ruhi is easy to do wrong actions and pressure Abhi due to Arohi’s pulling strings.
At least this time round Akshara will have Kairav and possibly Arohi on her side. I hope Arohi remembers what Akshara said about a mother choosing a father for her child and realises that no dad could love a son more than Abhinav loves Abhir and that Ruhi deserves a dad like that not a fence sitting egoistic toxic person like Tubby. Abhi can sit at home and hold his mothers pallu while the sisters move on. I hope we don’t have to see a sad scene with Ruhi tearing her name off those books… she’s young if Arohi removes her from the Birla’s now it will be better. Akshara had many ways to tell Abhir’s truth but she was going through her own trauma at that time and Abhinav’s actions when Abhir was born gave her some feeling of safety and security that she never had with Abhimanyu, Abhinav loved Abhir and later grew to love Akshara organically, Akshara looks happier with Abhinav, even though they have middle class hardships, she has peace in her life which she never had with the Goenka’s or Birla’s. Abhira was obsession NavRa is authentic
They didn’t tell how he knew. Maybe he has checked the file before Akshara got there. Or could it be Abhinav? Bcs I know the she-devil can’t do that .
No matter how he came to know, l am happy he has come to knowledge that his junior is his son.
Let’s see what the future holds
I guess it’s thru the night b4 he was with Abhinav n he remembered what Abhinav told him
@Funmi.
I think that Abhimanyu had a voice recording of his conversation with Abhinav (while they were drunk) in which Abhinav was bothered about not only taking a patient from his doctor but also taking a son from his father. I’m paraphrasing here. So he put together all the hints before him and solved the puzzle easily.
So let’s analyse Akshara’s both relationship.. With Abhimanyu and Abhinav..
Both Abhimanyu and Akshara loved each other and after Akshara’s so called love for her family and sister denied Abhi’s love and made fun of him in front of everyone finally accepted his love on the day of his marriage to his sister.. Wow!! Was it right?? No!!! Because if ahe kept quiet for her family then whatever the situation was ahe should not have accepted it… Or else she shouldn’t have denied Abhi’s love on first place…
But that was ok as according to her nobody was affected.. But No!! Both Abhi and Arohi were affected.. Arohi was selfish, but Akshara is elder.. She should know what is right and wrong..
Now when Manjari’s accident happened Akshara kept quiet for long and hide the truth from her family.. I mean why? ? They had committed a crime and she was quiet.. For her sister… Who suffered?? Abhi and Manjari.. But it was forgotten…
After marriage even after repeated warnings from Abhi she always knowingly and unknowingly kept interfering in her in laws matters.. Abhi qas angry not on her nature but on the fact that their marriage was getting effected..
But still a big No by Akshara..
In Anisha’s case she opted to keep quiet to Abhi.. Atleast she should share with him.. But No!! Who got effected again Abhi..
She left for Abhimanyu.. But on return she wanted that Abhi to accept without any questions and he shouldn’t get angry on what happened past one year to him… Leaving without a word pushed him to depression…
Then the pregnancy track.. Abhimanyu opted not to have baby as he was sure about Akshara negligence.. But still on her promise he agreed..
Now the last blow to their relationship was Neil’s death… Yeah it’s right both are adult.. Both are responsible for their behavior.. But Neil was not alive to be held responsible… Akshara was elder to him and had more responsibility of her child and Neil.. So she was held more responsible for her behavior.. Whatever happened was fate but she was not ready to accept her wrong decisions in any of her behavior which broke Abhimanyu..
Abhimanyu’s behavior is not to ne justified… But wasn’t he the same from beginning just like Akshara was the same from beginning.. So if Akshara’s act was justified then why she blamed Abhimanyu..
Abhimanyu didn’t blamed her immediately on babies and Neils death but seeing his mother dying he reacted which was wrong…
But ultimately both made mistakes… When Akshara called Abhimanyu she was knowing the fact and situation.. Just like she was in pain so was Abhi.. Both didn’t accepted each other pain.. So why only Abhi to be blamed??
When Abhinav asked if she was mother to your child would u behave same?? He said yes!!! But Akshara knew the fact it was a lie… Still due to Abhi’s behavior she opted not to tell him… It’s okay if ur relationship is over.. But a child shouldn’t suffer for ur stupidity.. But again who suffered.. This time Abheer and Abhimanyu… Akshara opted to stay away.. Not Abheer and Abhimanyu…
So this relationship was never a balanced one not only because of Abhimanyu but also because of Akshara and all the family members who they were surrounded…
Now coming to Akshara and Abhinav..
Abhinav is a gem!!! No doubt about it… He without any return helped Akshara in difficulties… Saved the child…
Got married to Akshara.. Here also what Akshara did??
I mean you married a man to make him father??? So that you can keep the child away from his biological father??
Ok so both agreed to get married and stayed away from Udaipur…
So there is no issues between them as no expectations and no compulsions.. No family to interfere and Akshara dont need to become Mahan and put her relationship at stake..
She was now just concerned about her family of husband and her baby.. Nothing else…
So where is the chance of issues???
The same thing Abhimanyu was expecting but she couldn’t fulfill as they were with family so the issues..
Abhinav and Akshara got time to understand their relationship without any thors party interference but this was not the case with Abhimanyu and Akshara hence the relationship couldn’t nurture and stay strong…
Now the paternity matter… It’s right Abhinav saved the child without any relationship… But would Abhi never have done the same?? So how can Akshara compare such..
Whatever Abhi has done to her she cannot judge for Abhi…
Anyways let’s look forward 🤣
The funniest Write up have ever read 🤣🤣🤣
@Anchal
A relationship with too much interference from outsiders will cause the insiders to be surprised and breathless. And that is the marriage of Akshu-Abhi.
1. With Akshu and Abhi’s married, you say Akshu shouldn’t be concerned by meddling in Birla’s family affairs, is that reasonable? So it’s called family? But every time Akshu spoke, Abhi stopped her. That’s no respect. Loving each other is not only wearing good but also the bad of the other. If you love your husband, you will always love your husband’s family, which is a perfect marriage.
2. For Arohi’s marriage with Abhi at first, it was due to two families, accompanied by Arohi’s wish to be a proud bride and have power at work as well as at Birla’s house. If Abhi has feelings for Akshu, why doesn’t he confess and make it clear to the families of both sides that Akshu must admits it herself? Akshu’s nature is to yield to Arohi since childhood, there is no jealousy, competition, but always sacrifice, so you asked Akshu to tell the two families about her feelings for the marriage arranged for him by both parties. Her younger sister is impossible.
3. Regarding Manjari and Akshu’s accident, (I have to say both because Akshu was also a victim and was about to lose her life in that accident), even though it was an accident that the accident happened, not Arohi intentionally, is that right? You said Akshu is Arohi’s older sister, so Akshu warned Arohi. If at that time, Akshu said that the person who caused these two accidents was her sister, then Arohi’s marriage would be broken, many problems arise for the two families. Akshu lives with feelings, cherishing family affection, so she is silent.
4. Regarding Abher, if Akshu does not have the right to speak for Abher, who will? What happened to Akshu cannot be changed. From one mistake it has led to many other things that should not have happened. So I won’t say much, because it will only cause more discomfort for you. It was Abhi’s anger, which burned the happiness of himself and his family, implicating his own son.
5. You said that when Akshu called to inform Abhi about Abher, but at that time Abhi was so angry that he didn’t listen, so if it was Akshu’s accident that led to his death, he wouldn’t listen? While Abhi knew that Akshu had just had a miscarriage, more trauma due to Neil’s death, psychological instability, leaving his family alone, Abhi was a doctor maybe he didn’t know it. ? Regardless of the reason, Abhi has committed a very serious error that the personality, conscience, and morality of a human being, the doctor does not allow. Just like Dr Abhi gave Akshu a death sentence.
Thanks 👌 a lot for this write up. I wonder how certain people view this relationship called MARRIAGE. I want to believe not everyone that comment here is married. Same way someone said Sai should marry 🐀 because of her children, what don’t you understand 🙄 ” You can’t give what you don’t have “.
Abhimanyu does love Askhara but respect ” No way “. If a man respect his wife and likewise a woman same, d rest is history. It is not just about taking also about given.
Abhimanyu knows his wife ‘s nature before marriage, how come he can’t understand her, Arohi has always been selfish, Abhimanyu told her he has feelings for Askhara still she wants to marry him ” claiming it’s for her daughter “. Can she not make her daughter understand certain things are not just possible. It is natural for a fatherless child to bond with the next available male, to see the person as a father figure but it’s d mother’s role to help d child bond rightly. ( speaking from the experience of a widow)
Do I marry my husband’s brother just because he’s divorced and my daughter is attached to him? NO WAY.
Have I moved on in my life? Yes but no one says it’s easy but I have learnt to find joy in my life.
Do I wish to marry again? Maybe but my children will not be my reason for it, I will do so if I find d right companion not get involved in a toxic relationship and situation.
Now Arohi has no peace because you can’t have peace when you have taken over what doesn’t belong to you.
I WONDER WHY IN ALL INDIA SERIALS ALL FL HAS TO BE FORCED INTO RELATIONSHIPS WITH MEN THAT DO NOT WANT THEM AND THEY CAN’T WALK AWAY OR OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP WITHOUT GIVING A FU*K ABOUT THE SOCIETY.
Anyways I really hope God will give the writers some well deserved 🧠.
@Ade
I agree with you. We are in this position because of Abhi only. “Abhimanyu knows his wife’s nature before marriage, how come he can’t understand her” this is the source of all arguments. Some people are saying Abhi was correct when he was imposing restrictions on Akshu in iterfering other people problems, and also limits her saviour nature by using promises and emotional talks, and also always shuting her up when she wants to open discussions about dealing with family problems. This is equivalent to putting her in a cage, where she should go against her saviour nature just because she may die? I mean does her life belong to Abhi or herself. Even her life was not hers, during Abortion track.
Thank you for this comprehensive analysis. I was thinking the same as you but did not have the energy to write it all down.
@aanchal
I’m so glad someone spoke this out. Before all people on this forum attack me, i want to make clear that:
1. I love abhinav, he’s a gem
2. I love the kasauli family, although i feel they could have had it easier if akshu got her money from her family, but it’s okay
3. I don’t like abhi-akshu pair at all, they’re toxic
4. I don’t like abhi
Also, i want to make clear that:
1. Abhi was wrong, he had his issues. But akshu also was wrong and had her issues. Like i always said, they had bad compatibility and opposite expectations from each other in the marriage. However, this does not negate the fact that akshu was also wrong a lot of times and had her own issues. It is obvious that abhis issues were way bigger but both akshu and abhi were toxic to each other.
2. I don’t like akshu, she’s happy with abhinav only because his thinking is similar to her
3. Yes what happened after Neil’s death was wrong, yes akshu was treated badly, wrongly. But what i don’t like is she neither apologised that day nor is she ready to apologise today. No one said she internationally took Neil to that spot, no one told she brought the goons. They blamed her yes, it was wrong, but it was also the collateral damage for akshus decision to follow the girls. One sorry, i agree i shouldn’t have taken Neil that day. She never felt She was partially responsible.
I lost my dad. It was in no way my fault. But even till today, i think that maybe if i had stopped him from going that day, maybe, he would have been alive. I blame myself. And here this girl doesn’t even say sorry once.
@Anchal I already explained this whole situation, but some continued to point out Abhimanyu’s behavior while Akshara also contributed greatly to their end as well. Akshara on the one hand, finds her actions totally justified as long as she performs them with good intentions. For Akshara’s followers to take risks and not seek to understand the repercussions of his actions and justifiable as long as Akshara’s conscience is intact. I was once told that I think as if Akshara can see into the future, but the minimum we can do before making a risky decision is to first think about the consequences our actions might have. Akshara never questions his behavior as a savior even if there is damage. In the accident, she didn’t realize that one of her babies had the grace to survive that she still had hope, but esque Abhimanyu has hope to see her brother again one day. Abhimanyu was in no condition to listen to anyone, he just looked again at the consequences of Akshara’s actions. Abhimanyu misbehaved with Akshara but Akshara also misbehaved with him many times. A family does not mean meddling in other members personal affairs because it will create division, Abhimanyu was right. Akshara doesn’t like people interfering in her problems with Abhinav which is normal, but back then she didn’t want to understand anything. Abhimanyu had anger issues but with dialogue he ended up coming to terms with things be it divorce from his mother be it about abortion or even come to terms with Arohi’s actions for Akshara Abhimanyu relented and tried to control his character but Akshara never made an effort for his character as a savior. I can’t just look at Abhimanyu’s mistakes while Akshara’s mistakes are equivalent to Abhi’s.
Mahan is Akshara’s true nature can’t help it🤣 as for what Abhi can also did what Abhinav had saved Abhir, the difference is Abhi is the biological father n any father will do that, but Abhinav was just a man she met not long ago n for him to go to that extend to save Abhir n Akshara is a man of noble character!
One thing tho is for sure Abhinav will always be Abhir’s dad and Abhi will have to understand that. Akshu and Abhinav tried to tell him but he refused to listen and yes Abhi blood is in Abhirs body but Abhinav has been with him since he was born, infact even before he was born Abhinav was there he helped Akshu through a her tough pregnancy and carried her to the hospital on back when she went into labour could not many people would do all that Abhinav has done. Abhi has got some tough questions he needs to ask himself. Abhinav is truly Abhir dad.
@ Anchal, thank you for this comprehensive analysis. I was thinking the same as you but did not have the energy to write it all down.
Maybe just ask Abhimanyu can you be separate from Ruhi now?
Whichever way it goes, Abhinav is willing to share Abhir with Abhimanyu because he knows what it means not to have a family but is Abhimanyu willing to share Abhir with Abhinav!!! He could be willing but with Manjiri is influence and her narcissist tendency to want to hurt Akshara, Abhimanyu might become selfish and forget all those times Abhinav has drawn him close to Abhir. To be honest, Abhimanyu doesn’t know how to love anyone. Be it his mother, wife, children et al. He over compensates for other people is mistakes and fails to understand people have different love languages. He is a controlling freak. Now that he is obsessed with Abhir, he is going to try and control how Abhinav and Akshara relate with Abhir but if he is not careful, trying to separate Nikkiji from the father he knows might make Abhir resent him. He might win Abhir’s custody but lose his love and respect. He better manages his anger and not growl like a lion because a child is life is involved. His ego is not of importance where Abhir and his wellbeing is concerned.
Someone should slap Manjiri the minute she opens her mouth to castigate Akshara. She instigated Abhimanyu toxic Birla against his wife so she is partly to blame.
Aarohi cannot win against the truth. She knows Abhimanyu is not a promise keeper and will surely step back from marrying her. It is sad Ruhi will be hurt in the process and those books will surely be torn because she is both her mother and father is child. She is going to throw a major tantrum and will surely resent Abhir yet Abhir is like Abhinav….he will be willing to share his father with her.
Akshara’s ego also caused this situation. Abhimanyu and Akshara are both self-centered, Akshara also thinks that her point of view is never wrong that her decisions are always correct and that she doesn’t have to regret them. Abhimanyu and Akhara’s problem is that they have different values they never made an effort to adjust to each other, Akshara loved being a savior who gets involved in everything and Abhimanyu didn’t like getting too involved with other people’s personal affairs, he had an angry temper even though he was not violent and believed that with Akshara’s overly charitable behavior she never knew how to make logical decisions and defend herself, so he became like a father who watches and controls the behavior of his children without consulting him. Akshara and Abhimanyu are opposites and opposites attract and most of the time they manage to complement each other like ying and yang but if that doesn’t work and there is no understanding there is will be no harmony and the end will end in destruction.
No matter whoever says what…!!!!! No second chance for Abhimanyu… he is a self-centred, egoistic person… who simply wishes to play behind both the sisters back… and be innocent infront of the family …. Ridiculous and superficial character writing…. If he just goes on a Maun vrat it would be much better… HORRIBLE
That file is in Akshu hands and then it goes to Abhi hands alternatively. Whoever ends up with the file wins. Now, it seems that its not about going to US they are fighting for but the real fight is Abhir should not leave Udaipur. Manjiri facial expression and the way she talks makes me want to sympathize with her. I dont know whats wrong with her now. She was so civil with Akshu once upon a time before second chance season.
I never noticed this mamas boy side of Abhi. I used to see him depending on his mothers advice and think its normal.
It seems like Abhi has realized the barrier to his son is Akshu and not Nav. God knows if Abhi will still get influenced by his mother this time again.
And today, it was apparent what Arohi motives are. She was securing Ruhis place by stealing Abhirs place (her nephew #Ruhisbrother) she has never valued relations so i wont be suprised if she wont value this one either. This speaks volumes of her thought process and behaviour. I mean, obviously Abhi will still love Ruhi and also may still want to be her papa. But what about Abhi chance with his son??? Is this too much to ask of Arohi after everything Abhi did for Ruhi? She became so dependent on Abhi where Ruhi is concerned that she is now incapable without Abhi. She has never answered for anything to anyone in her life and that is why she has never changed her behaviour of putting her interests first. Has she ever asked Ruhi if she will not share Abhi with Abhir?? Going forward, i feel Aru should take Ruhi and leave Udaipur because her behaviour of always finding faults in how people treat Akshu compared to her, will make her scrutinize every Abhi move that indicate Abhir is favoured more. And the fact that Abhir is a son and Ruhi is a daughter, obviously some things Abhi will do with Abhir and leave out Ruhi.
@Mark ur right abt the different things Abhi can do with Ruhi n Abhir, if Aarohi wants Abhi to choose btwn Abhir n Ruhi, then Abhi can question her whether she can leave Ruhi or not!
I wonder who will tell Abhir the truth, I also think Manjiri might do it to incite Abhir against Akshara and Abhinav as he will be shocked that his parents lied to him.
Now the question is, should Abhir’s operation be done in India or US? Which is better for Abhir? If Abhi insists to be in India then Akshara should ask why Aarohi suggested US??
Yes! Who will be the surgeon as Aarohi said close relatives cannot be involved??
It’s not that relatives can’t be involved but more that there is an emotional impact that might make the surgeons hands falter… I wonder if Harshvardhan might return and they let him do the surgery instead of Abhi as he is generally kind of cold and distanced 🤔 also if he returns Manjari can focus on annoying him and leaving the sisters alone
This is one of those days where each of the comments are nuggets so rich and full of golden substance. I unfortunately don’t have a lot of time to reply to each as I am so pressed for time. The points even when they differ are so well articulated. Long may this continue.
I think that the episode is so interesting and to the point. I like the growing affection of the parallel pairs or couples. They show such care and consideration for each other. Aarohi really looks after Abhimanyu well. And Akshara really worries for Abhinav as well. Such lovely bonds. Dr Abhi Isn’t a top doctor by happenstance. He knows very well how to link facts even when they occur discretely. His analytical brain has pieced together all the hints and the puzzled is duly solved now.
Akshara was quick to get out of the hospital and the confrontation at the parking lot isn’t now as worse as it can be. She will soon inadvertently send Abhimanyu on a guilt trip where he will stagger and lose the initial skirmish in what may be a long war, or it may not. Who knows?
For me talking with maturity should help ease the pressure. I now align with the recommendation of many commenters about allowing Abhimanyu a part to play in the life of Abhir. I understand that Akshara doesn’t want any place for Abhimanyu but as the truth is our a more generous position might be better for her than when Abhimanyu wasn’t aware of Abhir’s identity. This positional shift is partly informed on the fact that an initial conciliatory gesture could avert a future disaster.
Agree with you @Francis
@yeol true…
I am not favouring Abhimanyu and Akshara’s reunion.. Back then Abhimanyu made a huge mistake which cannot be forgiven.. Everybody talks about it..
But nobody tells Akshara was also wrong…
Abhinav is a gem!! But here Akshara decides in their relationship so there is no issues with her.. There is no interference of any third party so she ia fine…
Her wrong decisions led a death and she was not even taking that responsibility.. Even if Neil was a part of it..
She says Abhimanyu can’t never be Abhir’s father.. She won’t allow.. I mean who needs the permission 🤣🤣
Abhimanyu is already his father..
Yes Abhinav’s role can never be even compared.. But she cannot deny Abhi as father..he is not a bad person….due to their differences she cannot deny the fact that he is Abhi’s father and given a chance he would do anything for him..if 6 years back if Akshara made a mistake so did Abhi..
Back then Abhi used to control Akshara now Akshara is doing same with Abhinav..
If Abhinav denies Akshara’s opinion she starts to fight.. So isn’t she also a controlling freak?? No!! Just as she can show her anger so was Abhi…
Abhi used to go a bit far but that was his nature just like Akshara’s nature..
If we support Akshara’s behavior than we cannot put all blame on Abhimanyu…
I still don’t support Abhimanyu’s act.. But that doesn’t justify Akshara also..
The only character I love is Abhinav.. He is still sensible to both Akshara and Abhimanyu… He still supports the fact that whatever the difference was between Abhimanyu and Akshara.. Abhimanyu is still a father and also a good human being..
And he is absolutely right.. Neither Abhinav nor Akshara should give up on Abhir but atleast she can accept the fact that Abhimanyu too is his father..
@Anchal exactly, Akshara’s behavior will only complicate the situation. Akshara knew that Abhimanyu was never a bad person he makes mistakes just like her, she hid her paternity from Abhimanyu if it was a punishment she wanted to give him it’s done, she can even blame him for his actions injustice that he made her. But she can’t today truthfully tell Abhimanyu that he is not the father and she won’t allow it, when Abhimanyu has already wasted so many years away from his son, and he is the father. Akshara and Abhimanyu are not made to be in a relationship the person who must be by their side must be like Abhinav very conciliatory and patient and not be totally opposite to their nature because they do not know how to compromise. Akshara and mom she shouldn’t let her past cloud her judgement, she understands the fear of separation with her child and Abhimanyu as a father feels it. Abhinav understands that Abhimanyu has the right to be a part of Abhir’s life but Abhinav is easily taken away by Akshara’s opinion. She can act calm and mature and try to leave space in Abhir’s life for Abhimanyu. Abhimanyu understood the wrong he did to Akshara regarding Niel’s case and he regrets Akshara should also try to understand Abhimanyu or his actions had consequences.
@Anchal 6 yrs has gone, the new development is ongoing, and yet you still dwell on Akshara was at fault?? Nobody denies Abhimanyu is Abhir’s biological father! Not even Akshara she put it clear to even Abhimanyu!!
The problem that affected akshu and abhis relationship is that at the time they were both immature akshu was careless and irresponsible with decisions while abhi was still impulsive and he had anger issues and both akshu and abhi had imposing and controlling behaviors they couldn’t understand each other because external forces were always involved in their relationship they were young naive and stupid and that was the result of their relationship downfall
@Fave.
A peach of an answer. Abhira was young, intense and passionate but lacked consideration. They were ahead in time and needed more time to adjust to each other and ‘see what the other person is saying’ a directional perspective that comes with experience. Now that Akshara learnt that at the cost of several relationships, her Neil is gone forever, she values these things more. She still goes all in on her salient points and people are like that in the real world.
To add, I must write here that this is a personal opinion, not a given. Akshara is an orphan and she lost her mother early in life, who no doubt would have straightened out her not so impressive attributes. That deficit in the upbringing is seen in her behaviour as has been amply noted in the prior comments The same applies to Abhimanyu who was troubled by his parents failing marriage. So both haven’t had the best upbringing. Abhinav also has this in common with them as all three missed their parents in different ways during their childhood. When Akshara asked Abhinav why he wasn’t married, I was like what now? In hindsight, the decision to marry Abhinav looks the best she could have made. They are more alike than not. After she sent him away she was so worried for him she made a correct step to solve this situation. Akshara may be now more experienced. Then maybe because Abhinav is more a friend than a love interest, there is more depth. That wasn’t the case with Abhimanyu. This is why I now retain a more balanced view on what happened. For some reason the relationship, that is with Abhimanyu, didn’t work so until the two work out why then the relationship will be rebounding and failing in cycles to perpetuity.
@Fave Abhimanyu probably had a good 10 years over Akshara 👀
@Anchal
Are we watching the same episodes?
Akshara finally confess to love Abhi is a fault of; Mahima for creating alliance misunderstanding, Arohi for taking advantage of the misunderstanding and seeing an opportunity in form of Birla hospital and Birla name and taking credit for saving Abhi and organizing puja for Abhi and helping clear Abhi name just because she can for her own interest, Goenka for failing to stand for what they believe and always give in to what Arohi wants, Harsh for wanting Doc bahu, Akshu for still being in Arus cage, Neil persistence interference etc. All these people made Abhi a victim as his emotions were being toyed with. So him breaking off the marriage by saying sorry is justified.
After one year leap, Akshara expected Abhi to be angry but believed a hug from her will ease his pain and finally he will vent out his anger and love will heal them. But this was her innocent perspective and her underestimation. Abhi was deeply affected, and the fact that she went with her brother made it worse. In this incident, Dr Kunal, Mahima vendetta against Akshu and Kairav, Parth, Abhis distrust, and Abhis jealous of Akshus love for her family made him act unfairly to Akshu.
Then came Akshu pregnancy and Abhi desire to abort it. Abhi was borderline the villain here. Just because he loved Akshu he did not allow her to have the posibility of dying. Every woman in this world wants to experience motherhood once in their lifes….
Then came Neil death where both were responsible etc. Anyone who saw Akshu could see she is deeply sorry. No one gave her the chance to show them how sorry she is as they ousted her from their sight. She kept saying sorry and her face showed it. Then Abhi demanded her explanation and she had to explain the situation but Abhi started bringing old actions which had passed to justify his decision for divorce. Inshort, the convo between them in the room was so illogical as if he was not okay about the old actions, then why did he not say anything and waited then, to say how he felt?
If Manjiri, Arohi, Abhi did not oust her, then they could read it all over Akshu face how sorry she is.
Now coming to why Akshu did not keep contacting Abhi about Abhir: Looking back at how her relation with Abhi went, even I will see there is no future here. The call Abhinav made was the deal breaker as Abhi said he dont want anything to do with Akshu and HIS child. (#miscommunication). At this point, Akshu believed every word because she felt she caused Abhi unhappiness after unhappiness and its better she stays away. She respected Abhis pain needed her away from him. After six years, Akshu trauma creating a fear that Abhi will snatch Abhir. Now this is a problem that needs patience and therapy.
Now Nav and Akshu relation is one of peace, and respect and a little love. Nav is not complaining and so is Akshu. They have so much understanding of each other, sometimes they dont need to talk. They have disagreements and fights but who doesnt? They make decisions without consulting the other but who doesnt? They are not perfect but they understand that at the end of the day respect is key.
Inshort, Akshu could handle Abhis personality but Abhi plus Birla and Arohi became too much for Akshu to handle. All Abhi had to do is support Akshu in her Mahan adventures and respect her. If Akshu did not host Manjiri and Harsh aniv party and interfere, then Manjiri could still be mistreated by harsh.e.t.c.
Every woman does not want to experience motherhood dude. Some of us are happy without little parasites, having kids isn’t like growing plants, it takes a toll on women’s bodies… why would anyone want a parasite in their body for 9 months… call me when they have a machine that can do it and then grow the kid into and adult within months cause 20 + years is too much to invest in another human and I would rather invest it in myself. Lots of single career women think like this and yes we’ll grow old with our cats but we’ll do it fashionably and shamelessly at a fancy poolside with pretty little cabana boys. I don’t have to worry and stress about anyone other than me. Selfish yes but I’d rather be selfish than look at a poor misfortune kid one rough day and wonder “my life would be so much better if you didn’t exist”
😆😆😆😆😆😆😆 i am actually a female. My name in short is Mark
all you said is your own interpretation Akshara was devastated by the loss of her babies watch the episode instead of admitting she was sorry she kept saying i lost my three babies too, she never said she was sorry until now. You talk about the language of the eyes Akshara always considered her actions to be just because she wanted the good that she never looked at her own mirror. As Akshara herself proved with her behavior, Abhimanyu’s decision was justified regarding the pregnancy. Akshara had she wanted to, she could never have consented to a decision made in anger. she could have refused the divorce if she was really sorry, if really she was sorry she would have understood that Abhimanyu had said hurtful things because he was going through a difficult time (the first thing Abhimanyu did after meeting Akshara was s ‘apologize for the hurtful words) and that she was involved. But Akshara only saw her own pain and she felt like a victim (Abhimanyu too), she always showed her savior side by getting involved in other people’s personal affairs and she called her behavior family love , when your family speaks badly to you after you make a big mistake, do you leave the house? Akshara might as well have openly said she loved Abhimanyu instead of letting Arohi’s marriage move forward, but her sacrificial side was still the problem. Abhinav and Akshara have a better relationship because Akshara has changed, she no longer interferes in other people’s affairs, and she does not cause conflict between two families, Akshara and even become imposing Abhinav is a conciliatory person who gives up easily for the good of others. ‘Akshara, when Abhinav met Akshara, she was so rude to him that no one in her place would have helped her, which proves that Abhinav is a good soul who one day will burn himself just like Akshara from his goodwill. then effectively there is no conflict. And I don’t think Akshara understands Abhinav otherwise she would have realized his feelings long before, when Abhimanyu went to their house they understood each other without talking because they had a friendly relationship for 6 years. Akshara doesn’t even understand that Abhinav is fighting against his morals as he is keeping secret about Abhir.She also doesn’t understand that she is oppressing Abhinav he is afraid to do things because he is afraid that she will take it badly and get angry with him. Akshara’s past behavior is not defensible and no one could encourage such an immature personality as she was because she would have ended up losing her life in her actions as a savior. As no one would put up with a person like Abhimanyu who gets carried away by anger both of them knew each other but they couldn’t bear each other’s shortcomings.
Question is why is Abhinav not complaining? From what you explained about Navra relation, Akshara does not understand him, Akshara imposes her decisions on Nav, Nav is afraid Akshara will be angry at him, Akshara oppresses Nav. I mean why is Nav still sticking around then? This also raises the question if he loves Akshara trully, then all you mentioned becomes false.
Also, Abortion decision by Abhi, no reason can make it okay. The least he could do is pray that Akshara changes her mind. But him deciding she abort, i dont know what makers were thinking.
And Akshara loosing her life while in savior mode? To who does Akshara life belong to? Herself or 3rd party? Its her life and she can choose to do anything with it. Why are we controlling how she lives her life? As long as she doesnt hurt anyone, then she is free to live by her terms.
Abhinav has no one else in life, he only has Akshara and Abhir of course, he doesn’t want to lose them. The reason why he is not complaining is obvious, Abhinav now has a family thanks to Akshara, and he loves her Abhinav loves Akshara more than Akshara loves Abhinav it is not a fair relationship. Abhinav feels obligated to do what Akshara wants, he never says his own wishes he has opinions about Abhir’s paternity but he listens and accepts Akshara’s choice without discussing the subject with him, because he himself is afraid that one day Akshara will tell him that she is Abhir’s mother and that she makes the decisions for her son. He is afraid that Akshara will end up saying that he is not Abhir’s father, even out of anger. And whenever Akshara is rude, she never apologizes, after she always tells him I trust you😮💨. Akshara took Abhinav for granted, as she knows he is the type to always do whatever she wants and would stand in front of the world to protect her. I don’t really feel like she really likes him; she is used to him and confuses gratitude with love. there is a chance that she loves him but not deeply, anyway in a couple if there is no comprehension it will not work. And for Akshara’s behavior when you are in a person’s life, your life no longer belongs to you alone, it also belongs to the person you are with, because both of you have entrusted your lives and no one will let their better half throw themselves into the fire, no sane person would support self-destructive behavior. If you are told that a loved one who is dear to you may die if their leg is not amputated, you will pray instead of making a decision, you will try to convince your loved one even if you do not agree for him to live, Abhimanyu first thought of Akshara instead of an embryo which was not yet viable. In the end it was his choice but he was right to disagree and be intransigent and I’m not even talking about the fact that he knew about Akshara’s behavior.
All i see in Navra relation is a woman who is given power to run the family and she did well for the last 6yrs. Eg.Nav will come with money and give it to Akshu to allocate budget etc. Nav gets scolded everytime by Akshu but we all know Navs and Abhir take on this. I have not seen any rude behaviour from akshu. Only disagreements that they easly solve together with Nav. And the only decision she took without consulting Nav first is the US issue only. But then again, Nav did not understand Arohi true face and Akshu was never going to spell it out to him. So Nav did not understand why Akshu is taking this decision. But once Nav heard how Abhimanyu was brought into the arguments by Manish and Swarna, made him think maybe there is more to the issue that he has not seen. And so he supported Akshara. So many times i have observed Akshara and Nav scenes, Akshu always stands behind Nav when addressing people about matters. Akshu knows Nav has different feelings about Abhi being Abhir Father but she has different feelings too.i.e. Nav is the father. So they are still dealing with this elephant in the room but have agreed to always be united for Abhir.
Also, the reason why Abhi wanted Akshu to abort is that he did not want Akshu to be in the posibility of dying. But that is for Akshu to decide only since its her body and her believes on life preservation. The fact that the children were inside Akshu, Abhi had to give advice and hope for the best. Akshu was only supposed to decide what to do and thus everyone from the family needed to support her. But Abhis adamancy of not wanting Akshu to die trying, made him invade decisions concerning her body. And people took it for Abhis love for Akshu but in reality it was him taking Akshus right to her own life. Abhi was the super villain here. If he was thinking of Akshara, then why the state she was in passed him unnoticed. He wanted to see what he wanted and what he didnt want to see he ignored. If he was thinking of Akshu, he will know that Akshu was never going to be happy with his decision. I mean, Akshu used alot of efforts to convince him until the last minute she was still against it. I dont know what directors were thinking. This situation was supposed to be Abhi begging Akshu to abort. Not Akshu begging Abhi to not abort despite it being her body, her conscience, her believes were in jeopardy.
@Yoel@Anchan
As I have commented in previous updates, in Abhi and Akshu’s marriage there were too many “if”, and also too much interference from outsiders, causing more conflicts, misunderstanding for them. and from this mistake of person has led to many other mistakes and the results are being worked out.
If you think that Akshu should not interfere in the private affairs of the Birla family, A, B, C…, what is Akshu in the Birla family? In relationships, there must be sympathy, sharing, understanding. The Birla family has so many conflicts, to impose, that is abuse. If you stand in front of those actions, are you still emotionless, silent? I don’t think so, and Akshu didn’t think so, she just wanted to bring her relatives together, because that’s the value of the big family (having many generations, many small families living under the same roof). 1 roof). If Abhi is not satisfied, why not stay separate, sometimes visit each other on weekends. I also live in a large family of 3 generations. My great-grandfather is the one who decides everything in the family and according to the elders, my father is the eldest son of the family, because he wants us to have friends over to visit and have our own privacy. private, so he asked to live out separately so that not many people interfere in the lives of the children. Although we live separately, we still respect, help, and share together, so I understand Akshu’s feelings very well, and I am happier than her because I always have my family by my side, understanding her thoughts. I also have an older sister, but the two sisters have never hated each other like Arohi, I have always been a priority after my sister, but I have bigger dreams and ambitions than my sister, when I succeed, I have worrying with her sister, taking care of the family and still the same now. I say this so that you understand that in love between men and women, family love is always connected and shared, that is, discussing and solving together. you say it is interference in private affairs,is it not true? Hash mentally abused Manjari, Abhi got angry and took action against his father, finally the conflict persisted for many years. Akshu has her own way, letting Manjari stand up for herself, so does this intervention have positive or negative results? And……..
Speaking of helping the unfortunates that Ashu did, and Neil died on that day of rescue. It was an unexpected accident, why do they have to push la do Akshu? I am a person who often participates in volunteer activities to help disadvantaged people for nearly 20 years, in remote places, without conditions. , our journey went through places, if anyone looked at it, it would be very scary because the terrain is very complicated, it could be dangerous to our lives, but we decided to still go, you know why not ? Since they are in need of us, our help is coming from an individual, not an organization like Akshu has managed, but has the same meaning of not being able to see them in danger, hunger thirst, sickness.
There are many things that I have experienced, so I understand well, because I have lived more than half of my life, have witnessed as well as myself, I am an insider, so I understand the value of things that happen in life. the lives of the characters in YRKKH, although it’s fictitious, but I also want to give a little bit of real value to those of you who come to this forum with real things and real solutions to make your life better.
I Hope that Akshara won’t go back to Abhi. She was thrown out of Birla and started her life with Abhinav. She was never a priority in the birlas. As much as abhi is the biological father, Abhinav is the the father. I hike we don’t stretch much in the custodial fight for Abhir. Let’s see the best life between Akshara, Abhir and Abhinav. Arohi should also think twice before committing to abhi. Otherwise she will just be like aksharay
My take on this….
I feel it’s high time Goenka’s to be THE GOENKA’s
I mean them to have their own stand to show Manjiri Birla who she was before, to show her if she is she today it’s because of Akshu. In a same way Abhi treated same way to Akshu what his father did to Manjiri. Emotionally tortured.
I don’t see Askhara fault here. Yes but I will repeatedly say she shouldn’t have Hidden the truth from her Family, and she shouldn’t be the poor bechari.
And she should give a reality check to Abhi, the amount of calls she did, his words, “yes even if she the mother of my child I wouldn’t talk to her” cmon this line hurts, and why would any wife,women,mother tolerate this and be like “hey dude this is your child”. I mean I too will not, let such a person know his flesh blood human is alive.
But here Akshu will need support from her family and I hope she gets that.