Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai 21st July 2023 Written Episode, Written Update on TellyUpdates.com
The Episode starts with Shefali and Nishta talking about Shivu and Abhir. Shefali says Abhir behaved like that before, something is triggering her. Nishta says Mahima and Manjiri also had a fight, Abhi said he will talk to Abhir. Shefali says Abhir doesn’t talk these days. Nishta goes. Shefali thinks to talk to Akshu. She calls Akshu. She takes the call. Manjiri folds hands and asks Shefali not to say anything. She disconnects the call. Akshu calls back. Manjiri says she will hate us more if she knows this, Abhir needs time to adjust. Shefali calls Akshu and says sorry, I called by mistake. Akshu asks is everything fine. Shefali says yes, Abhir is sleeping, I will ask him to talk to you. Akshu worries. She gets a mail.
She drops the phone. Abhinav asks what happened. Akshu says I got internship. Everyone claps for her. Abhinav hugs Akshu and says I m very proud of you. She says this had to happen. Kairav and Muskaan cough and tease them. Akshu hugs them. They say congrats. Manish says you are determined, your parents would be proud. Dadi says I will get new clothes for your job. Akshu says I will make a new start, stipend is just 20000rs. Manish says it will increase, call Abhir. Akshu says he fell asleep, I will talk to him tomorrow. Abhi sees Abhir and recalls his words.
He asks why aren’t you happy with me. Aarohi says I told you, he belongs to Akshu and Abhinav, he isn’t happy here. He asks her not to say it again and again. He says you aren’t helping anyone. She says sorry. Akshu gets ready and comes. Everyone congratulates her. They all wish her. Dadi does her aarti. She asks Akshu to take Kanha’s blessings. Akshu says no, I won’t talk to him until I get my son back. Abhinav gives the bag to Akshu and asks her to work hard. She thinks I m very lucky, you are with me. He says I called Abhi, Abhir will call us after coming back from school. He gives her tiffin. She thanks him. He says I m sure you will do well. She gets the principal’s call. The principal complains about Abhir. Akshu is shocked.
Akshu runs. Abhinav follows. Kairav says it will be related to Abhir. Abhi says you have sent Ruhi and Abhir outside, he missed the school. Manjiri says I have sent him with Aarohi, he wasn’t liking to be here. Abhi says I had to talk to him, you should have asked me. She says I don’t know raising things, right. He says I didn’t mean that, we have to talk to handle Abhir and Shivu. The principal shows Abhir’s text copy. Akshu says this isn’t possible. Principal says I know he is a class topper, but he has a big change, and attitude problem also, he back answered his teacher last week. Akshu says no, my Abhir can’t do this. Principal says things have changed, kids from broken family find hard to adapt. Akshu asks why didn’t you inform me before. Principal says Abhi is the signed guardian, I told this to his mom, I told her that Abhir will get detention today but he didn’t come, she didn’t do anything, so I called you. Abhinav says you did good, we will explain Abhir, he is a sensible boy. Principal says we will give his seat to someone else. She goes. Akshu as ks Abhinav to go home, I will sort this out. He thinks I know where is she going. He prays. Manjiri thinks to call Aarohi. Akshu shouts and asks where is my son. Manjiri says he has gone out with Aarohi. Akshu asks why isn’t he at school. She sees Shivansh. She meets him and says you have grown up, how did you get hurt. Shivu says Abhir has beaten me. Abhi comes and sends Shivu with Nishta.
Precap:
Akshu argues and says I won’t let my son stay here. Manjiri says I will go to court and get the permission cancelled. Akshu gets the court notice. She shouts and cries. Abhinav says we will go to Kasauli.
Update Credit to: Amena
164 Comments
Manyu is questioning Manjiris parenting when it’s the same parenting that he was subjected to. In other words, he is questioning his upbringing. If he is doubtful of his upbringing, then why the hell did he subject his son to said, questionable parenting? Incompetency and max foolishness.
Manyu knows Abhir is unhappy and he knows what will make him happy but he is not ready to give Abhir, happiness. He said it’s a wound. It looks like, he doesn’t want it treated. Failed father.
After knowing what Navra did, he supported them by ignoring everything and keeping Abhir with him. Why then did he reprimand Akshara about it? Hypocrite until the end.
Manyu doesn’t have what it takes to bond with his son and make him open up. He wonders how being docman, Abhir was ready to open up? Well isn’t that simple, as docman, he could work behind Navra’s decisions, he could steal moments with Abhir, he could criticize Navra’s parenting and decisions and insert his own decisions and parenting. Inshort, he was able to reap benefits from Navra’s hard work on Abhir, while at the same time, stepped on them, cursed them as irresponsible, child snatchers, selfish, avengers.e.t.c Well, Karma had to show him how it was not right to spit on someone’s choices if you have no choices to show off from. Now he is fully responsible for Abhir due to a choice he made, and all the choices he has made after that are pathetic. He should know by now that Akshara didn’t have it easy when she excluded him and all Birlas, she didn’t celebrate over it, she had to live in worries and fear that one day the secret will be out and Abhir being too young, will suffer. Well, Akshara had her reasons and all that happened and will happen keeps proving her fears.
Manyu should have let Akshara inquire into the incident through Shivus POV. He should quit interfering others. It’s disrespectful and obstruction of investigation. Shame on Manyu.
I hope tomorrow, Akshara will draw blood from anyone of Birlas decent. I hope she screams and yell and fight viciously because Abhir depends on it. If situation warrants it, she should gouge Manjiris eyes off so as to give everyone something to worry over and thus handle over Abhi to her. Abhir needs to know that, in cat(mom) fights, his cat(mom) is the most ferocious. Times have changed.
Agree, Mark. In all this Birlas chaos, Abhir is suffering. He was so much happier with AkshNav. Manjiri is suffocating and Abhimanyu can only say yes Mother, no Mother but action wise he is zero.
@mark
💯💯👏👏. Ak’s worst nightmare has turned true. I want to kill the person who gave degree to this brainless birla, it should be snatched 1st and he should be suspended from the hospital. The mere thought of him being doctor is 🥴🥴🥴 cracking me. Will he treat patients without listening to their problems just like he is doing with that poor kid? He himself is suffering from multiple personality disorder, bipolar disorder, his ears stopped functioning, his evergreen listening skills 🤕🤕🤕🤕🤕 , my god 😱, he definitely needs medication. Dumbmanyu fans should stop defending indefensible things by their nonsense illogical crap, their idol is nothing except a “loyal son of a vicious disgusting lady”,he is not even a human now. A mentally unstable person is unfit to raise a kid .
@Mark
I said before that the makers didn’t focus on Abhimanyu’s character development because of these inabilities that are now shown. Previously, when Abhimanyu was introduced, he was shown as someone for whom it was very easy to notice personality disorders or depression in others. As shown by his interaction with Akshara in the beginning and also his interactions with his patients, especially children, the sudden revelation that he is incapable of understanding his own son’s depression is beyond me. However, he may be a bad person, but he is a good doctor, according to the makers. Abhimanyu is still thinking about his own pain and asking Arohi not to rub salt on it. He is still not thinking that it’s absolutely not about Him or Navra; it’s about Abhir’s pain and childhood. There is no way Abhir’s situation can be compared to that of a new bride. Here, Abhir is losing his whole life, suffering the burns of the flame that his parents lit.
Also, Navra made a very big blunder by saying all that nonsense to Abhir, creating a wall between them and Abhir. It will make him more submissive to bullying, as he will think that if he retaliates, he will become a bad child, which will make his parents not want him. He will stop expressing himself. I think Navra trusted too much in Abhimanyu’s and Abhir’s new bond that they couldn’t understand that if they broke their son’s heart, he would have no one to turn to to express himself.
@Ara
You are right. Navra trusted docman so much and so now they must be frustrated that they screwed up to trust Manyu. They shouldn’t have broken their relation with Abhir thinking that Manyu will give the world to Abhir, they shouldn’t have trusted anyone with their son.
But now that their trust is broken, they have to earn Abhirs trust back so that they can help him.
@Ara, don’t be fooled that Manyu was capable at the beginning. Don’t be fooled. You should be aware that Manyu does things only if it suits him. He could identify Arus torture because it was preventing him from getting his obsession. He could be a good doctor because as a doctor he was high and mighty and he was like a God. So obviously he will identify people’s depression and disorders so as he will be praised and will feel he is on top of the world.
He was like this since the beginning. Now that he got Abhir and Abhir calls him dada, he is done with him as Abhir cannot give him anything else. Only when he needs Abhir will he make an effort to get it. Like when Akshu passed her law exams, Abhir didn’t want to talk to her. But it was not the first time Abhir said no to talking to Akshu. But since Manyu wanted to see Akshu, he made efforts and even asked Aru to convince Abhir. So you see, it all comes down to one thing, his benefits.
@Mark….. Manyu has NEVER parented with Abhir and he doesn’t know how to, as much as this pains me he did parent Ruhi initially (not doing much of anything these days though). I hate that he just silenced Arohi like that, he’s a rude failure of a human being, out here crying telling people not to show him the mirror same as his mummywife with Mahima yesterday, this ManyuJiri don’t like the truth they like their deluded world where they are a newly married couple with Abhir, Manyu will never make any woman happy because his first wife (psychojiri) will always be there in the shadows to drive that woman insane and he will stand back and do nothing this is the desi level Oedipus.
Akshu was busy dreaming of being all hum saath saath hain with the Birla’s despite knowing better hopefully she now has gotten the wake up she needed to fight for Abhir and close the Birla’s chapter in her life for good, return to Kasauli and lead her peaceful life once more. Abhir has gone through so much trauma he won’t want to know about ManyuJiri.
This will be the Mummy and Manyu show if ManyuJiri don’t end up with their hands empty, I think once Abhir’s matter is sorted Aru too will leave that house, maybe she’ll go to Kasauli as well so Ruhi and Abhir can grow up together and be each others support
@Mark.
I agree with your vivid assessment. Abhimanyu is lacking in his parenting of Abhir. There is no going around it. Abhimanyu is failing but he still thinks about his pain, whatever that is. Abhir is in depression but he chooses not to do anything about it. Abhir has cut him off from the conversation as we had observed recently. Aarohi gave sound advice as we questioned. He reminds adamant. Sticking to the current course of action, when, it is failing spectacularly. They have this needless pride to involve the Sharmas more to help Abhir. But, they can’t do this alone. He isn’t ready to take help and yet he laments over the situation.
The Birlas are in agreement despite their numerous disagreements, to keep Akshara in the dark about Abhir. They don’t want to lose Abhir yet, they don’t want to bring happiness to his life.
If they cared more, they would have asked for a transition period before Abhir went to their house. But, they wouldn’t.
Glad that now a days abhimanyu doesnot listen to his mother blindly..
Nd makers wana show that now abhir is becoming a bad kid at birla house? didnt abhir threw football at abhimanyu at kasauli? Didnt he break police jeep’s glass? Tab to he was acha bacchha na😛
Also what nav ji is doing except roaming around akshara nd taking her orders? “Abhinav aap bahar rukiye mai principle ke office se aati hu”, “abhinav aap ghar jaiye mai problem sort kar ke aati hu” All the time she comes to birla house.. Why? Why dont nav say that I am also abhir’s father so I will also come? Thn people say abhimanyu is not giving imp to sharma ji when it comes to abhir.. Arey his own wife is not giving him imp and taking everything on her hands as if he dont have any role in abhir’s life
Nd what is nav ji doing to get abhir back? Anything? Isi bharose baitha hai ki akshu lawyer banegi or abhir ko vapas le aygi? Judge clearly said that they are financially weak na.. So is he trying to earn more? Suddenly makers gave him a backseat after showing him him as the best father.. Strange
@Surabhi
Manyu still listens to Manjiri blindly. Yes. That’s the truth. Manjiri said my upbringing is good and Manyu said yes. Two blind people walking together is what they are.
And how the hell will Akshara tell Nav to tag along to her ex hubby’s house? The same ex who has once asked Nav to give his lover back. Same ex whose family disrespects Nav and tells him to give his wife away? Nav will be uncomfortable and it will be weird. yuck!
Mark – 100% agreed.. today akshara has to confront manyu…and she knows if nav tags along- psycho will again insult.. its not about nav.. it is about abhir and his wellbeing…
Surabhi – for some time- pls don’t be blind manyu fans and answer following for yourself-
1. Is akshara’s anger justified after her son has been given a detention for speaking back to teacher ?.. he never faced such issues before – so within a week of attending new school if he is given this punishment- isn’t it alarming for any mother ?- for godsake do not bring dirty football etc for discussion.
2. Are you really saying manyu doesn’t still know what psycho is capable of doing ? – she has hidden fact that abhir is detained and threatened akshara to take away visitation fully – in precap that’s exactly what happened.. like are you really supporting action of manyu here???.. again – do not say it’s manjiri action – she threatened in front of Birla family n she put that to action – so manyu is fully in the scene
@rak you people are blind manyu haters.. Whether he does something good or something bad or doesnot do anything, you people are always ready to bash him badly
Surabhi-
Your ignorance and no answer to both questions speaks for itself !
Best wishes !
@Rak exactly!
@Surabhi, same here it’s what ur doing! Why don’t u reply to Rak’s questions?? Instead of just repeating wat ur doing??
@mark but its true manjri’s upbringing is good only.. If abhimanyu has made many mistakes thn so does akshu nd so does arohi.. So should their upbringing be questioned? Nd dont forget how good Neil was.. He was raised by manjri only..
What nonsense are you speaking? Yaa abhimanyu asked him to give akshu back but after that was not both the men comfortable with each other? He even asked abhimanyu to stay with them at kasauli.. Now suddenly it will be awkward? Matlab kuch v bolo akshnav ki stupidity justify karne ke liye
Acha so ab purani baate akshu and nav should not remember ..even if its disgusting request…par manyujiri will keep playing Neil death card ..wah…
@so even akshu keeps playing victim card.. Who asked her to leave goenka house? Who asked her to break abhir’s heart? Khud mess create karegi fir batayegi maine ye ye jhela maine vo vo jhela
@Surabhi
Let’s compare shall we, Manjiri parented Anisha, Parth, Manyu and we know how they turned out.
Need I remind you how Goenkas were bashed for both Arus behaviour and Akshara’s behaviour? If you never bashed them, many here did.
So chill, it’s Manjiris and Manyus turn to get bashed.
@mark who said manjri patented mahima’s children?
Many times in the initial episodes it was said that how Manjiri brought up all the kids so that others could concentrate on their career. Abhimanyu said it Mahima said it .Harsh said it ( though was negative about it)
@Surabhi are we watching the same serial??
Sorry Surabhi Neil was unconfident insecure unloved.He felt himself less than the family members ,scared to speak his mind ..is that good upbringing? His genes( mom’s) were good so he was a good person .Wish the writers had explored about his birth mother
Why don’t you answer ur own Q??
@Surabhi ?
Abhir is suffocating among birla’s. He was a happy kid, when he was with Sharma’s. Abhimanyu is wantedly ignoring abhir’s sad face, abhir’s dull behaviour. Manyu is not capable enough to protect abhir from manjiri coz manyu don’t even acknowledge the harm manjiri is subjecting abhir to.
Upbringing is good 🤣Abhimanyu who never respected his wife,was controlling and finally abusive
Parth physically assaults his wife
Anisha was having affair with one and marrying another
Neil whom she adopted (so had double responsibility to see him settled with family) was insulted by all except Abhimanyu
Ruhi spoilt initially but now her learning dis abilities are ignored
Shefali could not trust her with Shivansh so had to send her kid to hostel
Wah wah how beautiful is her upbringin
@Mark, right, Manjiri is already not happy that Akshara keeps coming if Abhinav will to follow Akshara to Birla, I think Manjiri would have apply the restriction order earlier!
When this abhinav chapter will close, he is the male version of akshra cry baby. Nothing to do , still watching the show because of harshad.
lol cry baby is toxicmanyu not nav. from starting to till now he is only crying and abhinav chapter is not closed it begins
So right! @Ritu
@shalini what is nav even doing in the show now
@Shalini when Abhimanyu will die Abhinav will die …..because they are the real soulmatesss….
wow still at it with your immature comments. what would it take to show you that the birla doc is nothing but a toxic person tied to his toxic mothers apron strings.
Get those rose colored glasses off and grow up
He acted like that in kavali because he thought that abhimanyu was making his parents fight by not giving money .
Abhir threw football on Abhimanyu because according to him he at first harmed his parents. No way that was bullying and breaking of police jeep was a mistake. Also abhinav made sure that Abhir understand his mistakes and seek forgiveness from Abhimanyu.
I think you should first rewatch the episodes.
@ara leave her she hardcore fan of dumbmanyu thats why trying to blame it on abhir as saying he is spoilt.
@Rak ignore the essay writers, leave them to do their mental gymnastics for their hero who doesn’t even know they exist 🙃 if I have to read the Manyu stans comments I might as well go donate my braincells somewhere.
Agree @Jade
Akshara’s anger is 100% reasonable. It’s her son’s life getting destroyed by the hands of birlas. Navra trusted birlas that they will look after abhir well. Their trust broke completely today. Looking after is not only feeding oats every morning and giving toys. Birlas and abhir’s dada never considered abhir’s feelings from the day 1 abhir came to birla house. Abhi won the abhir toy with his mother’s help and he was satisfied with the happiness of winning the toy. Then he kept the toy aside and looked at the toy every day from far. He every week day dreesed that abhir toy with school uniform and got happy doing what he missed. But he never bothered to find is abhir doing well in school. How was his first day? How is he doing school work? Seems he has never talked with teachers and principal mam about abhir. Abhir needs special attention in every thing, every minute because he has come leaving his happiness some where to make two people happy.
It is abhi’s responsibility to find about abhir but he failed in it too. He is listening to his mother only for the other’s words he only hears them like @Mark and @Meed said.
Is abhi a kid who is smaller than abhir? Who can not think what action he should take on abhir? No one needs time to understand Abhir’s feelings because any one can understand that so easily in such kind of situation. Does abhi needs some one always to point out wht he should do with abhir? Any parent would find about how his kid is doing in school specially for a kid who is facing such a problem. But this dada has never done that. He has run away from his responsibilities. And that irresponsibility can not be excused giving that manjiri has hid everything from abhi. Manjiri has done a big mistake and abhi also by not being a responsible dad. Abhi behaved like a blind person all these days neglecting wht arohi, akshara,ruhi shefali abhinav said. And now he is trying to open his eyes only after things got totally messed up. And precap says what kind of answer this manjiri and abhi’s give for what akshara said in anger. A new court order denying all visitation rights for navra. Have tgey thought about what akshara is telling? I don’t think so. And again akshra is 100% right. Abhir should never be at birla house after all these happened. Birlas proved that they are not worthy to have abhir. It is only abhir who needs time to adjust not abhi n manjiri. And manyujiri had to make use of every second to help abhir in adjusting. But they failed.
@Hi
Very true. Abhir is the one to adjust but they are not helping him do that. It’s clear now, the lengths of irresponsibility of Manyu. All this time, he just stood afar and looked in. He didn’t even do anything. Abhir had been waiting for him all this time but Manyu never showed up. Abhir said “dada is not here to help us..” Abhir just needed someone to patiently probe, coax, persuade him to talk but no one did. Abhir listened to Aru meaning he was not closed off. Abhir is not the problem at all. He was just neglected by everyone at Birlas. I said that after Manyu gets his tittle, he will relax and he did. He had to work for that tittle but clearly Manyus feeble mind couldn’t tell him this. So sad. Birlas are drunk with victory, it’s about time they get their hangover potion.
@hi even navra is responsible for abhir’s mind state ok.. They made him feel unwanted..also akshu created this mess 6 years ago..So y to blame only birlas?
@Surabhi. True that navra broke abhir’s heart. Yet he wants to live with his parents. He doesn’t want to stay at birla house. But since abhir is now at birla house abhi should take the responsibility of keeping abhir happy. Now it is his responsibility. He should make sure he try his best to give happiness that abhir won’t miss his parents or make sure to keep abhir happy by making him meet his parents often. 6 years ago akshu made abhir away from problems but sad is she didn’t succeed in it. But now the mess is coz of birlas only. Abhi knowing that his son wants to live with his parents he went ahead with the court case just coz for his happiness.
Exactly!@Hi
When u hve nothing to defend u bring up the past again? So to u who is more important here? Narva’s mistake? Manjiri n Abhimanyu’s mistake? OR Abhir’s wellbeing? Abhir’s happiness? Abhir childhood that are ruined by them?? @Surabhi
@Hi hopefully all these can be evidents to support Akshara for the appeal she is processing!
@Hi.
I agree completely with your assessment. Akshara wouldn’t storm into the Birla house without a profound reason. She has been getting angry in recent days. The Birlas have cut off all information about Abhir. The boy is clearly struggling at his paternal home. They don’t pay enough attention to him and are hoarding him like a prized toy. Aarohi cannot materially do much because the mother-son duo want to spend time with him.
Abhir is angry but he is hiding it from everyone. Isn’t this just like Abhinav’s kind of behaviour? Well, this is Psychology 101. Nature versus nurture. Abhir hides his inconvenience just like his father. Abhimanyu is mistaken in thinking that this is hereditary. It isn’t just that alone. It is both. Abhir maybe a mix of the two. However, Abhinav has the ability to unlock him when he is in this mode.
Abhimanyu is failing. A lot of it is due to his stubbornness. A lot of it due to his inability to strike rapports or understandings. He needed one with Abhinav to be Abhir’s father. But, he is always reminded of his pain whenever he sees Abhinav with Akshara, and so he tries to distance himself from it.
Abhimanyu needs to listen to those around him. That night he wasted time worrying about Abhir. I will explain. Rather than being buried in thoughts, why not get to the bottom of the matter and discover why Abhir isn’t happy. Yet again when Aarohi discussed with him, he deflected it even though he had no solutions in sight.
@Meed true!
@Meed
True. Nature vs nurture. Nav should just save us all from seeing Abhir this way. But problematic enough, Nav presence in B house is taboo and he is not welcome anywhere even in Birlas minds. This is why Akshara has being chanting Nav, Nav but no one listens. Nav should be acknowledged by Birlas and they should be consulting him for shit concerning Abhir but even today, Nav said he called Manyu. This means Manyu still doesn’t call Nav or see him for who he really is and means to Abhir.
@Hi what’s sad is Manyu is not getting mad that his mummywife is hiding things from him regarding his “junior’s” schooling and wellbeing he’s just left Abhir to psychojiri’s mercy while he does nothing, all he does is nothing these days but make sad faces, he’ll fight Akshu with his hypocritical BS but when Nav arrives he can’t even look anyone in the eye, he’ll look everywhere else, cause he’s a snake and Nav is a reminder that he lost Akshu, this psycho man and his mother are punishing Akshu for not returning to her cage.
According to abhimanyu if he is sad everyone should be sad only, if abhimanyu is struggling then everyone else should also do struggling. He didn’t shared anything with akshara regarding what abhir is doing and he talked about coparenting, such a hypocrite person he is. Why he can’t accept a simple fact that abhir’s future is more secured with navra, i think so his ego got hurt that he is completely replace by abhinav in both abhir and akshara’s life. But harsh truth abhimanyu is literally a unwanted things in both abhir and akshara’s life. They both are not interested in him, still he want both of them 🙄.
@Momo
Are you sure Manyu wants Akshara still? Because the way I see it, Manyu is enough for himself and he knows he doesn’t need anyone.
@mark i think somewhere he still wants her to return him. I can’t be wrong also, its just my assumption
@momo
I meant it as a sarcastic remark. Like for someone who wants someone else, Manyu is doing a shitty job of trying his luck.
Everyone had been like that why didn’t akshu told anyone when abhir was born??why didn’t she came back to their house??etc. etc. hopefully you all got your answers now.This is what he would’ve been had to go through from his childhood.This family is a mess and isn’t capable of handling even a single child,this b*tch manjiri and m*nster abhimanyu will destroy that poor sensible and sweet boy’s upbringing.Only abhinav is capable to give him a good upbringing and not even akshu bcoz she isn’t good either, although even he made the biggest mistake of his life by breaking abhir’s heart with his life but he has been living with mahan akshu since 7 yrs so definitely there would be some influence of this mahan akshu ki mahanta on him.What kind of dad is abhimanyu???he could’ve sorted this matter out calmly…but he is pushing abhir’s childhood to the grave but even he isn’t at mistake bcoz he had taken the case back but it’s all bcoz of that inhuman selfish budhiya manjari and that overconfident manish.can’t expect anything from akshu but if elders hadn’t interferred even a bit than abhinav and abhimanyu would’ve handled this matter in best way(only if akshu had some sensibility to listen to abhinav).
@mahi literally today for very first time I feel whatever akshara did 6 years ago is absolutely right. Abhimanyu is absolutely failed father
This is a very good point makers are showing…
When manyu was docman- abhir loved him equivalent to his parents – coz he showed his loving side to his son !..navra in their limited means have always kept abhir content and happy..
When manyu became Dadda..he is only showing his possessiveness and obsession over abhir to fully own him and he is letting his mother parent abhir n take decisions like skipping school…in less than a week- his son is detained and hurt his cousin- isn’t that a big RED FLAG for any reasonable parent??.. instead of taking him straight to navra after he returned from rain.. he let the toxic Birla family drama happen!.. shows his immaturity
Well – indeed I hope navra does build their financial stability in next one year and take abhir back …even if abhir hates them in meantime..atleast rest of his life will be with navra to heal himself from birlas toxicity.. abhinav healed akshara after manyu’s torture.. its sad he has to heal little abhir after psycho mom- son’s obsession sugar coated as love..they have to become strong and they need to do it for him..
But same cannot be said abt manyu.. his actions do not show any concern to his child ..he is failing as father and rightly so !
@Rak
Couldn’t agree more. They portrayed themselves as mighty lions who will take good care of Abhir no matter the circumstances, but it turned out, they are just a bunch of coward bunnies who at the slightest sight of responsibilities and expectations they bailed.
I don’t understand why manyu still thinks he can be rude to arohi.. she is the only sane person trying to show mirror .. manyu looks at mirror n knows he is wrong.. He knows abhir is hurting coz navra had been broken his heart.. he knows abhir is giving him silent treatment.. and he does miss happy relation he once shared as a docman…but still he has audacity to say “he belongs to me”.. for a child to belong.. you need to create that atmosphere first.. when I said abhir calls him sirji n that will remind him of his own relationship with harsh.. i never imagined the relationships between manyu n his son could turn worse than harshmanyu.. atleast harsh loved his son though he mistreated wife…here manyu just wants to own abhir !…look at Birla house..its less of house n more of a mad parade !
@Rak
True. Manyu doesn’t know how to be a dad because he never had one to learn from. Added to that, there is his narcissistic and self absorbed behaviour. All this leaves no room for his success as a dad. He needs serious help. But for him to let someone help him, he needs to admit defeat and beg for help. Otherwise, it’s useless to keep hope.
When Abhi was Docman, Abhir loved n respected him coz he saw him as a kind n understanding man outside his parents, he was his confidant his saviour his hero, but now that the truth is out, he is his bio father, all those becomes his duty n responsibility as his bio father! Nothing special, moreover after Abhi won the custody, the docman is no more existing! But a father that couldn’t care less abt his happiness his wellbeing!
Right @Nonsense
I am so disgusted by Manjiri and Foolishmanyu is manipulation of events to justify their foolishness. Manjiri has known that Abhir is not happy with the move to Birla House and that is why he is acting out but yesterday she attributed his new attitude to Shivu. She has been hiding things about Abhir’s weird behavior even from Sillymanyu just so they can hold onto his custody. Manjiri might be older but she is clearly in over her head and in denial. She clearly knows his son cannot give Abhir what his parents gave him but she playing the time and adjusting card. By the looks of things, the only way Abhir will adjust in Birla House is by become like his father….an angry and spiteful man. In the process, docman is going to be relegated to Sirji. Excusemanyu will never become Abhir is father in all the sense of word. He is not capable of thinking beyond himself and his mother. His mother and him see Abhir as something to possess so they will do just about anything even if it breaks to hold onto Abhir. Very soon Abhir will see him as an intruder and the person who separated Abhir from his parents.
He is truly dumbmanyu. He thought by winning custody and Abhir finding out that he is his father, he will automatically be loved by Abhir yet he doesn’t know how to love but to possess. He used Shivu to cope with Akshara leaving him for one year, and Ruhi for Akshara leaving him permanently.
Without a doubt, Promisemanyu is the worst male lead in all the three generations of YRKKH. What a disgusting narcissistic fool.
@Rach
You are right about Abhirs adjustment. He will adjust to be an angry and spiteful man.
Manjiri has done lots of things in the name of adjusting and Manyu has supported her fully.
No worries, Nav will show them how it’s done.
@Rach.
Me as well. I wasn’t fooled when I realised that Abhimanyu wants to keep Abhir for himself, without investing in the time, effort and love to help him settle in. He sounds helpless but that is his stubbornness at work. Infact, this is high-level foolishness that the viewers are being treated to. They both, mother and son, know that they don’t have all it takes to raise Abhir. Yet, they are both unable and unwilling to do what it takes to raise him well. That is to involve Abhinav in the equation. It isn’t that they have much problem with Akshara. But once Akshara made her feelings about Abhinav known, they quickly chose to minimise her importance in Abhir’s life. This looks like a punishment from Manjiri’s side to Akshara-Abhinav for choosing to remain married.
The same evasive manoeuvres used to scuttle Abhir’s weekend visit was used to skip the school-imposed punishment for Abhir misbehaving at school. Manjiri knows what she is doing. Abhimanyu maybe doesn’t know all of that. But he is her willing accomplice in this. He will band together with his mother against Alshara once again. The other disgust is that there will be willing buyers for this shipment.
What was The principal thinking?, she thinks Manjiri is Abhir’s mother or what? instead of warning either Akshara or Abhimanyu from the beginning of Abhir’s mistakes and change of attitude, why she called Manjiri. The school is obliged to notify the parents as a priority. Manjiri besides wanting Akshara out of Abhir’s life wants to give Abhir a bad upbringing. Manjiri didn’t even bother to tell the child’s father about everything that was happening at school. instead of sharing such serious information with the parents of the child, so that they could take action, she preferred to hide the truth. Manjiri manipulates without remorse without caring about the innocent who suffers, she doesn’t want Abhir’s well-being, she doesn’t let anyone want to take initiatives so that Abhir’s situation can improve. Her own son disagrees with her, he tells her that before making any decision about Abhir she should ask him, he tells her that they should mostly look into the issue between Abhir and Shivansh to normalize the situation otherwise nothing can be resolved, but Manjiri doesn’t listen. Manjiri signed to lose her son, her individualistic actions, without taking into account the opinion of the main concerned will lose her. I feel like she wanted Akshara to find out about Abhir’s behavior, for a dispute to break out between Akshara and Abhimanyu she wanted a reason to challenge Akshara’s rights, and Akshara instead of warning the court she fell for Manjiri’s trap. Abhimanyu be a man and stay away from your mother, if you really don’t want her to be involved in raising Abhir.
@yeol lol blame everyone except your loving dumbmanyu. Everyone is at fault except your dumbmanyu. Everyone else is culprit only your dumbmanyu is victim
Yeol – I can sense psychos trap- but we cannot expect akshara to know that trap or act smartly coz we all know akshnav are emotional and dumb !
What baffles me is she hid abhir’s detention and made him go out instead of atleast having discussion with her own son – I wouldn’t blame manyu for this action – but what happens in precap- psycho treating akshara’s visit rights cancelled has happened in front of manyu.. so tomorrow if akshnav are removed from abhir’s life n abhimnayu is standing by his mother just so he can own his son- well clearly.. he officially turns to villain and takes the place of being harsh in abhir’s life…
And akshnav will face abhir’s hatred coz he ll think his parents abandoned- but well- atleast if akshnav fight custody n win navk abhir..they can love the child better than anyone in birlas
@Rak
Nav will indeed heal Abhir just like he healed Akshara. That’s our only hope.
@yeol well said👏👏
@yeol is saying why principal didn’t inform abhimanyu directly. Bro principal doesn’t know that manjiri is pyscho. Apart from that abhimanyu being the greatest surgeon will be able to available for 24 hours no naa. Things that the Abhimanyu being the main gaurdian so the principal tell his family side. Yaa pyscho should tell this things to Abhimanyu but it was also abhimanyu’s responsibility to look what his son is doing, he should asked his mother india about what the teacher is saying about abhir. Did he asked his mother no naa. Is Abhimanyu a small kid that everyone tell him what to do or not. Did he even check abhir’s notebook, is he completed his work or not. Everyone should do worked for his benefit either manjiri should fight with geonka for custody or akshara should convince abhir to go to birla house, he will do zero work he just wants to complete his desire with zero effort.
@Momo the reason why Abhir is sad and totally obvious from day one, his estrangement from Navra. Time in a healthy environment would have allowed Abhir to be able to adapt, but a new life in a conflicted household will only make the child more unhappy. Abhimanyu can put effort for Abhir, want to defend him and give him love, but I said this yesterday until he decides to walk away from Manjiri or Birlas family, he is complicit in Abhir’s misfortune. There’s nothing wrong with wanting to be a part of your child’s life, earning that right legally there’s nothing wrong. but not taking action to give a nicer environment to the child is wrong, letting the child be impacted in adult disputes as nothing is resolved is wrong, not paying special attention to Abhir after knowing that Navra broke his heart is wrong. Abhimanyu is shown wanting Abhir’s good, but he does not do what is necessary for his good. What is necessary for Abhir, above all, would be to keep his son away from the Birla family, if he wants Abhir to be less troubled by his family’s problems. but the scriptwriters want to show the evolution of Abhir in the Birla family, they also want to show Abhimanyu trying to fix the family relations for the integration of Abhir, instead of making him leave the Birla household. The birla family grouped together are a lost cause, but the scriptwriters after making this family hopeless, want to try to fix it. because yrkkh is a family series and the new generation is entirely in the Birla household, the fact that Shefali stays in this house and will remain in this house after her divorce, the fact that Arohi stays in this house despite being able to leave, shows us that they simply want to regroup the children in the Birla household. It makes me think that the next generation will take place in the Birla house, that’s why the story is also centered on the Birla family. we will now be entitled to a track where the relations between the members of the Birla family will gradually be repaired for some and for others, certain relations will completely end. (Useless track in my opinion, weeds never die Goenka and an example), everyone should evolve on their own, but again it’s a family show
@yeol don’t blame the screenwriter here, everyone know that abhi knew from day one that abhir is heartbroken still he didn’t take enough step to make his son happy, now the whole family is making him uncomfortable still he didn’t take any step. If he is so clueless about what to do or not then why he take such a big responsibility is he dumb oh he is actually dumb more than that he is
ignorant what he did for abhir when he knows abhir is upset with him as he unable to meet his mum, nothing. did he discuss about the recent incident about abhir with akshara no, more than that he hide this things. Today akshara came to know from shivyu what abhir did. Is it not embarass moment for akshara to know about her son from someone else rather than his so called bio father. How can abhimanyu is right here and he is the only one who talked about so called coparenting. Where is his coparenting here, he literally know nothing about abhir still he didn’t take one step to know about abhir. He is still expecting abhir will be okay by himself
@Momo, work is not a justifiable reason for the school not to notify the parent directly of the child’s progress, when the school cannot reach a parent, the school sends a letter or an email to update the parents on the progress of their child. Indeed, a parent has the obligation to monitor the homework of his child, he must ensure that his child’s learning is going well. Abhimanyu has a duty to ensure that Abhir’s academic progress goes smoothly, but he has not done the necessary.
@yeol in many schools, they complaint about the child to their relatives also who come to pick him from school firstly that’s what the principal had done. After there is no response from them, then they immediately call their parents that what’s principal did by calling akshara naa it happens many times bro.
@Momo, on such important matters if after two days there is no response, parents will be called immediately to prevent recidivist behavior in the child. The relatives who pick up the child will be informed, but a note will be added to their liaison book and an e-mail will also be sent so that the school can be discharged of all accusations, it generally happens like that. and Abhimanyu is responsible for his own actions that’s a fact, I was just talking about the direction of the story.
But did they not show him checking Ruhi s work ? Go to Ruhi s PTM 🤔
@Rr, indeed Abhimanyu had been very vigilant about Ruhi’s school needs, I don’t understand why the scriptwriter shows all his inconsistencies, when it seems that Abhimanyu knows the importance of parental involvement in a child’s school curriculum. I think it’s the writer’s need to create drama to spice up the story. Abhinav had been shown so logical at the beginning but the more the story progresses the more his character becomes incoherent and inactive, the writers are a bit lost.
@yeol they are loosing the core of the characters with their inconsistencies
Coz ruhi had her mother arohi with her. Arohi used to make all ground work for ruhi’s upbringing and manyu used to pamper and make ruhi smile at the end. Here manyu has to do the real ground work for abhir now, he is failing to do so. Infact ruhi started turning positive only after manyu diverted her focus towards abhir & arohi got complete liberty in ruhi’s upbringing.
“he pretends to the naive and he sells the I didn’t know/ I don’t understand card very well and if the situation is too much he let’s his mother do the damage on his behalf it might be subconsciously but that is what he does”
@ruthie perfect analysis for manyu
@Rr and @yeol
It’s not inconsistency. Its called victory hangover. And Ruhi was the one to bring her school work and do it with Manyu. Manyu has never initiated anything. He wants to be wanted but he doesn’t want people back. So there is no inconsistency or anything. Manyu had to treat Abhir with special care. He had to run after Abhir and put himself in a low level like sit on the floor or anything but he didn’t. He wanted Abhir to be the one that chases after him like everyone is. He is a narcissist and self absorbed after all.
@Mark, during the Kasauli period, Abhimanyu asked during a call with Ruhi if she finished her homework and he asked her if everything went well and if she was nice, Ruhi replied that she finished everything and was nice as he asked her and that he did not have to worry. This small detail shows that Abhimanyu has always paid some attention to Ruhi’s academic progress.
We have no insight into how Navra works with Abhir or Abhimanyu with Ruhi during all his years we can only trust the detail, and the detail suggests Abhimanyu’s involvement with Ruhi so yes there are inconsistencies.
@yeol
Manyu handled Abhirs upbringing to Manjiri and she did her job best way she could. Principal knows Manyu is the signed parent and she called him but Manyu must have sent his mom instead.
Manyu trusts his mom’s upbringing and this is why she explained why she took Abhir out and Manyu kept quiet. Like how can Manyu solve the issue if Abhir is not talking anymore? Manjiri sent Abhir out with Ruhi and Aru as she was suffocating in B house and she did good. If Manyu wants to talk about the fights, he needs to make Abhir comfortable and relaxed. He should have followed Abhir to where he was and start giving him his presence first and foremost.
Manyu hasn’t any clue about being a father and it’s the truth. He only knows to be papa and docman because those relations are not burdened with responsibilities and expectations. He should ask Nav how it’s done because he has failed long back.
@yeol
I don’t think it’s wise for Akshara to rush to court before giving Birlas a chance to explain where it all went wrong and then work together. Birlas attitude and answers tomorrow will determine everything. Akshara should not take advantage of Birlas efforts if at all they made efforts which will be cleared during questions and answers section of tomorrows exchange. Akshara shouldn’t take advantage of a honest mistake Birlas made that unintentionally made Abhir to change. It all depends on how Birlas point their advantages of letting Abhir stay with them. This is not a fight where you will celebrate if your opponent screw up. So she shouldn’t rush to court as if she was hoping Birlas screw up so as she can win. She should show her disappointment, anger and expectations and see if Birlas assure her of anything. If no, then screw Birlas and the relations they have with Abhir.
@Mark, true, but showing displeasure with such a situation if she feels the mistake could have been made unintentionally, doesn’t involve threatening or insulting, or doesn’t mean verbal aggression is the solution to the problem. If she plans to give the benefit of the doubt she should have asked for explanations, voiced her concerns and demanded a solution, threatened and insulted never leads to a positive outcome only to more conflict. If she had already planned after her discoveries to remove Abhir’s custody from them as she said, strategic thinking is needed, not acting impulsively because she herself is never positively receptive to threat and insult. Akshara is a grown woman she should act like a person her own age, and if the opposing party is not receptive she would have known what she had to do. You don’t have to be insulting to be heard.
@yeol
Calm down. The real exchange is yet to come. But Akshu did well so far. She asked Manjiri where is Abhir? Then why is he not at school?
A good start. Questions which Manjiri didn’t answer. So questions like these will follow. But immediately Manyujiri will open their mouths, I can assure you that they will give wrong answers. Even if Akshu threatens them, they have to show their unity and Believes on how they have Abhirs best interest at hear and they are making efforts and are trying. But clearly they won’t. So @yeol you see, what ever Akshara decided to do or say tomorrow, Manyujiri need to answer well and satisfy a mother. So tomorrow is a trap for Manyujiri and obviously, they will fail and that is why they will bann Akshus weekend visits. Inshort, Akshu has a ticket to throw tantrums tomorrow and threaten and insult and be agreessive and Manyujiri need to satisfy her hunger for blood.
@Mark agree!
@@yeol 👍👍
Like I said before Birla House is never good for any Kids …just look at them now and I find Akshara’s reasons to be 100 percent justified over here …I hope Abhimanyu can see sense that Abhir is not happy in Birla House …and I can fully understand that he is seeing that still he is wanting him to be kept in Birla House because of Manjari …I mean seriously if you love someone let him go …when he feels caged ….This is simply upsetting to see a always happy child changing …
@Shilajit
True
@Shilajit ToxicManyu KNOWS Abhir is not happy and the environment his mother is creating is toxic but he’s doesn’t care, he legally owns Abhir so his mother can do as she likes cause the law says he is Abhir’s father when he is nothing more than a sperm donor. Honestly they need a character who will slap the taste out Manyu’s mouth, I hope it Harsh who returns and sees all this tamasha, slaps Manyu, kicks him out Birla hospital then kicks Manyu together with his old thing out Birla house then releases that Manjiri Bribed the judge to the press and the judge gets beaten to death by a mob then Manyu and his mummywife have to try to escape Udaipur cause the mob will beat them to death next so they flee india and never return
The only reason why Abhimanyu was good as Docman was because he was simply playing a supporting role to the Sharmas and even at that time he had so much to say about their choices but it has been very clear that he cannot be a good parental figure to Abhir, when they had gone to the camp and Abhir had handled some kids who were trying to bully him sensibly he said he was so proud and that if Abhir had been with him he would have raised him exactly like Abirnav did ,so what happened now. No matter what anyone thinks about Navra’s relationship we cannot deny the fact that they are good parents and emphasis on the fact that Abirnav is a very good father , so far his biggest mistake was breaking Abhir’s heart just to aid his transition into the Birla house. Akshara has gone to the Birla house for answers but I am sure that she will just be sidelined once again just because Abhimanyu and his mother will never accept the fact that they are not good for Abhir , I don’t think they understand that custody or not Navra’s have the right to ask questions and it is their duty to answer.
I can’t even blame Arohi because once again she tried to explain it to Abhimanyu that staying in the Birla house isn’t helping Abhir but his ego will never allow him accept the truth because the difference between Abhimanyu and Manjiri is that he pretends to the naive and he sells the I didn’t know/ I don’t understand card very well and if the situation is too much he let’s his mother do the damage on his behalf it might be subconsciously but that is what he does
@Ruthie
“..he pretends to the naive and he sells the I didn’t know/ I don’t understand card very well and if the situation is too much he let’s his mother do the damage on his behalf it might be subconsciously but that is what he does” very true.
I agree that Manyu has the duty to answer Akshara’s claims, accusations and questions. Manyu has to answer with satisfying answers and not point in his mom’s direction for help.
I think that is the mistake that he will do tomorrow. He will deflect all the questions by either justifying his incompetency or blame his mother. He will even go as far as blaming Akshara for some of it but hey, Akshara is not the one with Abhir now is she?
Exactly @Mark
Totally agree
And people telling that Abhinav is sidelined or just roaming around …think about Aarohi ….Aarohi and Abhinav are semi leads and both are better than the leads
@Shilajit Aarohi is a puppet
in Manjiris hand .Leave your work, make two kids bunk school take them out…tom marry my son (who is still stuck on his ex) so that my grandson has a step mom.You are indebted to me because I let you marry Niel and therefore got a share in the birla wealth…
@Rr
True.
@Rr right
@surabhi , it takes a.mother to know wat ak is going thru ryt now her pain., fear and and anger r all justified compared to manjiris pain, who values blood relations inspite of adopting neil(hyprocricy at its highest), and wat abt navv who also loves abhir genuinely, shes ready to snatch away his rights of being a dad too , just so that her son can fully get his rights ,so wen manyu stans say that ak has to apologize to this psycho i feel lyk wacking them
@Catnip Manjiri should apologise to Neil’s soul for not revealing his paternity.If I recollect Neil got his share of love and respect as a birla and share in birla fortune only after the truth came out.What does Akshara apologise for ?? “Sorry I took Niel with me ” Ridiculous!!
TO ALL ABHIMANYU FANS MAY YOU BE BLESSED WITH A MOTHER IN LAW LIKE MANJIRI WHO TEACHES CHILDREN TO BE ABUSERS AND CHEATERS AND THROWS YOU OUT AT YOUR LOWEST.
@Catnap
Very true. Manyujiri maintained one thing and that is, hypocrisy.
Is it worth it? When Manyu thought to break Abhirs illusion of a happy and complete family, I asked, will his fatherly rights and recognition as the real dad, be worth reconstructing Abhirs reality? It was not so hard to tell then, and even now, when it is clear as day. Sadly, it was and will never be worth Abhirs state now. It’s a strictly yes or no question. Some will agree but some, not so much. But one thing is for sure. Abhir was the best version of himself before he met Manyu.
@catnap 🤣🤣👍
😂😂😂 when there are 1000 mistakes of abhi to mention, some manyu fans and HC fans smartly bring the topic nav is sidelined.😂 But few weeks ago they had a problem with nav having more screen time and now they have a problem with him being sidelined🙄😏. Yes..he should not be kept in a backseat when it is about abhir coz he is also a n important part in Abhir’s life. But writers have focused on Akshara more now. Writers want to focus on akshara and make it as a Akshara’s fight against birlas. True she should fight as it was coz of abhir akshara is living today. She after being thrown out she lived only for abhir. Though nav is also an important part in her life now, 6 yrs ago her life was around abhir only and now those people who threw her out are going to snatch her son. So like few weeks ago they prioritised nav to show as a best father now they have prioritised akshara as a mother who is ready to fight for her son. But like today she said nav will always be her strength and supporter. Anyways it is a stupid idea of the writers to sideline nav they should have made at least small involvement of nav. But manyu neglecting nav as Abhir’s father is totally true. Not only in these episodes but in previous also manyu didn’t involve nav. It is the truth.
@Lily
Couldn’t agree more. I wish Nav will wait outside B house and peep inside to see if Akshara is winning. If she is not, he comes and save her. But I fear they will disrespect him by asking who is he to interfere. Birlas are capable of anything.
Exactly @Lily
But I do miss Abhinav and Abhir’s funny moments. It felt so special.
@surabhi
@yeol
Forget the past
Looking at Abhir’s condition now, shouldn’t Akshara be worried that her son is so troubled and she heard it from the principal and not her child’s father – who didn’t have any idea himself what was happening?
He lets Manjiri run the show and that’s not okay. He keeps telling Aarohi that he’s Abhir’s father then why isn’t he acting like it?
And can you justify his behaviour in the precap? If he allows his mother to take away Akshara’s visitation rights? That’s not going to be good for Abhir. Frankly, the court shouldn’t even do that. Manjiri is just taking revenge. She doesn’t love anyone but her soulless, f**king self.
Anyway, didn’t mean to sidetrack but are you still going to support Abhimanyu when he takes his child’s 2 days with his mother? Abhir who wanted to see his parents during the weekend but who couldn’t?
And if you still support Abhimanyu then – imm sure he’ll be like Ma, you’re doing wrong and we shouldn’t do that but he won’t do anything in the end because he’s his mother’s son and nothing else
Anyway, If you still support him, It’s obvious the kind of people you are and the red flags you pose
@Loma …woh woh woh don’t go on hating @Surabhi and @yeol …and remember this is a show …no worries chill out
So true @Shilajit 👍 all characters have been turned by the clever writers. Manjiri lost all sympathy when Neil truth came out and now she is positively unhinged. Abhimanyu from passionate became controlling abusive toxic.Akshara from naive became stupid and dumb Manish became the foolish stupidest grandfather ..list goes on to Parth Mahima Shivansh …Wait and see now they will turn Abinav 😂
@Loma as @Mark says Manyu is FULLY aware of his psychotic mummywife (there is some strange Oedipus shit going on here) he keeps quiet because he approves of what his mother does to give him what he wants which is to deprive Akshu of Abhir to the point she breaks and he can force her back into his cage.
Manyu never wanted a wife, he wanted songbird in a cage.
ManyuJiri just wants to break Akshu.
@Jade
I am still standing by believes. Manyu is using Manjiri for his not so innocent needs and desires and reserves for himself the innocent wants. He is wearing a good image and made his mom wear his dirty image. It’s like Hyde and Jekyll who are one and the same in one body, only in this case, they are in different bodies but still maintain the distribution of duties. This is the only hypothesis that has hold true in many instances and keeps holding true even now.
There are many who thinks that manjari has lost Neil that’s why she doesn’t like akshara but guys if she really loved Neil then ruhi would have been her first priority because she is Neil’s daughter but after knowing about abhir she has completely forgotten ruhi. Definitely she is taking revenge from akshara for rejecting her proposal of re- accepting her “Raja Beta”.
Today, we’ll I’m always pissed with psychojiri but I am annoyed with the writers, what are you doing with Arohi? Why is a sensible strong female character made to be so docile, please write the Goenka sisters better or leave the job you are doing cause you SUCK at it.
Now Manyu and his mummywife, I will now call them a cursed married couple, cause psycho is out here acting like the vindictive new barren wife who took the first wife’s kid cause she can’t have her own and wants to solely own and manipulate everyone with her plain jane behchari face and over dramatic actions why is Shefali listening to this manipulative b*t*h’s BS.
Imma need Harsh to come back, with a whip, beat his old thing then beat the loin fruit of the old thing and kick them out Birla house and hospital. Harsh had his reasons he knew this b*t*h was a manipulative little psychopath. ManyuJiri living out of the Birla house with Abhir will surely make Abhir run away, at this stage Abhir will be better of an an unknown child in an orphanage than living with ManyuJiri
Psychojiri is doing to Abhir what she did with Neil, pretending to be this pious woman while secretly getting off the destruction of the child, she only brought Neil cause Manyu wanted him and because she wanted to watch Harsh hurt his kid for her own perverse pleasure, she’s doing the same here with Abhir, ruining him to cause Akshara pain.
I hope TRP starts to drop cause people don’t want to see this broken brained Manyu and his mummywife, also watching this much toxicity being forced on a child is unpalatable. Rajan Shahi should take a break from writing shitty serials back to back like Failpama and this to realign his own brain. It feels like his serials are a dog chasing it’s own tail, the action of which is pointless even if the dog grabs its own tail it will be hurting itself.
If DKP really want to keep Harshad they can do what they did with Naira and Sirat, Kill NavManyu and have Harshad come in as a completely new character with no links to the Birla’s Abhira stand will love that cause they are superficial and only interested in Harshad’s aesthetics. But for God’s sake stop torturing Abhir, DKP is out here triggering all the people who are from broken homes, can they be class action sued I wonder
Rightly said.
It is triggering all the people who are from broken families.
And Aarohi’s character is reduced to babysitting and her one sided friendship relationship with that toxic person.
@😎its also giving wrong messages to women with kids who want to move out from abusive spouses..
See this will happen to your kids so for your kids sake bear with your abusive spouse
@Jade
True. Aru can do better than this. She should do better than this. I don’t know what made her soft, is it only being a mother or it’s something else?
Overall, it seems this Birla house especially manjiri is spoiling abhir’s behaviour and this is not good for a growing child. I hope akshara file the case again and fight for his son and win his custody. I believe abhir will be a good and sensible child if he stays with abhinav and akshu.
what are the makers trying to prove, that the best way to avenge someone is to ruin a poor kid’s life?
Also, Dumbanyu, what kind of a parent are you, you can’t even realize your son’s trauma, and instead, you are a maa ka chamchur.
Grow up, pull yourself together, and listen to everyone else but your maniac mother Pyshojiri.
@Amar
I knew Birlas will never manage and give Abhir even a quarter of the happiness he got from Navra. Infact I thought Abhir will run after staying with them for two days, but makers obviously are being too generous to give Birlas all these days.
I have lost all my interest in this shit, makers had ruined the entire story to unrepairable it will be better if this serial goes off air… Each character living in their delusion.. I feel Kaira was the best!!!
Switching to Barsatien it’s pretty nice and fresh story but can’t bet on it for long as on ekta kapoor,😅
Few Abhira/ Toxicmanyu fans, when Abir first time met dadamanyu and broke the glass- Awwwwww how cute they met,Abhi and his Junior🥰😍.Like lion like cub.🦁 He is such a daring boy who takes stand for his mother.
Same Fans now- Abhir is spoiled when he was with abhinav, look how he hit the football ⚽ to strangers and broke the police glass…
Law of convenience is fully exploited.🤗🤗
When abhimanyu showed “konsi help” attitude to Aaru, she should have punched him… according to him she should tell, ‘yes you are right abhimanyu ,abhir belongs to you and this circus house 🏠.Abhir is simply overthinking….you are the Godfather and anyone should be crazy about you.’🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
@ 😎- Lol – 100% agree…
Like literally blind fans bring that football incident.. well, manyu didn’t pay nav and little abhir thought this tourist is causing trouble to his parents so he aimed football at him.. he is all of 6..he thought its right !.. anyway was later schooled by his parents that it’s wrong…
Abhir is bright student as shown from beginning- he corrects ruhi’s spellings and he did show interest to attend school n projects..
And blind fans equating that with school detention/ scribbles on test paper / hurting a cousin badly..all shows that the rosy red glasses are hoping for cringefest romance alone and not ready to see the reality !
@😎 @Rak maybe they are doing this to seed out the people who need to be institutionalised 😂😂😂 Anyone STILL shipping Abhira has issues for which they need to be separated from society. Poor Abhir is being ground down in that house, if this little boy ends up suiciding then the Abhira shippers will be like Akshu must return to Manyu, heal his wounds and make a new Abhir, all the Manyu and Abhira shippers will never view a woman as anything more than a brood mare and a possession.
@Rak Agreed
@Jade
I hope Abhir doesn’t take such steps.
If something like abhir hurts himself and when akshara confronts Toxicmanyu and his mom…they will still pull out Neil’s death card and say we are suffering for 6.5 years.🙄🙄🙄
Neil died so it’s ok if six year old Abhir dies or even injurs himself ..
If they wish that they won’t find themselves a place in hell
@jade
😂😂😂😂😂
Where is @Siya ☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️
Is it worth it? When Manyu thought to break Abhirs illusion of a happy and complete family, I asked, will his fatherly rights and recognition as the real dad, be worth reconstructing Abhirs reality? It was not so hard to tell then, and even now, when it is clear as day. Sadly, it was and will never be worth Abhirs state now. It’s a strictly yes or no question. Some will agree but some, not so much. But one thing is for sure. Abhir was the best version of himself before he met Manyu.
@Mark it’s worth it for ToxicManyu and his mummywife. They don’t care how much Abhir breaks, whether he gets good marks and becomes a functional member of society, he is just a pet they now possess and they will chain him to Birla house the same way they wanted to keep Akshu caged forever, all they wanted was a doll who sings, ducks, makes babies and not much else. They wanted a singing baby making puppet
True
There are red flags on Abhir he was a child given to burst of tempers as was shown in kasauli but here the triggers are so much more.Hes showing aggression on the paper,a disturbed mind ,a low self esteem ,he’s not communicating with anyone I hope Aarohi disobeys Manjiri and takes Abhir to meet Abhinav because Abhir needs Abhinav s calmness and reasoning and loving hug (Akshara is a mother on warpath so will make things worse)
@Rr I hope Arohi takes him straight to a psychologist to get a comprehensive report made up so they can fit to the police and lodge a complaint against psychojiri and the police tell Manyu either he takes his son and goes far away from his mummywife or he kicks his mummywife out the house and lives with his son, in all honesty Manyu needs to be put in a place where he has to tear his umbilical cord which is still attached to psycho’s rotten uterus or set Abhir free to fly and be happy in Kasauli.
I sometimes wonder if with the interactions between Aru and Nav they kill off Abhira somehow and the leap is the Goenka’s make Aru and Nav get married for the children cause they can’t have Manish raise another gen and no one wants to see the Birla’s in the next gen.
Yuck! @Jade
The principal must have met Manjiri during one of the pickups from school. As she was a possible designated guardian on that admission form. Well, as disciplinary action was discussed with Manjiri, she decided to hide it from the family. She could be afraid of a reprimand from her family. However, she is definitely scared of Akshara finding out. Which she did anyway. She tried to send Abhir away in the morning to avoid the mandatory detention in the school. It seems running away is the universal set, everyone seems to embed it in their strategy. The in-thing.
Abhimanyu tried to raise the question of Abhir skipping school but here again, he deferred to his mother’s reasoning. Well, what to say. When Aarohi talked to him about Abhir’s happiness. He made the curt reply. Maybe not so brief, but more dismissive, not ready to accept the counsel given. He was elevating his self-inflicted pain over his son’s well-being. If this isn’t selfishness, then, I might just as well aver that there is no evil in this world. But, there is. So far so good. @Ara, @Mark, @Hi and others including me, of course, have being making these points for weeks now. The assessments have panned out.
Well, I waited for today’s episode to know why Akshara would confront the Birlas over Abhir and threaten to take him away from them. Manjiri is failing in the mother-figure role in Abhir’s life. She no longer has the nous, the mettle or the touch to raise children. Isn’t that obvious? She stubbornly refuses to change course. She rushes on her chosen path, not unlike a high-speed train about to get derailed. The Birlas couldn’t bring themselves to tell Akshara about Abhir’s state. Today, Shefali Lied to Akshara as well. Akshara is right to be angry with them. Abhir is worsening in their house, they don’t have the answers but their foolish pride stands in the way of asking for help where it matters.
@Meed
Run, running, ran, runs. Everybody does it. But tomorrow, Manyu will raise the topic of running to deflect bullets aimed at him, so as they be directed at Akshu. He will say it as if that will save him but of course that is not a strong point as he made himself to believe.
@Meed, I mean to say that, tomorrow, Akshu is allowed to shout, scream, curse, bark, cry, laugh, jump, crawl, accuse, threat, insult etc, etc. Inshort, Birlas need to pamper Akshu with straight answers that will satisfy her thirst for blood. I mean to say that, we mothers out here, want to strangle Birlas for what they did to Abhir and we are not even related to him. How then can Akshu, not do it instead and do more than that? As a mother, she trusted Birlas and went to extremes in her trust on them by breaking her relation with her son so that her son will not give Birlas a hard time. But Birlas have now proved to be untrustworthy. So she must be fuming with anger, regret, annoyance and e.t.c. Birlas need to answer Akshu tomorrow and plead with her and assure her that they have things under control. They need to commit themselves to a timeline within which, Abhir will be back to normal. Inshort, they have to put up with everything that Akshu throws at them because she is a mother. She gave birth to Abhir and she never once wanted to abort Abhir. She didn’t, even once, say that she cannot take care of Abhir so it’s unfair and injustice to not satisfy her tomorrow.
@ Mark. Right..We completely forget that legally Akshara had full right to Abort the baby (Abhir) and no husband consent is needed.So a mother right can be snatched by sperm doner? Tell me again who’s Manjiri in all this🤔
@Mark.
I agree. Akshara has all the rights to be angry and all the rights to take offense at Abhirs volatile state. She had asked about his well-being today, and Shefali had to lie to her as Manjiri knew that the storm was coming. Instead of lighting the safety beacons, she chose to batten down the hatches. Her hard-line position will fail eventually.
Akshara has been treated unjustly and all mothers have the right to inquire about the well-being of their children wherever they are. Abhimanyu was hiding about Abhir’s violence from Akdhara and his failure to give good upbringing and to his son. He didn’t know that his son got zero marks in the test at school. His son is talking back to teachers and is despondent at school.
Akshara is right. Akshara was being blamed by her detractors yesterday but the best answer is today’s events which corroborated the correct viewpoints.
Meed – Correct , tomorrow akshara’s questions are gonna relate only to her son and his well being ..
She deserves to know why her son is detained / why did he not care abt tests/ why was he violent towards a fellow child …all of these are big RED flags for any parent except ofcourse for psycho-manyu duo…
The moment akshara questions- instead of answering or admitting the issue or explaining what happened between shivu-abhir … toxicmanyu will start blaming akshara for running away.. dumbmanyu doesn’t accept that akshara LEFT HIM FOR A BETTER PERSON.. a person who doesn’t treat her like a tissue !.. so yes – her anger will shoot up and she would definetly want to make her son be faaar from the toxic Birla house..who wouldn’t?
Navra breaking abhir’s heart was a wrong step.. but that was only part of reason why abhir is upset.. majority of reason is because there is no one to parent him at Birla house.. manyu doesn’t know how to parent and psycho parenting skills we have already seen !
@Rak.
I agree. She has the right to ask questions and the Birlas have the responsibility to answer the questions. But, they don’t easily accept their failure and will now try to. deflect from Akshara’s accusations. They have not been up and doing with Abhir. Akshara is right to be worried. I think she didn’t want Abhinav soiled in the arguments which would definitely ensue. It may have been to her advantage that he came along. Those Birlas are egocentric. Abhimanyu is preoccupied with his pain which, you have mentioned. He is wasting time on what could have been. He needs to be in the here and now with Abhir, doing his level best for his son. Yet, he isn’t doing that.
I agree that Abhir is missing parental love at the Birlas. The Birlas don’t want to accept this and they are failing Abhir with their selfishness. Yes, the Navra made a horrendous mistake by manipulating Abhir to go to the Birla house. They will have to wait for one year or so to correct their mistake.
@Rak
We really have seen Manjiris parenting and it’s a fail with a 0% mark.
For all blind manyu fans still shipping for abhira..or saying what was manyu’s mistake and what exactly is nav role ?..
Well..its clear now- abhira is not just cringe now, it’s wrong on so many levels !
And nav – basically his role is to heal anyone who had been tortured / thrown/ run away out by psycho n her son out of that mad Birla house..
He healed akshara and made abhir n akshu happy for 6 long years…
Now once they leave to kasauli and little abhir is left in Birla house for the next year and mentally tortured – again its nav’s job to heal and love his Nikki ji after akshara wins custody.. so yes !… nav is here to stay
Jade and shyra – I think you guys were right..endgame is mummymanyu or manyujiri or whatever abhijiri !.. coz two ppl who stuck to each other in madness from decades are the psycho mom n toxicson!
@Rak.
So true. Abhinav is a calm personality. He is imperfect but he does enough of the right things bring joy to the lives of Akshara and Abhir. Akshara doesn’t want to leave him for any reason because he became her strength when she was broken. Now he has lost his source of income due to money required for Abhir’s first surgery but he will bounce back in some way.
Abhinav will always be there for Abhir. He loves him a lot. He has promised him. He will be by Akshara’s side as he has promised her as well. Eventually the family will be back together.
@Meed
And at the end of it, we will say, fate killed Neil to save Akshara from Manyujiri. Well, a life lost for a life saved. A perfect ending.
@Rak can you imagine this gen ends with the cute little Sharma family attending ManyuJiri’s wedding and throwing petals on them while they happily walk their phera’s 😂😂😂😂 Abhir will be back with his Kasauli family and happy, Manyu and psycho will be allowed to conclude their Oedipus connection, Mimi might finally become Bhagwan Ki pyaari seeing that wedding and the fans who actually watch will need new TVs cause they would have throw their current ones 😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂
Ya i already see the Manyujiri as a hot pair. They are demonic couple from any ekta kapoor Fantasy show😂
Ghum Hai Kisike Pyaar mai Third Draft
Jade and Shyra-
Lol ..seriously – I admire the commitment of this mummysonny duo !.. both want same things(abhir/ akshu)..if the said things dont listen to them both want to hurt same persons ( akhsu/ nav).. if nothing works..mummy will have panic attack n son will keep bechara face asking everyone to pity on them !.. well if nothing works.. they ll go to their favorite family instant court and get instant 2 minute noodles judgement !!
Have we seen any such strong bond and committed ppl ?…
If only abhira or akshnav had that strong bond !
@Mark, thought thus real life account of a good and successful person emerging from failed parenting may interest you. Thus in reference to my confidence that Abhir would be fine, if his story was real. I hope you can open the link. @Yeol, might interest you too given your great insights into parenting.
Richard E Grant reveals his mother has died at the age of 93 https://mol.im/a/12321773 via https://dailym.ai/android
@Rai
You can’t say Abhir would be fine. Because the chances of that happening depends on a lot. I think it’s safe to say that Abhir may be fine because it’s not guaranteed. Thanks for the link.
Rai –
I haven’t read the link but can say that if abhir is left alone in Birla house under psycho…he cannot be safe !! . ..unless manyu dramatically leaves Birla house n takes abhir to some faaar off place !
But we saw that manyu won’t leave his mummy ka pallu… so chances of him turning a miracle on his kid with his psycho mummy even in radius of 100kms is less than zero !
@Raï, in real life children adapt, in real life children can live and see so many things extremely during their childhood, however, their future and their temperament do not necessarily end up spoiling because before being children, they are human beings who seek to survive. Humans are known to be able to adapt to all types of environment. Abhir will come out of it because the storms of life are not made to last forever, the problems of his life he will learn to solve them on his own, if he wants to survive. He will learn to accept his situation and to fight for his rights so as not to let himself be walked on, it is human. All children are not lucky enough to have a childhood without problems or hassles, each child lives their own problems and often has the impression of being in insurmountable situations at times, but they raise their heads to move forward. Abhir had to adapt to Sharma life, he learned to take the problems on himself and he learned to fight for what he considers right, even if he has to make mistakes. Abhir will eventually resign himself to living with the Birla family and will develop his own sense of survival to adapt. Abhimanyu has the power to prevent Abhir from having to resign himself, not all children live with their mothers, he himself must find the solution to get away from his own, because you can love a person from a distance, no need to tolerate his bad behavior if he is determined not to change. Abhimanyu can provide Abhir with a healthy environment for them to adapt to his new life, without Abhir ending up relying on his survival instinct to adapt, a healthy environment and good support would be enough to relax Abhir, but Abhimanyu does not do the needful, and this now makes him responsible for a lot of Abhir’s misery. This article is a good example to prove that children are not necessarily influenced by their surroundings, they learn to survive and grow in a complicated environment without adopting the wrong codes. it is surprising to note that he evolved without hatred for his mother and that he remains grateful to her despite everything for having given her life. it proves that hatred may well not develop even in the most complicated relationships. Abhimanyu should also not let his mother put a limit on Abhir’s relationship with his loved ones, Abhir will eventually overcome the hardships but he will not be spared suffering, sadness and frustration.
@yeol
True. Abhir will survive the sadness, frustrations and suffering. The only question is how will he survive?????? Will he use anger and spite as his shield or will he use disconnect from the world as his shield or will he fight everything and everyone as his shield?
That is what matters. He will surely pick one disgusting personality that will later be a problem to the society. And obviously the society will have to take on the burden of putting up with the disgusting behaviour and may end up be the ones that rid him of that behaviour more crudely and painfully. Just like Manyus state now. Manyu did pick up disgusting habits and he is reaping the fruits now. He lost the love of his life and is loosing his son.
According to Richard E Grant, he witnessed his mom’s infidelity behaviour and caught her twice in the act. His mom also demanded approval and appraisal from everyone around her and from her son but didn’t offer approval to his son. She went beyond to turning approval to criticism. But this constant criticism pushed actor Grant to be ambitious which is a good thing. Of course R E Grant became successful and survived his mom’s upbringing but he must have picked something awful but if he hasn’t, we call it a real break through.
@Mark, yes fine in the end! Now, I think all three parents need to stop their self absorption, Akshara about her fear, Abhimanyu his pain and Abhinav, I’m invisible and focus on Abhir to ask him what has pushed him into despondence and depression.
@Rai
Not when Manjiris eyes are residing in her socket and rulling India courts and Indian people and mostly not when Manyu is there reaping the benefits of his mom’s fight for him and boasting for all to see how his mom is The mom.
@Yeol, knew you would through up much food for thought.
A perfect childhood with the perfect family is a marketing myth and most people like the interviewee in the article rise above some awful parenting to make their life a success earning the respect of others.
Yes, Abhir poor child is suffering, he certainly has his share of self absorbed adults around him.
@Rai, (Perfect childhood with the perfect family is a marketing myth), very true
@Rai there is nothing ” perfect” OF course children adapt.Thats human nature,But their environment circumstances leaves such deep scars,that it spoils their future relationship .These children/adults have trust issues intrapersonal issues.Anthropoligically and Statistically western countries has more issues but also more health professionals.We in india have a strong religious community and all religions support family structure If it falls the child adapts but he has more mental issues because he feels he’s at fault.
@Rr
True
@Mark, Abhimanyu is standing up to Manjiri. But true he given to procrastination and needs to act more speedily to help his son.
But true Manjiri is out of control and Abhimanyu needs to stop over sympathising with her if he is to keep his son.
Will Abhi and Akshara get together? There is no chemistry between Abhinav and Akshara. I looked forward to watching the series because of the amazing chemistry between Abhimanyu & Akshara. Now I can catch up after a week.
@Esther
How about catch up after the 3rd gene is finalized with Navra?
@esther why you people love toxicity I mean why🤔
@Surabhi you remind me of Amitabh Bachchanji from Piku. Like Imranji said “kamal hain, aap kaise har baat constipation se jodh lete hain, kamal hain 👌🏽” Same way baat kya ho rahi hain, kiski ho rahi hain and you drag Abhinav in for no reason. Just like Amitji you will find a million reasons to support Toxicmanyu on no basis whatsoever, you have the talent of whisking your hand and bringing out baseless facts from midair to support your Abhi despite what we see in front of us. Who said Toxicmanyu needs Abhir, Toxicmanyu doesn’t need Abhir nor Akshara what he needs is a blind supporter like you who will be there for him no matter what he does. While your actions say otherwise I really hope you’re not a young person because if so, only god help our generation. Kya future hain humara. (Sorry guys didn’t mean to burst but honestly I just had to say it at last)