Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai 22nd July 2023 Written Episode, Written Update on TellyUpdates.com
The Episode starts with Akshu asking Manjiri didn’t any complaint come about Abhir. Abhi asks what happened. She says he is living with you, I should ask this question, you should know what’s going on in his life, Manjiri knows it but she has hidden it, check this weekly test copy, what he wrote, he back answered his teacher, think, my Abhir is doing this, any child who does this gets punishment, he got detention, but he didn’t go to school today, principal told me, he is absent today, Manjiri knew this, principal told her, Manjiri thinks I m her enemy, but she should have told you. He asks Maa is she saying the truth. Akshu says you felt bad when people called Abhir as Abhinav’s son, you have much problem with Abhinav’s name, you had torn his name from the labels, Abhir Abhinav Sharma never did this, he was a well behaved kid in the school, he was the topper, he was caring and used to explains other kids not to fight, but Abhir Abhimanyu Birla fights with his brother and hits with a pencil, you changed him, he would have not done this if he was happy and normal here, you don’t want to think of his happiness, you all are selfish and can’t raise him. Abhi says enough, are you capable, so court decided in my favor, I m his dad, I can solve his every problem. She taunts him. She says you are Abhir’s problem. Manjiri scolds her. She says its not Abhi’s mistake, I didn’t know about test, I knew about punishment, I felt he will feel good with an outing. Akshu says you want to teach him this thing, he doesn’t realize his mistake and doesn’t say sorry to anyone. Shefali asks her to calm down. Akshu asks why how anger filled in him, it means this environment isn’t right for him, I don’t want Abhir to become like Abhi, I don’t want any anger issues and stubborn behavior.
Abhi says I don’t want him to become like you, that he runs away from problems before facing it. She says I m not that Akshu now. He says I m not the same. Anand says you have to think how to solve this. Akshu says I know I m not perfect, Abhinav is with me, there isn’t any better dad than him for Abhir. Abhi says I didn’t know about him, I can’t do this in one week what he did for 6 years. They argue. She says I will not let him stay here, he is learning wrong things here, please let me take my son. Manjiri says if you do anything like this, then I will go to court, reopen this case and get the meeting permission cancelled. Akshu says I will call Aarohi and ask her to take Abhir to Goenka house, I will take his stuff. Manjiri says then I will call the police, we aren’t scared, if she doesn’t leave then I will call the police. Akshu drags a sofa chair and sits. She says call the police, military or anyone, I will tell them that my son’s mental health is getting affected, its also an issue, then we will take this matter to court. Manjiri says fine, as you wish. Manish comes and takes the phone from her hand. He asks Akshu to come. He says you lost when you fought the case as a mother, this time, you fight by your talent, you defeat name, fame, identity and everyone, I m sure you will win. Akshu says be ready, I will come to take my son. She leaves with Manish.
Abhir doesn’t eat the icecream. Aarohi dumps it and cleans his hand. She says Akshu, Kairav and I used to come to this icecream parlor, Akshu and I used to fight for the pineapple pastry, I used to make Akshu’s pastry fall. Ruhi says you were a bad girl. Aarohi says yes, I was bad, I used to think I will feel better if I vent anger, I used to get more hurt, anger is bad, it harms us, say no to anger. She goes to get icecream for him. Ruhi asks what do you want. Abhir says I want to go home, I want my parents, nothing else, I want to live with them in my Kasauli house. Abhinav and Akshu hold hands. He says we learn from Abhir sometimes, how did he get so angry. She recalls Abhi. She says I don’t want Abhir to become like Abhi. Abhi says I don’t believe this. Mahima says Akshu said it right. Akshu says Abhi lost a lot of things in his life because of his anger, I don’t want Abhir to face this, I have to calm his heart. Abhi says I will keep my responsibility and get his lost peace back. Its morning, Akshu recalls everything. Abhinav says your tiffin is ready. She says thanks, sorry, I can’t do anything. He says I can’t study anything from your books. She says I didn’t go to office on my first day. He jokes and asks her to make a start, smile and hold head high. He says Abhir and I were waiting for this day, I m sure you won’t let our house break, you are very strong, when you become a big lawyer, everyone will run after you. She says I won’t forget everything, you never left me. He says I will be with you. She says I hope Abhir’s day passes well. He says yes. They hug. Shivansh comes to Abhir. He asks how did you like the drama, everyone ran and came to me, I will get you slapped. Abhi looks on and thinks what happened to Shivansh, he was always a good job, Abhir is tolerating this. Abhir says I didn’t do anything wrong, you pushed me and got hurt. Shivansh says no one will believe you. Abhir goes. Abhi thinks how shall I handle them, help me Mahadev, I don’t want to be unfair with any of them.
Precap:
Akshu gets the court notice. She shouts and cries. Abhinav says we will go to Kasauli. Abhinav and Akshu leave. Aarohi says Abhir is not in the house. Abhi worries.
Update Credit to: Amena
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people say akshara and abhimanyu have chemistry and abhinav and akshu have a no chemistry meaning what? chemistry is good in science only, not included in life. In a relationship you need men who take care of your feelings and respect you. abhimanyu and Akshu’s relationship is weak. we all saw it. abhimanyu always wanted to control akshu and his decision.
@Geetanjali The Abhira shippers are a bunch of very superficial people who think with their hormones. Every time they see TrashManyu’s face they need a diaper change
True Jade…. They only want to see romance, Navra gives real life vibes.i hope they don’t end Nav’s character sooner or later
Abhinav and akshu are like Ying Yang. When akshara falls short abhinav manages and vise versa.
Ok Now my heart just broke seeing Abhir’s crying and asking only for his mumma and papa ..and regarding the court notice …is Abhimanyu aware about the fact if he is aware of this fact then he is very much guilty now but I don’t think he is aware of this fact …anyway Abhinav And Akshara scenes are so eye soothing and calm and finally Abhimanyu found out about Shivu being a bully …good ..and why is Abhimanyu still not accepting the fact that Birla house is not good for his kid …right now I think he is being stubborn…this not letting Abhir go is like caging a bird in a golden cage ..
Shilajit –
Does it matter if manyu was aware of manjiri action explicitly???..she openly threatened to cancel akshara visitation rights in front of everyone and she was about to call police..yhe audacity of psycho to call police when she herself denied the weekened to parents…so definetly manyu is aware of his mother intentions… and he knows she has habit of acting impulsively ..so he cannot feign innocence this time atleast that his mummy dint tell him !!!
@Shilajit even if he didn’t know he’ll sing songs of praise for his mummy wife’s actions and rationalise it and expect everyone else to be as delusional as he and his mother are, Abhir could die and they would keep his corpse on life support cause he’s a living trophy and nothing more for this pathetic ManyuJiri, why is psycho involving herself with Abhir’s schooling, she keeps behaving more and more like ToxinManyu’s insecure new wife, on par with the Patralekha’s, Tanu’s, Aaliya’s and Malishka’s of serial world.
@Rak @Jade agree with you
Akshara said, ‘I am not perfect…I have Abhinav to handle me when I am out of control’.
Abhimanyu has Aarohi who tells him how abhir is hurt 🤕, how not to uproot him and plant at Birla,but this pathetic manyu is stuck in the past and insult her by saying ‘Abhir is like newly wedded girl, who is trying to adjust’, as if Abhir is Balika Vadhu 🙄🙄🙄
@😎 Manyu is that former BF who won’t leave his ex alone even if she has someone else and he’ll use the kids along with every known manipulation he can. I lost all respect for Manyu’s character when he decided Akshu should return to him and break her marriage and her kid’s heart.
@😎
Balika Vadhu😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂so funny but it hurts.
@Mark
True it hurts….this pathetic person compares the situation with newly wedded women, comparison itself is stupid.
The girl knows she is getting into new family and making her own family, but not leaving her parents family.
How this fellow is comparing it with Abhir’s situation🤦🤦🤦
@😎Did he actually say that? I mean, WTF??? I wonder how he became a doctor. I think I missed the part where he said that. I skip the majority of the Birla’s scenes, especially Manjiri’s, because she is horrible. I still can’t believe he compared his son to a newlywed. He and his mother literally snatched every single happiness from that kid and are now making illogical comparisons. I would be at a loss for words if Akshara decides to go back to this obnoxious mom-son duo after all of this, under any circumstances.I can’t believe that I am hating a character played by Harshad. I have seen Bepannah and Humsafars before, and I really liked him. I still like him, but Abhimanyu is just awful. I hope he escapes from this crap ASAP. I stopped watching this show after 1st Akshara’s death and I literally started watching this shit because of him.
Yes @Sara Yesterday’s episode
After shivu is hurt by bullying Abhir,that night Abhimanyu watching abhir sleeping and wonder 🤔 why he is not sharing anything with Dada.Then Arohi reminds him how Abir is hurt 🤕.He compares abhir with newly married girl who is sent to her sasural.🙄🙄
No doubt Harshad Chopra & Ami Trivedi are brilliant actors.
Watching today’s and yesterday’s episode, I was pushed into thinking about this one dialogue in KRPKAB where dev says that when i saw my daughter for the first time,we didn’t know what to say. Maybe that is why when kids are born, they don’t speak much or understand much as they don’t know what to say to them. Abhir wasn’t abhimanyu’s choice, he was thrusted upon him by the societal pressures. Not the foetus Abhir, but the 6yr old kids yes. The only reason he took up abhir’s fight was because his mom wanted. I am sure he must have been happy being without responsibilty else how did he survive 6yrs w/o his son and wife or even the 1yr w/o akshu. He still lived like a lucky bachelor who was having fun but couldn’t be openly happy because the world will judge him for being happy despite his family breaking. In fact he was thriving with all the love and attention he got. Abhir was happy with Abhimanyu because he had his parents and his docman with him. Once docman became dadda, he lost the people he called his family. Abhimanyu has always been the one to bail on people once he became responsible for them. Be it akshara, arohi, roohi, or abhir. Manyu was an amazing boyfriend because he stood for akshu, helped her ,etc though he still had some red flags but he was still bearable but what happened when he married, he bailed on her. Not like he didn’t support or anything but she was taken for granted, there wasn’t any efforts to be taken to keep the relationship going on as it was before the wedding. The same happened with roohi and arohi. He cared for Roohi when he was her poppy/father figure and was with arohi as a support. He was so invested in both of them, but it changed the moment aarohi became his fiance and roohi his to be daughter. He doesn’t show his concern for her as such….And that happened even before he got to know the truth about abhir. This happened right after their engagement. With abhir, he is doing teh same, he was much more involved and happy with abhir when he was docman/father figure. Once he became a father, he is just no more there for his son. That shows manyu is the kind to be the fun loving uncle rather than the parent- he wants the good parts, not the responsibility. It was very easy to blame navra for anything they did or abhir did for not giving him a good unbringing but now it is his time to shine and he is absent from his son’s life. It is very easy to blame akshu for hiding abhir from him, but the truth is he was an absentee father and is still one. When a kid is born, women get maternity leaves and nowadays fathers too get a 2-3 weeks of leave(correct me if I am wrong), here abhimanyu has gotten the custody of his son after 6 long years, isn’t it as good as holding your newborn? You develop a relationship with your newborn, right? You have to do the same. Take a few days leave, stay with abhir. Let him know, you are always there, be his support system. He is uprooted from his life, he is in midst of deep sea with no support. Be his support. But no, you will leave the parenting to manjiri. You will leave your child to his own defenses. It was easy to blame navra for not telling you about abhir, but isn’t he just proving navra right? You are still stuck in your tears, dude you have won the case, now wipe your tears, get your facts straight and be the father you so much wanted to be. Abhi did have daddy issues, that can’t be denied. But in such a situation, the young boy does end up being a more empathetic parent knowing what parent’s actions cause a child to live with. But here, manyu is just soooooo self absorbed in his grief about his son being distant,that he is just blind to his son’s suffering. He doesn’t have to be a helicopter parent……..but just a parent………..be there for his son. But why are we expecting so much from Manyu? A person who leaves his 6yr old to sleep in a separate bedroom without even thinking about how his world was overturned within a day and that he deserves to be around people who will make him feel loved if not home. But it’s manyu, his tears matter more than anyone else. He is still dwelling on the fact that he won the custody because he deserves it and that his son being distant is injustice to him while abhir is enjoying everything here and is living a life king size
Akshu’s words today were really good. But again she missed being a lawyer today, she could have easily taken the facts, readied the proofs, file a case and then warned Birlas with a notice…….It would have taken a day to consult with a real lawyer, but it would easily have swept Birlas in surprise and she wouldn’t be the one losing visitation rights
I agree with you @ Dodo. Any lawyer worth their salt will quickly run to court and ensure they fortify their position but Akshara seems to be a lawyer on paper but brainwise she is still a carefree singer. She should have taken Manjiri is threat literally and beaten her to the punch. Tbh the makers are giving the professions in the serial a bad name be it doctors, surgeons or lawyers.
@Dodo, Manyu’s life priorities involve his selfishness and his wonder mummywife Abhir is just a trophy they obtained to hurt Akshara with because he rejected TrashManyu
@Dodo
Very elaborate and well written. Agreed. We are expecting so much from someone who always shy away from responsibility and has the nerve to accuse another of running when he is pro at it.
He likes it easy and toil free. He also likes to take easy ways out. Let’s see how he perform from here on out after he got full of scoldings. But I must say, the way Akshu compares Nav and Manyu is actually good and the most effective and efficient medicine for narcissistic, self absorbed people who see themselves as mighty and high. The medicine is in and we hope for change from Manyu. But then again, change is doubtful especially if he is still being selfish about sharing Abhir.
Anyways, as I said yesterday, it would not have made sense, if Akshara would have run to court immediately as if she was hoping for Birlas screw up so as she can use it to her advantage. As a mother, and a sane person, she is expected to face Birlas first to hear what they have to say for themselves. And coming to Birlas and hearing Manjiri and Manyu, how else would she have known the extent of their poor upbringing? Before being a lawyer, she should be a mom first and give a chance for Manyu to explain himself.
@Jade, for manyu, manjiri only matters because she is the one who indulges him. Rest all of them expect some support or something from him….while manjiri sets the platter for him. The day manjiri asks for something from abhimanyu, he’ll bail on her too. The only reason he is still with the family is becaue they indulge him and his fancies. Else, we have seen what happens when things go the way manyu wants them to go
Manjiri is no less, her expressions today just made me want to call a psychiatrist and inform about how this women has gone crazy and needs immediate help and has to stay away from our sweet little kids- abhir and roohi
Else, we have seen what happens when things dont* go the way manyu wants them to go
“Abhimanyu has always been the one to bail on people once he became responsible for them.”
Couldn’t agree more.
@Mark
Thank you!
I do think akshara meeting manyujiri to confront them about abhir’s actions wasn’t wrong….It was just stupid. She has filed an appeal on the custody case, so it would make sense if she has regular meetings with a lawyer to strengthen her case, and like she said this time she will win coz navra can give abhir a good upbringing…so she is wanting to get abhir back. She knows manjiri has lost her braincells and is not wanting abhir to have any cotact with navra….She knows this very well and hence before confronting, she should have actually taken some action in order to have a strong case and get abhir back. She knows her child is hurting but she cannot do anything about it as of now. By asking send abhir with her, she just made a self goal. If manyujiri had accepted, it may have changed a few things….but are they the ones to listen?
I just feel, akshara knows the history and the pattern, she should have played smarter
And also, I agree they want akshara to not feel sad all the time after the loss of visitation rights, but going to kasauli is the worst decision ever. She’ll be worse in kasauli…becasue it has abhir’s memories an dchildhood….atleast goenka house wasn’t the place where abhir grew up and you guys ar ethere to support her here….Instead you ask her to go away from her own family. Bade papa too has manyu characteristics??Also, You know, your child is hurting and that you should be putting in double the efforts to bring him back, instead you go far…That’ll only push abhir further from happiness, and you wouldn’t be able to do anything sitting hundreds of kilometres in a different city
@Dodo.
I agree with your assertion. Abhimanyu has the delusion of thinking that he will figure out Abhir. When it is glaringly obvious that he doesn’t know what he is doing.
When Manjari was calling the police, i was completely under the impression that Abhimanyu will pull the phone from her hand….but nooo he is still like ‘maaa….maaaa…. maaaaaaaaa’
🤦🤦
@😎 no surprises. He’s always empty with his no maa’s this man is just a moron at this stage they should hurry up and pair ManyuJiri so Abhir can be free
@😎.
He is Manjiri’s man-child. The truth is that he prioritises Manjiri more than anyone else. Manjiri puts him first. Here he would have done nothing while Abhir’s mother would have gotten arrested.
Seeing the precap and what Abhir told Ruhi, the Sharmas went to Kasauli and Abhir ran away to go with them or they took him along. They went to a place where they have more ground than the psycho mother and her man child. Kasauli is their safe haven as a family.
I don’t understand what Excusemanyu means by he doesn’t want to be unfair to Abhir and Shivu. Another child is hurting your child and you’re thinking of how to keep yourself in the other child is good books. Barkmanyu is a failed father and Abhir running away from home is a befitting reply to such a despicable man and his mother. How can he think his son can live without his mother when a grown assed man like him cannot live even a second without his mother. What Manjiri did will surely come back to bite them tenfold. It is the straw that will break the 🐫 is back.
I love how Akshara throws Abhinav in their faces. She has made sure that even if they are not seeing Abhinav, he will not go away from Abhir and Akshara is lives. She will ensure they don’t forget his good deeds. With such a wife, Abhinav doesn’t need a lot of screen space. The foolish surgeon has a lot of screen space but what good does do for us. All we get is his disgusting stupid reactions to things happening in his son’s life. It is a pain to watch him.
To the Foolishmanyu supporters, what good did him getting his rights as a father get Abhir. He is simply using the rights to brag about a finished product of a son when all he brought to the equation is his sperm with flawed genes. Even when he was given an opportunity to exercise the responsibilities of a father, he left his son’s upbringing to his crazy mother. Why isn’t Abhir topping his class after all he has genes of Udaipur is best heart surgeon!!! He cannot even talk properly to his son. Every time he talks to Abhir he is simply issuing orders and commands. Did he get a human being or a robot!!!
The makers have really done a number on fakemanyu. I pity the actor who has to pretend to like what he is acting. Anyway money has to be made irrespective of ethics.
@Rach
Couldn’t agree more. I too, like the way Akshara keeps mentioning Nav everytime when she is speaking about Abhir. She is making sure that Manyujiri hears about him if they are not seeing him. I just love how she makes sure that Nav is not missed by Manyujiri. Just when they are about to forget him, she mentions him over and over. It’s like she is punishing them with Navs presence.
@Rach.
I couldn’t agree more. Abhinav is the real gentleman and Akshara was singing about it in their ears. For good measure. Those two need to hear about the greatness of Abhinav as they are the first ones to deny it.
Abhimanyu’s supporters were hasty when they thought that he would give good care to Abhir. I wrote weeks ago that Abhir would suffer the most from Abhimanyu winning the custody case. This is insufferable. He is struggling to raise Abhir but he wouldn’t ask for help from his aunt Mahima or from Shefali or Aarohi.
@ Meed
Akshara painfully made a journal about Abhir and gave it to him but hasn’t consulted it even once and he is busy walking around lamenting how he is in more pain than the aggrieved because his son saw him for who he is….a failed father. The makers should give Akshara an opportunity to give him a 🔥 slap in one of the upcoming episodes maybe the wires that are loose in his 🧠 will get connected and it starts working as expected.
Tbh I am so disgusted with the track it hurts.
When will abhim understand that it is not about navra winning or him losing or vice versa, it is all about what ABHIR wants. If abhir would have been happy living there in birla house then it would have been fine, but the issue is he is not, when will abhim realise that… And there is no hope left for manjiri nd honestly after watching today’s episode it felt lk there is no hope left for abhim either.
Lk seriously even after knowing what manjiri has done, he still shouts at akshu for her shortcomings nd he dare say a word or warn manjiri not to do this kinda shit agn…. It’s not akshu vs manjiri that he will always support his mom , it’s abt his son’s wellbeing nd if needed he should be able to tell his mom that what she has done is a total no no……
Bt what else can we expect from abhim…. don’t know whether in tomorrow’s episode he will knock some sense to his mom or not.
But agn to knock some sense to someone else u should first have all the sense… which he clearly lacks.
More strength to abhir…
@Mugiwara
I agree fully. He doesn’t have sense.
my heart goes out to Abhir. Poor kid is already depressed being away from his parents, and now Shivu is just making things worse for him. It’s so disappointing to see that Abhi hardly spends any quality time with Abhir. I mean, he went all the way to Kasauli to be with him, and now that he’s here, he doesn’t even talk or play with the child. Can’t he see how unhappy Abhir is? In my opinion, love is more than just gaining something for ourselves; sometimes, we have to consider what’s best for others too, in this case Abhi should’ve thought about Abhir’s state of mind. Abhir is clearly happy with Abhinav and Akshara. If Abhi really wants to make a place in Abhir’s heart, he should understand that the key is to see the kid happy and with his parents. how special was Abhi’s bond with Abhir when he was with his parents? Instead of taking him away so abruptly, Abhi should’ve been patient and slowly built that ‘dadda’ space in Abhir’s life. This is not the best way to deal with any kid.
@sara
True. Abhir should get justice.
@ Mark
Remember what I commented earlier. The Sharmas’ action of breaking Abhir made Abhir go to Promisemanyu but it also gave the man child enough rope to hang himself as a failed father. The makers have not disappointed on that. They have clearly shown that it is not about who donated the sperm but who nurtures the child. Abhinav nurtured Abhir the moment he found out about his existence in Akshara is womb while the sperm donor rejected both foetus and mother. What we see of Abhir is mainly Abhinav is upbringing and that has been tainted by the Birlas is poor upbringing and stupidity. More grace for Abhir and he should run away from home. The streets seem to be more friendly than Birla House.
Rach,
The Sharmas not only indirectly broke his heart but also closed the doors for that kid to seek help from them. Now, he believes that they will hate him or stops loving him if he talks to them about his miseries. I feel so bad for that kid. He was a happy kid for 6 years, and look what happened to him now.
@sara true navra actually did big mistake by breaking abhir’s heart.
@Sara, absolutely. The Sharmas in their naivety broke Abhir. With all the emotional churn created by their words he is not in a frame of mind to settle with Abhimanyu and his despondency is showing in his attitude at school.
@Rach.
I agree with you. Nature or blood relations have failed Abhir, not by intention, but despite that. They were unprepared to take in Abhir. They discounted the activities of the Sharma family in Abhir’s life. Abhinav has nurtured Abhir and taken care of Akshara as well. He brought a smile to Abhir day in and day out. Abhir is happy with his father Abhinav. The Birlas aren’t asking the right questions because they are haughty and hot-headed. This is the disconnect from what they think they are. They think they are noble and high-minded. After Akshara screamed at their nonchalance, they couldn’t note that they would prevent those acts from repeating. They just tried to remove her from the house.
@Meed
Exactly. Birlas were unprepared but they thought it’s not necessary to prepare for Abhir other than decorating a house. Foolish lot. Manyu was having sweet dreams instead of finding out how his son took in the news of his real father. Manyu is just full of shit and he dares show his face and raise his voice. He should hide under his bed to save us all from a unpleasantry.
@Mark.
They were decorating the house and Abhimanyu was dreaming. Such high-level incompetence and foolishness rolled together. He is the real definition of selfishness. He is unable to discipline Shivaansh now because Abhir’s stay at the Birla house is tied to that of Parth and Shivaansh. He is now praying for a solution. Unbelievable.
@Rach
Exactly. He is a fool. He got a diamond, coated it with mud and he is boasting about it and thinks he is better than Akshu who forged said diamond.
Whatever Akshara did today was right I could feel a mother’s anger with each and ever of her dialogue. I also like the fact that she made Abirnav a very key factor while she was speaking and it was so obviously that manjiri and Abhimanyu couldn’t take that.
I am actually impressed with how Akshara has grown so much as a wife, the difference between Akshu as Abhimanyu wife and Akshara as Abirnav’s wife is so clear but then again the navra relationship has three things which Abhira didn’t have which are trust, respect and
honesty. For those people still hating on Abirnav’s character I really don’t get you all, recently he has been such a refreshing character to see in yrrkh despite his reduced screentime. And he is one of those men who doesn’t mind staying by the sidelines and cheering for his wife, I mean if female characters do that for their husbands all the time why can’t we enjoy a male character doing that for his wife
@Ruthie
Agreed 👍
Infact in gen3 abhinav gave the justice to the title ‘yeh ristha kya kehlata hai’, by considering abhir as his son and being Akshara’s support.
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Today akshara said right abhir biggest problem is his so called sperm donor(i mean his bio father) if it is removed from abhir’s life then everything will be normal. Abhimanyu just thinks that he had win the Custody so he is capable for everything 😂😂 such a dumbo he is. He thinks he can manage everything then why abhir is still sad.
I really feel sad for abhir the way he is missing his mum and papa especially his home, kasuali where he used to be happy.
Akshara has a great chance now to turn the tables, but I wonder what happens that will lead to the part shown in the promo. I mean, she has a lot of evidence, including the school principal’s testimonial evidence, to prove how the custody case and the verdict affected Abhir. Manjiri has proved that she was never a good mother or grandmother. Her expressions make my blood boil. How can Manjiri decide everything when the custody was given only to Abhi? If Akshara broke the custody laws by visiting Abhir at Birla house, Manjiri did the same by not sending Abhir to the Sharmas on the weekend. Abhir should tell Abhi directly that he wants to live with his parents and that he is not happy at Birla house.
I love the way akshara respect abhinav and acknowledge his contribution and sacrifice that he made for abhir. Abhimanyu fans may get upset but harsh truth is that abhinav will always be abhir’s dad no matter what no can replace him from abhir’s life. Its been proved today by abhir only. He will always lived in abhir’s heart forever but can’t said the same thing about abhimanyu
This Abhimanyu has become a pain to watch. Such a useless male lead. He came to know Abhir’s plight and still he wants to be mahaan and be fair to be the kids. I mean be a little biased to your own child, every parent does so. Let Shivu’s parents handle him, you just worry about Your lad who is in deep pain.
@SK absolutely right
Today, Manyujiri lost to Akshara. Akshara was asked about her bad habits of running away from problems and she answered that Abhirs upbringing is backed up by her husband Nav who hasn’t such bad habits. Fair enough. Manyujiri didn’t get their answers right and in addition, got offended, retorted, justified themselves, made excuses, argued, and defended themselves. They failed miserably. And when Akshara suggested a way forward being to bring Abhir to Goenkas, Manjiri used her custody card to prevent Abhir from getting the help that he so desperately needs. Is Abhir really a Birla? Why then don’t they care if he develops bad behaviours or that he is not happy? Well, Manjiris upbringing is such. After all, it made Manyu then it made Parth and then it made Anisha and Manyu being the father not only did he subject his kid to such troublesome upbringing but he is also defending it. Not only did Akshu leave empty handed with no assurance or promises from Manyujiri, she was threatened to leave. Manyu is leading his son to his doom and destruction. He still doesn’t accept defeat. So now, he is going to put in hard work? When his son goes missing, I don’t know what he will do, cry or get angry at his mom.
@Mark.
Manjiri thought to hide Abhir’s troubles at school, she is preventing him from serving his punishment at school and fostering by default bad behaviour in her grandson. Akshara was livid that Abhir was encouraged to skip school, and, she was right. Manjiri and Abhimanyu had no answers and they resorted to defensive behaviours as they normally do.
Abhimanyu needs a good psychologist to help him deal with the breakdown of relationships with his father and with his ex-wife. He can it give Abhir what he doesn’t have. He cannot say convincingly that he has a good upbringing. I agree with you on that.
I like today’s updates and congrats to the team here for putting up a more comprehensive and contextually rich update. Akshara’s angry accusations were directed at the Birlas. Not surprisingly, they were no answers to Akshara’s questions. The rendering of the arguments in detail makes the comments today stay in context, although as in the past, arguments sometimes go off on a tangent.
As Akshara’s accusations hit hard, it was to be expected that the Birla mother-and-son duo would make necessary defence mechanisms to negate the force being directed at them. They did. The writers must have a psychologist in the room because I could see a range of defence mechanisms in play, denial, suppression, and projection. Abhimanyu’s response wasn’t unexpected as his character has this built-in.
Denial: He flat-out denied knowing two things; that Abhinav was Akshara’s husband, and that Abhinav was a good father to Abhir. The words must have touched a raw nerve there and Abhimanyu had to defend himself there and minimise the exposure to his pain.
Suppression: He tried to make sense of Abhir’s failings as he was being told, by not imagining his role in it. He couldn’t do in one week what Abhinav had done in six years. Yet he had denied it previously. Contradiction?
Projection: He retorted to Akshara’s words about Abhir becoming like him in anger and selfishness by tagging her as a runaway. But the issue affecting him at that point was that he was evading Abhir most notably because Abhir was angry. He was the one running away from the problem.
That’s it, Abhimanyu’s emotional state was in flux as the anguish and pain for myriad reasons flowed.
He couldn’t react to what his mother had done he was in the thick of Akshara’s accusations which had exposed his failings and there was nothing else to think. Just the defence mechanisms. He was just acting on his deep emotions. Those three were the most prominent. There might be a subtle hint of rationalisation in the direction of his mother as he was unable to take out his anger on her for the debacle. But it isn’t so clear to me now.
Manjiri reacted in a more aggressive manner responding to Akshara’s ultimatum to take back Abhir with counter-threats of removing the Sharmas’ visitation rights and calling the police. The battle line was drawn. It seems Abhinav rushed home and he told Manish about Akshara’s angry exit from the school. That probably saved Akshara from getting arrested.
Yes, the accusations were not dealt with and we’re not resolved. Abhimanyu intends to keep Abhir forever. He thinks that he will figure out how to live with Abhir. Good luck with that.
@Meed. Totally agree. Manyujiri became speechless with the list of faults akshara pointed out just within a week. How can abhi say that he cannot do what nav did for 6 yrs in just a week even without giving a try. He was busy with demanding things one by one from abhir and satisfying him self. And now he isnt ready to take the responsibility of being irresponsible. Then how can he become a father to abhir. Forget of being best father he cannot even race with nav if he continue this way.
Yes today we just saw a mother in anger hearing unbelievable news on her son. And writers didn’t show a lawyer there. And made her defeat once again by making birlas taking a step ahead quicker than akshara. And I guess that might lead to a leap as you mentioned in previous comment to show that reputed lawyer and then the bad of birlas will come.
@Hi.
Agreed. The mother-son combo was awed by the ferocity of Akshara’s complaints. They could only muster rag-tag defences they were speechless. They were pinned to the wall by Akshara’s relentless charge. How she praised Abhinav endlessly to their faces. They were hacked, harassed and harrowed by the comparisons of the two men. Abhimanyu cannot race with Abhinav, I mean no disrespect here. He is still in the feeder leagues and Abhinav is racing with the best fathers. Abhimanyu now hides in the corners to observe his son. Yet, Abhir isn’t a lab subject.
For all the die-hard affinity of mother and son, they don’t have full synergy. This was just a taste given to them by a determined mother. A skilled lawyer will flawlessly defeat those two. That’s for sure. I hope Akshara emerges as a top-notch lawyer. The mother and son will be fearing that their good days are over.
@meed
Good luck with that indeed. Manyu isn’t getting it at all. Instead of offering an invitation for a discreet sleep over to Navra, he became hard headed. What Akshara means is that no one cares for Abhir at all. And that is true because they were satisfied with his unhappiness. In other words, time was up they had to admit defeat today and give up their custody. But no, not Manyu. @meed, I hope that Manyu will pay handsomely with interest and bonus and tip and everything in between. My BP has risen😝 today because of Manyujiri. They shouldn’t get away with it.
@Mark.
I agree. He is struggling but he cannot admit it. This is not a country fair or a convention, where he is afraid of losing his standing. He just needs to learn how to take care of his son. However, he failed to nurture Abhir’s other relationships. He wants Abhir to confide in him, to regard him as a parent, and to trust him but he isn’t involving the other parents in the process. He thinks that he can figure it out alone. Abhir isn’t opening up because the environment is new to him. Abhimanyu is satisfied with his win. He can never see Abhir’s happiness the way that Abhinav sees it. Abhinav dropped to his knees in the matter of Abhir’s surgery his most valued self-respect is nothing when it comes to Abhir’s happiness. The mother and son cannot own up to their mistakes and see where there is scope for improvement. They are holding on to their hard-won hoard. They will pay dearly for all that they have done today. That’s for sure.
So sorry. I do hope that you are back to 100% soonest. They both would get caught by Akshara the lawyer. They cannot get away with their repeat assaults on Akshara’s happiness. They shouldn’t.
@Meed👍
Any parent would confront the bully of their child and would definately slap the bullying child if he or she is part of their own family rather than standing like a statue. Abhimanyu birla has failed as a father and manjiri is already a failed grandmother. They cannot understand anything on their own. Rather than confronting or beating the shit out of that shitty hk hz scondrel child he is just watching.
Atleast ruhi’s anger was justified she showed her violent streak but she never bullied or hurt abhir but this dharti pe bhoz bastardshivansh is bullying abhir for no reason. The bullied should never be born or they should just die. I wish anand had used rubber during anish and parth’s time the show would have been better.if parth was never born this f**king shivansh would have never existed.
Gusse mai kisi ko pareshan karna samajh bi ata hai kyunki gusse ka ilaaj kia ja sakta hai par kisi ko bas apne maze ke lie pareshan karna is sadistic aur iska ilaaj sirf therepist aur psychiatristke pas hai.if that bastrad parth can raise his hand to slap your child for no fault then you should definately slap the shit out of the bully. Leads se jyada to is parth aur hk hz shivansh ko jarurat hai psychiatrist ki.
Agar aj abhimanyu confront kar leta us jahil ladke ko to atleast abhir ko akela mehsoos nai hota.
I really enjoy reading @Mark, @Meed, @Rak, @Hi, @Rach, @Jade and @😎 comments.
Abhimanyu is another level of narcissist. Did anyone notice his expressions when Akshara mentioned about the difference between Abhir Abhinav Sharma and Abhir Abhimanyu Birla, seems like he realises the same but doesn’t want to accept and acknowledge. Abhir is an altogether different child now. I mean he actually said that Kachori or Icecream is not important for him, the things he used to like doesn’t matter at all for him now. It’s seriously heartbreaking the way he said that he doesn’t even want to go to Goenka house but just Kasauli his home. No matter where Abhir stays his home would be at Kausali always coz as they say home is where the heart is and for Abhir it’s Kasauli. I so wish that either this serial should take a leap and show happy Abhir with his parents or makers should end it. They are actually showing that ManyuJiri are the lead and Akshara is a vamp who did wrong to ManyuJiri. This show has become all about ManyuJiri’s pain, desires, arrogance, incapability and irritating dialogues these days.
Very true – manyu knows and realizes whatever akshara told and even what mahima pointed out and arohi was telling all this while is TRUE.
He knows what his mom is capable of ..yet he is silent and let’s her do damage to his son coz at the end..one can’t wonder but believe if psycho- manyu are doing this just to hurt akshara coz she rejected both their disgusting proposals !
I agree @Rak this seems like revenge coz they clearly don’t care about Abhir’s feelings and emotions.
@Akshara.
I agree with you. Abhimanyu was in denial mode. He was defending himself from the assertions being made. Such was his fall from grace, that his ex-wife was extolling the virtues of her husband Abhinav, in front of Abhimanyu’s family. The sad thing was that everyone agreed that what she was saying was true apart from the mother and son.
Abhimanyu is dwelling on the separation. Which is done now. He shouldn’t fail as a parent to Ruhi and Abhir. Butt then, he will fail because he is selfish.
@Akshara if they want to make this the ManyuJiri show they should just kill off all the other character, I am so tired of seeing this delusional mother India and her raja beta, they can’t even listen to reason from their own family, eventually Ruhi is also going to go into depression because all that negative energy will affect her. What I really want is for someone to slap Manyu and I hope its Parth, I hope Parth and Manyu get into a fist fight for their sons because I don’t mind if either of them get hurt as long as Manyu gets a few hard slaps and kicked out of Birla hospital and house by Mahima along with his mummywife.
I think Abhir might try to run off to Kasauli on his own and live with his Neelima who loves him rather than his 3 parents.
@Akshara. Very true. Akshara made manyujiri surprised with her fighting mode where manyujiri thought she might be the same akshara who gets shattered with their harsh words and run away from there. That’s why manjiri go ahead saying that she will reopen the case, call the police and etc. But no.. manjiri was wrong. And when akshara praise abhinav and mention he is her support abhi again realised what position he could be in Akshara’s life. And manjiri couldn’t believe her son getting such treatments from akshara. All that time she got worried for her son only.
Do something akshu🙂🙂, atleast once in ur lifetime prove ur executions, action speaks louder than words. Only two sane decisions of ak in entire gen 3 are rejecting manyu and accepting nav, now it’s the high time akshu should fight hard before abhir gets mad. Itv has always shown toxic content, but this kind of abuse is intolerable, triggering and heart wrenching 😤😤😤. Somebody please smack this world class psycho🥴🥴 for ruining his son’s peace for his peace. Bi**h manjuri 🤢🤢, even a person with utmost patience can’t adjust in that mental hospital, and she wants a kid to adjust 🤬🤬.
After seeing the precap, why do I have feeling that Abhir will run away to meet Navra and watch them leaving for Kasauli and would misunderstand the situation that they have abandoned him. If this happens will definitely stop watching this show.
And what’s with Manish’s dialogue that Akshara lost the case because she fought the case as mother and she will win it on the basis of her talent. So DKP wants to show that to raise a child only financial status matters and not mother’s love or good mental health.
So, finally Abhimanyu agreed with Mahima that whatever Akshara had said is true and right. Manyujiri are most selfish duo coz they know Abhir is happy with his parents but if they agreed and let him go they will get hurt so just to save themselves from hurt, they are hurting Abhir and making him go through the sufferings and giving trauma to that poor child.
So, Abhimanyu intents to keep Abhir forever, okay but then does he have any plans to compensate the lack of mother’s love in Abhir’s life or does he want to raise him without motherly love? If that’s the plan then he is horrendous, terrible and pathetic person and if he thinks that Manjiri would do that then I am surprised on his foolishness coz she has already failed at it horribly.
Interesting Akshara takes Shivu’s word at face value, a kid she doesn’t know, and one grown by the incompetent Birlas and without taking a breath she condemns her own child. Manjiri, for her faults, was the only one to ask for Abhir’s side of events when Mahima was busy signing Abhir’s guilt warrant.
Is this truly about Abhir for Akshara or did the principal’s words, typecasting her son as the delinquent by-product of a broken home, lead Akshara into the rant directed at Manjiri, her main critic, about what a great husband and father Abhinav is compared to the ill tempered, insensitive husband, and now failing father her son Abhimanyu represents!
For me the Sharmas’ ill guided scheme to break Abhir’s heart is to blame for Abhir’s reluctance to engage with the Birlas, and his lack of interest in school life. He needs his parents but feels rejected by them and is trying so hard not to be their burden. Ironically, his only source of support and comfort comes from Ruhi, the child brought up by, in Akshara’s words, the ill tempered Abhimanyu lacking in parenting skills.
Abhimanyu, though needs to stop bending his instincts to the ethics of the joint family: grandmas don’t always act wisely or fairly. And, its a folly to show unbias among the children. They aren’t always fair or right, and are the other parents so balanced! Abhir desparately needs to know his father is by his side. Akshara’s, grandmother Mimi once said, sibling fights are our first lessons in making our place in the world. Akshara should stop castastrophising a kids quarrel. Stop justifying her actions. Take a deep breath, zone all and everything out and work with Abhimanyu to find a solution to Abhir’s malaise.
@Rai Shivansh is also a child and there were adults around so why should Akshara nor believe Shivu ?
For Akshara it’s both It’s about Abhir and also what the principal said .Her trust is broken yet again by Abhimanyu because she truly believed what she convinced the Principal at the interview that Abhir will have two happy families.
Sibling arguments are normal but not sibling fights which can lead to injury and if the parent does not intervene can lead to physical emotional and mental damage specially for children less than 10.
Yes @Rai it’s high time Abhimanyu s character starts improving .Since last 7 months it’s been a downward spiral that even Harshad / Abhimanyu are finding it difficult to justify his deeds.
Harshad/Abhimanyu fans. But those fans are busy bashing the writers
#Abhira fans all feel that makers are degrading abhimanyu’s character and are making #abhira away from each other but that is wrong becoz makers are showing abhimanyu’s so called #birla family(morons) as wrong persons.Makers are showing how a family should be while doing upbringing what is the meaning of a family and what is a family environment which is not present in so called # birla morons family where they hate eachother,despise each other, not having any lovely relations with each other,always elders forcing kids to act according to them,always focused on career and leaving family issues,kids not having freedom of choosing their careers,kids having enimity with each not having happy and entertainment for atleast one single minute day etc.Here makers are trying to show what a family is(with maheshwari’s,Singhania’s,goenka’s) and how a family should not be like (morons birla’s).
@Shubh Abhimanyu cannot beat the shit out of that bully son of an idiot yet. Do you know why, bcs his mother Shefali is still thinking that her child is that good child she took to boarding house. Not knowing that behavioural pattern of her husband has reflected a lot on her child. The foolish father is ready to fight no matter even if the child is wrong or right. The grandmother is a demon who will always support evil and twist truth. So, for a peaceful settlement, they have to be made to see what their child is doing first. There should be evidence at least. Like they make Abhir’s sleeve have cake.
But Abhimanyu has a better option. He needs to separate Abhir from that family. Since the writers are making Abhir suffer to this level. Then let the child go back to where he is safe. Or do what I would have done in his shoes. I would arrange for another house for me and my child. And leave that house. To only come for visits and family celebrations.
I don’t know why they don’t want to give Abhi a new woman, a good woman at that matter who will take care of Abhir and see to it that he is not been bullied like this. I hate to see how this girl is always flaunting Abhinav in the face of Abhi and this directors refuse to give him his own woman to flaunt too. Making it to be that he’s still waiting for Akshara
I laugh at people who making this personal as if it is real life. Calling out the makers to remove him. No matter how you try to degrade him. No matter your team up to blow Abhinav trumpet Abhi is ML. He will continue to be so. He is acting what they ask him to act perfectly. So instead of Abhi to go, Abhinav will go.
@Funmi
So now Abhimanyu needs new FL to take care of his baby and to flaunt before his ex.
Can’t he take care of Abhir by himself?????
Oh yeah he can’t because as @Dodo mentioned “Abhimanyu has always been the one to bail on people once he became responsible for them.”
New partner or another marriage won’t fix this.
Yes Abhimanyu is ML, that doesn’t mean all his deep layered toxicity can be ignored.
@😎 jaise akshara ne akele paala abhir ko😂
Hey hi @Surabhi
Everytime I see yours as the first comment….today i couldn’t. I kind of missed you 🤗🤗
I agree akshara could be single parent then…but considering her pregnancy complications, one baby already miscarried,her financial condition,trauma of Neil got killed before her and blame on her….Abhinav is required at that point of time….and later on it is evident how much Abhinav is required for both Abhir and Akshara.
In case of Abhimanyu, before getting a new partner,he has lot of toxicity, superiority complex and trauma which he is intentionally turning blind. He got to deal with them first.
I agree he cannot beat the bully but he can and should make abhir aware that he knows what he is going through. It can be a good step for him to renew his bond by helping abhir to expose shivu. Both abhir and shivu will get a life lesson. I don’t know why producers are showing 8yr old as a bully.
@funmi first of all who said abhimanyu is ml everyone here is supporting characters including your dumbmanyu. Dumbmanyu fans think yrkkh is about only abhira so called love story. Bro accept a simple fact that only akshara is main character its her journey only. So there is no FL lead for your dumbmanyu.
@Funmi Abhinav has all the qualities deserved to be flaunt, what Abhimanyi has is his mother, his anger, silly excuses that the court ruled in his favor when he has nothing more valid to defend himself! Abhinav will stay whether u like it or not!!
Exactly! No one except Manjiri will flaunt Abhimanyu as he is her baby that still needs her 24/7 to get whatever he wants!
@Funmi why do you want Abhimanyu to spoil another girl’s life ? And why would you want her to take Abhir s responsibility ? Abhimanyu has every right to move on ,marry have children with another woman but leave Abhir to Akshnav
Akshara’s each and every word is absolutely right. The one who has signed as Abhir’s guardian doesn’t know any thing about what is happening in Abhir’s life be it at school or home. After abhir came to B house, for the second time abhi is getting accused by akshara for being irresponsible bcz of his mom(lets forget his own mistakes😉). Yet abhi is not taking a single step against his mother for making him fail as a father infront of everyone, but instead he is trying to blame akshara for that. And Manjiri’s attitude when akshara shows their mistakes clearly shows how much she cares for abhir. She isn’t feeling guilty for what she did. But she yells when akshra says a word against his failed son. Both manujiri got upset as well as jealous when akshara praised abhinav. They couldn’t tolerate when akshara praised abhinav and his parenting. They were surprised of this akshara who is fighting for her son as well as for her husband. Manyujiri for sure would have never expected a akshara like this who won’t stay quiet any more. Abhi instead of feeling guilty for not being a best father he felt angry with aksharas praise on nav. And he tries to defend himself saying how could he do what nav did for 6 yrs just in one week. Yes of course how can he do without giving a try for it and without any dedication, where nav dedicated every second of his life for abhir. Was there any one to guide nav on parenting? But abhi has experts and experienced elders in B house in raising kids😄. While abhi tried to defend himself with such a stupid reason his mom tried to defend him by praising him as a best father figure remembering ruhi. And that is the real matter. Abhi has spent most of his time with ruhi and it was him who was always there for ruhi more than arohi. Then obviously he should have experience as well as he might have seen how shiv grew up. Yet he couldn’t succeed in being a proper father to abhir. He should be ashamed. Court gave abhirs custody only bcz navra are financially not good but abhi first thought it is his mahadev decision and now telling that it is bcz navra/akshara are not better enough for parenting. Seems he is having memory issues.
And yes.. i guess we all had a problem with nav being sidelined but no that isn’t happening exactly. Though nav is not seen in this battle, he is always there in this new akshara who is now fighting for her family. She is now fighter mode bcz of nav’s strength. And this changed akshara is making us feel that nav is always there by her side for her support and as her strength.
@Hi.
I agree with you. Abhimanyu was unable to explain away his incompetence, ineptitude and irresponsibility. He saw how messed up his care for Abhir had been. Abhir was to make adjustments to them, but they, the selfish ones, left him alone. He is the owner of the hospital. He can work shorter days in the meantime. He can put Abhir to sleep and stay by him. He saw how Abhir lived in Kasauli. Maybe he heard about Abhir wanting to stay in a separate room. But that was in his parent’s house not at his paternal house. Abhimanyu needs to make adjustments to the new life he has. Although, his selfishness will not allow him to do that.
These two care a lot about themselves and no one else. They couldn’t stomach the new fight that Akshara has. They couldn’t deal with her effusive praise of Abhinav. The superlatives kept flowing and they couldn’t do anything about it. The greatness of Abhinav was there for all to see. The meaning of Abhinav in Akshara’s and Abhir’s lives is displayed for them to see. But those chose not to understand. They failed to reply to Akshara’s genuine concerns. They really can not see beyond themselves.
I am waiting for Akshara’s grey arc where she dons a hood and corners Manyu in a dark alley breaking both his knee caps with a baseball bat then she strings up psychojiri stark naked from a pole in a busy intersection and leaves baskets of rotten produce for people to throw at the b*t*h, if anything psychojiri needs to be damaged in a way she will never show her face to anyone again shell just sit like the living dead in a corner never to be heard again. Manyu can sit and look after his brain dead mummywife while Abhir can go to Akshu cause his father is in not condition to parent 😈 sadly you can’t take the high road with evil people sometimes you have to play the game just as vindictively
@Jade.
I hope Akshara serves justice to those two who have denied her, happiness and interfered with her happy family. They were fools for thinking that they cared for Abhir more than his parents. They separated the boy and still cannot make amends. They should be punished severely for their misdeeds.
They have to come up a solution fast before any further damage to Abhir’s mental n physical health!
@PO.
Yes soon as possible. Sharmas need to hurry to get back to Abhir who is suffering from the hassles of staying with his paternal relatives. He doesn’t like it there. He loves it at Kasauli.
How can Navra leave? Akshara just got her internship right?
@Soo.
Yes, not, the end, but, the interlude. They will be back. To win Abhir’s custody for good.
Birla are so stupid, how someone wha clam to be a mother ignoring your child pain, mariji is all about my son, what about your grandson , his just a trophy to her
@Nia.
Abhir has a mother and a father then they, the Birla mother-son duo, took him away from them. Manjiri wants Abhir but she disavows his existing relationships. So she stumbles in the matter of raising Abhir as she is doing it the wrong way.
Am simply hating the character of manjiri. She just looks for herself and her children’s happiness ignoring if others are hurt upon her decisions.
I Can’t Believe What Problem in Abhimanyu He Has Got Little Time And Akshara, Manjari Giving Pressure to him I don’t want Abhira Reunion please Makers Kill this Characters Navra and Make a New character who is identical to akshara Not dumbass Like Her And Be with Abhimanyu forever Promisakshara
Victimakshara
No Need Of Akshara
Why kill Akshara, they should kill off your beloved Manyu and his mummywife, he doesn’t know if psychojiri is his mother or his new wife. Abhimanyu and the Birla’s are no longer really needed