Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai 22nd June 2023 Written Episode, Written Update on TellyUpdates.com
The Episode starts with Abhi getting coffee for Kairav. Kairav says I will run away if you have come to have an emotional chit chat. Abhi asks why, you have to listen to me and keep this ritual, don’t worry, I won’t say that I will break your legs if you trouble her, you know I will do this, I m sure you will keep her safe and happy, you might have learnt from my mistakes, we didn’t fight since many days, its strange. Kairav says maybe we got old. Abhi says you will grow old with Muskaan, eventually, we are grown up, cheers. Its morning, Akshu prays to Kanha ji for Kairav and Muskaan’s marriage. She recalls Abhinav’s words and says just make Abhinav’s fear end. Kairav sees Manish and compliments him. They sit to talk. Manish says you convinced Muskaan and her family, you have to make sure that you take good care of her and give her much respect, Abhinav has given much love to Akshu, now you have to do this with Muskaan. Kairav starts laughing. Manish says I m explaining your responsibility and you are laughing. Kairav says sorry, I imagined this, its not a joke for me to marry Muskaan, I m afraid and careful, I promise, I will never forget my responsibility, I have seen you and Suwarna keeping a good happy, I will stay scared like you are scared of Suwarna. He laughs. Manish hugs him and blesses.
Akshu says there are chances of making a mistake. She asks Neela didn’t I make mistakes, did you oust me. Neela asks am I a bad saas. Akshu says no, you are the best, I m explaining Muskaan to accept mistake and say sorry, learn to forgive herself, don’t forget to respect own self, tell Kairav to help you in handling things, you both will handle the marriage together, never leave the job, it will become your strength. She explains Muskaan. She says I m always there for you. Muskaan thanks and hugs her.
Abhir tries to get a box from the cupboard top. He falls. Abhi comes and holds him. He says you should have called someone, what’s that imp thing. He sees the shoes and asks is it imp. Abhir says yes, you gave it to me, I will wear this on special days, I will clean this. Abhi says I will clean it, sit. He makes Abhir wear the shoes. He says I m always there for you, if you get hurt, I will get hurt. Abhir says like I love mumma Papa, I love you. Abhi smiles and hugs him. He asks are you fine. Abhir says yes, I will go to Ruhi. Abhir goes. Abhi recalls his words and cries. He says my son trusts me, I m not telling him the truth, what will I tell him, I have to talk to Akshu. Suwarna, Akshu and Aarohi tie the pagdi to Kairav.
Suwarna does his aarti. Yeh Rishta kya…plays… Everyone smiles. They ward off his bad sight. Kairav says I m lucky that my best ladies tied my sehra. Akshu says we will see who is special to you after marriage. Abhinav asks is everyone ready. Neela says yes, you aren’t ready, you didn’t wear the pagdi. She ties it to him. She asks Akshu to fix the Kalki. Akshu goes and fixes it. Aarohi thinks Abhinav is in tension, whatever Manjiri told him, shall I tell Akshu, what shall I do. Muskaan comes. Kairav and everyone smile. He holds his heart. He wards off her bad sight. Khushiyon de chadeya… plays…. Abhir says take the varmala. Akshu jokes. Abhi says make her wear the varmala, bend down, get on knees. Aarohi says no, don’t do this. Kairav says I m ready to do this for Muskaan. Abhinav asks Muskaan to put the varmala. Aarohi says its Muskaan’s turn, follow Kairav. Abhi and Abhinav say no, we will lift her. Muskaan says let it be. Everyone claps. Kairav makes her wear the varmala. Abhir says we will take a selfie. He clicks a selfie.
Precap:
Abhinav thinks to go and say sorry and thanks. Abhi says Akshara, I have to talk to you right now. He says we should tell the truth to Abhir. Akshu says once bidaai happens, I will talk to Abhinav, I will tell him that Abhir knows he isn’t his real dad. Abhinav looks on shocked.
Update Credit to: Amena
183 Comments
I’m so happy that the makers destroyed a toxic couple. and toxic couples fans get to know now how Neil and aaru fans are going throughout that time, makers destroy our neirohi just for making toxic couples together. neirohi fans patiently waiting for Neil and aaru as couple together but makers destroy them Just because they wanted toxic couples together. no proper love story, no proper wedding celebration, at the end they kill Neil. no one interested in kairav and muskan wedding but neirohi fans are desperately waiting for Neil and aaru wedding.
Then they are psycho. Neil is dead and you are saying Neilrohi fans are waiting for their wedding.
Marriage with a Corpse!? Aaru is not a Necrophile.
@Shyra 🤣🤣🤣 ur right!
Yeah true.
Neirohi has lot of potential to outstand any other couple.
The makers killed Neil for the sake of Abhira separation.
And moreover Abhira is unrealistic, who feels the heartbeat when other partner is in danger🙄.
@Geetanjali, your com gives terrifying vibes 🥶
Although they were cute But they were side couples and side couples are always bound to be destroyed be it neil arohi, mihir mihika, prem mukti, samar nandini, etc etc
@Surabhi
Mihir and Mihika are destroyed but they both got their own stories later own and are the important characters in the show, especially Mihika. Samar-Nandini were destroyed as the actress playing Nandini wanted to quit the show but Samar has got his own story in the show now and is also an important character. I don’t know who are Prem-Mukti. But Neil and Aaroho has got no seperate story, either individually or as couple, instead Aarohi was always used to glorify mahaan FL and Neirohi were used and destroyed repeatedly for a meme couple🥴 Neil and Aarohi are playing supporting roles, no show will run only with ML and FL, supporting characters are very important, that’s the mistake Garima did, she made all the characters as mannequins and shoved cringe couple down the viewers throats ruining each and every character. Good that DKP fired her, atleast the new writer is giving equal importance to all characters.
@Siya. So true. But I just don’t know where and why this logic that in every serial ML and FL should get evrything they should end up together comes from.
LOL! Abhimanyu and Akshara should be the last people to give lecture about marriage and accepting mistakes🥴 One couldn’t handle his marriage due to anger and ego issues and keeps divorce papers ready and another one never acknowledged her mistakes and wad always in “I’m never wrong” mode and now these people are giving lectures to others🥴
Is it only me or anyone else also feel Abhimanyu is being forcefully inserted in the marriage duties and to give baseless lectures by naming him instant noodle bhai of Muskaan🥴
Wait! This was supposed to be a separate comment, don’t know how it ended up here. This page is again playing with me😒
@siya
Instant noodle 🤣😂 dudeee..
@siya instant noodle Bhai of muskaan 🤣😂😂 damn funny
Instant noodle bhai😂😂😂
Yeah that’s the problem with Indian serials….all other characters or couples are meant to cause problems to lead couple and try to separate them
But practically speaking,
side characters are actually practical most of the time, their flaws are portrayed negatively.
Now currently we can see surekha character, most of the times she says practical stuff.
In the process people who are connected with side characters or couples are destroyed completely turned negative.It kind of hurts neirohi fans.
Abhira fans can realise the pain when abhimanyu’s character was turned kind of negative.
@surabhi, that’s a stupid line to say that side couple are bound to destroy.
They can show main leads having flaws and how they overcome it.
But no, all their flaws will be shown as skill to flaunt, ruining other characters and nibba nibbi people find it cute and adorable
Keesh ko to itna importance f diya tha
@Siya brooo!!!! Instant noodle bhai 😂😂😂 they need to insert Harshad in the scenes even if it makes no sense or his fans will riot if they don’t see Harshad they will die of thirst or dehydration 😏 Harshad stans are hardcore nuts
@Zara
The main couple obsessed stans want everything for their idols only. This is the first time I’m seeing a fandom who just wants a cringe couple to keep romancing on-screen and insult every other character and actors playing it calling them as sideys. Kaira fans happily accepted Keesh and hyped their marriage too, but here Abhira fans have problems with rest all couples, be it Neirohi, Kairav-Anisha and now Kairav-Muskaan. Someone should remind them there are shows which gave equal importance to parallel leads and supporting characters and became huge success.
1. YRKKH Gen 1 and Gen 2(to an extent) – Shaurya and Varsha, Anshu-Jasmeet, Rashmi’s story, Nandini-Mohit
2. MJHT – Samrat and Gunjan
3. EHMMBH – Virat and Manvi
4. Ishqbaaz – Showed story of all 3 brothers though their sisters story became messed up.
5. TMD – Atleast trying to balance all 3 couples.
@Urmi, @Momo, @Zara
I couldn’t find a better word than instant noodle😂 Abhimanyu and Muskaan hardly spoke, hardly bonded, he just knows her as Abhinav’s sister and she just knows him as Akshara’s ex but from the moment marriage got fixed, he became instant 2 min bhai of Muskaan just like instant 2 min noodles😂
Haha… That’s true… Suddenly floodgates of brotherhood opened
@Geetanjali.
I can understand how Neil died and Aarohi is left alone. Maybe the story will open up for her after this. It is hard for Neil to come back though as the character is now dead.
@Jade
Brooooo! Abhimanyu’s all relations are instant only😂 his love for Akshara was instant 2 min one, his marriage with Akshara is same, his divorce decisions are also same😂 Most of the Harshad fans are actually taking this as an insult to his character and to him as actor because more than using his talent, makers made him like some wedding planner and helps person according to them😂 But, I think makers inserted him to increase his screen space, he’s a senior actor than rest of all and he won’t accept a decrease in his screen time.
Don’t forget his 1 episode income cost $1000 plus 🤣🤣🤣
@Siya.
Yes I agree the makers sought to keep Abhimanyu visible for the metrics while they are pushing the story further. Abhimanyu an instant noodle bhai? Wow this describes the situation very well. He couldn’t have been so active as a homestay guest and so he has to be someone’s brother. I think the makers are in a bind as to who pairs with Akshara.
@Ashwini
💯💯 In most of the serials, there will be an antagonist who will try to separate leads, but in YRKKH, they were villans from outside but not a family member. Initially, Aarohi was a grey character but she never tried to break leads marriage after her marriage broke. She for sure did kaands, but was never after Abhimanyu obsessing over him or coming in between a married couple. After leap 1, they made her a villan forcefully for one more insta 2 min noodle reunion of leads as TRP dropped to 1,8 and they needed drama and destroyed Neirohi. But the funniest part is, though she’s a grey character and did kaands, she always speaks logic. You rightly said, their flaws are taken in a negative way, same happened with Aarohi and people called her vamp, but she was never a proper and typical “Vamp”, she was always a grey character only, but makers failed to execute that trait of hers also properly and used her as ping pong, making her swing between positive, negative and grey😕
@siya
People who connect with Arohi character feel like, she has been used and thrown.
Now when they are showing her as mature, some blind Abhira fans claim that she has been whitewashed, she is using roohi for marrying Abhimanyu, showing her as mahan to destroy Akshara character,if she thinks of moving on they say she didn’t even love Neil.
To each their own🤣🤣🤣 makers cannot please everyone🤣🤣🤣
Even if Aarohi wanna comes btwn the couple can she? Abhi never gave a hoot to her! How then she can come in btwn them? It’s impossible she would if she could!!🙄🙄🙄 she was literally a vamp!
Exactly! She couldn’t coz there was no way for her to! How many times she tried her ways before! We saw that! But people just wanna whitewashed her??
Abhimanyu abhir scene was the best😍
Abhimanyu kairav scene was good
Good episode with no unnecessary rona dhona 😂😂
Don’t you find it werid abhimanyu is too much invested into this wedding???
I agree he is excited or whatever.
But i felt his scenes in kairav and muskan wedding intervention is forceful.
Well he is the one who saves the day all the time in this wedding be it that lost engagement ring, exposing dev, plan for acceptance of marriage proposal by sharmas, etc etc.. Asli bhai is busy crying all the time😒
Well i can see that you don’t leave one chance to complain Abhinav right😂😂😂😂
Complain? All i say is he keeps crying all the time and thats seriously getting annoying.. Pehle bura lagta tha use dekh ke par ab to 😒
Even abhimanyu used to cry a lot and then take action.In his case you give sufficient time to process and in case of abhinav you just outrightly deny.
@ashwin exactly she like abhimanyu never make mistake just abhinav is main culprit 😂her obsesstion of showing abhinav in bad way is actually treat to watch
@Surabhi Manyu wore a crying constipated face from the time Neil died till Akshara told him off in the temple and left with Nav. If you see Manyu crying you want to wipe his tears when Nav cries then you complain come now there is a limit.
@Jade
People got used to Abhimanyu’s barking soo much that they’re finding everyone and everything as unnecessary and annoying😂 Bro, he was the most annoying one from start, his character is looking little sane after leap when his unnecessary barking and annoying lion BGM is stopped. Exactly, when he was crying, everyone had sympathy for him, that too when he already knows Akshara is married and has a son but when Abhinav is crying for right reasons, people call it as chomu behavior and call him cry baby🙄 Atleast he’s not rubbing his insecurities on his wife and is questioning himself if he’s capable enough of Akshara or not.
@Siya. Totally agree specially about abhinav. He is trying and struggling to sort out the problem and he is trying not to give that pain to his wife. But akshara felt that something is bothering him and wanted to help. Some think that abhinav’s behaviour becomes a burden. I want to know if we think that our partner’s such behaviour is a burden to us then what’s the point of us being a partner. Life partners should not feel the other one’s weakness as a burden. What we should do is giving support n strength. Isn’t it that way life partner’s should be? Infact these scenes makes me feel that Navra are real life partners.
@Zara
Agreed completely.
Exactly! @Siya
@Surabhi.
No he didn’t. He only worried today though better than crying which remains a no go for me. I also find crying as annoying so hopefully they show the wedding and the dhamaka from Abhinav and Manjiri two aside.
@Meed @Surabhi Instead of Abhinav, your Abhimanyu was crying today. Right? Didnt you find it annoying and irritating?
@Surabhi, agree with you on all three.
@Nitu.
When his son told him that he loves him for the first time. This was not depressing not downcast but more of a cry that is touching in a more positive sense. Heart-warming and inspiring tears. Definitely not Bajrangi Bhaijaan’s Salman Khan but it is right up there.
Abhinav was crying but if he told Akshara once he would have been happy. He is innocent in the sense of not knowing a lot about Akshara’s feelings. So I will now relent from criticising him.
@meed So Abhimanyu felt happy and he decided right away to talk to Akshara to inform Abhir. Woww. That means even in his happiness he is not thinking about others and he decided to destroy a happy occasion. Dont tell me now that he was crying because he was concerned.
@Nitu.
So true. When Abhir revealed how much he loved and trusted him Abhimanyu realised that he had not been entirely honest with Abhir who had confided in him that he was looking for his father. So felt the anguish that he had been leading Abhir in the wrong way. He felt concerned of course. Abhimanyu requested Akshara because of their understanding on Abhir and I find this courtesy to be very noble.
Every people has their own concerns and they cope up and overcome the situations using different methods. Abhimanyu was concerned, what he did? He passed it to Akshara making her worry and tensed. He didnt wait for the marriage to over. Abhinav has his own concerns. But he didnt want Akshara to worry and destroy her happiness with his concerns. Instead he ran the battle within. He was thoughtful not to destroy anyone’s happiness. Thats a big strength not weakness. The one who is weak here is Abhimanyu.
@Nitu.
Yes the two men are so different and that’s notable. Yes I see why Abhinav is so well behaved and how he puts Akshara and Abhir first in all that he does. I think that his kind of love is rubbing off on Akshara who puts him and Abhir first in all that she does. Akshara loves this life because she feels like a queen and she knows that she is the decision maker here which Abhinav doesn’t mind. As you have said this is a strength and it is notable to have someone who cares like Abhinav and who has put the house in Akshara’s name. Everything that he owns belongs to Akshara so the two men aren’t exactly the same and I don’t compare them as they are so different. Akshara will always choose Abhinav because she is his priority and she finds joy in his sincerity. When he tries to woo her she just likes his sincere and forthright attitude and many people lack that.
I get your point and cannot compare these two men because I know that they are different.
Very good episode Abhimanyu and Abhir was so cute together. Family Goenka shared moments Family soothing, Kairav and Abhimanyu try to get along well. As always Abhinav was a bit bipolar in this episode, a moment in joy, a moment in worry, but that’s nothing, it’s his personality. Arohi is becoming more and more mature over the episodes, I wanted her to tell about the confrontation of Manjiri and Abhinav to someone in Abhimanyu or Akshara, and it looks like she can do it and help the Navra in his problem.
@Yeol I think Arohi is stuck between causing drama by revealing psychojiri’s actions during the wedding and ruining the atmosphere and just letting it all burn and sitting back and watching everyone lay into and wreck psychojiri… she still respects psycho as Neil’s mom but I think that respect is waning with all psycho’s antics. For now she’s just enjoying her time with her fam and the festivities.
@Jade, The long-standing relationship is still there, and Arohi respects that relationship with Manjiri. but I think his respect for Manjiri as a person has diminished after his action. I think Arohi overestimated Abhinav, I think she believed that Abhinav with his long time relationship with Akshara, would have better handled Manjiri’s opinion that he doesn’t know very well after all. She thought that maybe he wasn’t going to give importance to the words of an outsider, compared to his time in his relationship with Akshara and the trust they must have for each other. But Arohi is very observant and she noticed that Abhinav’s tension is still there. So she understood that Abhinav was impacted by Manjiri’s words, and she will try to find the right moment to tell Akshara about it. because Arohi wants to avoid that Akshara’s relationship is at risk because of Manjiri. I think Arohi is trying to make amends for all the obstacles she caused to her sister’s previous relationship, a nice development.
@Yeol, agreed. I find Arohi’s concern over Abhinav strange. Feel something is brewing in the script. Not sure what. Previous episode when Manjiri told Abhinav he getting on the way of a Abhi-Akshu-Abhir family unit, Arohi told her she felt most concerned about Abhinav’s hurt feelings. She hardly knows him, but she is always advocating for him. Could she be falling for him? Or, is it Arohi wants Akshara to stay with Abhinav as the Queen of Kausali, so Arohi can be the Queen of Udaipur?
@Rai, I don’t see bad intentions in his reaction but one thing is for sure, Arohi can change overnight
@Rai, it would be such madness if she was falling in love with Abhinav, it would make her a woman who loves men coming into her sister’s life. I think it is impossible for Arohi to fall in love with Abhinav especially as long as he is Akshara’s husband.
@Yeol, Arohi falling for Abhinav, yes you are right, it is improbable.
This Manyu, couldn’t wait for the wedding to be over before he starts his nonsense again. It’s not your wedding just let it happen peacefully, you and your mother don’t need to be the center of attention all the time. This Manyu and his attention seeking psycho mom 😒 I can’t wait for Arohi to tell Akshara about psychojiri that confrontation better be 🔥🔥🔥 cause I think that’s what pushes Psychojiri over the edge to possess Abhir, it looked like Abhir would have been peacefully coparented but we have psycho in the mix. We need a new precap, same one for a week now 🤨 the Goenka scenes were all so sweet and cute, MusKai will deffo be a lot like Manish and Swarna, they will probably be the cornerstones of the next gen. I hope we see Arohi and Akshara bonding further, it seems Arohi is done with the Birla’s thanks to psychojiri’s antics, she stayed with them for Ruhi maybe now she’ll see that the Birla’s are cursed; Harsh and Manjiri were divorced and he was a bad husband, Parth is a bad husband and he and Shefali are about to get divorced and enter a custody battle, her own marriage ended prematurely with Neil’s death, Akshara was thrown out at her lowest point, Anisha was characterless and suicided resulting in trauma for her brother, she nearly died thanks to Mahima hiding her son’s deeds. If Aru wants her kid to have a happy life she better leave them Birla’s
@Jade
Aru has been helpfull to Akshu so much these days, she shouldnt stop now. She should save her sister from Manjiri by telling on Manjiri.
Abhi found himself in Kasauli bcs of his son. He went there to take care of his son after a tough surgery. He is present to form a bonding with a son he has just learned of. But fortunately a wedding is going on. Shouldn’t he partake and just fold his hands. If he had done that, then maybe this marriage won’t be taking place considering how he helped for Muskaan’s threatening, the pictures and all that.
@Suhbh, you ask me yesterday whether I’m taking drug. And I should get well soon. It’s a pity that you actually showed how ill-mannered you are to the public.
Your parents did not give you enough training. The way you spoke pinpoint how depressed you are. You equally have anger issues. Please don’t shy out, go to the nearest psychiatrist institute to you. They might be able to help you. It’s not too late.
Better still, go and kneel down and beg your parents to forgive you, bcs I know that you have beaten them before or chased them with a cutlass
Bring it on
Exactly.. In fact he said he will stay away from this marriage but akshu told him that “no no you be here as you are also family” So he is here.. He is not doing anything forcefully.. Akshnav bhakts expects abhimanyu to stay away from kasauli which indirectly means staying away from abhir.. Why? Akshu should be jailed for paternity fraud.. Y would abhimanyu give up on his son? They came back to kasauli so abhimanyu came to stay with his son for some time..
Akshara asked Manyu to stay so he can be with Abhir more time when Sharmas are busy with wedding preparations if I remember it right. Staying with his son is totally ok and there is nothing wrong. But staying with son and involving in to someone’s family matters too much are two different things.
@😂
You remembered correctly. Akshu told Manyu to stay so as he can help with looking after Abhir.
Bravo,good job, i am not accountable to answering you, but the things you are accusing me shows how you are in real life and never attacked your parents but you attacked my parents today there was no need of you pointing fingers on my upbringing. Thank you for showing your real face
True
Funmi is mad. Her writtings tells how much she lacks awareness
@Shubh
Yeah…Funmi has you to attack but he/she chose to bring parents.This shows her toxic mentality.
@Surabhi
So, who’s stopping him from staying with his son? No one. But more than spending time with his son, he seems more interested in Sharma family household matters🥴 Akshara told him that he’s also family and asked him to stay when he was leaving the house after wedding was fixed. She never asked him to poke in Sharma family household matters. He should have utilized this time to know Abhir more and form a bond with him than checking out Sharma family bills and groceries list🤷♀️
@Siya
Manyu was specifically asked to help with looking after Abhir. But its not bad to overextend himself.
Hahaha @Funmi wat a reply! 👍👍👍
Abhimanyu talking to Kairav about taking care of Muskaan and reminding him of his mistakes was rather responsible, he subtly reminded him not to do like him, he too is aware that he and Kairav have things in common, and that if Kairav is not careful, it could end up digging a hole in his relationship. It was this expression that I always use here, you have to learn from the mistakes of your entourage to move forward, It was the context in this scene. Akshara has never been able to confess a mistake but makes speeches about accepting mistakes, while her own mistakes she never really accepted them, and she attributed her mistakes to an unfortunate fate, I don’t know what to say . Akshara considers the intentions that caused the error more than the catastrophic result of her Mahan intentions, so she relieves her soul of all responsibility even if the results are irreversible, because she had good intentions, didn’t she? She should have advised Muskaan to always communicate with Kairav in all situations, to always avoid acting without thinking and thinking about the consequences.
Makers just wants to show abhinav and arohi mahanta by making both abhimanyu and akshara look bad.. If you have noticed everywhere everyone saying arohi is now better thn akshara..
@surabhi
Similar way how makers showed abhimanyu and akshara as MAHAAN by making Arohi negative, making Anisha negative, making mahima negative, destroying neirohi.
So end of the day it’s the scriptwriters to be blamed isn’t it???🤣🤣🤣
@Surabhi
Sorry to say, Abhimanyu and Akshara looked like hypocrites from the very beginning of the show. They are not ruined now as people claim and are not ruined for anyone. Infact, every other character is ruined for them and to lift them up. Aarohi was definitely wrong most of the times, but Abhimanyu and Akshara are no saints. It’s their fans who normalized their every toxic act, especially Abhimanyu’s.
@yeol
You are so hard on Akshu. I mean is this advice not enough and suits Mus better?
“Akshu says there are chances of making a mistake. She asks Neela didn’t I make mistakes, did you oust me. Neela asks am I a bad saas. Akshu says no, you are the best, I m explaining Muskaan to accept mistake and say sorry, learn to forgive herself, don’t forget to respect own self, tell Kairav to help you in handling things, you both will handle the marriage together, never leave the job, it will become your strength. She explains Muskaan. She says I m always there for you. Muskaan thanks and hugs her.”
Please be happy as all you said, Akshu did advice Mus the same and more.
@Mark, I’m tough on Akshara because it’s advice she never puts into practice. For her exam instead of thinking that becoming a lawyer will be her strength and moving forward without hesitation. Akshara almost gave up on everything without thinking about her advice first, Akshara doesn’t always need to be encouraged by others to pursue her dreams, and I find it disappointing that she gives this kind of advice without putting it into practice, whether in the past or in the present. Asking Muskaan to be careful and thoughtful would have been the best thing, because caution can save her from the big mistakes she made. relationships must be nurtured with caution and care to stay strong. Mistakes, she should look back first before saying she shouldn’t blame herself, she should have told her to avoid creating situations where she might hurt other people’s feelings and test family boundaries . To respect oneself is to know how to be independent and to know how to defend oneself, and Akshara by marrying Abhinav did not show his independence and his strength by raising Abhir alone without lying about his father and facing society. I don’t point to their current relationship as they love and that’s fine, but I don’t respect the way they formed their relationship. Akshara doesn’t recognize anything and doesn’t look at her situation before speaking. She should give advice based on her own experiences and caution.
@yeol
Advices come in two forms,
1. Things we did and were helpful hence we pass on the lessons as “things to do”. I.e. dos
2. Things we didnt do that caused trouble and hence pass on the lessons as “things shouldnt do”. I.e.donts.
In your explanation, Akshara did advice Mus on things she didnt do that proved to be harmful and so, Mus should learn from them. Yes Akshu did not follow her own advice but she wishes for Mus to not turn to be her. If Akshu needs motivation to ignore her sons feelings and sit for an exam first, Akshu is advicing Mus of this well proven action of “dont do”.
@Mark.
It is Akshara’s lesson to outlive people like Abhinav who eat at themselves who regret and dig their own holes where they wallow in self punishment. She deflects her wrongdoing away from herself and anyone who associates with her has to take that along with Akshara as her behaviour and her go together. Muskaan is more like Abhinav and they need to be more like free spirits not to burden themselves when they make mistakes but acknowledge their wrongdoing and move ahead instead of trying to hide from the world because any wrong they would have done is not going to be the most grievous thing ever done. They should own up stay truthful to their loved ones like Akshara tries to do. I think that was the lesson Akshara tried to pass along.
@Meed
I didnt get what you said but what Akshu said is what she encountered in both marriages. She talks about everyone makes mistakes and she did too but was not ousted from the house by neelam amma which means she was ousted by her former house. She talks about sharing financial burden, which she means in this marriage, she is talking about forgiving herself which she did for her past mistakes that is why she was able to move on and be happy i.e. she forgave herself for causing pain to the man that she loved and his family. She is talking about self respect which she did so as to not go back to birla house for whatever reason even if that reason is Abhir. So she summed up her own donts and do that shaped both marriages.
Exactly @Mark
@Mark.
Akshara is giving advice where she has not taken them. Yes what is past is past. She has a more successful marriage with Abhinav as she had a supporting husband and supportive mother in law. The success comes though from Abhinav who had put up with a lot of her antics which surely carried over from her previous life. She has improved because most human beings improve over time even if a little. Here the family she settled down in helped her as she usually loses herself when interfacing numerous relationships. Her present family is a family of five. So there isn’t any dangers of getting involved in multiple crises. Yet she could have gotten involved in the Muskaan matter in a way that could have destroyed her marriage. So she has her attributes that causes grief in her husband. She is usually oblivious to her husband’s pain to her son’s pain or to Kairav’s pain. This is why the troubles come often to her. She doesn’t see the dangers early enough. But I know the makers have carefully constructed this character because a bland character can not tell a memorable story.
@meed
This is why Akshu said they complete each other. Where Akshu is short, Nav compensate and same for Nav. Akshu is flawed but she got someone to cover her flaws from the rest of the world and make her seem perfect infront of everyone. If this changes we will discuss but Muskaans alliance was not a problem infact Akshu was peeling oranges when Nav was buzy saying no to his sisters happiness. Call it all you want but i call it, “hope”.
@Mark, do you actually think they make a good pair that make up for each other’s flaws? I would say that Abhinav is way too lax towards Akshara’s actions if Abhir hadn’t gotten sick the custody case would have continued as Akshara wanted to push the case while Abhinav didn’t agree but he did respecting Akshara’s decision that could have snatched Abhir away from them, as Abhimanyu had more options than Navra and Abhinav had started to get depressed and his behavior was becoming erratic. Abhinav is unable to resonate with Akshara despite being the most thoughtful, he always ends up complying with her demands.
He supported Akshara to hide a child from his father, and his did not make him perfect in the eyes of the world even Manish was totally disappointed with his behavior and actions, but he was reassured that Akshara had come across a good person. Akshara and the one who makes big decisions for them despite Abhinav having an opinion, they don’t have a fair relationship as a team, Abhinav and a follower in this relationship. Their relationship has so many flaws because Abhinav and a human, he has flaws and Akshara can’t hide them, Abhinav’s insecurity and known to everyone, and his over exaggerated kindness too. Akshara is not used to following Abhinav’s advice in important matters, if they find themselves in a situation where Abhinav is right, but Akshara considers that she is right, but Abhinav will not want to agree with her, but if Akshara continues to be stubborn, frankly they will be cooked. Akshara cannot cover Abhinav’s flaws, she can save him and restore his confidence temporarily, but if Abhinav does not work on his mantal nothing can be done to change or hide his flaws. And if Abhinav doesn’t learn to oppose certain choices of Akshara, one day they will be in trouble, life will not always be kind to them.
@Mark.
I agree. Abhinav covers Akshara’s flaws and Akshara covers Abhinav’s as well. Akshara has said so herself. She tells now that Abhinav is hiding something from her but the conversation was overtaken by Abhir’s invite to the sangeet. This arrangement looks solid but it can be tested and more tests will come. Well Abhinav said no to the alliance but Abhimanyu helped in an innovative way to get his approval. Akshara didn’t want Abhinav to get hurt but they came up with a fine plan and that worked now Abhinav had noticed what they had done and that caused him to worry. That’s one matter. I meant that Abhinav had thought that Kairav had left Muskaan when the accusation came out. So they had a fight eventually Abhimanyu and Kairav brought the cheat who tried to extort Muskaan. Akshara would have caused a big rift that day which is the point that I put out. Now everything about that argument showed a reservation of Abhinav concerning Kairav. However Kairav’s actions cleared the misunderstanding which had existed since that day of the approval. This made Abhinav apologise for doubting Akshara.
Well they have hope their story is interesting and I just critique the characters as when they fall short not that I am hating anyone of them.
@Meed
Their plan made him worry but, here he is worrying he is not good enough for Akshu? It must have been the other way around if what you are implying is right?
Navra is not as disproportionate as to cause heavy damage to their house to the point of telling the other to leave.
@Yeol, well identified the contrast in how Abhimanyu has addressed his shortcomings while Akshara remains totally unaware. Yes the two conversation – Abhimanyu with Kairav and Akshara with Muskaan – was done well. Note also how Abhinav appears to being phased out. Abhimanyu and Akshara do the dance. Abhimanyu has the bride’s brother talk with the groom, and Akshara the Bahbi, brother’s wife talk’s to the bride. Why not Abhinav?
@Mark.
No his worry is more weighty than it seems. But I don’t want to continue criticising Abhinav for going through his emotions he is suffering a lot. He isn’t able to express himself to Akshara who is involved with the wedding arrangements. But knowing that he had been suffering all along will only make Akshara suffer all that more which Abhinav would not have wanted. It is better when he can clear his worries.
Navra is unique. They have been travelling on this journey together and it is hard for them to push out each other. Yet Abhinav is thinking about stepping aside from Akshara’s life. So the hurt will be worse when if he concludes to do that. This is because he means the world to her even though he is thinking that he isn’t good enough. She gets worried because he is worried and she criies when he cries. This is a soulful bond because they connect to each other’s pain.
Akshara would not let Abhinav to leave her. Abhinav would not leave Akshara at all because he loves her. So this is where they have this togetherness because they believe fully in the relationship and they renew it by adding promises to stand by each other now I think that these things add up. They make the marriage to be strong.
Abhimanyu was mistaken in the past when he thought about the eventualities even provisioning divorce papers. We can never be sure of what tomorrow brings but we could have implicit and explicit faith in what we have in our relationships and work even when they are not perfect.
I agree.
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Since Manyu opened the pandora box, we might as well discuss its contents.i.e. Abhirs “important shoes”.
Manyus POV: My son has high affinity to riches and wants to keep the shoes i gifted him but Akshu is not considering his feelings of keeping his gift just because they are poor(as if those shoes were thrown away or returned🙄😏😏😏).
Akshu POV:
1. My son who did not accept even his maasi gift on his bday, could not accept Goenkas things when he was given, before looking for his parents consent, accepted Doc mans gifts? That too he goes crazy over the gifts to the point of throwing his only pair away?🤔
2. He not only defied the norm and his values given by his parents i.e. to ask them first before accepting gifts, he went ahead and threw the only pair his parents can afford away? In the dustbin? 🤔 call Akshus glance towards Nav all you want but i call it “confirming with Nav if he is feeling what she is feeling”
Abhir might as well shoved his values in the bin together with the shoes. Abhir is lucky he got away with a teaching of some sort as he should at this point. He didnt need a scolding or a ass whooping at his behaviour then.
Hear me out @yeol and @Meed. Abhir like kids are the ones that despite knowing his parents are poor, lost their minds and values at the site of a new, goodlooking, expensive shoe. Why didnt he keep both shoes? If he did, do you think Akshu would have helped him understand he shouldnt throw away his old, torn shoes that are within his parents means? @yeol and @Meed, Abhir like kid, if not well taught now, will betray his friends for money, will betray his comrades for money, will betray his country for money. Do you know why? Because he went crazy at the sight of a representation of money which means being poor is a chore for him and tiresome. He is just lucky that he is actually not poor as his real dad is filthy rich but then those riches may never last.
And tip of the iceberg, all adults encourage Abhir values by also looking and asking Navra when they want to give Abhir something except ABHIMANYU.🤔
@Mark, I come from a very well established family financially and professionally speaking I managed to have a good job and emancipated myself financially then I built a family life. When I was a child, being part of the youngest daughter of my family, I was always spoiled and given gifts, I learned to take care of my belongings, and to get rid of my used belongings, even if it had been offered by my father and my mother. My father always told me one thing, objects can be bought but they all have an expiry date and a lifespan, you have to learn to let go of things that have no value in themselves, because relationships have more than value than objects. Abhir is a child he had worn out shoes, and he likes the new shoes that his relatives gave him. it’s in the nature of children to appreciate new things rather than worn-out stuff. There is no need to give a lot of importance to an object, because in the end to talk, to love, or to have fun we all turn to our relationships instead of shoes. You don’t need to say that giving importance to shoes and a sign of deceit, when your goals become obsolete your relationships will still be there. I have always placed an important value on financial prosperity and the development of an established career, because my parents educated me well and made me realize that I was privileged and that many others are not lucky enough to have a successful education or a life without financial hassle because money was an important factor. However, I value my family and friendship relationships more than the financial and material aspect because I have been taught to detached myself from objects, you can love an object but never as much as his relatives. Abhir and a child he will have whims, he will always be attracted to new things but if he is taught to value his relationships more than the material aspect he will grow up well and with good values. When relationships are more valued than the material aspect, naturally learn empathy, politeness, respect, understanding, concern for others, and so many other feelings and we learn to respect our surroundings and our environment . A parent when he wants to please his child does not always think of asking permission from his spouse or others. You turn a small thing into a mountain, Abhir is not going to love an object more than his relations.
@yeol
Its up to parents to monitor changes displayed by their children and address behaviours that displeases them. Its also sad for parents to see their values being compromised or forgotten or followed when its convenient for their child and when it suits him.
The truth is, an object such as a shoe, gifted by docman can not be above relation but how Abhir interpretes the gesture, and relation has impact. Its up to his parents to ask his feelings and thoughts on matters such as relations, gifts,e.t.c. Navra did not like Abhirs behaviour and they dealt with it just like how your dad taught you to “My father always told me one thing, objects can be bought but they all have an expiry date and a lifespan, you have to learn to let go of things that have no value in themselves, because relationships have more than value than objects”.
PS: “You turn a small thing into a mountain” this sentence rings true for both of us. You turned a lesson given from mom to son as her not considering his feelings and i turned it to possible improper behaviour that needs to be dealt with.
@Mark, that was the problem there, parents to develop knowledge about their children’s feelings, always try to ask them this question ( what do you think?) before making a decision, or before teaching them a lesson because we have to react according to the answer that the child will give us. Akshara instead of asking Abhir what did he think of the shoes and why he liked them, she first started teaching him a lesson based on her own and her husband’s personal feelings. When Abhir said that he wants to know who his real father is, she didn’t ask him about his reasons or his desire to know the truth, she told him to wait not wanting to know if Abhir’s need is urgent, where as if she had asked him about his feelings she would have known her son’s true thoughts. It’s a moral obligation to always ask why and to ask your interlocutor what he thinks about it, but Akshara neglected his obligations for personal reasons. Parents always ask questions to the child to find out what their relationship is with the situation, the person or an object, it is to be able to educate them and be attentive to their feelings.
@Mark.
Yes and no.
Yes Abhir shouldn’t have thrown away the shoes given to him by his parents when he got a new one. He should have asked them for permission to accept the gift from his superhero but he made a mistake as children are wont to do. Children do not mean all what they do. Here Abhir was mistaken drawing conclusions from this would be hard as his behaviour and character is still forming the same reason his parents explained it to him.
No because his mother gave a biased advice as she was contending then with Abhimanyu so the advice was used against Abhir while raising Abhinav’s image. Well it is now obvious where her feelings lie. She could have advised him to keep both shoes because having two prevents either from wearing out more quickly. I think now she would give a more objective advice as she has ended the war with Abhimanyu.
Abhir wouldn’t betray anyone because his upbringing is more solid than given credit for. Abhir is shown to be drawn from the beginning to the good life. He dreamt of his own room. He dreams of living in big houses and he is attracted to his natural family. The makers are trying to show us something with Abhir’s character graph. His journey to Udaipur. Now what happens after Abhir leaves I guess we will all find that out. Abhir leaving Abhinav will jolt Abhinav back to finding his breakthrough opportunity. Abhinav has lost his way and I have given him enough criticism but the makers are showing the fans that the broken man will recover and find his way in life. Abhimanyu will find his happiness in life and Akshara will face new questions in life. Each of the characters journey might diverge after this wedding with each one facing his or her internal questions and trying to find the answers. Yes Aarohi as well has her questions.
When Abhir goes with Abhimanyu he isn’t aware that Abhimanyu is his father or that he is the subject of a custody case. Abhir is drawn to Abhimanyu because of their similarities. Abhimanyu has seen the life Abhir is living and he respects Abhinav and Akshara for their efforts and though Abhir is going behind his parents backs to look for his father as he is naturally inquisitive he will eventually face the question of whether he is going to be with Abhimanyu or with Abhinav. When he chooses one of them the other would understand and probably get stronger. I don’t think Abhir is wrong for loving Abhimanyu he voiced out his reasons which are known. This is why Akshara’s way of handling Abhir’s quest wasn’t acceptable to me. This is because she didn’t resolve his questions however she keeps engaging in those conversations about Abhir’s paternity where she could be heard easily. Well the makers used that to link up the storyline.
@Meed, @Mark I would like to know something first, did Abhir really throw away the shoes his parents gave him. I saw a child who wanted to be well dressed, for his aunt’s special occasion he didn’t mention throwing away his old shoes. And to be able to put on his new shoes, must Abhir need permission from his parents? while Akshara never said that the shoes were not his. Akshara told her despite her disregard for Abhir’s feelings on the matter, that he had to choose between the old ones and the new ones, she did not say that the new ones are not his and he had no right to wear them.
@@yeol @Mark.
Yes he threw away his old shoes. Not that they were so bad just that he had got the new ones. He put his old shoes in the bin which @Mark understands very well. Even I agree that he made a mistake there. When children receive gifts from other people they have to show them to their parents who would thank the one giving the gifts which is the permission I talked about. Not that whenever he wants to wear his shoes that he should be taking permission. It is permission to receive a gift.
Akshara’s tried to tell a story about their love and all that making Abhir to choose to wear the older shoe. However Abhir it seems wasn’t convinced as he has come back for those same newer shoes. However if she had given a more convincing reply Abhir would have learnt from it. Now the makers are showing more and more of his reservations towards his mother which is leading to another landmark. This is where I see some of the points about Abhir possibly betraying his parents.
@yeol
You really do not know what happened.
“….always try to ask them this question ( what do you think?) before making a decision, or before teaching them a lesson because we have to react according to the answer that the child will give us. Akshara instead of asking Abhir what did he think of the shoes and why he liked them, she first started teaching him a lesson based on her own and her husband’s personal feelings. When Abhir said that he wants to know who his real father is, she didn’t ask him about his reasons or his desire to know the truth, she told him to wait not wanting to know if Abhir’s need is urgent, where as if she had asked him about his feelings she would have known her son’s true thoughts. It’s a moral obligation to always ask why and to ask your interlocutor what he thinks about it, but Akshara neglected his obligations for personal reasons. Parents always ask questions to the child to find out what their relationship is with the situation, the person or an object, it is to be able to educate them and be attentive to their feelings.”
Akshu did exactly as you are saying.
PS: Abhir threw the shoes given by his parents in the dustbin and wore the shoes bought by Manyu which are the same shoes he wore today as they were kept with care and reserved for special occasions.
Akshu found Abhirs shoes in the bin and asked why? Abhir answered since docman gave me beautifull, cool shoes which i have accepted them and put them on and threw the ones you never bothered to replace but kept repairing. So Akshu gave an analogy of their house at Kasauli and a new house that would have all his hearts desires which would he choose? So Abhir chose their house which made Akshu conclude that same applies to these shoes. After that Akshu told him to keep both shoes end of story.
@Meed, although Akshu taught Abhir this lesson because she was indeed offended by both son and Manyu, we cannot sumup this lesson as simply her putting her feelings first.
Truth is, she wanted her son to consider her feelings which were wounded by his actions. She wanted Abhir to keep both relations with him. The new one i.e. the one with his real dad. But also keep the old one i.e. the one with Nav. Akshu was conditioning him since long to keep both relations and soon enough, Abhir will understand that it was not about the shoes but about Nav and Manyu.
What are parents there for if not to prepare us for a future that we will encounter and thus prepare us for everything. One might underestimate the lesson as it is irrelevant now but it is important when it is.
@Mark, you talk about the accident back then, Akshara asked Abhir why he threw the shoes and Abhir replied what you quoted. But Akshara instead of asking him do you like the shoes? she didn’t ask him what Abhir thought of the new shoes, she asked why he threw away the old shoes. Then Akshara told Abhir your father mend old shoes and wear them broken, diverting a subject which concerns her son to her husband, as she thought about Abhinav’s feeling first. Abhir replied why he threw away the old shoes, he didn’t tell his mother what the shoes meant to him, because his mother didn’t ask him what he thought of the new shoes. Akshara started scaring him about his friendships and house, and Abhir started saying I don’t want any of that. Akshara explained to him that he was going to live in a new place, basically she said that he was going to lose all his old things and relationships. Then at the end without even bothering to ask what he thought of the shoes, or if he felt more comfortable in his new shoes, She wanted to prepare him to choose between his old relationships and the new ones. Because at the end she took a picture to please her dear husband. And even for his father She said I will tell you when the right time comes, disregarding Abhir’s immediate desire.
@Mark.
Yes the shoes were a pointer to the promo. Abhir will remember these lessons that his mother had taught him. Then it may cause a seismic shift in the story. Abhir has to learn to value the two relationships. You have articulated this point vry well.
@Meed
This analogy was pointed by @Francis which was an eye opener for me too. Missed him by the way.
@Mark.
True. But I am the same as @Francis.
I have changed my display name here to honour Abhinav who I think will be eased out of this show sometime soon. But Abhinav wasn’t fighting and giving up on life isn’t the best which is why I criticise him and Akshara who isn’t noticing his troubles.
@Meed
Abhinav isnt giving up on life but on his love, for his love’s happiness. To me its just who he is. He may do that and do it smiling. In the past we saw Manyu who fought for everything including his love. We saw how that ended up. He later fought his love away. Nav is polar opposite and its fine. If he comes to leave his love behind, he will do it for love still which is contrary to Manyus leave as he did that for hatred. That is what matters.
Nav may cry all he wants as that is how he deals with his pain, where Manyu destroys things. Someone said this is because Manyu is rich and Nav is poor so cannot afford to break things. Funny right, the irony.
Nav is keeping his troubles inside and Akshu knows he is troubled(contrary to your analysis) but she doesnt know what is troubling him. Nav needs time and for Akshu to choose him which she will do when Abhir comes to know the full truth and finally leave sharmas and go to birlas for coparenting. Akshu doesnt need a replica of Manyu who throws things and be loud and overbearing as this proved to be against her, but needs a gentle, considerate man which is Nav. Even if Manyu changes to be calm and sensible, still he will never appeal to me.
Manyu needs a new female now and not any of goenkas siblings because of his past actions that can never be wiped clean. The action i am talking about is only that “he intentionally hurt Akshu.” Despite what Akshu did, he avenged all her mistakes with pain. There is no going back for him. He should move on with a new female as he screwed up with Aru.
If any goenka sister settle with him, i will never digest it and will criticize even a smile from them. Same way you hate crybabies, same way i hate vengeful people who avenge a honest unintentional mistake.
@Mark. Agree with what you said about abhinav and akshara. Once akshara said she is afraid that abhinav is a nice person who might end up by sacrificing his happiness for the other’s happiness. That’s true akshara has a better understanding on abhinav. That is how he is. He likes to be happy but his happiness lies on the happiness of the ones he loves that is akshara and abhir. If he sees both akshra and abhir are more happy with abhi than him he can let them go even it is so difficult for him now. He hardly fights for his happiness against the happiness of the ones he loves most. His pain worry and love has made him blind that he is unable to see the answer for his question whether he is worthy/ right to be akshara and abhir. Yes he is downgrading himself but bcz for aksharas happiness and abhir’s life. He needs some time to get out of his tension and then he will find the answer.
@Zara.
Agreed. I find a lot of sense in your explanation about his dynamics. He is so sacrificial and he means well for his loved ones. He mistook Akshara’s love for gratitude. He will be out of words to apologise when he knows the truth. Now he isn’t the only one who needs to know the truth Akshara needs to know that he was worrying and Abhir needs to know his paternity and then the family will be happier after they clear the air reducing their worries. Akshara knows him so well which confounds me a bit as he successfully hid his life in worries from her for many days. She will force him to reveal his thoughts after the events in the precap.
I agree Aarohi shouldn’t marry Abhi as Manjiri has easily changed her target after coaching her to marry Abhi, Aarohi knows she is just a spare tyre for Abhi n Manjiri when Akshara is out of their reach! 🤣🤣🤣
@Mark.
So true. I am understanding his sorrows better. Maybe I misunderstood his plight which can happen. However when I attack a character so much I pull back as I don’t want to attack just for the purpose of attacking. I know that Abhinav will not always cry even though I personally don’t like to see people crying when they can tell what is happening to them directly. I am convinced by your explanation. Abhinav is a sacrificial type and he can give up on his happiness just to see his lover happy. I can’t see Akshara leaving him because she had become more like him right? Yes she is now more sacrificial than before she saw his home and she made it her home. His things are hers and why not?
I made a comment that Akshara isn’t noticing that he is troubled but it is true. Only when he denied to dance with her that she saw his worries as a Moe’s serious matter. She now got worried and would have extracted the information from him when Abhir called him back into the sangeet event. She doesn’t know what is troubling him yes but that is her duty to know. It directly affects her happiness.
I agree Akshara is better with Abhinav and that Abhimanyu isn’t an exact fit for the same reasons. She needs a gentle and considerate man your exact words and that is true. However I am convinced that Abhimanyu is changing and he can be happy one day as well but I usually don’t think so much about that. I still think that his journey to realise his happiness may be just with having Abhir. In other words that he may remain unmarried. If however the makers choos to pair him then the character needs fine detailing just like Abhinav so that the fans can take to her and embrace that new character.
I understand your position on Abhimanyu and I won’t insist when we discuss about him just the issues at hand. I think that he is changing and while that does not recuse him from what he has done in the past any good deed shown is worth its weight in gold. I also think that based on their past that he isn’t going to be happy with the Goenka sisters.
@Mark, you are glorifying Abhinav’s human cowardice. under the pretext of love he is unable to fight for his dear ones. Abandoned his people behind either because he thinks according to his own conjecture, that they are happier without him and of an unbounded cowardice, because he did not think of their reactions and their feelings only his and his own ideas. Abhinav cries because he does not have the courage to face hardships and face his problems, he prefers to run away and hide his problems. Abhimanyu vents with sport as he acted and faced his actions. Akshara needs a man who worships her and who can agree with her and support her in her mistakes, not someone who can confront her in a mirror. she wants someone who will see even in her most serious mistakes, her spirit of savior. Akshara can’t be with someone who has too strong an opinion, because she’s too stubborn and needs the other to let go for her. Akshara intentionally hurt Abhimanyu by going against what they had agreed, she knew that she was betraying his trust and hurting his feelings, but she followed his ideas instead of thinking about Abhimanyu’s feeling. If you count Akshara hurt Abhimanyu so many times it was like stabbing him with a knife in the same spot multiple times. (Despite what Akshara did) you use Akshara’s mistakes as if it were just some little stupidity, in truth Akshara deserved so much more than words she seriously deserved not to be forgiven, but everyone has their level of tolerance . some can tolerate and continue to be hurt by the same person. An honest mistake? regardless of the good intentions behind a voluntary error or not, the result will not alleviate the pain of those who will have to bear the consequences of the errors of others. I hate so much people who are unable to fight for what they consider as their world, and who prefer to doubt and run away. I terribly hate people who minimize with their intentions, their mistakes to have a clear conscience. Romanticize errors and cowardice and intolerable for me but that’s good for you.
Anyway I will say a good episode with a little bit of progress on the storyline …
Today I heard Abhimanyu and Akshara lecturing about marriage ….sad ….
@shilajit
I dont think they were lecturing per se.. they were rather telling the new couple to not repeat their mistakes without making it awkward. Atleast i can say that about manyu cause he has openly accepted his mistakes as a husband …about akshu m not too sure cause she still carries the “i am not wrong” attitude as far as her marriage is concerned but perhaps she too has realized her mistakes without maling a public acceptance of the same.
@Shilajit
Sad indeed.
When it’s their turn to give their blessings, no matter what, one has to put in good words and advices isn’t it? Or you think otherwise? Be it their past is not perfect, but they can’t always dwell on their past right? Their main intentions is to give Blessings to the new couple and wish them well n better for their future right? So do people expect people with failed marriage are not worthy to give blessings? Everybody deserves a new start! What is wrong with that?? 🙄🙄🙄
@Sivk
True. Everyone can offer advice.
Hello family can anyone tell me the name of the song that was sang during Muskaan entry
I think it is “Aaj Sajeya” by goldie sohel.
A bit off the topic but i am so happy that the designers included our traditional pahadi nath in muskan’s bridal jewelry 😀
Independent of the screenwriter’s wishes, the scenes or the characters misbehave, exist and are part of their stories. it is now useless to say that it was for such and such when its not going to change their behavior. We must recognize that for the character who acted badly for selfish motives it was a part of his personality, and that his ended up hurting the other characters or glorifying some of them. All the characters have a past and for many, a terrible past with closets full of skeletons. I love the Arohi now and hope she doesn’t do anything wrong, her character at times wasn’t gray she was totally bad especially using someone as good as Niel and doing bad things thing on purpose. We must accept the redemption of some and recognize that others like Manjiri have changed for the worse. but for those who have done evil deeds it is useless to want to erase their past by accusing other people of their action. Arohi has done things that have hurt her loved ones and on purpose she has changed but she has not yet fully recovered from her mistakes, you have to let her redeem herself and grow to develop her maturity and try to find happiness when she feels ready. I would also like to clarify one thing, Abhimanyu will always be closely linked to Sharma because of Abhir. Abhimanyu helps more than he should but without any bad intention and without hurting anyone. Abhinav’s insecurities should not be on him because if Abhinav considers that Abhimanyu is transgressing his boundaries he can share it with him, as Akshara told Abhimanyu to give him the real bill. No one thinks Abhimanyu goes beyond his limits till now not even Kairav who wholeheartedly accepted Abhimanyu into his marriage and appreciated his help. Neither did Akshara otherwise she would have taken him back already, Abhimanyu didn’t do anything which was found to be inappropriate even Goenka and finally happy with her presence, and Muskaan really started liking Abhimanyu because they are all creating links and relationships because of the proximity. Abhimanyu helps and spends time with everyone, children, Goenka or even Sharma, but some are obsessed with her old relationship with Akshara and see evil everywhere. some are like Manjiri and Abhinav who see something where there is nothing.
But @yeol, is it not true that makers are illogically inserting Manyu in every corner of Kasauli so that he will not fade away with time? Is it not true that Manyu is unnecessarly made to appear out of the blue and do something that glorify him?
@Siya is right, 2 min instant noodles best describes his character.
Well makers did glorify abhinav as well. I mean till the time he was helping akshara despite getting slapped n all was fine but agreeing to marry her for namesake knowing that she would not be his wife in true sense was just too much. But we do adore n appreciate nav for that right cause either we talk about writers then manyu was toxicmanyu also cause of makers arohi a mean sister cause of makers n now arohi is being shown as too good also by makers right?
So either we give it to the characters or to the writers we cabt pick n choose.
@Mark, we’re not talking about what the manufacturers want, if I look at the series Abhimanyu was shown in rather natural scenes he saw Muskaan by accident, and recognized his harasser. When he helped Akshara it was trivial things that didn’t have any impact on the story, other than developing Abhinav’s insecurities and lack of self-confidence. Frankly I did not see that he was taken into situations in a useless way, he brought help to avoid complications, it was mainly to show that Abhinav and absorb by his worries and that he amplifies the slightest thing, and to show that the Sharmas are too preoccupied with their love and marriage. Abhimanyu and Arohi are more prominent in problems, as they are not in a honeymoon phase, so they notice things more easily. If you have watched even Arohi is pushed to appear out of the blue, in situations to glorify her, they are disinterested and without love interest therefore more conscientious and able to give help. Abhimanyu’s friendship with the Sharmas is sudden but acceptable because of the closeness, and the same for Arohi his sudden understanding with his family and acceptable because they have come closer and with the help and the time they spend together, the proximity brought them together quickly in this family atmosphere.
@@yeol
Thank you for such a great and detailed insight into this story. The characters are doing what has been built into them. They cause conflicts and move towards their resolution. When a character is fighting to resolve a conflict his intentions shouldn’t be questioned based on his past activities but what should preoccupy the minds of the audience is what the character is trying to do.
However some fans are trying to infer what isn’t tenable. They see the tensions between the characters and take sides based on their preferred character. Now the conflict between the main characters has been resolved and yet Abhimanyu is blamed for helping to organise the wedding. He is blamed for helping Akshara. He is blamed for discussing about Abhir. He is blamed for interfering with the Sharma family. So this is looking at the character based on his previous antecedents. However he is grateful to the Sharmas for raising his son well. He is grateful as a guest of their family. He is happy to help out in the wedding. He is happy because of Abhir and because his fight with Akshara has ended. This is how I appreciate the character. If we fixate on the past too much we will miss some of the evolution of the story.
@Meed, very well said, I like your explanation
@yeol @urmi @meed
Please answer @Arya because even I am interested to know.
“This person abhimanyu😦🙄.
He keeps saying Muskan is my sister,but couldn’t wait till her vidai to talk about abhir with Akshara and Abhinav.
And some Abhimanyu fans wonder why he is called toxicmanyu.
He solves the problem which others can also solve if given some time and efforts. When his emotional maturity is required to be shown he returns back to his original personality.”
Dude why are u expecting me to answer something i didn’t disagree with in the first place 🤣😂. Besides they are right about manyu not handling the abhir matter in the best way but did he handle it in the worst way for u to be called toxic? He only spoke to akshara if he really didn’t care about muskan he would straight up tell it to abhir and when exactly did he speak to abhinav?
Him*
To top it if acting out of emotions in private makes manyu a toxic person who didn’t care for muskan what does it make nav for making those constipated faces during almost all rituals ? Guess nav is toxic too but no no as i said yesterday u would add context n circumstances that lead to nav’s reaction n thats his flaw if at all u accept he has any but manyu nope he is toxic. I just cant 😂🤣
So since Nav is toxic for making those faces, why does Manyu want Akshu to start making those faces too by giving her a reason to?
@urmi
@Mark
did u even get my point .. what i meant was since u didn’t call nav a toxic guy for acting on his emotiona u should not seek explanations to why manyu shouldn’t be called so. Simple cause none of them are toxic they are just being normal 🤷.
@urmi
I wanted to go with the word, i.e. toxic. But what i meant is, if Nav making those faces is bad, why Manyu wants Akshu to start making those faces. They have to say bye to Mus but they will not get that chance as they have Abhir to worry about.
Nav made those faces did it affected Muskaan’s wedding?? No right? Then why dragged him in? Doesn’t he has his right to express his emotions?
@Mark.
I will reply to @Arya on her comment box and copy you to satisfy your requirement.
Abhimanyu is happy and this happiness extends such that he is agreeing with Akshara in some aspects on Abhir. He has suspended the custody hearings because of that and he has taken Abhinav as his brother. Which means Abhinav’s sister is his sister and Akshara is his sister iin law. A hard one to swallow but he is trying his best there. He is more mature and sensible here. Investigating Dev and catching the crook before the matter got worse without troubling the Goenka family or Abhinav. This is what brothers do for their sisters. The concept seems rushed and I can comment on that differently but I liked how Abhimanyu is looking after Muskaan.
You see when you are observant and that can only be done with opened eyes and not when someone is sleeping or crying for example. You can see the dangers around this iis why Abhimanyu could save his new sister while Abhinav was unable to do so. Why? Abhinav could not do so as he was unable to see the dangers in his sisters life. He was caught up in his own sorrows.
However I believe that Abhinav will stop crying and embrace the challenge and face it. This is a key stage for him a platform to find his best inner self and project it to the world.
This person abhimanyu😦🙄.
He keeps saying Muskan is my sister,but couldn’t wait till her vidai to talk about abhir with Akshara and Abhimanyu.
And some Abhimanyu fans wonder why he is called toxicmanyu.
He solves the problem which others can also solve if given some time and efforts. When his emotional maturity is required to be shown he returns back to his original personality.
Akshara and Abhinav*
@Arya; @Mark.
I can understand why you cannot trust Abhimanyu’s intentions here. Abhimanyu suddenly became Muskaan’s brother which I was pessimistic of. However as he lived up to the billing I had to convince myself of his noble intentions. And I did. He has been helping. Initially when he served the samosas I was sarcastic but in looking after the children arranging the decorations asking his mother not to disturb the occasion keeping the Abhir secret as well. You see that his intentions are good.
Now when Abhir showed him how much he trusted him he wanted to ask Akshara to reveal to Abhir about his paternity but I think Akshara will bind him in a pledge not to do that. I said some time ago that all these relationships will undergo tests and three pairs hugged each other and we are seeing the tests all happening.
Abhimanyu has only good intentions which a few of us had recognised as he engaged the Sharma family in Kasauli. Your skepticism is well understood by me. Sorry I didn’t see your comment before @Mark drew my attention to it. Abhimanyu is not toxic as of today he is looking after everyone here without intruding or interfering. He only sought to tell Akshara then as afterwards she would retire to her quarters and that is out of bounds in night time.
Sorry @meed Cant he wait for the vidhai to complete and the family to settle to discuss this? Doesnt he know that parting of a member from a family is painful after marriage and usually the family worries for their daughter the most during this time. Abhimanyu didnt care about this at all. We will have to think now that he extending help to the family were not due to good intentions. He is selfish to the core and toxic.
@Nitu.
Yes he could have waited but he couldn’t as this issue was bothering him. In contrast to Abhinav’s issue which explains the difference in personalities. You see that democracies are the richest societies because most people can speak their minds freely. So when Abhimanyu says his mind on Abhir he is exercising his rights but when Abhinav keeps quiet he isn’t exercising his rights. Now when we don’t speak up we bottle up our concerns and they weigh us down but when we speak up we release the tension and everyone gets happier.
Abhimanyu is learning to be empathetic or sympathetic he is learning how to relate with people Muskaan is his new found sister and he would not get the right mood or temperament every time but he tries which is good. Maybe he could have waited for Akshara and Abhinav after the wedding but he was unable to which is true to his character. He doesn’t hide his feelings and if he wasn’t transparent about those I would have been surprised shocked even because that isn’t a good thing.
No one here is telling that Abhimanyu should keep quiet for a life time. He should have waited to discuss this. He has the right to express freely. Even Surekha is enjoying that rights at the cost of others sadness. As per my faith, one should express his thoughts with a view to the occasions and situations. Abhinav has that thought where as Abhimanyu hasnt.
@Nitu.
So true. He could have waited a little more but he didn’t do that. I see your point here and I can’t understand why he left the wedding and hastened the discussion which is your point. However I am unable to blame him so much for that. He needed to respect the occasion and wait for a more opportune time to express his rights. I get that but saying one’s mind is better that not saying one’s mind. He has inconvenienced Akshara and Abhinav unknowingly and this is true but he is trying to work within the understanding he has with Akshara. Now if this fails the custody case will reopen and Akshara will lose Abhir as boys usually end up with their fathers.
@Meed
Its most probable that Manyu remains unmarried and Abhirs father. He is best suited alone anyway. Someone who is unconsiderate of others is tiresome. Manyu could wait for wedding to complete but no, he had to pressure others too.
He had being breaking Abhir trust all these days but all of a sudden, he cant wait?
He knows Akshu hid about Abhir knowledge of the half truth from Nav but he has no time to give her to share with Nav and keep him updated?
This is a colab of 3people, Akshu, Nav and Manyu. So why he wants Akshu to leave Nav behind concerning matters of Abhir?
He is just lucky he was needed in the wedding preparations otherwise he would have faded with time. Anyways, let him get Abhir so that he can rest his case.
@Mark.
Yes I am thinking so. Abhimanyu is misogamist by nature he only believed in marriage and love because of Akshara. But if Akshara commits to her marriage he will focus on Abhir and try to keep his responsibilities but Aarohi will not accept that as she knows what is going on. So he would be alone.
He was breaking Abhir’s trust and Abhinav’s as well. This is because he only told Akshara this. Yes he doesn’t relate with Abhinav as he should but he will have to eventually. There is scope for improvement there. When Akshara declares her love he will abide by her decision. So Abhinav will be more involved. Though it may be a device by the makers to separate the two of them to amplify Abhinav’s insecurities.
@Mark
I can conclude from your explanation that abhimanyu is in the process of learning to be emotionally mature, so someday he will get there.
And it is so true abhimanyu involving too much into muskan’s brother is too werid.
I can say abhimanyu is toxic because he is kind of person who behaves like world is crumbling when akshara is hurt physically but he always holds licence to crush her soul.
@Arya
Today, i liked @Siya “2min instant noodles” and now i like your “world is crumbling when Akshu is hurt physically but he always holds licence to crush her soul”. Very true. My stand is that Akshu was stupid, naive and too emotional. But she never deserved the treatment she got from Manyu let alone, Manjiri and Aru that day. May Manyu find the happiness he desires but he will never get that from his son.
😂😂 i literally laughed when i read @siya comment
@Arya
It is not just Abhimanyu.Almost all the male leads in Indian serials have anger issues.
They will be unconditionally devoted and surrendered to one female in their life (eg his dadi or mother).FL happy free going types.
Like you said every ML become tensed when FL got Even a small scratch. But they always hold licence to insult and disrespect FL
@Arya.
I guess you meant me. Yes I think Abhimanyu is growing in his own way and relating with people better he is trying to build a relationship with Kairav. I think the makers deliberately kept him apart from Abhinav to heighten Abhinav’s worries which was essential to the plot or the track. They had to amplify Abhinav’s insecurities and that would have had the intended results if he was shown as buddies with the th Abhimanyu.
True Abhimanyu would improve over time. He has an aggressive stance with Akshara but once Akshara confesses her love to Abhinav he would step aside and remember that Manjiri was seeing things the other way but in the mean time Abhimanyu would be the one stepping aside. He retains a vague hope that Akshara would be his one day because he has questioned himself why Akshara had not fulfilled her marriage to Abhinav. Once his mind is clarified he would move on to other things.
@meed
Yeah the reply was for your comment.
By mistake i tagged @mark
@Arya.
I had thought so hence my reply.
@meed Are you by any chance crew member/ writer of yrkkh.
Because you are explaining the characters as if you have written them.
@Arya.
No I am not. I have an understanding of the characters and their journeys and I try to read the movements around them that are notable. So I spot the themes of the tracks quite quickly.
Loved today’s episode. It was classic Yrkkh. Heartfelt, loving jokey, teasing exchanges. Loved the affectionate yet guarded and jokey exchange between old foes Kairav and Abhimanyu. The two certainly have matured in their relationship. As grandfather and grandson fall into a loving embrace, Kairav tells Vadha papa he is so predictable and his role model for a husband. Perhaps what took my heart was Abhir saying how Shivaji has sent Abhimanyu to be his protector and just as he loves his mummy, Papa he loves his Docman the same, he is his best friend. ‘I love you’ the little boys says melting the heart of a father who has had to love his child from a far. I could have cried! Abhimanyu out of Abhir’s three parents is the only one who realises their silence, their holding back the truth from Abhir is doing the trusting little boy a disservice. Akshara though is still on planet Abhinav and more concerned about the adult man’s disappointment at learning that Abhir knows he is not his real father, than the child’s heartbreak at finding out that he has been lied to. But I suppose she thinks a sorry from her would resolve the issue.
The woman with the least sense on relationships tells bride to be Muskaan just learn to say sorry, forgive yourself for your mistakes and before others learn to respect yourself. True enough, Akshara has forgiveness for herself and self respect in bucket loads. She is just unable to forgive others, and herself respect hinders her ability to acknowledge her mistakes. She a classic in finding fault and blame in others. Where is her sorry to the Birlas for leading a son to his death and creating a confusion around the paternity of a grandchild.
@Rai, very true but some won’t recognize it
@Rai.
I agree. She is the one who called her family only to tell them that she had remarried. She didn’t take her family’s help neither their love but sought the help of a stranger who is now her husband. She always talks about relationships while Abhinav and Abhir are riveted with pressing issues she cannot recognise. She doesn’t have sibling relationships. At least Muskaan has one with Abhinav. Aarohi bonds well with her and Muskaan apologises quickly unlike the faultless Akshara would can do no wrong.
Yes! she is faultless according to you n me!
To her it’s not her intention, nobody intends to bring harm to anyone, it’s was not her mistake to seek peace and seek shelter for her child n her own safety, everyone will think of urself first isn’t it? What wrong with that??
Why apologised when she was not wrong?? Those who thinks she is wrong you are free to apologise nobody stop you hahaha🤣🤣🤣
@Sivk, spin (see) it as it suits you mate! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🥴
@Meed, yes, Akshara curious character, full of contradictions.
Is this a day of epic one liners today 😂🤣 first siya with her 2 min noodles for manyu and now @rai with : akshara a curious character full of contradictions.
@Rai.
She is one for the ages. She says what she does not do and she does what she does not say.
So what advice you expect her to give? Exactly the opposite of what you said she did??
This series and Yrkkh anything can happen I want to warn some of you because some leave too quickly before time. being overconfident and a mistake when watching an Indian series. The development of Navra is a necessary step and some here know that Navra must tell their story like Sirat and Ranveer, they will take the time to tell the stages of their relationships and their stories. But you can take it the wrong way but where the story started the story will end, the story will come back to the character of Abhimanyu at some point, if the story is not towards the end of the generation. Looks like Abhimanyu is sucking up a lot of reactions from viewers whether it’s good or bad Abhimanyu and still the most discussed topic 😅
Ikr anything that manyu does it just pisses people off. Like even him helping is also a problem for navra fenatics 🤣😂. Like give the man a break.
@Urmi 🤣🤣🤣 not easy to please everyone! As long as Abhi thinks wat his doing is right, it’s enough for him!
I did not watch any promo regarding Abhi wins the custody, and Abhir happily go with him, but I think he will still miss his parents further down the road, it’s sad for Abhinav n Akshara but at least they are with each other and that is most important for them, as for Aarohi hopefully she decides to leave Birlas with Ruhi!
@Huh.
Yes I agree. Abhir would miss Abhinav and Akshara and then the Birla family will request them to return to Udaipur. However I think that somewhere down the line Abhinav will be successful and stay at Kasauli to look after Neela and Akshara will return to Udaipur at the Goenka house to stay close to Abhir.
Initially Abhir will miss his family for sure. This might cause some tensions with Abhimanyu and Manjiri who may not understand all of Abhir’s worries.
@meed. Why you think that abhinav will stay at kasuali and akshara at udaipur? Is it about a separation? Then what you meant by abhinav being successful? Please clear out😣
@Zara.
Yes because Akshara and Abhinav had a discussion on if Abhinav was worrying because Neela Amma would be alone and I think that Abhinav would stay behind to look after Neela while if Bhir was in Udaipur Akshara would be visiting him from time to time. Not a separation but Akshara having two homes.
I guess Abhimanyu would win the custody case and Abhir would relocate to Udaipur but I am not expecting Neela to relocate to Udaipur. Now Abhinav would work hard because he would feel that he had lost Abhir because he didn’t have enough money so that may drive his motivation to make him financially successful.
@meed. Oh got it thanks😌 mm.. you might be right. But if navra separation won’t takes place that implies that they both together have won that test too successfully. So i feel that akshara amd abhinav won’t fight for abhir separtely means staying at two different cities. Now navra seems to be a couple that doesn’t want to stay away from each other. They both need the other stay next to him/her always being the supporter and strength. I feel they will settle in udaipir temporary to settle abhir’s issue if custody is won by abhi oe else if abhir goes to birla house for few days/ months that might be time for navra to build their story consoling each other to get away from the loneliness they get with the absence of abhir.
😄😄 may be i think too much🙈🙈😂
@Zara.
You’re welcome. I agree that they wint be seperated as the makers seperate Abhir from his mother. This would drive the story forward in many ways. The relationships will all have their tests as Abhir is the only character belonging to the three families. Those families will all go through a lot because of Abhir.
Yes they that is Navra may stay together and work on their relationship and build their livelihood and also console each other. However they will miss Abhir who is the rock and their foundation. I think that Abhir will miss them as well. I hope Manjiri is more tactful and she is more is it generous. So that Akshara can visit Abhir from time to time and Abhinav as well.
No you’re not overthinking. The relationship between Akshara and Abhinav is pure inspiration. A fresh take in ITV. It looks like it has a leeway to run as it is free of power dynamics and rich boy stereotypes. This think viewers are getting tired of the Cinderella type stories and want other diverse form of story telling.
@Meed Agree .
I agree @Meed
All time abhir is With abhi. Why abhir isnot with avinab. It is not fare.It is not feeling well.
@yeol
“For her exam instead of thinking that becoming a lawyer will be her strength and moving forward without hesitation. Akshara almost gave up on everything without thinking about her advice first, Akshara doesn’t always need to be encouraged by others to pursue her dreams”
Yesterday we were discussing how Manyu is considering Abhirs feelings of wanting to know his dad but Akshu is postponing the inevitable hence not putting his feelings first.
Remember why Akshu wanted to forsake her dreams of being a lawyer? Because she wanted to address Abhir issue. But what did Manyu do? He motivated to put Abhir feelings second to her dreams. But since she was pursuing her dreams for Abhir anyways, she decided to go for her exam.
Mothers do put their childrens feelings first and Akshu is not exceptional. Childrens feelings can be good for them or bad for them so its parents goal to crush bad feelings and cheer good ones.
@Mark, are you serious about what you’re talking about? Abhimanyu pushed Akshara to take his exams as he knew Abhir was fine, he talked to Abhir and Akshara could have gone to his exam then go and talk to his son no problem he was rational there. for Akshara was going to see his son again during the day, Abhir already knew the truth and he did not make a scene. Akshara should have thought if she was a smart person and mother, that his son had at least been able to share his problem with Ruhi and that he had one less charge on his mind, because he had someone he could confide in. Mothers put their child first and their feelings too but they are far from stupid. she saw her son the same day and she knew that despite Abhir knowing the truth he was rather calm, so she could go to his exam quietly and come back to have a talk with Abhir. But she didn’t think as usual, if she was so concerned about Abhir’s feelings why after getting a message from Abhinav, she decided to go for her exam instead of running to find her son if it was so urgent . Akshara dramatized things, and did not think her exam was important because becoming a lawyer is an important way to be able to secure her family and her son financially, she did not try to motivate herself if finding her son was not so urgent in the end. Honestly Akshara dramatizes and shows concern where the concern should be somewhere else, she should have shown such concern after asking Abhir to wait. because Akshara didn’t know how he was going to react, the children accept things and usually end up acting differently she is a mother she should know. and she herself has the same character flaw, she accepts things and acts differently, she should have known. Besides, she was more concerned that Abhimanyu may have revealed more to her than necessary, and also if it was Abhimanyu who told Abhir the truth.
@Arya and @Ashwin are one same person, right?
Oh you are so observance😮 yes I realise they are one and the same😅
Heyy 😂😂 super guys,Ashwin is my younger brother though.We are not same.
I am thinking what made you to think that is same person 🤔???
@Arya b4 you use the profile logo next to ur name, Ashwin was using that logo, btw I recognise logo first b4 name!
I think we need some fun come now NavRa and Abhira fans put down the weapons… you know one angle they could focus on next is Nav’s parentage… what if Nav turns out to be a Birla too 😱😱😱 what if Harsh was sowing his seeds in the mountains 😱😱😱 like in that absolute train wreck Anupama now they brought in Anuj’s bio mom, in GHKKP that 🤡 Satya got his magical daddy…. maybe here Nav finds his own roots or rather Akshu ends up finding them 🤔 anyway Manyu would get an instant brother as @Siya would say 😂😂😂
What is the motive of the writer if that happen? Why can’t Abhinav strives to be financially successful as @Meed suggested? Wouldn’t it be more convincing and satisfying? Just my humble opinion🤣🤣
@Jade, Abhinav a Birlas, they’re probably developing the script along the line you suggest. And, Manjiri could make Abhinav a part of her family, so her grandson is close by
Abhimanyu is not misogynistic, he loves his mother beyond all, and the darling because he knows her experience and the things she had gone through. Abhimanyu doesn’t hate women, and he has no prejudice towards women. he did not believe in marriage because of his family example the relationship of his mother and father marked him. He didn’t start believing in marriage because of Akshara, he wanted to get married because he fell in love and wanted to give an honorable relationship to the woman he loved, even though he had preconceived ideas about marriage. But his partner was not a person who could restore his confidence in marriage. he loves her and cherishes her, in front of his family in front of the opposition of Akshara’s family Abhimanyu had to prove on several occasions that he placed Akshara before all the rest, and even the opinion of his family. when he gave his confidence to Akshara regarding Anisha’s case, he proved that despite a suspicion of murder on a marble of Akshara’s family which also concerned his family, which naturally aroused the suspicion, and despite that Birla didn’t agree with Akshara’s presence, since she was defending her brother, he put Akshara above all else, even before the two families’ quarrels his concerns were always Akshara. and he always tried to talk to her and push her to tell him everything, but Akshara was too stupid and imature to be in a relationship, she reacted like a girl who thought she was in a novel, and did stupid acts like following a stranger who could have killed her after using him to hide his crimes, even children learn not to trust strangers when they hand them a lollipop, or claims to know their family members. The reason why Abhimanyu never succeeded has moved on and because his relationship with Akshara has always been interrupted by Akshara’s actions, he could not love Akshara as much as he wanted to, he has a dissatisfaction of not not have been able to live their relationship because his wife was a Mahan with mortal actions. Now he gave up, and I hope Akshara doesn’t come back into his life, even if my little finger tells me otherwise. She must stay with her fantastic husband who is as amazing as her and who risks abandoning her one day out of love because of her ultimate big heart ❤️. Navra is a very frustrating couple but funny to watch, it’s two saviors are so oblivious and thoughtless at times that I often laugh out of disbelief.
@Yeol, Yes, our mothers teach us about stranger danger from an early age. But here we are a few year along from the brutal rape and killing of Nirbha in Delhi by the crew of a private bus, and the Yrkkh creators have their heroine leave to set up a new life with a stranger she meets on a bus. Even artistic licence couldn’t overide my disbelief.
Coming back to the characters, I agree Abhimanyu is much maligned, and Akshara excused her multiple faults. Reading some comments I wonder whether we are watching the same show. Interesting that Akshara compromised Abhimanyu’s mental health, he has had a few breakdowns, and now Abhinav her current husband’s mental well being is also deteriorate.