Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai 23rd June 2023 Written Episode Update: Abhinav receives a shock

@Zara
I agree. I saw what happened today as parents concern. And it always happens that way. The mom will try to protect her child as she thinks her child is delicate. But obviously both of them were wrong to think Abhir is not happy. They could say that when he was influenced by Ruhi to find his dad among the guests but no, they waited when he is calm and immersed in the wedding, to think he is not happy.
Its true that if Abhir comes to know unofficially, it will affect him differently than when its official. Akshu should put her fear behind and do the needful. It was possible when Abhir didnt know anything but now that Abhir knows part of it, its better to tell all of it.
Its true this is what Nav wanted all along, to tell Abhir the truth and now the chance presented itself.
I must say good timing Manyu. The manyu that kept the same secret from Navra, couldnt understand how Akshu wanted to leave everything to be with his son at a time he was most troubled, accepted to tell Abhir about him when Abhir grows up, couldnt wait for Muskai to finish their rounds before he demands they tell Abhir the truth? Especially if Abhir is buzy throwing flowers on Muskai and waiting to grow up so that he gets to know who his dad is. Good timing.

After worrying that Manyu told him everything, she wanted to go to her son but Manyu dissuade her. It was inconsiderate of her to be pursuaded by Manyu and Nav. She should have gone to her son and have that convo she had with him. But no. She let Manyu talk her out of it only to bring it up now when she is not ready. She should have solved it that day itself but she let Manyu say, i didnt tell him everything.

@yeol
This is why i said Manyu is clever than Akshu. Manyu made Akshu trust him that Abhir is calm and so, no need to panick and she should sit for her exam. But now when Abhir confessed 3times (two times to Akshu and one time to Ruhi) that he can wait for when he grows up, Manyu is making Akshu trust him that Abhir is not calm and is deeply troubled. Manyu is playing Akshu like a grand piano.

@yeol
Manyu is indeed afraid for his relation with his son that is why he is rushing. But decisions made in haste, are never right and considerate.
Manyu had the option of facing Abhir and confirm with him if he still wants to know about his dad despite trusting his moms word. But he chose the other option whose intention is questionable.

@Mark everyone can see that Akshara took advantage of Abhimanyu wanting to put in effort for his son, to act recklessly except you. Akshara insulted Abhimanyu so much, they were literally enemies but after the big ordeal they went through, Abhimanyu left the custody case on hold to show his good faith, and try to settle a truce with the Sharmas. But Akshara abused Abhimanyu’s kindness and wanted to interpret her gesture as she desire. when people are in confrontation they don’t expect everything to be fixed overnight, but Akshara didn’t think about it. Abhimanyu didn’t give her a reason to relax, he gave her a reason to smooth things over between adults, but she acted like an unconscious child. He waited and he understood the danger that this waiting could represent for him. but you blame him for his concern just so you can sympathize with Akshara. Akshara is afraid for her husband and postponed things for him, but you blame Abhimanyu for wanting to speed things up because he is also afraid for his relationship. @Mark, for Akshara’s eyes you become literally blinded by her stupidity and you want to blame Abhimanyu for her stupidity, Akshara thinks about her interests and understands things as she wants, but Abhimanyu must also think about her interests. But you will always blame him for not thinking about Akshara.

@yeol. Um not comenting on other things you have pointed here. But one thing that cought my mind is “Also, she was more worried that Abhimanyu revealed more than necessary to her, and also if it was Abhimanyu who told Abhir the truth.” If akshara had a worry on abhi revealing something which she wants to hide then why did she missed the chance of telling incomplete truth when she was talking with abhir on that topic? Why did she ask to wait? She could have told the truth in a different way and could told the truth before abhi. 🤔🤔🤔

@yeol. In that case why she asked to wait. She had the golden opportunity to tell abhir truth in a way that it makes advantageous to her and abhinav, she could have told that directly. And she doesn’t need to take time to tell it to abhinav also bcz if she can narrate truth for her win then there’s no need to think about abhinav’s tensions. Why she waited? She trusted abhi won’t tell the truth. But did she tell abhi that she should be tge first one to tell truth? That’s what makes me curious🤔🤔🤔 why she waited then when she got the chance to tell what ever the part she wants to tell?🤔

@yeol
Akshu is indeed too dumb to not lie to her son and tell him a truth that favors her. She trusted Manyu that day which is why she relaxed and did not tell anything to Abhir. But ofcourse Manyu is not to be trusted. Manyu pretended to withdraw the custody case, calm Akshu down, showed Nav that he has Abhir best interest at heart, and finally ambushed Akshu unprepared. She is indeed dumb to trust Manyu can wait for few hours just like she did on her exam day.

@Zara.
I agree that the three parents should tell Abhir together and I feel that the fourth person whose eyes are on the other three the whole time will spoil their adhoc understanding. Manjiri is probably the one who is taking advantage. I don’t think that. Abhimanyu is taking advantage because that will set him back later when the others and Abhir find out. So the makers will use Manjiri for those schemings and manoeuvres so that if they choose to bring Abhimanyu closer to Akshara there would not be some much contradiction in the story.
I will watch Abhimanyu’s intentions more closely in case I am missing something. However it is increasingly clear that Abhimanyu wants Abhir.

Unless you 100% perfect don’t call people “stupid” “dumb” just bcoz his/her thinking is different from you? everyone wants things to turn out in their favor no matter what! Nobody predicts things to turn out against their wishes!!

@yeol
Is it😂 After Meerab left the house, some random man saved her from some rode side loafers. I just hope she didn’t make him kids father, it bot it will be repeat telecast of YRKKH with new faces🤣🤣🤣

@meed
I agree. Abhir will be enlightened for sure. I have one complain to Manyu, rushed decisions lack consideration and are questionable. He is looking at his son and dreaming big but if he has not learned anything from Sharmas at all, he is headed straight to a wall, head first.
There are some unfinished bussiness in the form of Arohi, Ruhi and other birlas who are in adversary with the likes of him. If he was not so immersed in his own ass and repaired all his broken relations, he could have been at a great advantage. But its disappointing that Abhir who is used to his parents homely attitude will face the likes of birlas that too suddenly.

@Mark, you blame Abhimanyu for making rushed decisions, but he found time to talk to Akshara about it. if he had to learn from Sharma, he would have already made the decision to act like them, who did not seek to meet Abhimanyu in person before making the hasty decision to leave. He would have already told Abhir the whole truth without waiting. No one should learn from Sharma’s experience in terms of decisions.

I think this is not a lost custody case but a coparenting of sorts.

Forget about the girls, @sivk. Manyu did abandon his son twice.

@Sivk why Akshara wanted to go down? because she knew the situation was dangerous, the word danger and what for you a lollipop 🍭. Akshara knew the situation was dangerous and that alone makes her entirely responsible for the situation, when she wouldn’t listen to Niel and started acting like a madwoman escaping from an asylum, not wanting to understand that they were in front of criminals, and that they weren’t in front of kindergarten children, who were going to stop their nonsense because she had decided to intervene . Niel and descended to stop Akshara’s mad action, if Akshara had listened while she was aware of the danger, a death could have been avoided. But this woman has put the lives of others in danger, to satisfy her own heroic desires. By choosing to persist in her mistake she is guilty because it was her choice. just as Niel decided to come down to save his life. Niel had no other options he knew the danger, and when Akshara decided to remain stubborn he could only put his life on the line to avoid his death. If they were both aware of the risk, but Akshara ignored the risks, she is responsible.
The blame for not measuring the danger, the blame for not looking resonated, and the blame for not thinking of his family before acting was, and always will be, on his conscience. Why did you seek to make Akshara a priest for a little girl unable to understand things and the dangers, she is an adult woman who had responsibilities to hold towards her family, before thinking of the other. Why some are constantly trying to pass Akshara for a little girl, unable to understand things and dangers. she is an adult woman who had responsibilities to keep towards her family, before thinking of doing dangerous actions. If you say Akshara was unaware of the danger when she knew it was a kidnapping, then you are only admitting that Akshara is the dumbest person on earth. you don’t have to be a witch to audition 1+1.

Akshara was indeed naive n innocent

@Mark, no, Akshara knew that Abhimanyu was in mourning because of his actions, she knew that Abhimanyu hadn’t received the news, and she knew that it was not her intention to abandon her child. Being a parent doesn’t make any human stupid, especially after such an event. Abhinav could have misunderstood, but even he knew that Abhimanyu was unaware of his son’s existence because he had misunderstood, and he knew that something serious had separated the two parents. Why test it then? why did he have to reassure them when he knew that was not his intention. Navra could have mailed him and everything could have been resolved, so that was not Abhimanyu’s fault he had options. For Abhir, Abhimanyu would have forgotten Akshara’s mistakes. Abhimanyu didn’t recognize his mistake because Akshara was happy with someone else, he recognized his mistake because after seeing her he knew he was wrong. some people need time to quell their anger, like Akshara quenched his anger after six years. Akshara
and Abhimanyu needed a confrontation, to move on, to apologize and to forgive himself, both of them. If Akshara had stayed with her family their problems would have been solved soon enough with the proximity. Abhimanyu asked for forgiveness because he felt the need to apologize, the other is free to accept the apology or not, but at least he expressed himself and did not demand anything. Apologies don’t require a manual, when you feel ready, you apologize, that’s all. how Abhimanyu can trust Akshara with her son, with all the stunts she can do. especially after following and marrying a foreigner, what kind of education Akshara wants to instill in Abhir. his example suggests that Abhir can follow any stranger when he is not well, and follow them if they offer to take him home to find his parents. But Abhimanyu didn’t even comment on his irresponsible actions, because Abhinav is a good man. but he could have blamed them for their recklessness, and questioned the values ​​they want to give him. Abhimanyu put all of Akshara’s stupid actions aside for his son, and Akshara should do the same because, Abhimanyu didn’t make as many mistakes as her on the meter. Abhimanyu didn’t cheat Akshara he said how he felt in both situations, Abhir was going to talk to his mother the same day. But he felt that Abhir could not wait any longer because if his trust gets betrayed he might suffer. I accept all of Abhimanyu’s mistakes and I accept that he asked for forgiveness. But you don’t accept any of Akshara’s mistakes and you minimize his mistakes by putting them on Abhimanyu. Akshara and also a manipulator she puts her mistakes on others and makes them feel guilty for his mistakes.

@Mark, to me words are no bigger than a person’s life. I’m married and I know things about my husband, and my husband knows things about me, and many couples in times of crisis insult each other because no one lives a fairy tale. Partners can hurt each other by using each other’s secrets or traumas, because sometimes some arguments can go very far, we even say things that we don’t mean. But this does not prevent the partners from knowing if they are not so intoxicated with themselves as it was said in anger, and that the other will end up regretting. in a couple, the one who makes a serious mistake must be tolerant towards his partner, and understand the reasons for his anger. The apologies are the proof of our guilt, he wanted to be forgiven and he asked for forgiveness, Akshara could forgive or not, there were no requirements because, asking for forgiveness is expressing our guilt to relieve himself and relieve the other if he so desires. Akshara didn’t forgive and didn’t ask for forgiveness, because she didn’t want closure for her or for him. If Akshara kept anger for Abhimanyu for 6 years she must also have anger for Abhir because he is Abhimanyu’s son right? if I understand your logic. if Abhimanyu was angry with Akshara that doesn’t mean his anger was also for his son as Akshara is his mother. Akshara has no anger for Abhir because Abhimanyu and his father. No parent transfers their anger onto their child. At the temple there was no daring, for the truth Abhimanyu’s loss was greater than Akshara’s, it was legitimate to think that his anger should not be greater than his. What was wrong was not taking Akshara’s marital status into consideration. He knew his words had been said in anger and he thought Akshara understood him. But Akshara was entitled to understand it or not, because she also has the right to put her anger and pain above that of Abhimanyu, if she feels more hurt than him and if she thinks that she has lost more than him. For six years Akshara did not think about the pain she inflicted on Abhimanyu with her actions, but for two calls Abhimanyu should brood over it? Akshara’s anger didn’t allow her to see past her own pain, and she didn’t think that Abhimanyu also deserves to know for her son. because after all she hurt him she proved to him that he did not know her, that she was a woman who could not learn from her mistakes and that she continues to create situations where others always end up suffering because, of his actions. he did not abandon his son because that would mean that Akshara also unknowingly abandoned Abhir keeping his anger

@Mark, on that day, Abhimanyu too was emotionally vulnerable. Akshara didn’t let anyone mourn quietly without her presence, which was also another factor for the injured and reminding them of the death. Akshara continued to bring forward her pain, rather than trying to understand the pain of others. I don’t blame Abhimanyu for not understanding Akshara’s emotional state, because Akshara did not understand the emotional state of his in-laws, and her husband who had suffered a triple loss. Akshara really didn’t understand Abhimanyu’s emotional state, he tried to be patient with her, but she didn’t see his state, and she focused on her. If Akshara was broken, Abhimanyu too was broken, but he was forced to stay strong for his family. Akshara was angry for everything, the divorce, Abhimanyu’s words and also because she attributed her decision not to say anything about Abhir to Abhimanyu, on him. Akshara didn’t tell Abhimanyu the truth not because she didn’t want Abhir to be abandoned by his father again. But because she no longer had the strength to forgive him for his actions towards her, because for Akshara Abhimanyu had abandoned him,, when she called him it was for her that she did it, as she wanted Abhi to be with She. But Akshara considered that Abhimanyu with the two appeals abandoned her. she was in low emotional state, but Abhimanyu was the same he was emotionally low so how could he think of her to suffer. she was in a terrible emotional state, but Abhimanyu was also in a terrible emotional state.

@yeol
I understand Manyu very well. He makes a person feel fine and later he turns on them. What everyone did and said was the truth from the bottom of their hearts. No need to sugarcoat their actions and words of then as a mistake they did. No need to apologize if Akshu heard their words and accepted as the truth. Manyu should quit pretending to butter up Akshu by apologizing if what he said was his honest truth. If Akshu felt bad its her choice. Afterall, the truth does hurt. The most important thing is that Akshu accepted their words and their punishment. But it looks like they were not satisfied with the punishment she got. They should just be out with it and stop pretending to apply colgate on a burnt wound.
And if she accepted her punishment that means she accepted that she did a mistake. No need to fake apologize but they should just live with what they have and that is Abhir.

@yeol
“..at no time did Akshara say that the suffering of others was more legitimate than his own” except she did. That day when Manyu apologized for sirat issue. Akshu said ” i accepted that your pain is bigger than mine, i accepted the divorce, but i dont accept that you never answered my calls which changed the lives of many people”

I agree with you. Manyu should not leave without his son. Its clear now that he didnt mean to abandon him and he has his interests at heart. He should be introduced officially. You are very correct.
I disagree that Akshara believes that Manyu should apologize. Infact, she doesnt want anyone to apologize for being honest with how they feel, that is why she said i dont accept your sorry. She doesnt accept that Manyu has to apologize for being himself. She heard how she is great trouble to all, she causes unhappiness to all and so she had to stay away to save their happiness for them. You see, mahan to the end. Silence doesnt mean acceptance of anything but it surely as hell is a start for it. She was silent means she was contemplating whether its true or not. But from her face expressions and actions, made me conclude that she accepted what they said about her.

@yeol
Manyus words were meant to clear his guilt which Akshu didnt let him do that. He was not in a position to clear his guilt because he didnt know exactly what he is guilty for. He didnt know about Abhir by then so he not only had guilt of sirats death, but also the guilt of not picking up Akshus calls which if his head was not in his ass, he would have revisited how those calls could change whose life. He cannot apologize when he himself doesnt know how sirats death issue affected Akshu. He just saw what he wanted to see,i.e. Akshu is happy with her family and so, he felt he is entitled to be forgiven so that he too can move on and be happy with his family. Little did he know, he first has to know exactly how his words and missed calls affected Akshu and his son for him to clearly apologize fully. Its like someone is apologizing for steping on you during a bus ride while he should also add on the apology of making you fall down too.
The pain she had is caused by her own making, so why will Manyus sorry do when it doesnt fit the context? How can he apologize for a pain that Akshu inflicted on herself? Illogical right?
She may feel her pain is greater but she cant help but have an idea of just how greatest the pain of others was. She was afterall, at the receiving end of their wrath. And it was not pretty. It left her feeling like udaipur is out of bounds for her.
“..Her silence meant that she didn’t want to question the pain of others..” except she didnt have to as they were generous enough to express it.