Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai 2nd May 2023 Written Episode, Written Update on TellyUpdates.com
The Episode starts with Abhi and Akshu rushing to take the pic. They see Abhi’s solo pic. Abhir says I understood, you got oh no seeing the old pic. Ruhi runs to see Abhi’s pic. Abhir asks when did you get married when you wanted to marry Aarohi. Abhinav says Abhi had to become a groom for fashion show. He makes a story. Abhi says yes, I had to do it. Aarohi tears Akshu and Abhi’s pic. Abhinav says life means present, Abhir, you and I are here. Akshu says we have to hide this from Abhir.
Abhi thinks I feel scared that Abhir might learn this and get unwell. Abhinav gets Neela’s voice note. Neela says Muskaan agreed to meet the guy, the guy’s family wants to meet her tomorrow, you and Akshu handle it. Akshu says I will tell Manish to make arrangements, don’t worry. He thanks her. The man says lets make this evening more fun. He calls Birla family to sing. Aarohi and Ruhi refuse. Abhi says I can’t sing. Abhir says come on, doc man. Abhi goes and sings Dil ko tumse pyaar hua….
Abhir and Ruhi clap for him and hug. Abhi comes back and gets seated. Abhinav says you sing well. Abhi says you are joking. Abhinav says really. Abhir asks Akshu to sing. She nods. Akshu goes to sing. She sits and plays guitar. She asks what shall I sing. The man says sing your husband’s fav song. She asks Abhinav to say. Abhinav says I like old songs, Piya tose…. She sings. Abhi recalls the past. Everyone claps for Akshu. Abhi sits sad. Aarohi thinks I have to protect my family. Abhir says mumma is the best singer.
Manjiri gets the camp pics. She says they look good together. She gets shocked seeing Akshu and says she reached there also. Shefali comes and says I have to divorce Parth for Shivansh’s betterment. The man tells about the next round. Ruhi asks will we win. Abhi says don’t worry, we will win. Akshu says Manish will handle everything. Suwarna and Manish ask Kairav to get sweets. Kairav goes. Surekha sees Muskaan. The man says the kids have to pick a chit and complete the activity with the other family. Ruhi refuses. Abhi says don’t worry, I m here. Abhir picks a chit. Akshu, Aarohi and Abhi pray. Abhir smiles and says doc man, we are in one team. Abhi gets happy.
Precap:
Abhinav asks who did this. Akshu sees the mess. She thinks if Ruhi has done this in anger, I have to talk to Abhi. Manjiri comes and sees Akshu with Abhi.
Update Credit to: Amena
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Is it necessary that roohi has created the mess? Just coz she is arohi’s daughter 😏 if arohi is a good mother she should tell roohi that poppy will love her like he used to but poppy and i wont marry as poppy has a son and he will love his son too and theres nothing to get insecure.. Instead she is trying to keep abhir away from abhimanyu matlab hadh hai bus khud ki beti khush rehni cahiye😏 what about dusro ki khushiyaan? Nd akshu herself is behaving like mental and asking abhimanyu to stop his madness waah.. As if abhimanyu cheating kar ke abhir ko apni team me laya ho😏
I said this, this girl is real version of her mother (arohi), very jealous and rude……. Lack of manner, mahima use to say this before, she use to tell them that you are spoiling this little girl but no one listen to her, now see.
I know her mum isn’t going, to tell her anything only negative thing, pretender she is☹️ see how Abhir is brought u Maa Shaa Allah.
now abhi knows that abhir is his son and he is behaving like a mad man where was he when akshara was fighting for her and her baby life where was he when akshara was feeling lonely and hurt
What i understood from today’s episode
1. Akshara doesn’t love abhimanyu
2. She doesn’t love abhinav (romantically) either but she loves him as a family member thats for sure. In future they might show her falling for him romantically but as of now she is so much caught up with other things that she isn’t able to come to terms with her own feelings.
3. The strongest emotion she feels aprt from her love for abhir is her resentment towards abhimanyu.
4. Abhimanyu n arohi did a poor job raising roohi. The difference in her the abhir’s thoughts is the testimony to the stark difference in the upbringing that abhinav and akshara gave to abhir and what ruhi received.
5. Abhir being with Navra in kasauli is the most conducive situation for his mental well being.
6. Arohi is a mad woman i mean after seeing what she saw today she should have been sure of not marrying abhimanyu but she decided to do otherwise.. great.. now she too is responsible for the hurt that is going to come ruhi’s way but as always she will blame everyone but herself for the decision that she just made.
7. Makers are playing with abhira n navra fans like a freaking ping pong.😂🤣.
8. Abhimanyu is a flawed character in fact flawed is an understatement but please he has been wronged too n he cant be made to look like a villian as people have been doing off late. Abhimanyu is not completely wrong nor is akshara completely right.. she is also a human and she has made mistakes not as gross as abhimanyu but it wont take much to admit that she isn’t flawless when compared with abhimanyu.
I just support akshara at this point cause of abhinav because anything against akshara’s will would go against nav as well n he doesnt deserve that ..he deserves all the happiness for the selfless acts he has portrayed in the past.
Are they going to kill nav off I have read he will be In a terrible accident.
@Queen toh phir this serial is Bye bye for me …
100 percent in support. Now I don’t need to write a comment. Just replies. I actually used to think that she has romantic feelings but I understood of late that since Abhimanyu still occupies a large part of her thought, that she isn’t fully in love with him. Abhimanyu isn’t at fault for all the mishaps around him, some are by family members and others by Akshara when she was married to him. The sad thing with Ruhi is that although Abhimanyu and Aarohi tried to bring her up together, they probably failed because of they are somehow unable to correct her when she is doing wrong things.
Abhimanyu thinking of telling every sach to Abhir after surgery …kyun apni kabar khud hi khodna hain ….agar Abhir ko pata chala ki Akshu ne Birla house kiske liye choda …toh woh toh docman se aur bhi jyada nafrat karne lagega ….And yes Birla House or Goenka House can only raise children with issues …
Goenkas
Kartik – Pehle Papa ki dusri biwi se nafrat
Aarohi – Behen se Nafrat
Akshara -Guilty ..hoon mein …ya fir sahi hoon toh sir main …
Kairav – (pehle accha tha ) bich mein mene apne behen ko dukh ki zindagi se nahi bancha Paya isiliye behen logon ke saath badtameezi …
Birla House
Abhimanyu – Egoistic,Self centered ,Papa acche nahi hain mere mummy ko marte rehte hain ..mein hi sahi hoon ,anger issues …impulsive actions without thinking
Parth – mujhe Shefali ko marna pasand Hain ..
Ruhi – Nothing much I am a sweet girl but got my anger issues from Poppy and learned how to be insecure from.my Mom…
Dusre taraf
Abhinav – Tum log sab samil ho jao mere Family mein sab ko therapy de dunga aur hausla dilaunga …Thank you
@ shilajit
Itna sach b nahi bolna tha 🤣😂 this is so on point.
@Urmi 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@Shilajit.
LOL. So apt I must say. The Goenkas must have surely missed Kartik and Sirat,. They would have turned out better otherwise. The Birlas are one of a kind. Some families only have one or two of those here everyone including Harsh has his or her issues.
ek maa ke paas bachche par adhik adhikaar hai…this is what Manjari said to parth na? So she should remember this also when she finds out that Abhir is Manyu’s child
@Vaijyanthi.
Yes, I thought of commenting on that. Her double standard is bound to show in how she handles Shefali’s and Akshara’s cases. She would eventually change tact and abandon Aarohi. Double sided people aren’t hard to understand. She can’t see any wrong attributed to her son. Parth is her sister’s son just like a son to her. She could have tried to correct Parth on his disgusting behaviour and not treat him like a stranger.
Exactly @Francis. She will indeed forget about Aarohi and ruhi and start going stir crazy for Abhir
That’s why Aarohi needs to abandon ship now before the clock strikes twelve and Birla’s begin to show her her real place in their lives. She and precious Ruhi(although a bit spoilt being that she was raised by Abhi and Aaru😁) deserve better please!
Abhimanyu and Aarohi have a very toxic engagement relationship. They have co parented Roohi for as long as NavRa but no a shred of understanding between them. Abhimanyu is lost in thoughts of his ex wife in the presence of his fiance and Aarohi has hidden the truth of Abhir from her fiance.
Today, again grounds have been set a little bit for AbhiRa by bringing their past. Let’s see if this progresses with tiny, tiny flashbacks or ends here itself with some big drama. I think the track will be dragged as this show doesn’t seem to have any story except for truth revealation.
@Happy
I would say that they are my exact thoughts. Aarohi and Abhimanyu failed as parents despite doing this for a similar amount of time. They aren’t in synergy with each other so they can’t fulfil the full potential as parents. Yes that is probably a deal breaker when a fiancé is lost in past moments in the presence of his partner. Yet Aarohi is hazarding the dangerous signs that she has been shown. She’s sacrificing her happiness for a possibility that is no longer high percentage because Abhimanyu now knows about Abhir.
@ Francis
👍
@Vaijyanti
Manjiri will tell anouther dialogue to justify abhi dont worry in this serial no one is right blo*dy hell for example akshu arohi abhi all r childish and selfish in own world and kairav he is gone case he hated abhi for leaving akshu and hated akshu for not coming to goenka house after leap he misbehaved with abhir also i dont know about arohi but akshu and abhi is not fit to raise child abhi felt sorry for abandoning akshu after leap during few episodes but after abhir truth he is slowly becoming old self and akshu she was stupid and bewakoof if she did not trust goenka family atleast she should have trusted kairav during pregnancy that manish o god he become abhimanyu bhakt during this 6 years everytime kairav speak against abhi he silence kairav and akshu i cant understand her whole birla family and arohi blame her for neil death but she forgave everyone but not abhi even kairav even after he misbehave with abhir such a double standard if not abhir surgery akshu would not returned to udaipur Bcoz manjiri guilt tripped akshu during abhi accident she made decision that she never return udaipur seriously yaar who the hell is manjiri to stop akshu returning to her maayka and i know akshu did stupidity to choose abhinav but even after all mess created in birla house after neil death she gave chance to abhi for abhir but he missed that now he is blaming akshu
Yes@Niruban
In the whole episode, I was like, what just happened? I did not understand many things today.
1. What is Arohi feeling or thinking when she tore the wedding picture after looking at Akshara.
2. Why Akshara was disturbed when Abhi was singing?
3. When Akshara was singing what was Abhis feeling? Its understandable these two will get old memories but the feelings shows their marriage is like a pandora box.
4. And Arohi? The only conclusion she came up with is she is going to protect her family? How? Who is Arohis family enemy? Is it Akshara or Abhir or the fact that Abhi still loves Akshara?
5. Why are these people okay with holding their breath each time their respective partner is interacting with the other person.
These two loved each other and the world was unfair to them respectively on so many occasions. We all know how we deal with unfair situations. Abhimanyu was a victim on many scenarios so its unfair that he keeps loosing everytime. He should be given his rights back and have time with his son but that will mean being unfair to Aksharas views on his sons upbringing.
Its right that Abhir upbringing should be in Kasauli with Navra only but have occasional Udaipur visit. But this will mean being unfair to Manyu as he is a good dad.
PS: I dont see Manyu being possessive of Abhir. Its just how a dad who recently found out about his son will react.
Exactly he just found out about his son he is bound to be all over the place. People are like he is ignoring ruhi if that were to be the case he would be sitting at home sulking or planning how to get abhir instead of coming to camp with ruhi n he is genuinelyhappy with ruhi even when they had entered the camp premisesone could see that. Even when a new baby is born the elder child feels ignored does that mean parents dont love the elder child? No right likewise to abhimanyu abhir is that new born baby.
@Mark.
If you will permit me to fill in the blanks:
1. Trying to erase the past and yet it exists.
2. Remembering the old and the heartbreak.
3. Remembering what was and is not.
4. Trying to save what matters most.
5. No answer. I think that I will submit my answer script. At least I won’t fail the exam.
Akshara is holding on to her past by not forgiving Abhimanyu. He preoccupies her thoughts and although she has made Abhinav the number one priority, she has tinders from her past. She doesn’t want to go back to Abhimanyu more than she is willing admit. She tries to reassure Abhinav who must be one of the most patient persons around. If she forgives Abhimanyu then she can prioritise her other relationships but she is stuck in the place where she says no continuously.
So Akshara is still hurting from what Manyu did to her? If Nav could not sooth her and abhir could not take her pain away then who will? This is the issue. And to be honest even in real life, Manyu can take Aksharas pain away. I dont know for you guys but Manyu can heal Akshara. And if you think about it, Manyu problem was he did not respect Akshara or trust her. If its anger, then Akshu knew how to calm his anger. And Manyu, i dont know if he is still in his high horse but what i feel is he is back to earth like us mortals.
And Arohi, i dont know what is worse between marrying your sisters husband who is alive or marrying your sisters husband who still loves the said sister.
What made Manyu decide to marry Ruhi in the first place if he feels he is being forced now?
Also as i said upbringing matters to shape a child behaviour. I mean, Arohi was never told what she is doing is wrong and so she now has done the same to Ruhi. They dont criticise her. They just shut her out.
@Mark
Bro, there’s nothing left in this show for us to analyze and discuss, they’re simply dragging the episodes to increase the number😂 and are giving lollipops to both AkshNav and Abhira fans to not loose viewers🤣 That’s why I left this forsaken show and coming here daily just to see everyone’s opinion and then laugh at dumb storyline and characters. All I’m wishing now is for Aarohi to find her lost brain back, looks like she dumped her brain somewhere🥴 She’s not at all the Aarohi I knew, Aarohi was always calculative and used to decide something after thinking from all ways and calculating all pros and cons but now she’s trying to fight a lost battle😕 There’s still time for her, Ruhi will be hurt and shattered now also, but her world will break if that happens at end moment, Abhimanyu once went behind Akshara not caring for Ruhi’s feelings and emotions and he may do the same once again if he finds slightest hope to win her back, I don’t understand why she’s clogging up her mind with Manjiri’s nonsense who herself will be biggest flipper once truth is revealed.
And last thing, bro please don’t say Abhira love lost because world was unfair or they had too much interference, Manjiri never interfered in Abhira relation like how Suhasini used to interfere in Kaira relation and Gayatri used to interfere in Naksh relation, though they both changed slowly, Kaira had many fights and misunderstandings due to Suhasini’s interference, but they finally sorted out by having a deep conversation with themselves and with Suhasini too, they separated soo many times but “interference” was never a reason, it’s due to their own doings. Coming to Abhira, Manjiri started to interfere a little after 1st leap, only a little, all Abhira fights, separations and divorces are due to their own doings not due to family, Manjiri or interference.
I agree😆😆😆😆😆😆
To be honest it was only abhimanyu who was deeply affected by singing not akshara. When he sang akshara was shocked that he chose to sing this song even after everything I think from flashback it was their some kind of special song he is the one not letting her let go of that past and does these little things to be reminded. Akshara on the other hand asked her husband and sang his favourite song she felt just a pinch of being reminded of old memories but that’s it she was completely focused on her family them being happy to see her singing and that give her strength to smile throughout and create new memories. I really hate his indifference to Arohi they are getting married show her some respect and consideration. When abhir wasn’t in the picture he was all for roohi meri jaan Princess but now he has abhir he is all set to get him and may be with him akshara back in his life he doesn’t care at all whether roohi stays or not with him. I think if now Arohi decided to send roohi away he will agree instantly as that will give him time to plan and cancel this wedding.
I feel Abhi is not yet ready to let Akshara go. This is the problem. Now obviously he has no control over his feelings right. I dont know what he should do to switch off the love he has for Akshu but he obviously has a long way to go. I dont see any part of disrespect to Arohi he did.
It is strange how both Abhimanyu and Abhinav fell for same person but at the same time for the different traits.
In Abhimanyu’s case, he first heard Akshara’s voice before seeing her and fell in love with her voice. When he heard the same voice again and saw her finally, he made an imaginary Akshara in his mind and fell in love with her without even knowing her likes, dislikes, her personality, her traits, etc. and decided to marry her. After spending time with her, he slowly understood that she has many core traits which doesn’t go with the imaginary Akshara he created in his mind and was hell bent to mould Akshara as per his imagination. For that he used all means, like forcing his opinions on her, yelling and screaming every other day, not caring about her opinions. The only good thing he did was to fight for her career. The fact that he used to leave her and divorce her according to his convivence and then pursue her again according to his convivence proves that he was in love with the image of Akshara he created in his mind, not with the one who was standing infront of him. He used to leave her the moment she behaves opposite to the image he created. Even if Abhira reunion happens, I believe he will still be in love with the image he created only because I strongly believe he has never known Akshara, her choices, her core traits, her views, her vision on life.
If we come to Abhinav, he met Akshara when she was at her weakest point and in vulnerable situation. He helped her without even knowing her name thinking her as a fellow human in need. When he came to know there’s a baby in her womb, he grew concerned for both mother and child because he himself being orphan can relate to that mother and baby situation who was alone at that time. The only emotion he has towards them is care and concern and he helped them as a fellow responsible human being. After staying 6 years with Akshara, he slowly got to know her, her opinions, her likes, her interests, her choices, her flaws and then fell in love gradually with the actual Akshara than some printed image in his mind.
This is the reason AkshNav love is looking real and Abhira’s looked childish and immature. I’m not saying Abhimanyu is solely responsible for Abhira failed relationship, even Akshara has her part, even she didn’t knew Abhimanyu properly and rushed for marriage but she tried her best to know him and change his toxic opinions towards some situations but he was adamant to not listen to her POV, with Abhinav, for her initially he was a savior for her whom she respected for saving, sheltering and supporting her. With passing time, she got to know him as a person and gradually started developing feelings towards him, though not romantic but their bond is no more just of friendship or co-parents.
I’m in no mood to comment on this forsaken show, that’s why I’m going on with my own rants😂 This comment is no where related to the current story line and is just my own opinion, no offence to any actor or character just wanted to point out characteristics of Abhimanyu, Akshara and Abhinav as individuals and relationship dynamics of AkshNav and Abhira as couple.
@Siya.
Wow. This is so illuminating. Yes Abhimanyu fell in love with an image, and Abhinav fell in love with a person. So true. To be fair Abhimanyu probably needs a partner who is willing to listen to him. Who is more mature, someone closer to his age. Who can put up with and stabilise his emotions just as Abhinav has done for Akshara. So Aarohi is a sophisticated woman in her own right but she is still unable to imprint her opinion on Abhimanyu in the relationship. He needs support to correct his weaknesses. Here because the weaknesses are mostly inexcusable I take it out strongly on his character. Most guys should work on what they are responsible for. They have the means, the resources and the will to change their shortcomings. So what are they doing not doing the obvious?
@Siya bro 😭😭😭😭 that was beautiful and true… abhimanyu fell for an image he created in his own mind, people are very shallow though they only like Abhira cause of their looks and nothing beyond that.
@Siya
Manyu came to understand Akshara even before their wedding but he wanted to change her as it was affecting their marriage because the rest of Birlas hated Akshara for these traits. So inorder for Akshara to not quarell with the Birlas family, Abhi decided to change her.
After Manyu reality check at the temple, and that day in Kasauli, and the other day after he stole Abhir, do you think he has not learnt a lesson?
@siya
How are you? Been a long time.
OMG you have spoken so right. Abhi and akshu did not have compatibility, akshu and abhinav have that. And thats why they are stable.
Abhi and akshu were alike in a lot many ways- stubborn, felt they are only right, tried to change the other person, abhi had anger issues while akshu had mahaan issues. They did not work out because they never saw the relationship beyond them. Akshu gave her ego the name of self respect, and abhi have his anger issues the name of protecting akshu.
But abhinav and akshu work because
1. They don’t live in a toxic environment either with Birlas or goenkas
2. Abhinav is a calm and composed man, thoughtful, and puts others interests above his; he’s what akshu was in akshu-abhis relationship. Here akshu doesn’t need to put anyone else’s interest first because all she has is her son and no aarohi or abhi or goenka or birla.
3. Abhinav and akshu share similar views on life- both are sweet, kind of mahaan, put others first, try to solve things. Abhi was more of me and my wife together, idc about anyone else, while akshu did not like that way of abhi’s life.
@Francis
Thanks bro😃
I agree with you, Abhimanyu has a lot of baggage, not due to separation with Akshara but from his childhood only due to his parents issue, he needed a partner who’s mature and who could pull him out of this misery, before marriage when Abhimanyu told Akshara that she knows nothing about his family’s history, she refused to know anything and clearly mentioned that her only focus was to build a relation with each member of family and don’t want to know about his family history, at that time only they should have understood they’re not compatible but still went ahead with marriage and have been fighting from 2nd day of their marriage, because of Abhimanyu’s anger issues and due to Akshara’s dumb antics. Abhimanyu and Aarohi initially are compatible professionally but not personally because Aarohi just wanted Mrs. Abhimanyu Birla title, so she won’t be interested to listen to him and reduce his baggage. After 6 years if we see Abhimanyu and Aarohi, they formed a bond and are understanding each other well but they both have their own baggage and responsibilities now and also their relationship respectively with their siblings would make the situation more awkward. Aarohi isn’t able to trust Abhimanyu completely and Abhimanyu is not able to move ahead completely. So, it’s a NO again, just like how they got Abhinav who’s compatible with Akshara, they should one more guy for Aarohi who’ll love both her and her daughter and will prioritize them just like Neil used to do and one more mature girl for Abhimanyu who can actually help him to move on and reeduce his baggage. Even Kartik had soo much baggage against his dad and step-mom but Naira took careful measures to reduce that and bridge the gap. and finally succeeded.
Boring parts of the serial when I see abhir and his docman. When will be held abhir’s surgery.abhinav akshra and abhir was best in Kasauli. In this serial everything happened and went on udaipur.very disgusting.
@Jade
Thank you bro😭😭 If we come to looks also, I don’t understand how are people liking them and calling them as hottest couple, Abhira as unique, iconic and what not, Harshad individually looks hot and handsome, Pranali individually looks beautiful and cute but together they look like brother-sister off-screen and father-daughter on-screen😭😭 I’m not demeaning anyone but their pair is mismatch, they just don’t look like a couple.
@Mark
That doesn’t give him a right to change her views, thought process and core traits, all these are what made her Akshara, he can definitely suggest her that how her these qualities are becoming a hindrance for them, changing them or not is Akshara’s call. He has no right to force his opinions on her or yell at her in the name of saving their relation or protecting Akshara’s happiness. I never saw him hearing Akshara’s POV, he never gave her a chance to explain her side of story in any matter. If rest of the Birlas hated her, Akshara is capable enough to try change their views and put her point, Abhimanyu can take a stand for her when required and calmly discuss her if she’s wrong, all he did was yelling and screaming all the time with that irritating BGM of his playing. Even Naira’s traits were hated by Goenkas and they agreed for wedding just for Kartik, but Naira slowly adapted to them, put her point forward when she was right, pointed their mistakes and in that way Naira changed some of her ways and Goenkas too made a change slowly and in this she had Kartik’s support, Akshara also would have managed to form a bond if not for Abhimanyu’s interference in all maters without listening her POV, forcing his decisions on her and his screaming. He always used to say you don’t know how my family is so stay away, like dude, atleast give her a chance to know your family, to form a bond with them, to change their perspective and if she failed she herself will stay away. I remember she always took a strong stand against Harsh and Mahima when they used to demean Music, she could have done that in other things too but Abhimanyu’s anger always pulled her back. And I disagree that he tried to change Akshara to avoid complications in marriage, he tried to change her because he wanted everything according to himself. Akshara gave apt name to her relation “Umarkaid”.
I don’t think he learnt his lesson, if he learnt he wouldn’t have just took away Abhir like that, he would have informed Akshara or Manish atleast that he’s taking Abhir for a surprise party, and after that he wouldn’t have given smirks/smug smiles/winning expressions to AkshNav when Abhir came running to him without feeding Abhinav. He would have actually lived his moment with his son but he was busy to show he won and he was actually busy to make the other party loose.
@Gunjan
Hi Gunjan, yes, long time we spoke here😭 I’m fine, how have you been😃
The point is Abhimanyu and Akshara were never ready to listen to each other POV, they were never ready to sit and have a mature conversation. Before they met and wedded, Akshara was a lively, happy-go-lucky, carefree girl and she continued to be the same even after marriage. Abhimanyu is a top surgeon who’s excellent in his field professionally but had a lot of baggage personally due to his parents issues, his own anger issues, he actually needed a psychiatrist long back and needed a therapy. He saw how Akshara was a happy girl who finds happiness in small things and this thing attracted him and he named it as love and took a marriage proposal within a week. After wedding, couples generally adapt to each other’s qualities and will make some change in them for the smooth running of their marriage. But here, they wanted to change complete personality of each other which is not possible, basic nature of human can never change. Abhimanyu need to reduce his anger and see things from more positive way than making a fuss of everything and Akshara needed to prioritize herself, her relation and take a stand for herself and put her POV strongly, this small change could have made their relation stronger but they were in “I’m always right” zone simply because they never had mature conversation and don’t know what other’s were expecting from this relation, all they did were either to romance or fight.
If we come to Abhinav, initially they have no expectations from each other or their marriage but even then they had open conversations, they had a clarity of what they want from their relation and also listened to each other POV calmly and tried to rectify the shortcomings. Abhinav has no baggage and anger issues and Akshara has no one around to show her mahaanta, their focus was only Abhir and hence the relation worked out and gradually developed.
Communication is very important in any relationship bro, be it personal or professional, I learnt it from my own experience, all Abhira needed was to sit and talk but they refused to do that.
@Siya completely agree.
Arohi has this responsibility to reassure Ruhi because she knows very well that Abhimanyu is undertaking a path already blocked by Akshara to get closer to Abhir, so she
should give him some space. sincerely Ruhi was not badly educated by Abhimanyu and Arohi because Arohi is the bossy figure and Abhimanyu the too kind dad there must always be a fair measure in education, but they failed to keep this balance because of Manjiri, Birla and Goenka, it’s two
families are not good for a child. surrounded by so many adults who only want to please you is not good. so she developed a dominant personality that only her mother can try to reason with because she’s kind of the same. But Arohi is already immersed in her dream of a happy family and thinks Abhir wants to steal Ruhi’s happiness from her. Arohi has no way to hold Abhimanyu down as he has always been clear about his personal feelings for her, I’m sorry to see that Ruhi has become an excuse to keep Abhimanyu in her life when she realizes
that this relationship is doing Ruhi more harm than good, maybe she will be able to make the right decision for her daughter. it has become a sport for Akshara to be verbally aggressive with Abhimanyu and blame him for anything wrong, Akshara has been so praised for each of her illogical decisions by her Goenka family that she can no longer see that she made huge mistakes, and Abhinav doesn’t help her by accepting all it’s choice . I have said it before but in her anger for Abhimanyu there is only one step towards love, because Akshara is certainly not in love with Abhinav right now, her reaction when Abhimanyu was singing was eloquent, she still feels some things for him hidden under his anger. Abhinav is his support and his best friend, she feels the duty to reward him for all his good deeds. the more it goes the more i realize that Abhir will suffer Akshara and Abhinav raised Abhir in a mirage without any real notion of the reality of his real life, they should have told Abhir that Abhinav is not his real father but rather his father-in-law, Abhir’s reality is going to be shattered and it’s not going to be easy for him to accept it and especially to accept the intertwined relationships of adults who keep lying all the time.
@Yeol
The point is Aarohi is still not realizing Ruhi is better away from Abhimanyu and will have a smooth childhood without this marriage, if marriage doesn’t happen atleast Ruhi will have no hopes from Abhimanyu as her father, if Abhimanyu keeps running between 2 houses after marriage, it will be more difficult to Ruhi, already Ruhi’s hopes are too high and along with Ruhi even she dreamt of a complete family but now her only concern is Ruhi’s dreams breaking and she facing a heartbreak. Breaking Ruhi’s dream castle now filled with hope is better than strengthening it with false hopes. As I said earlier, Abhimanyu built a castle of hopes for Ruhi with his promises and Aarohi is strengthening it refusing to accept reality fearing her daughter’s heartbreak. I hope she realizes that this marriage is not hope for her daughter but a destruction without any more delay.
@Siya Arohi still has time to preserve her daughter, Ruhi will never be happy in a mirage and Arohi will never be happy in a marriage with Abhimanyu, I don’t understand why she can’t realize that persisting in wanting to marry Abhimanyu only brings out the bad traits in her personality. . Arohi is smarter than that, to settle for a dead-end marriage.
@@yeol.
This poses the question of why Aarohi still wants to be with Abhimanyu after seeing his love for Abhir and how he reacts to mementos of the past with Akshara, surely it isn’t for Ruhi. Again it isn’t because she loves him because she knows his feelings already. So she must be stuck somewhere as these other ones are; Akshara in her unforgiving attitude and Abhimanyu in his self-pity. Abhinav is one set for the heartbreak. I think that Akshara loves him as Abhir’s father. So she’s with him but not fully with him.
@Francis I feel like Arohi has feelings for Abhimanyu but not enough to claim that she is actually in love with him, does she really see Abhimanyu as the only one who can bring her and Ruhi happiness? I never know what she thinks, there are times when she actually cares about Ruhi and I feel her concern, but sometimes it seems like she only cares about Abhimanyu and that he might disappear of Ruhi’s life and hers.
For me, Aarohi just wanna marry Abhimanyu as she don’t want Abhi n Akshara to be back together! The marriage is the barrier!
@yeol
I agree Arohi should not look to Abhi when she can reassure Ruhi that Abhi still loves her but now he is needed else where. I mean she knew the truth before hand and she is not even utilizing this truth any other way apart from pushing Abhir away.
The good thing about Akshara situation is that she is content with her life now. This is her advantage. Abhi is still not content with his life.
Akshara knows she is wrong to deny Abhi his rights. But she is denying anyway because of many reasons.
@Mark it’s true that Akshara is satisfied with her life with Abhinav and her asset is the unconditional support he gives her.
@yeol
I wonder how you manage to find Akshu wrong in every Episode
@🙄🙄, I wonder how you do not find his behavior strange and contradictory
@@yeol not at all, how strange n contradictory??
@yeol
And Non of Abhi Behavior feel Disgusting to you, A husband who choose to divorce Is wife in Every mistake looks normal to you?
Does Abhi really look normal to you?
@🙄🙄 Abhimanyu is definitely not a marriageable man he needs to see a good psychologist. But Abhimanyu’s decision to divorce the first was due to Akshara’s irrational behavior, she disappears without explanation and comes back like a flower imagining that everything would be as before it was nonsense, Abhimanyu went through a very hard psychological period because of Akshara’s choice to be a savior without consulting her husband about a decision that concerns him as well. the second faith was also a decision made because of a catastrophic situation created by Akshara’s decisions even if he reacted execively by asking for a divorce. But Akshara didn’t try to understand other people’s feelings and understand that others needed space in a situation where she was at the heart of the problem, she then acted rashly and went wandering the roads.
Abhimanyu is definitely not a perfect guy, but so is Akshara and far from being a blameless person, she puts herself in danger, puts others in danger, makes life-changing decisions for others, decides who and better than who, thinks that because she has good attention she is a good person. she is narcissistic in fact Akshara and Abhimanyu certainly have a trait in common.
@🙄🙄 same here🤔
@Sivk
I guess she’s just obsessed with Abhi.
and I just guess you’re obsessed with Akshara 😑
@🙄🙄 what to expect from @yeol when she even confused as to Abhinav is Abhir father-in-law???
Huh? Abhinav is Abhir father-in-law???
Sorry @@yeol how is Abhinav Abhir father-in-law??
She means father in legal terms.
@yeol
Yes, that’s what I’m saying, Ruhi already has high hopes from Abhimanyu and about her happy family dream, if the dreams keep on building with Abhimanyu giving more promises, at the end she’ll face major abandment issues and trust issues. Now only Aarohi has time to gradually cut the wings of Ruhi’s high hopes because Abhimanyu is busy in his own world and sorrows now, she needs to do it before he comes and gives one more promise, even now Ruhi’s heart will break and she’s fearing about the same but Ruhi atleast will be spared from feeling abandoned and left out. Aarohi is a smart girl, she should push this emotional mother Aarohi in backseat for time being and bring back practical girl to take the correct decision for her daughter’s future.
Initially Aarohi trusted Abhimanyu to be a good father to her daughter and didn’t care about herself and got engaged to him but things have changed now and even she understood that his priorities are changing but is in denial mode. Even if she marries him, he won’t be able to stop himself from meeting Abhir and we can’t blame Abhimanyu also for this, and this will hurt Ruhi more that he’s ignoring her after becoming papa, Ruhi learning the reality when Abhimanyu is poppy is better than her heartbreaking when she’s not top priority for her papa.
Please tell me why is Askshara hated by her xhusband family
Abhira always needs a villain and a death 😂😂😂 this time they are making the child the villain. I am just loving Abhinav more than all the other characters, what a man!!! He kinda reminds me of Miyamura from Horimiya….. Hori and Miyamura went together just as well. There should be more NavRa moments without that abhimanyu making his sour expressions in the corner. I hope Arohi’s sees how Ruhi’s obsession with Abhimanyu is going to make her turn into another Abhimanyu and takes her away from the Birla’s. Now we get to see Manjiri’s true 3 faced self when she tells Parth that the mother has first right on the child then tells the opposite to Akshara then tells Arohi to back out from the marriage after forcing it down her throat so many times
For some reasons, i feel Ruhis anger will make Akshara start custody case so that Manyu is prohibited from being with Abhir.🤔 or maybe not.
For all those who think abhir should have been informed guys he is only turned 6 years old now he doesn’t understand anything too young. For 5 yrs old it’s simple this is mumma and this is papa. He is not going to understand mummas first husband first marriage why they seperated and second husband father and stepfather . When 10 yrs old akshara and Arohi were disturbed knowing sirat naira truth then this is way more complex and that too far too young. And I believe that once the truth is out abhir will be more stable and understanding and accepting and roohi will be no more damaged. Abhir has more influence of abhinav than akshara so he is more understanding empathetic and abhinav has a way with abhir he will never let his son or akshara break.
I agree, even Ruhi is understanding.
Exactly he is way too young to understand it not like they could tell a 1year old abhir that abhinav is not his father the truth was not needed before since everyone was happy and to add to the situation abhir has a heart Condition so it not advisable for him to know like abhimanyu said he will tell him the truth after the surgery and like put his just a 6years old so no guarantee he will understand it even after the explaining let just wait and see
I didn’t say that they should explain the complexity of adult relationships to him, I even pointed previously out that they are too young for him and Ruhi to understand the complexity of their family relationships. but he shouldn’t have hidden from her that Abhinav is not his biological father because that would never change his love for him, many children love their stepfather very much. The problem is that his family and his identity are questioned. Making him understand from the start would have prepared him for the emotional shock he was about to suffer, he would have been less upset if he had known that Abhinav was not his biological father. He will completely lose confidence in his parents and their word he will not be able to trust Abhimanyu either because he remains a person too new in his life, his life will be turned upside down without the possibility of being able to really maintain the reality he knows and loves Abhir loves his mother and father very much he trusts them very much and his healing he only desires so as not to worry them. Abhir likes honest people, when he thought Abhimanyu didn’t pay his dad, he thought he abused his dad’s honesty. Now, when he learns the truth, he will realize that his honesty and his trust has been abused, he is a child but he understands the values that were instilled in him by his parents and he does not hesitate to praise them. It will certainly be lost. when i see all this i realize that Akshara says she has been preparing all her years for this moment, but she did not take any precaution for Abhir’s mental well being. She is still scared and distressed that he finds out the truth as she pushes Abhimanyu to court and Abhir will be irretrievably implicated.
Okay I understand
All I can say is, the appropriate time to tell Abhir that Abhinav is not his biological father is right after his birth? Too bad he won’t understand coz he was a baby, so the next appropriate time is 3 or 4 years old? Why suddenly out of no where tell him ur father is not ur biological father, for what? What I am trying to say is if things has been normal n they were living happily why would you expect Akshara out of the blue tell Abhir the truth??
@Huh I’m just following the course of history, Akshara herself claims to have been prepared for this moment, she hints that she was prepared for the truth to reach Abhir’s ears one day, the least of things is to preserve the integrity of his child in this case. She could have saved Abhir from emotional shock, but she turned Abhir’s life into a lie. We don’t need to tell a child everything, but we don’t need to lie to him either about details that constitute his reality because of course he will be hurt.
Ruhi was not kept in dark. But whats her situation now? Is she happy and good. No right? This age of Abhir/Ruhi is not right for a child to recieve these kind of complexities in relationship. Abhinav will be the right person to disclose the truth slowly to Abhir when the right time comes. He can make Abhir understand the circumstances led to these situations and make ready Abhir to face the truth. If Abhir is strong enough to face a life or death situation in this age, he can surely face and win the harsh truth that awaits him. My concern is for Ruhi now. She is getting seriously affected by the ignorance and bad parenting of Abhi and Arohi.
@Mark my brother and dead my sister in law sister decided to start again her life with someone elsewhen my nephew was three. she has always explained to him that her stepfather is not her biological father, but yet he understood and he still calls her dad even though he knows very well that he is not her biological father. yet he loves her very much. It is sometimes better to make them understand when they are very young because the emotional shock can be difficult to digest in adolescence, because there are the first existential discoveries, the trials, the first loves or even the first difficulties of working life, they need a solid family base that will not fall apart at any time. and if their identity is called into question during a difficult phase that they are going through but unknown to the parents because yes adolescents or adults do not tell their parent everything, this can lead to a loss of confidence in him or his loved ones , this will create problems of confidence in general, in any case this is what the psycho-pediatrician had advised my sister-in-law. @Nitu Ruhi’s problems are mainly due to his unfavorable environment Birla and Goenka.
Abhimanyu Birla-
Accepted he’s bura insaan, bura pati, bura beta, bura bhai
Said out loud that AK is the mom and jaan of Abhir, Nav brought up Abhir so has rights on him
Only claims for his rights and rightfully so as the papa.
What more realisation n redemption is expected?
Father son relation is becoming mockery in rishta show.
Paane wala bada hota he but
Paida karne wale ne kab reject kiya..
The “SANE” 🧹some people were talking about a few days back!!😏😏😑😑..Once a vamp always a vamp…waiting for her to do some kaand against #Abhir and abhi should know abt it…we’ll get to witness the roaring abhi and his kaun arohi dialogue…mast hoga!!
A father’s righteous fight for his son. No matter how big evil is, righteousness always wins.
@sam I can understand your emotion but the logic you are giving his very flawed … It’s like “I murdered but I accepted it what more do you want” kind of logic …”Aur paida karne Wale ne call par hi bohot bar reject Kiya tha …. Communication Gap ager paida karne wala ek minute ke liy shun leta toh accha hota ..yeh sab raita nahi felta ..He said ” Nahi karni baat na bacche ki baat karni Hain na akshara ki …” And even then ke kept ranting ” Nahi sunna Nahi Sunna ” Thik hain ab agar tumhe nahi sunna hain …toh hum.bhi nahi batayenge ..
@Sam
The so called roaring Abhimanyu with that irritating BGM was disliked and rejected by TRP audience and if he comes back TRP will tank and they should wrap this show up. In current scenario, no one is right, everyone are doing everything for their children and everyone is being selfish so no need for this selective biased hatred or emojis for just Aarohi. Aarohi is now reacting according to situation but Akshara is also planning for the same thing from past 6 years, the point is no one trusts the so called roaring Abhimanyu, not even his mother, that’s why came behind him to camp. And please she has a name Aarohi, what’s with this broom emoji🙄 Remember even Abhimanyu and Akshara can also be called out using number of such emojis. People here try to be respectful with their comments, so save this emojis for your rants in social media.
@M you can called out @Sam for the emoji but u don’t have to involve other characters that they too deserve the emojis??
Only fact is that maker’s r enjoying the trp by playing with so called abhira n navra fans .they r going to drag the story.but as abhira won best jodi maker’s r creating ground to reunite them.hence arohi is turning negative day by day.abhinav will sm how vanish in coming days.the time required will depend on the trp.makers r dragging the issue as they don’t have any story line.so they wil continue with the ping pong game n reunion.all star plus serial s r copying each other.i think they sit together to write the story given by the channel,hence it is same n no wonder the channel manipulate trp,or the people r so fool to watch same stories with other characters.
I dont understand how Arohi is turned negative if she was this way before. If she changed and now is again made negative i would agree. The only character that changed is Akshara. But Arohi character was on pause as she was never triggered in that way after leap and before Akshara came for mimis bday.
Right @Mark
That was uncomfortable viewing. No, not the scene of the two lovers tortured by memories their songs provoked, but by the web of lies Akshara’s choice had trapped each of them in. Lying to Abir about his parentage is as poor as failing to remind Ruhi that Neil is her father just because her mother is in hot pursuit of girl’s Taa and Massi’s ex-husband. Worst of all is to see a good character like Abhinav perpetuating the lie with his false account of why Abhi is dressed as a groom in a photo. While I know this is a love story of when Abhi and Akshu met, fell apart, and then…? I feel a more sophisticated drama could have been had with the adults sitting around the camp fire with the children, admitting to their truth lies to show adults have imperfections but their love for the children is true. Abhir’s weakened heart could have handled this better than the moment his repaired body learns about his mother’s lie. Instead we have to watch a little girl slowly demented by jealousy at the attention her young cousin is getting from her father to be. And await the hysteria whipped up by Manjiri, the mother in law from hell.
True. Only the truth of Abhir parentage will save Ruhi from this jealousy as Ruhi is understanding. But this truth, will make Akshu and Abhir life hell. Nav being Akshu hubby is bound to be called dad by Abhir. So as a child grows you teach them to say mom, dad etc. So Nav is by default Abhirs dad. But then later when a child can differentiate between dad and step dad, that is when you tell them that you are calling dad but its supposed to be step dad. What you all want is for Akshu to teach Abhir to say step dad instead of dad which is unrealistic as a step dad is also a dad. To be honest, such information is oftenly disclosed when the kid is grown up and can understand the difference. Abhir is not there yet. There is still time to tell him about Abhi. Abhi has to be patient and agree with docman tittle for now.
I support Akshara in hiding the truth from Abhi forever. But she should tell Abhir when he is ready to know it. I recommend Subtle hints.
Now since Ruhi jealousy can be stopped by the truth, and since the truth will affect the one it belongs to. Why not go for the best option and that is Manyu should stay the f**k off for a while? Why not love Abhir by afar? But this will be unfair to Abhi as he wants to not limit himself around his son. So there is another option of explaining to Ruhi that love can be shared and her poppy is not going any where.
@Rai a constructive and realistic opinion regarding the current situation. Yes, it was uncomfortable to see all the lies that were spawned and the hidden feelings to hide from the children the reality of some adults’ wrong decisions, all created by one person’s decisions.
@yeol
One or all adults.
1. Akshu for wanting wats best for his son.
2. Nav for supporting Akshara though low key wants Abhi to know about Abhir.
3. Arohi for giving in to Ruhis tantrums and entangling herself with her sisters husband who loves her sister still.
4. Abhi for giving in to Ruhis tantrums too. I mean getting bullied is not the end of the world. All they had to do is teach her to handle bullies by explaining why she doesnt have a dad. Ruhi can easly say her dad was killed by goons why saving helpless kids like you bullies. Period.
@Mark I’m talking on the principle that if Abhir had been known to both families since the beginning or after he was born or even 1 year after everyone else’s life even Ruhi would have been different for good and bad I don’t know? But of course, Abhimanyu and Arohi’s lives wouldn’t have been intertwined like that and Ruhi would never have looked at Abhimanyu any differently than a loving uncle or father figure. One person created a snowball effect. But obviously the current choices as I specified, are the consequences of bad decisions of several adults.
That one person is okay with Abhi and Aru relation. So nothing was spoilt before Abhi knowing the truth. Akshu wanted to never tell Abhi the truth. So the wedding would have happened and years later Abhir was going to be told the truth. This is what matters. Abhir would then seek Abhi and would automatically let everyone know that Abhi is his dad. No one will be jealous in this scenario. What seems to be the problem is after Abhi knowing the truth now.
@Mark, yes, a truly awful situation has been created by misunderstandings, lies, resentments, anger, judgements and disappointment. Now Abhi and Abhir have come face to face and have a bond, it is best for everyone’s mental health, including Ruhi’s to tell the truth. Continuing the lie is just creating more strife for all and intensifying the pain the longer everyone lives it. In my corner of the World marriage and remarriages are common with children growing up in blended families made up of natural parents, step-parents and full, half and step siblings. The key to their success is relating to the child as a feeling, thinking beings and respecting them with open and direct communication. Secrets, being excluded from situations and the truth, is what hurts and creates confusion. Abhir does not have to lose any of his Dads, if the men are willing to share his love. But yes the mother needs to drop her stubborn refusal to allow her ex a role in their son’s life
@Yeol, thank you.
I don’t know why but I think akshara may lose custody either temporarily and that needs to happen as to define NavRa relationship. So far they were united only for abhir and have recently started taking steps towards each other so it will be test of relationships between AbhiRa and NavRa. Because Both relationship are hanging unfulfilled and nobody is moving forward so I do want abhir’s custody to be deciding factor for everyone so much they can live their lives peacefully. And I think even NavRa anniversary is coming i so hope they will be finally be united in true husband wife sense.
Nice idea. Even Abhi-Arohi relation will be solid if Abhir custody goes to Abhi temporary. This is because Arohi will see if Abhi can treat Ruhi and Abhir equally or not so that she stops treating Abhir as the enemy of her family.
But this will not work out. As Akshu will be crying and fighting with everyone as Abhir is not there. She will worry how Birlas are treating him etc.
Even if Abhi has the custody right, it’s still very much depend on Abhir’s decision who he choose to be with, and I don’t think Abhi can reject Abhir’s request
I dont think roohi has anger issues . She is just Neil aka kachori thrower’ s daughter .that why she created a mess . Neil also used throw things when he’s angry .so roohi doing the same . I don’t think she got anger issues from poppy. If she got that clownmanyu anger issues she should screaming and yelling .
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IF AROOHI CHARACTAR DIDINT CHANG IS BICAUSE THAT IS NOT WHAT THE MEKARS WANT AROHI WANT TO TELL ABI AT FIST BUT WEN SHI TINK ABOUT RUHI SHI STOP A MOTHAR CAN GO TO ANY EXTENT FOR HAR CHIRLD AND WILL ABI STAY SINGLE BICOUSE ABIR IS HIS SON BISAID AKSHU DOSINT WANT ABI BACK IN HAR LIFE
I think Askshara still love her xhusband but she wants her sister and niece to be happy