Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai 3rd May 2023 Written Episode, Written Update on TellyUpdates.com
The Episode starts with Abhi running to Abhir. Ruhi says its cheating, I don’t want to do this task. Akshu sees Aarohi. Kairav buys sweets. A car comes in front and hits his car. Kairav and the guy get into an argument. Kairav says you should say sorry, but you are misbehaving. The guy says I won’t say sorry, will you call your dad, give me money. Kairav says I won’t give the money, will you call your dad. The guy leaves. Abhir says we should plant a tree, don’t you like Mango. Abhi says I like it, lets go. They plant the mango plant together. Aarohi looks on. Abhi says finally done. Abhir asks him to take care of the plant. He asks will you handle this responsibility. Abhi says yes. Abhir asks promise. Abhi recalls Akshu. He makes Abhir wash his hands. He says I had promised someone, but I couldn’t keep it, I have no confidence to keep the promise, I will try. Abhir says okay, promise you will try. Abhi says we both will try our best to take care of this plant, we promise. Aarohi worries. Ruhi comes and asks where is poppy, I got hurt. Abhir says it’s a scratch. Abhir screams. Abhi runs to him.
He asks Aarohi to get first aid kit. She says it’s a small wound. Abhi says it’s a wound by metal, its about his life, he is a heart patient, we have to give him a tetanus shot. Abhinav says its okay. Abhir says I m not hurt. Akshu says I got band aid for Ruhi, I have an extra. Abhi cares for Abhir. Akshu does Ruhi’s aid. Aarohi asks Ruhi to go and complete the task. Ruhi says no, I want to be with you both. Abhi says its fine, come. Aarohi stops him and explains Ruhi.
She says Ruhi’s victory is your responsibility now. Akshu nods. Aarohi says we will complete Abhir’s task, else he will lose, you don’t want this, right. Ruhi looks at Abhi and Abhir. Abhinav and Akshu try to cheer her. Ruhi says poppy is my best friend, I m missing old poppy. Mahima asks are you instigating Shefali for divorce. Manjiri says I will support her decision. They argue. Mahima says I won’t let Shefali file for divorce and Shivansh’s complete custody. Manjiri says you are fighting for your son and Shefali is fighting for her son, you are wrong and she is right. Mahima says if this was Abhi’s case, would you let Abhi get away from his son.
The man says well done to all the teams. Abhir says I will win. The man says Abhir Sharma is the winner. Abhi says my junior has won. Ruhi gets sad. Abhi hugs Abhir. The man says the other team kid has won but Abhi is happy like his own son has won, this is called sportsmanship, we request the winner Abhir to come here and collect the trophy. Abhi gets Abhir on his shoulders. Abhir gets the trophy. Ruhi pulls Abhir’s leg. Abhi and Abhir ask Ruhi to leave. The trophy falls and breaks. Abhir says my trophy broke. Ruhi pushes Abhir. Abhi and Akshu hold him. Ruhi says take me in arms. Abhi takes her and asks why did you do this. Ruhi argues. Akshu says she is saying right, no one should get her place. Ruhi gets angry and complains about Abhi. Aarohi hugs her and says sorry, I will talk to Abhi. She thinks sorry to use Ruhi to use this relation. She asks Ruhi to go and talk to poppy. Abhi says I will make up to my Ruhi. Akshu says kids are sensitive, Abhi should understand Ruhi, I should talk to him. Abhinav says he will think you are making him against Abhir. She says Abhir and Ruhi don’t deserve this, I have tolerated this pain of insecurity all my life. He says fine, talk to him, but be careful. She nods.
Precap:
Abhinav asks who did this. Akshu sees the mess. She thinks if Ruhi has done this in anger, I have to talk to Abhi. Manjiri comes and sees Akshu with Abhi.
Update Credit to: Amena
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Hats off to both goenka sisters.. Both are trying to make abhimanyu guilty for spending time with his son and justifying roohi’s brat behavior 😖 cant they make roohi understand that she cant be the center of attention all the time and abhimanyu is not her real papa so he has a life in which others can also be important? Instead these goenka sisters are trying to proof that she is behaving this way coz of abhi and so abhi should go to her and keep pampering her day nd night and forget about his son😒😒
Ruhi is not a brat she is having a meltdown, even adults behave badly when they have a meltdown. Abhi was openly ignoring ruhi and paying more attention to abhir. He can and should pay attention to abhir but not at the cost of ignoring and hurting ruhi.
And ruhi don’t know abhir is abhi’s son as per her abhi is paying more attention to a kid he met just few days ago.
I agree..
Abhir spends time with others, but Ruhi is becoming too possessive
@Surabhi, you are right.
Abhimanyu is the most brat then
@Amar hey how are you it has been ages😆😆. Also yes abhimanyu’s name should be bratmanyu. I have decides to give him different names with list of words that fit his egoistic personality so he can also be named as angrymanyu. Also someone had named him frogmanyu😆😆👏👏hats off to the legend who named him frogmanyu.
*decided
Just corrected a small mistake I made in the first word of 3rd line😄😆
@Akansha
I have more names
Flipmanyu
Clownmanyu
Bekarmanyu
Some twitter stans named him Mausamanyu, Phati hui awaz and many more😭😭
@.. 😆😆😆😆😆i love the names you have given it fits his so called self too well. And the names given to him by even twitter stans have also described him perfectly😆😆😆lol
Nd y all were sad seeing abhi abhir in one team.. Even abhinav? Its just a sport😐
True
@Surabhi exactly but they dramatized the scene so much actually I didn’t understand why they were so emotional when it was just an activity. Abhimanyu was just happy to spend some alone time with Abhir.
So one thing is clear that ruhi might be a stubborn child but she isn’t outright obnoxious she understands stuff if one makes her understand.
Arohi didn’t give into her stubbornness when she didn’t want to participate rather made hee understand that she should participate but when it came to the poppy discussion she chose to feed her insecurities more by twlling her to go talk to poppy however abhimanyu might try to twll her she is a child she will think that he is makinf excuses only her own mother can make her understand cause shw trusts arohi.
And what was that with akshara that ruhi sahi keh rahi hai yesterday when i saw the precap i thought akshu was right she was just being concerned for ruhi but its not just concern when she is openly supporting ruhi’s wrong behavior. Its not akshara’s place to correct ruhi i get it but what was with that comment ki ruhi ki jagah kisi ko nahi milni chahiye.
Abhimanyu n arohi both have spoiled her so now instead of corrrecting her ppl arw expecting abhimanyu to do as she pleases?
Also ruhi is behaving like this owing to abhi and arohi’s mistakes and abhir was away from abhimanyu owing to abhi and akshu’s mistakes but ppl are conveniently expecting only abhimanyu to compromise while both the sisters want to have it their way. Why ?
Its like oh abhi n arohi were wrong fir spoiling ruhi so abhi now u have to pay for it by having her as a bigger priority than abhir forget bigger rather the only priority.
And akshu n abhimanyu were wrong for having had a failed marriage but abhimanyu u let go off of your son. Smh
I agree with what abhinav said he somewhere understands abhimanyu’s psyche better than akshara lol 🤣
I have always said that abhimanyu has made so many goof ups and unforgivable mistakes but does that mean that he will have to pay for it and nobody else as though other people are saints. Even if he gets co parenting r8ghts( not partial custody coz honestly he doesn’t deserve it and abhir will go mad in the birla zoo) its still a lot of misery for him staying away from his child for most of the time but thats also a problem for people.
Ruhi is obviously having a meltdown and instead of understanding it people are blaming and namecalling her in insta. Saying stuff like abhi se jealous aur insecure abhi se itna gussa are wo choti bachchi hai khulke apne emotions ko abhi hi express kar sakti hai jaruri hai ki use apne emotions ko channelise karna sikhae. Uski feelings bi valid hai jo person apko pamper karta tha ekdum se apko pamper karne ki bajae ignore kare aur kisi aur ko pamper kare ye kisi ko bardasht nai hoga chahe ap bade ho ya koi chote bachche and ruhi is not a brat. She is behaving like a typical kid having a meltdown. Use samjhana jaruri hai ki hame gusse mai violent nai hona chahiye par ye baat sabko manni hogi ki gusse mai violent hone ka age se koi relation nai hai. Best strategy ye hogi ki ruhi ko samjhaya jae ki gusse mai apko kisi ko na dhakka dena hai na kisi cheez ko damage karna hai. Jo decoration ruhi ne kharab ki hai use dhik karne mai ruhi kihi help leni chahiye usse ye samjhana chahiye ki beta apki feeling valid hai par apka way of expressing nai.
Log itna bura bhala bol rae ruhi ko jaise unhone kabi bi bacho ko deal nai kia.
All i am saying is ruhi ka gussa aur meltdown valid hai par usne jaise behave kia wo na. Age ka koi relation nai hota hai insecurity, jealousy, ego aur possessiveness se.
I also know the fact that jo log abhi ruhi ko name call kar rae hai agar ruhi ki jagah abhir hota to abhir ko support karte. This thing boils my blood.
Thast just another day for insta commenters…these are the same toxic ass people who were calling abhinav all sorts of crap. Thay can’t see beyond their favorites whether its abhimanyu akshara or arohi.
@Shubh yes kids can throw a tantrum. but i have the impression that she is too possessive she did not hesitate pushed Abhir while she is aware of the seriousness of her illness, she behaved like a big sister a while ago but because Abhimanyu spent a little time with Abhir having fun she overreacted. Ruhi needs help, not Arohi or Abhimanyu because they themselves have problems. His parents needs professional advice to successfully manage her possessiveness problem otherwise she will end up like Arohi. Arohi has never solved her jealousy issues regarding Akshara she became a problem adult, and filled with jealousy towards her sister or insecurity , and who will do anything to get what she wants, Ruhi if she don’t get help she will grow up considering the people she loves as her property and will do anything to get them, she is still a child and she can still be helped.
You need to understand that even a sensible child behave badly when angry or having a meltdown she needs guidance not a psychologist.arohi needs to dunp avhi andd take her kid far away from birla and goenka families. Ache achon ki akal ghaas charne jati hai ye to phir bi 5 se 6 saal ki hai
@Shubh Ruhi is an understanding child but the problems she develops no adult in her entourage will be able to give her beneficial advice because they all have problems. Arohi is the best placed to understand and reassure Ruhi but she can’t because she has her own problems that she has never solved so she is not able to help her daughter. Abhimanyu has his own problems plus his son who he has to reconnect with and get a place in his life Abhir and sick too so he is going to prioritize him let’s not even talk about Birla and Goenka. Arohi and Abhimanyu should refer to a professional to advise them. They are themselves adults who grew up with childhood problems so they are not really qualified to give her the best advice.
Agree with you
@Shubh
Those insta and twitter people are uneducated, classless fools, Abhi stans are dumping blame on Aarohi, Akshu stans are dumping blame on Abhimanyu and Abhira toxic stans who can also be called as Aarohi haters are dumping blame on Aarohi saying Ruhi has Aarohi and Shiela genes, they don’t have minimum common sense that insecurity is not some genetical thing, it comes due to childhood abandonment issues.
When Ruhi behaves in a good way and as caring sister to Abhir, Abhi stans say that Abhimanyu gave good upbringing and Akshu stans say that she has got Neil’s genes. When Ruhi gets insecure or angry, Abhi stans say Aarohi never cared to explain things to Ruhi and is using her daughter to marry Abhi and Akshu stans call her names and blabber that she has got her mother and great grandmother genes. They should better shut off social media and go to school so that they can understand that insecurity have nothing to do with genes, all are plain toxic illiterate abusers who won’t spare real people also to defend their so called shitty leads.
Exactly! It’s all from the mind, all along Aarohi has a victim mindset, and it never leave her no matter where she goes! Nothing to do with genes!!
Complicated episode Roohi has become severely attached to Abhimanyu because that girl didn’t had a father.She got a father figure in the name of Abhimanyu…now she is seeing him being happy with Abhir and sharing the same sentiments that only she used to have with Abhimanyu …and she is Aarohi’s daughter so it’s quite obvious she will become insecure and jealous …Aarohi should take up the responsibility to make her understand…
Now people have asked questions that why Akshara didn’t tell Abhir about his original parentage or lineage …You see Abhir is six years old … Generally in real.life stepparents tell their kids about them being adopted ..when they are atleast 10 years old or more because During the first 9 years of your life memories are very fickle …and for the second part Akshara didn’t even thought that situations would have ever arrived but she was preparing herself that if someday situations like this happen she will know how to tackle it . And she is doing a very poor job ..
And again Abhir should not be raised in Birla or Goenka House ..
@Shilajit yes Goenka and Birla and really a toxic environment for a child, Ruhi’s development reminds me of Arohi’s in Goenka
Wow…so hypocrite.You just proved akshu abhinav and abhir right by stating that abhir is just a kid and proved ruhi wrong by saying that she is being insecure and jealous bcoz she is aarohi’s daughter.seriously???abhira fans are going to say that abhir is just a kid even if he murders someone but ruhi will always be wrong.stop being hypocrite atleast for kids.
@Mark I am also stating that Ruhi is not at fault …..read clearly again and Abhir has not done any such actions ….get that Abhir has not not done any such pushing actions as Ruhi not villanising Ruhi but the truth is Arrohi is insecure that is a fact and she is also making Ruhi insecure … that’s what I was trying to convey
RUHI is behaving like normal kid that is no big deal the only way out is to abhi make her understand and anouther thing was arguement between mahima and manjiri it hints very soon manjiri is going to know abhir truth then mahima will compare abhi to parth but both cases r different
Ruhi sees Abhimanyu as an object, she always says he is mine, he only belongs to me, it is strange. Ruhi is really possessive, she really reminds me of the Arohi from the beginning who wanted wanted Abhimanyu for her as a trophy. Akshara shouldn’t interfere in this matter. Ruhi’s behavior towards Abhir was mean and whatever she thinks, she should let Ruhi’s parents sort out this matter and advise Ruhi to come and apologize to Abhir. Arohi herself feels insecure, so she is unable to scold Ruhi, because the day Ruhi was beaten at school, Arohi had been firm. Actually Abhimanyu didn’t do much during the episode, he had some activity with Abhir and he devoted himself to him, he is still too emotional regarding Abhir, he only thinks spent time with him, this is not something extraordinary . but Ruhi has been so spoiled by those around her that she has become possessive of everything she considers her own. Arohi was similar Goenka had pampered her so much is used to having everything she wanted that it had become a character trait, I hope she realizes Ruhi’s behavior was problematic and jealousy n is not an excuse to misbehave, she shouldn’t put it all on the current situation because Ruhi already had similar problems in school, and Birla continue to pamper her Ruhi needs professional help and I hope Arohi or Abhimanyu will notice. So far, Arohi hasn’t sorted out her own issues regarding Akshara, so I think she won’t be able to help Ruhi as she feels like Abhir will steal all the affection from both families when the truth comes out. but The insecurity that Arohi feels is not his foundation as Goenka and Bila are not fair, they never managed to keep a tie in their show of affection so she gets scared. Seeing Abhimanyu’s current position, he will not be able to advance towards Abhir if he decides to prioritize Ruhi, but if he prioritizes Abhir due to because of his illness and the future legal proceedings and feelings of regret, Ruhi will be truly touched. He is not really given a choice but he must choose his priorities between the two children . Arohi should move away from both families if she feels so much insecurity for her daughter and for herself all her years away from both families have done Akshara and her son good, she better take some time with Ruhi away from both families.
@Yeol she learnt that abhimanyu as he always my roohi my junior my akshu and arohi isn’t helping at all instead of explaining things to roohi she is flaming her jealousy arohi knows the truth yet she’s still refusing to acknowledge it roohi might end up being second arohi and abhimanyu no excuse for him as he keeps overdoing and overreacting around abhir so roohi is bound to notice it she just a child after all
*Always says
Overacting abhimanyu…boring episode…poor ruhi
Arohi,Abhimanyu and manjiri are making mistake in parenting ruhi. She is a smart child instead of flaming her insecurities and possivesness, they should maker her understand. If this way continues it won’t be long before she becomes like arohi who is always insecure in akshara’s presence. And what is this akshara doing by saying “ruhi’s place shouldn’t be given to anyone”. She always gave into arohi, letting her do all wrong things and she is along with others flaming ruhi’s possivesness. Arohi herself suffered from sibling jealousy should be doing better at parenting ruhi but she is failing in that. She knows what wrong she did in her jealousy still not changing ways but instead forcing Abhimanyu using ruhi.
It’s wrong to thing someone as possession. Now be it past Abhimanyu treating akshara as possession or now ruhi,arohi and akshara treating Abhimanyu as ruhi’s possessions.
Also Abhimanyu is wrong at not attending to ruhi’s insecurities.
Can’t they for their children forget past and behave in a civil manner.
Manjiri is already enough to create havoc, can’t this 4 adults be understanding.
Wake up Arohi and dump him, take Ruhi and go farrrrr away from both the Birla’s and Goenka’s.
Not until she let go of her victim mindset!
@Sivk
Well she’s actually victim, not only she Akshu, Abhinav, Abhir, Ruhi and Aarohi are victims of Abhi’s so called sudden obsession, sorry it’s not looking like father’s love but obsession, fake promises, and very soon they will be victims of multifaced Manjiri Mata’s so called love when she comes to know the truth.
For me it is very clear that Abhi never treated Roohi as his own child. He just used her to forget his pain and loneliness. Yes he loves ruhi a lot but never considered as his own. If not, he sees the pain in ruhi. Roohi’s behaviour is obvious because she was raised that way by her poppy n birlas. Earlier she knew that when she even lie to abhi that she is not well he comes. But now when she got hurt he didn’t even see at tht. If we raise a kid as our own there will never be this differentiate. Yes Abhi wants to be with Abhir and that is totally ok. But what he doing now is hurting Roohi and also giving hopes. But from Abhi no expectations and i just wish Arohi should come to her senses and she should explain to Roohi that she has no right on Abhi as papa. I feel bad for Roohi Abhinav and Arohi. Why the makers always want to ruin Arohi’s character. Why they can’t show Arohi taking the best decision of leaving birlas. Yes she still wants to see Abhi with Roohi because she was given the worst idea by a selfish lady and her support. And Arohi sooner will be shocked seeing the double standard Manjiri. See..Manjiri was quite when Mahima asked whether that same theory of Mnjiri will apply for Abhi n his son. So we already know her answer. And i don’t know it looks like story is slowly trying to take U-turn for Abhira😏🤢
If u question the maker, then the answer is in order for the story to move forward Aarohi has to be this way!🤣🤣🤣
@Sivk
But why always Aarohi, there are many characters, for once they can use Manjiri, Mahima and now even Parth became villan, so why always Aarohi. If Abhira loved, Neirohi are loved too, already Neirohi fans always faced disappointments from these makers by constantly using Aarohi as pendulum, so why Aarohi again.
Abhimanyu and his promises🤭🤭😂🤣😂🤣
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I was wondering what happened to this clownmanyu s dilka rishtha?… he used brag a lot to kairav on mimis birthday and on roohi s friend birthday
Not following this serial lately, but gosh I feel for Ruhi… the way this Abhimanyu Birla is behaving I mean so hyper for Abhir, him being an adult (man child yeah), anyone who is attached to him would feel insecure or jealous… Ruhi has been deeply attached to Poppy-Abhi💩 more than her mum Arohi, she has been bonding with him for 6 years and has considered herself as his No. 1 priority because he has pampered her as she was his only getaway at that time… Now his bonding with Abhir and knowing that junior is his only son makes him a priority and obvious seeing their closeness and behaviour ignoring everyone else, even if Abhinav can feel a bit dull then Ruhi is bound to feel disappointed and a kid’s emotions will come out as anger or stubbornness but Ruhi is a smart kid, in this case maybe Arohi or Abhi are not in a sensible position to guide her because they have their own issues and fears… I’d Ruhi had a father figure like Abhinav I am sure she wouldn’t have cared about any docman or go behind any Abhimanyu for that matter, like Abhir does… I feel bad for the kid even if she is just fictional and if they’re just going to ruin her for Abhi-Abhir and AbhiRa it’s so pathetic… heard that Rajan Shahi is coming with a new serial on Star Plus… do they have any show going off air? Abhimanyu’s biggest problem is he never accepts that he has issues, he can see everyone else’s flaws but not his… he should have just remained single and been Ruhi’s & Abhir’s uncle, and the kids & their parents (as in if Abhinav was really Abhir’s biological father) would have been happy altogether… If Arohi flees with Ruhi that would be awesome… If she was in senses, she could have just utilised Abhi’s recent behaviour as an opportunity to get closer to Ruhi and make her understand why the marriage between poppy and mum wouldn’t work and just suggest her they go for a mum daughter vacation and go away from Birlas & Goenkas for sometime, if Akshara can stay away for 6 years then why can’t Arohi… she can inform Manish or Kairav later,because Kairav will definitely support that decision as he is anyway against Abhimanyu’s behaviour towards his sisters… Neither Ruhi nor Abhir deserves heartbreak because it’s not their fault… but the truth is Abhir will get everyone’s attention and love and Ruhi will gradually lose all thar attention she had and will feel neglected. In Abhir’s case though he didn’t get to meet his nana nani mamu but he always had Akshara & Abhinav’s undivided love and got gifts from his nanu on every occasion…. But for Ruhi not knowing her real papa, Poppy was her world and now losing all the attention at once will break her, because Abhir will always have Abhinav’s love + Abhimanyu’s love and it will be his choice whom he wishes to be with, but Ruhi will not have a choice left… Arohi should have just taken her away either her man, that kid has a bright future why make her a broken adult when she has no fault in her!!!!!
Completely agree @shen. Ruhi will be made that bad girl only to highlight Abhir-Abhi bond and to for the sympathy. And Arohi will be made negative again and in future may be Abhinav too for Abhira reunion.
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Thanks 😊 been a while since I typed a long comment lol
@Shen
Your each point is nothing but plain facts, I’m sure we all want Aarohi to run away with her daughter but I’m sure makers won’t do that, they will keep using Aarohi and Ruhi for dramas, they ruined Akshara-Aarohi relation when they were kids only and now doing same with Abhir and Ruhi, and are preparing Ruhi as next vamp. Actually, the whole purpose of killing Naira, then bringing Sirat and then Aarohi is just to show is trash sister rivalry which tanked the Gen 3 and made it unbearable to watch, every time Abhira had to unite, each and every character is ruined, now also they’ll do the same.
@Mounika
Long time… Are you the same mounika who used to comment those days? And then you stopped commenting I guess… I remember your name and we used to have the same POV during the kunal khera separation track and anisha death etc. If you are that same Mounika then so good to hear from you after ages… even I am commenting after some time only… and no worries if you aren’t the one I am referring to 😬 thanks ya!
Now maker’s r dragging things n also making a child a villian ,god how pathetic the story writers r,how can they ruin a child character, actually that child ruhi was shown a brat as arohi daughter now story will look more n more crap without storyline n maker’s doing ping pong with abhira n navra.so maker’s really making a cringe god give star plus sm sm sense n end the show
I have decided to stop watching I can’t watch kids losing their innocence because of adults stupidity 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️ will read update and watch if episode is good otherwise no i am not going to torture myself. Best I will stick with my kdrama instead of wasting my time on this craziness. If anyone wants I can recommend lots of very good kdrama that are thousands times more romantic and beautiful than this.
All those calling out ruhi for her behaviour -this is how a normal kid behaves if he or she feels that her or his importance is being given to another kid by their parents,you can’t expect maturity from them.Abhir’s behaviour might be really graceful but not too real,they are just showing abhir as most mature and ruhi as most insensible just tos show their favourite akshu great and abhimanyu and aarohi horrible parent.Though her pulling and pushing abhir wasn’t right as abhir has gone with surgery recently but again it was aarohi who should’ve stopped her and explained her everything in right way but she chose to stay silent.Aarohi and abhimanyu needs to behave like mature parents and explain ruhi the whole situation inspite of working on their own ways(one is trying to complete pull abhir and one is trying to completely push abhir).Aarohi said in yesterday’s episode that she had taken a decision for ruhi’s safety and happiness, wasn’t that decision supposed to be calling off her marriage with Abhimanyu bcoz this is the best decision in her and ruhi’s favour.she can’t drag a relation for too long that is forced.
All who are comparing ruhi’s situation with an elder child when they have newborn so let me tell you when a new kid born parents give less attention to elder one for sure but doesn’t avoid the elder one like abhimanyu is avoiding ruhi.
@Mahi. And this is not exactly like the situation where elder child is affected with new born in their family nor parents being away from thier children for many days. For Roohi it looks like the person he likes and loved more going away from her because of some other person’s child who came suddenly to their lives. So she definitely gets mad on that with the question WHY.
@Mahi
I completely agree, in elder child getting insecure case, the elder kid already know that he/she is getting a sibling in few months, parents prepare their kid to welcome the sibling but still they take time to share their parents but here Ruhi and Abhir are not siblings, they didn’t know about each other’s existence for 6 years, suddenly one day they came to know their mothers are sisters and they are cousins, so they bonded like normal cousins. Abhir is getting full attention from Abhinav-Akshara and Abhimanyu too is giving full attention to Abhir which rightfully belongs to Ruhi according to her, the only thing Aarohi has to do is cancel the wedding and explain Ruhi that her mother is enough for her and she also has a papa who is not near her but is always with her giving her blessings. The rest explanations of why Abhimanyu is ignoring Ruhi and running to Abhir is Abhimanyu’s call because he is the one who gave fake promises and then broke them.
So, Abhimanyu is not giving promises to Abhir because he knows that he can’t fulfill them and he don’t want to hurt Abhir, so why did this fool gave soo many fake promises to Ruhi, Aarohi and Kairav when he knows he can’t fulfill them. He’s clearly ignoring Ruhi, I really thought he’s a good father to Ruhi but he just used that little kid as an emotional crutch to come out of his own pain. If he considered Ruhi as his own daughter, he would have involved her in all activities along with him and Abhir and in Abhir’s surprise party too, he would have planned along with Ruhi. I don’t know why people are calling Ruhi brat, she’s exactly behaving how a 5 year kid who’s feeling insecure should behave, atleast she spoke out what she’s feeling in her heart. But, I want to know why Aarohi, Akshara and Abhinav were standing like statues when Ruhi was pulling Abhir, Aarohi was always a strict parent and used to scold Ruhi when she did wrong, it’s Abhimanyu and Manjiri who used to pamper her and dance to her tunes. Akshara and Abhinav are shown as protective parents to Abhir who used to not tolerate single scratch on him, but today 3 of them had no reaction, like I can understand that Ruhi is Akshara’s niece but she can share a friendly talk and explain her mistake too, same with Abhinav and Aarohi has a major role in her daughter’s life, I actually want her to use her wicked moves and cut off Abhimanyu and Ruhi’s relation, clearly it’s doing no good to Ruhi and is giving her more trauma and even Abhimanyu isn’t interested in Ruhi anymore, I want Aarohi to tell Ruhi that she has a papa who became star, who’s 100 times better than her so called poppy and is always seeing Ruhi from sky and giving his blessings. It’s somewhat weird to see these 3 standing like statues today when Ruhi was pulling Abhir, somehow I feel makers are deliberately doing this to highlight how good Abhimanyu is as a father to both Abhir and Ruhi, because everyone has seen how terrible he was as a husband. Also I’m glad that Aarohi didn’t start manipulating Ruhi and asked her to speak to her poppy and clear things herself, that kid needs that transparency now, but Abhimanyu will surely give one more promise to her and convince her. It’s sick to see that Abhira always needed a “villan” to take forward their so called love story, before Aarohi and now Ruhi. Abhira needing a 5 year kid as villan or hindrance for their so called reunion itself shows how awful is that couple and how writers have no story to write for them, they never had, always someone would become scapegoat for their separations and reunions. I’m not getting what’s the point of Abhira reunion after showing AkshNav as supportive couple and those little romantic moments they shared in Kasauli. Akshara’s character will look soo bad of she dumps Abhinav after all this.
That is exactly what i had said after the swing incident in kasauli that okay this might be seen as a weak moment but one more romantic moment between the the two and they should not even consider abhira cause that will show akshara’s character in a bad light.
I understand Abhinav and Akshara is dumbfounded reaction. Aarohi wouldn’t take it lightly if they jumped in to scold Ruhi. Akshara I think feared Aarohi is wrath and Abhinav just simply didn’t know what to do. Ruhi is not his child. I am sure if it was Abhir, both parents would have jumped in to explain to him and make him apologize to Ruhi.
Everyone around understood Ruhi’s state of mind and that she’s feeling insecure except the so called loving poppy who bragged about dil ka rishta, taking dil ka x-ray to prove Ruhi is his daughter blah blah blu blu… this clownmanyu deserves no kid, Abhir will anyhow choose Abhinav and Akshara only and I wish Aarohi kicks him out of Ruhi’s life if he comes crying to use Ruhi to foget his pain after Abhir dumps him.
Abhimanyu clearly knows that he won’t keep his promises to anyone so he played it safe with Abhir but that will not save him from Abhir’s wrath once he finds out what he did to his mother while he was still in the womb. I really want makers to make Abhir to hate him as much as he hated Harsh. And if Ruhi hates him that will be double karma to him. He should know how it feels to be hated by your child for ill treating their mother.
Ruhi is reaction is very understandable given that his Poppy, grandma and Mataji spoilt her rotten and made her believe she has first right on Abhimanyu. She is bound to react rudely and mean to Abhir. What I don’t understand is Abhimanyu completely ignoring her pain and not explaining to her that it is just a game and no one is taking him away from her. He is really a poor excuse of a father. His actions clearly show he was using Ruhi as an emotional clutch and now he is found his son, she is not of importance to him. He has always failed to balance relationships and he will not be able to balance between Abhir and Ruhi and it is Ruhi who will suffer the most in this mix. Abhir has been taught to share by Abhinav so he will just go with the flow.
That said, if the makers are planning generation 4, then they are setting the stage for Ruhi to hate Abhir like Aarohi hated Akshara. Can’t an ITV serial happen without family villains or sibling rivalry!!!! It is seriously depressing to watch such bs yet some of have good relationships with our siblings….of course we fight but we don’t hate each to the point of wishing wrong for the other.
Did Arohi think this? “She thinks sorry to use Ruhi to use this relation”
Why is Arohi leaving everything to Abhi? Even the simple task of explaining why Abhi is doing this? Where is that calculative and practical Arohi? Doesnt she know her own symptoms of insecurity, possessiveness and jealousy?
And Akshara saying “No one should take Ruhis place” is her childself giving in to what Arohi wants. Now she will teach this to Abhir to always give to others what is rightfully his.
History has a habit of repeating itself.
I can see Kairav putting a stop to Muskaan marriage and Muskaan will be thinking he wants me that is why he is stopping my marriage. Talk about mu.
I think the person who had an altercation with Kairav is Muskaan is potential alliance which Kairav is going to break and I agree another misunderstanding is going to happen fueled by Surekha is evil comments
@Mark
She actually thought that but next moment she asked Ruhi to share all her issues about Abhimanyu with himself and asked her to talk to Abhimanyu what she’s feeling and that Abhimanyu will understand which didn’t seem like using, infact at this moment that seemed to be perfect solution as Ruhi has issues with Abhimanyu and only he can answer her, so I’m really not getting why they put that dialogue in middle.
One more thing, can anyone explain why Abhir boy ran towards his so called docman as soon as he is announced as winner, normally kids run to their parents when they win something, so why this kid is running to his doctor, these days even Abhir is made irritating by his over docman jhaap for everything. Now even I feel makers are doing this purposefully to show what a gem is Abhimanyu as father when everyone can clearly see what a “great” parent he is.
He ran to him because abhimanyu was his partner in the task. He would never go to abhimanyu if abhinav is in thr picture though 😂🤣 but it was like a teammate giving each other a hug on winning a game atleast in my understanding.
@Urmi’Yes, Abhimanyu maybe his partner but first hug children will give to parents especially a 5 year kid, it’s not like he and Abhimanyu are on some stage and his parents are down and he had to run down to give them a hug, his parents are right behind him, he didn’t even looked at them and jumped to Abhimanyu which is strange.
Abhi’s impatience, egoistic and somewhat mental issues 🙄 ….are what is killing his mojo…else he would make a great father figure to both children 😒 ….but no he isn’t husband material….yet… as he has never really seen a loving relationship between his parents… smh…mind you, he has adopted some of those ‘bad’ traits from his father (the egoistic part etc 🙄)….and now that he is aware he has a son, I guess therapy would be a great option to point him in the right direction….