Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai 4th September 2023 Written Episode, Written Update on TellyUpdates.com
The Episode starts with Akshu clapping and saying you sang well, you will win, I will show you how to sing from heart. She sings dil se bandhi… He recalls their moments. He says its an emergency, I need to go. He goes out and thinks why is the past coming in front of my eyes, please help me Mahadev. Its evening, the competition goes on. Abhi and Abhir look on tense. Manjiri and Akshu go to set their hair. Abhi and Abhir say don’t touch hair. Manjiri and Akshu laugh. She says you both will win the trophy for comedy, sing well. Abhi and Abhir are called on stage. Ruhi says all the best, I know you will rock the stage. Abhi and Abhir stop and take their mothers’ blessings. Manjiri and Akshu wish them to win. Abhi sings Aye… The light goes. The man says stay seated, have some patience. The other man says inverter isn’t working. Abhir asks Akshu to do something. Abhi says we will talk to principal, we will get a chance to perform. Akshu says we have to do something. Manjiri asks what can we do. Akshu says I have an idea, but I need your help. Manjiri asks will this idea work. Akshu says we can try. Abhi and Abhir shout where did you go. Akshu says don’t shout. Akshu gets the car battery for the speaker. Abhi asks what’s all this. Akshu says focus on your singing, lights will come and function will continue. She connects the battery to the mic. Manjiri and everyone smile. The man says this madam has found a good idea. She says lights. The bikers switch on the headlights. Everyone claps.
She says we will continue the function. Manjiri says battery won’t stay for long, go. Abhi says our performance is dedicated to my mum and Abhir’s mumma, we will put extra efforts, we will sing and dance. He sings Humne bahane se…. Abhir sings along.
Everyone claps and asks for dance. Abhi and Abhir dance on Shaame malang si…. Akshu says I didn’t know they will dance so soon. Everyone claps. The man says its not tough for us to guess the winners, the winners are Abhir and Abhimanyu Birla. Everyone claps again. Abhi and Abhir get the best father and son trophy. They say the award goes to our moms. Abhi says a special thanks to Ruhi. Manjiri gets pics clicked with Abhir and Ruhi. Abhi and Akshu smile. Akshu says give me the Guru Dakshina, you won the award. Abhi says we had to win it, we father and son are talented. She says you were a godown of anxiety since morning, you didn’t go for any patient, was it any other matter. He says no, I had work. She says its okay if you don’t want to say. The trophy falls. She picks it. He sees a car speeding and pulls her back. He scolds her. He says you risk your life for others, because of this habit, 6 years ago…. She looks at him.
She says we lost Neil 6 years ago, you always had this in your heart, I was mad to think we moved on, I was wrong, nothing changed and nothing will change between us. She goes. At home, Akshu cries and recalls Abhi’s words. She recalls Neil’s death. Abhi also recalls. He thinks sorry to become a reason for your pain once again.
Its morning, Akshu says Kanha’s Shringhaar happened well. Everyone talks about Janmashtami. Manish says our Rangoli is also ready. Kairav eats laddoos. Akshu and Aarohi stop him and say women have kept fast, and you are eating laddoo. He says its prasad. The ladies look at Akshu. Manish sees them. Abhir asks where is butter bowl. Everyone smiles seeing Abhir and Ruhi. Abhi comes. Manish says they are the cutest Radha and Kanha. Manjiri says Abhi you made them dress well. Everyone praises them. Abhi says I have applied black dots to them. Akshu asks can’t I ward off the bad sight. Kairav says kids come, let them fight. Kairav asks Abhir and Ruhi to pose as Radha and Krishna. Abhir and Ruhi pose. Everyone smiles. Suwarna says they look very cute.
Mahima says Parth, mail Joshi’s reports to me. He says I don’t have it, ask the new MD to mail it. Anand says look at his attitude, your decision is right, our son isn’t capable to handle the responsibility. The ladies see Akshu. A lady says this knife is sharp, give it to me. She takes the fruits plate. Abhi comes and says I m… Akshu asks did you get medicine for Abhir. He says yes, we can go to hospital anytime. She says you taunt me on old things.
Precap:
Suwarna asks Akshu to open the Jhanki. The lady says we will do it. Manish asks why. The lady says Akshu can’t do it, she is widow.
Update Credit to: Amena
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“Manyu likes to change his tune after he achieves something” Akshara mindlessly said this but I can’t help but agree with her. She hit the bullseye. Very accurate description of Manyu. He does this always.
Akshara returning to Manyu will never happen. Unless they coerce her or gaslight her or coax her into it.
yes treue, very true
Lady is right. Akshara’s husband died so she should not take part in holy rituals atleast for 1 year. Feel happy or sad, This is our traditional customary which we should obey to show respect to our elders and ancestors.
Lets see who disrespects it.
For me, Akshara has always been, is and will be married to Abhimanyu, the rest is all just pieces of paper and dust in the eyes. Before God she is only Abhimanyu’s wife.
But she shouldn’t do rituals now))
@Pavi, I think this was a “custom” created due to jealousy and has built up over the generations…. Which scripture says widows should be denied the ability to worship like everyone else. You choose your destiny before you come here the experiences you have you chose them, based on how you want to repent for things done in previous lives, that’s my belief…. There are too many strange inexplicable customary things.
@Jade its not about her being widow but her being the closest family member of Abhinav. Coming to following customs, its upto them, whether they will be sincere or not. I feel we should obey the basic customs atleast.
They deserve each other! That Abhimanyu will never change, just like Akshara! Because this is not education, this is character!
Trust your heart, if you don’t know what to do, then only love can help and cure you.
Everyone has different opinions, for me it is love!
With Abhinav there was friendship and platonic love, with Abhimanyu this is true love, although some who are afraid of 6 pack consider it an obsession, in my opinion they are wrong, but there is no desire to argue with them, let them remain with their opinion! 😉
If it’s abs and packs you think people are scared of, it seems you haven’t seen jay soni’s instagram. Not to criticize the actors but his body is hotter and more proportional than harshad. So it’s not a matter of fitness. But ofcourse some shippers only fill their heads with virtual lust and ogling at abs. I guess that’s really all that matters to some. Not respect and love. Only lust.
Also Akshara cannot marry before Abhinav’s 1st Death Anniversary. Now DKP who takes pride on portraying culture,customs, rituals across the country, will they follow this ritual or mislead Audience to rebel them. No doubt this custom will not make anyone happy but that’s what life is , mixture of happiness and sorrows . So if they like to follow the happy customs then they should obey or be sincere to the Anti- celebration rituals too.
Rs already took Rebel step Abhira reunion @ pavi
He makes Audiences sorry mature ones jokers-Abhira reunion
He portraying sr Ak follow all traditional values morels etc…
Now jr Ak ,they showing love is important even if it’s worthless Remain everything good thing throw them dustbin..what type love this I don’t know it’s upto u guys
Even she had Nav like husband after that too so think her what type of character her it’s up to her if she really respect Nav what sacrifices Nav did both her and her son …..
Celebrations point why we don’t celebrate any important things whole until 1 death anniversary we showing how much we loved him/her , how much we miss him/her
But as Hindu we follow as our ancestors follow that’s it No compulsory I think it’s up to them
When My MIl passed we didn’t celebrate any festival whole 1 yr
It shows how much you giving respect to him/her , it doesn’t means we are not grieving after that No we still , we say goodbye them and we start our life over again this life but we have some empty ness it always show…but here in Ak nothing like that happen seriously after how she protect Nav in front off every one in every situation, 🤔…….
DKP is priorities is Abhira reunion they took advantage of it religious things to Abhira reunion as per my opinion
As per what I saw yrkkh makers and writers they dump all morels values customs even ethics too that very unusual behavior of makers – Abhira reunion kalie…….
We are going see some more 🤮 things coming episodes for Abhira reunion…..
Undigestable thing’s……..undigestable way….come on guys …hip hip urray 😆
We knew it, it’s always trashmanyu or his psycho mon who always invites new trouble when everything is going on smoothly. He doesn’t have control over his emotions and actions but he is a gold medalist in controlling aksara. Nav was introduced because Abhira failed, now what progression they have made? They are even more worser than before. Abhi turned into psychopath, and dumbsara is becoming characterless😖🤐
@Msdism
True. “He doesn’t have control over his emotions and actions but he is a gold medalist in controlling aksara” very true.
He is also a gold medalist in saying sorry as if it means something.
@Pavi
Correct. Akshara is Abhinav’s wife before God and before Abhir. I don’t know about customs but why then did Swarna and Manish tell her to do it in the first place? And doesn’t Akshara know she can’t do it.
Anyways, since she loved Abhinav truly and changed for the better so that she can keep her marriage with Nav, these customs mean little.
She was better when she was Navs wife and now that she is Navs widow, she is more likeable. Manyu always brings out the worst in her. She should stay away from him. After all, her marriage to him was a mistake and a punishment.
For 6 years she lived in Kasauli like a sleeping beauty, she was lifeless and lived only for the sake of the child. She fought, swore, and everyone was afraid of her.
It was only when Abhimanyu appeared nearby that she woke up and came to life! Remember the watch store! Just like Abi, when Akshara gave him tilak – the clock also started working!!
@Mark, Arohi’s has been a widow 6 years maybe she faced this kind of discrimination sooo how come Manish and Suwarna didn’t sort out all these widow hating women 6 years ago… their youngest grand daughter was a widow first and there will be parallels drawn between the dignified gorgeous Aru and this confused baggage lady Akshara
@IrCy
So funny. Don’t joke around here. We might misunderstand that you are serious. 😀😀😀😀😀🙊 Sleeping beauty??? Seriously???? When Manyu appeared, she started letting go of her hatred and anger and resentment. This is how she noticed her 6yrs old love for Nav. But what could she do? Manyu ruined love for her. He gave her a life long trauma that she is unable to fully be free from him.
@Jade
Even I wonder. They let Aru follow all customs but Akshara shouldn’t do them because they are bad. How convenient.
“So funny. Don’t joke around here. We might misunderstand that you are serious” – @Mark, apparently you see the plot and all the characters clearly and clearly, then please explain why there was a story in the watch shop and with the tilak = clock in Abhimanyu’s room? What did the creators mean by this?
I would greatly appreciate your reasonable response.
@IrCy
“For 6 years she lived in Kasauli like a sleeping beauty, she was lifeless”
OKAY! One serious question. Who made her a sleeping beauty? Who sent her into that sleeping mode? Who made her lifeless? Who did all this in the first place? Isn’t it the same abhimanyu that you’re praising???
It’s like men in social media ranting that “who will protect women if men don’t exist?” PROTECT FROM WHOM? The same men🥱
The person who made your life horrible can never be your saviour.
Agree or not akshara was the happiest when she was in kasauli with navbir
@Gayu, same question for you – what did the makers want to show in the story in the watch shop and Akshara’s tilak for Aroha and then the watch in Abhimanyu’s room?
You are judging this fairy tale too seriously…maybe if you find it difficult to explain, you’re wrong?
@Ircy
🤣 You see the hypocrisy
When @Nani asked you something you said “you didn’t answer my question but waiting for my answer” what are you doing now? I asked you something, you didn’t answer(maybe you don’t have one) and reverse questioning me 😂
Same goes for you.
Interesting! But I’m still hoping for an answer 😊
@Gayu, you are not reading carefully! I answered to Nani 🙂
But you don’t have to answer anymore, you have no answer, only anger 🙁
How predictable 🥴🥴 now again abhimanyu to rescue the voice of justice for widows 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 he didn’t do anything for Aarohi widow for 7 years but will fight for akshara 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 nothing against celebration and moving on but akshara is sharma she should respect the tradition of 1 year mourning at least. If doing for the excuse of abhir then there is no need for such grand celebration Goenkas and birlas can do small ceremony and Sharma can participate without ott singing and dancing 🥴🥴🥴 abhimanyu ko whitewash karna he karo tradition ka tamasha mat banao in so called progressive approach 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️ after Neil’s death when it was manjiri birthday even after 7 months the atmosphere in that both families was quite sober but here not even a month and they have already doned akshara in heavy designer dresses 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
@Ashle this DKP keeps digging their grave deeper the more they move to reunite Abhira. What is the point of this fight for widows i Akshara wont remain a Birla and the curse Naira Birla is on the way. In all honesty f**k Akshara and this whole the story must be propagated by the blood of the first Akshara, this junior Akshara is an insult to the original. DKP is making their Fl highly disliked, cocokroach did the same with our Sai Joshi and then killed her and Virat together cause the characters were too damaged
You know sometimes typing on a phone sucks, I was saying what’s the point of Akshara fighting for widows if she isn’t going to remain one? Apparently Manyu is going to marry her to save her from the kalank of being a widow 🤷🏾♀️ and Naira Birla is on her way from hell to break even more brains than her dumb mother.
Akshara’s character was destroyed after she went to confort that blithering crybaby Manyu while he was throwing a tantrum cause Abhir wanted his mama and papa and took away dada from him, I blame both Akshara and Manyu for Nav’s end, they might have planned his murder together which is why dumbshara doesn’t have boundaries
These aunties 🤦🏻♀️
I don’t understand why all these rituals are only for a woman. What about a widowed man? Men roam around freely as if nothing happened but a woman has to go through a bunch of idiotic rituals. Where in every second they’ll be reminded they are a widow who now can’t wear Colorful clothes, can’t do this, can’t do that. Bullshit! Even when the husband was alive all the rituals, festivals are for woman where they keep fast for the husband’s wellbeing. I’m glad that times are changing. But it still isn’t enough. This is not just for married woman. There are some customs like girls should not wash their head on a particular day, they shouldn’t put on mehendi to a particular finger for her brother’s wellbeing. So only a man’s life is valuable? What about a woman’s life? I’ve never heard of a single custom and ritual which is followed for a woman’s wellbeing and her longlife.
@Funmi
“Abhinav stole someone else’s child”
Wow! What a cute girl, living in her little delusional world.
Fun thing about abhira fans is they staright out deny to see/accept abhinav’s goodness, which is right infront of their eyes but try to convince us to see abhimanyu’s non-existent ‘achhai’ which went on a world tour a decade ago and never returned
A truly good person will never say that about himself! Only others can define and talk about it.
To Me, Abhinav was a reasonable character until Muskaan and Neela convinced him to break the pact and lust after Akshara physically.
A good person will never make a deal with his conscience and break the law and give false testimony!
@Gayu
The worst thing is that Akshara is proving that Nav really did steal someone’s child and wife when she reunites with Manyu. Too sad.
@IrCy
Abhinav lusted after akshara??? LOL! I’m sure all the manyu and abhira fans are watching a different yrkkh altogether. They keep on bringing and saying things that never happened in the show just to satisfy their delusions.
@Gayu, really, I forgot, angels are not men :), they fulfill only the desires of women, they are henpecked! 🙂
Wow Abhi won the best father, Abhir won the best son. Wow wow, my best people. This is so good. @IrCy you are so correct. 100%. That is my believe too, that abhi and Akshara’s love never left. They were both suppressing it. Now it has to come alive again.
Ritual or no ritual if the scripts says The end will be Akshu and Abhi, they know how to weave it and make it happen.
Didn’t they kill Abhinav off. That was what the scripts says at that time.
Now all this segregation against a widow simply bcs her husband died is way too crude. When will we stop all this rubbish.
And I’m not sure a widower has all those trash customs against them.
Can you see the so-called women feminist that has been writing for women’s right. Women are shown as regressive, women should be liberated and respected. Blah blah blah. Now look at what they are pointing at, bcs they don’t want Akshu to move on.
Keep it up, write all the trash you know you can write, the producers will still go the way of the scripts. Disappointment is your second name. You wont learn your lessons.
@Funmi
Abhir and Akshara never really loved each other. Otherwise Akshara would have behaved and stopped minding others business when she saw that her husband didn’t like it. Also, Manyu would have never saw her as a curse and trouble.
Akshara gave her all for Nav because she loved what Nav meant to her. She defended him against Manyu, she couldn’t get enough of his presence, she fought for his relationship with Abhir against Manyu claim to his rights as a father which she dismissed, she wanted his attention always. I can go all day. Where as with Manyu, Manyu coaxed her to think she loved him which she did not. She didn’t like his anger, his selfishness, his narcissistic self and most importantly, she didn’t like his broken family. This is why she wanted to fix it like how she fixed the speaker today hence the best father-son performance.
*Manyu and Akshara never really loved each other
This is not about widow rights. It’s about tradition. Akshara is sharma she should have respected that household now that she has become head of family after abhinav even if it was just two of them. In any culture when a family member dies there is mourning period for certain time be it man or woman everyone follows. In fact in our itv when wife dies men are shown to be mourning for long time becoming recluse and angry lonely until fl comes to awaken their dead heart 😂😂😂
@Pavi
You are right,these Stans hate Manyu, that’s why they are okay to pair with Akshara after all those “grahan, Amavasya, I don’t want my son like you”,”However the relationship is I choose 100 times Abhinav”,”Abhinav completes me”, confession to Nav,etc etc etc.If they genuinely like Manyu,they will ask for proper redemption for both the leads.The leads age in show is around 30s,but their mental age is around 13.Similarly their stans tooo.They just flip in whichever way Abhimanyu flips(not HC,🤦🏻♂️everytime I have to mention this, because these mental people can’t differentiate between Actor and Character)🙄🙄
No watter what they write now no redemption can be done for Abhi at all or Akshara. So let them be together and end this. The only way it will end is with them together. After she told Abhinav she loves him that reunion will be weird asf but let’s fact it Abhira is happening right before us, being together their so called no feelings are coming out.
@Gayu
Valid question. “So only a man’s life is valuable? What about a woman’s life?” Sadly, this track is not about the lack of customs or rituals on a woman’s life. This track is about Abhira yet again. Makers don’t care of misleading customs or unsatisfactory rituals. They only care how the ML and FL will get back together for the wrong reasons.
Look at the parallels between dumbshara and psychojiri, Manyu’s obsession is obvious, he found his mothers incarnation in this dumbshara. Psychojiri wanted Harsh despite the abuse, Akshara will be the same. And in 20 years she will be psychoshara. Anything they try to redeem Manyu or Akshara useless now, if only Akshara stopped mixing her past and present Nav would still be around but this woman has issues with boundaries
@Jade
Exactly. She has no boundaries. Manyu will not stop hurting her. Never. But she will still reunite with him because she likes the pain.
@Vijaya
We are now considering the possibility of Stockholm syndrome. Akshara returning to Manyu is not normal.
@IrCy
“Pain! The pain in the hearts of both served as formaldehyde and sealed all other feelings.”
Is this your answer XD. Lol did you read it before posting 🤣 stop being funny, you’re just giving lame excuses 😂
And reciting poetic lines when you don’t have an answer is not actually answering 🙂
She should keep boundaries herself and ex,as long as abhir in btwthem it’s impossible to her that’s one of reason abhi taking advantage her
Her character is always miserable even when Abhinav was she was act normal with ex and Manjiri too
Her past will always mixing with her present
If she has any respect to Abhinav at least she shouldn’t entertain abhi,we know him he is impulsive about Ak , asking him away it’s like bang our head to wall.
So Ak should decide how far her boundaries as wife of Abhinav and ex to abhi
“He doesn’t have control over his emotions and actions but he is a gold medalist in controlling aksara. Nav was introduced because Abhira failed, now what progression they have made?”
So true.They are going backwards infact.
@Ashley
“after Neil’s death when it was manjiri birthday even after 7 months the atmosphere in that both families was quite sober but here not even a month and they have already doned akshara in heavy designer dresses”.
Agreed 👍💯. To whitewash this manchild, regressive thought aunties have to be invited and manyu to come and save the widow.🙄
@Gayu
“So only a man’s life is valuable? What about a woman’s life? ”
Agreed 💯💯💯. But this track is not to address this regressive thoughts and traditions but instead to glorify this over glorified Manyu.I always get this phrase whenever I see manyu,”Not all glitters are gold”. His Stans can fall for his glitter, real audience treat him like a creep and hypocrite.
@Nani and @Mark
Sadly true, they’re using such a sensitive issue to glorify and whitewash a good-for- nothing ML and a cringey reunion.
💯correct Not all glitters are Gold this statement Suits abhi character
@fummi 100% correct.. These fake feminists who always called akshu nf arohi right nd abhimanyu wrong suddenly thinks that akshu should not do the ritual clearly means they dont want her to marry abhimanyu so they are making these lame excuses of our culture bla bla
why are You Behaving like a Toxic! @Surabhi?
Akshara Sharma’s family member died that also her husband. So she and Abhir cannot be part of Holy Rituals for 1 year. Thats the traditional custom. Go ask your Mom or Dad or Grand Parents.
Some people are not sincere and so dont follow. And Akshara herself shows no symptoms of love for Abhimanyu. She is just nice and friendly with him. So Marriage is out of talk now. I feel she killed her love for Manyu and then started loving Abhinav whereas Abhimanyu supressed his feelings
This show is showing us that feeling don’t die, in fact every show shows same thing Atharav kidnapped Imlie’s baby and she did her woman power drama but she back together with him she even had second child they are about to die in an earthquake, Sai left Virat jump to the end she loves Virat both exploded in a plane same story feelings never died. Abhimanyu had feelings they are evident soon Akshara will also show same symptoms. Please let them be, we didn’t want Sairat it happened in the end. We don’t want Abhira but Abhira is happening right before out eyes.
I didn’t watch any shows other than this, so that means all shows are running on the basis of toxicity for years and years so pathetic 🤮 why people are so obsessive about Toxic pairs why ? Oops they want entertainment or any other agenda?
I actually liked the episode,though the singing dancing was little over the top😅. At least we are moving forward.About customs..for a few months ( till barsie a puja) the WHOLE family does not celebrate .So celebration of Manjiri bday was really wrong.Here is also a newly wedded couple (kairav muskaan)and for Hindus in rajasthan Gujrat it’s imp to take blessing of lord Krishna.Kairav and Muskaan should have been on focus today.Something off with both Pranali and Karishma s acting .The former is too chirpy and latter even in one or two sentences she spoke her diction is flat.I really wish they would give her some story.
Why did Abhimanyu not dress up Shivu ?🤔 I am trying to avoid our toxic couple so I am noticing all trivia😂😂 Mahima did not answer Anand @Rai I think you are right something else is afoot.Also in the flashback Abhimanyu had Presigned the divorce papers? Divorce was not spur of the moment decision taken in anger? It was preplanned by Abhimanyu ?
Well … mission whitewash Manyu has flopped badly…. No sympathies at all
@Ircy
“why there was a story in the watch shop and with the tilak = clock in Abhimanyu’s room? ”
Please answer this question..why Abhira lost that weird heart connection when she left to pathankot especially when she was pushing Abhir out of her Body?? He lost all the telepathic connection he felt when Akshara was slipping from stairs, when Aarohi holds Akshara’s shoulder tightly, during accident,etc etc etc.You say Akshara is Abhimanyu’s wife befor god even after 2 times divorce, blame game and daily drama😂😂….when they are having that connection as lovers why not as Husband and wife(according to you)??? Any reasonable answer is welcome.
You haven’t answered my question, but you’re waiting for my answer? Interesting, but I’m still hoping for an answer!
Pain! The pain in the hearts of both served as formaldehyde and sealed all other feelings.
@IrCy. You are just talking about Abhimanyu’s feelings.
Abhimanyu Supressed his feelings but Akshara killed her feelings for Abhimanyu.
Abhimanyu never able to move on which we all know and so he still unmarried.
Akshara was in debt, PAIN as you termed and Fear of that Patternity Fraud served as formaldehyde and sealed all other feelings.
Once everything disclosed, her fear gone
Once she started Co Parenting, her debt lessened
Once she completed the 6yrs past argument, fight, Said all that was in her Heart, and then got in friendly terms, Her Pain also lessened
Then she able to actually move on and so started seeing Abhinav as her life Partner. She started doing Husband-wife things on daily basis like making him wear shirt, sharing food in single Plate, keeping her head on his shoulder, Putting her hand on his hand, Giving him Hugs, pecks, Staring at him with a beautiful smile, Shouting at Abhimanyu that she will choose Abhinav 100 times over him, Saying I Love You in Sub Concious mind (You cant hide your real feelings when you are so Drunk).
If this is not Love then What is it?
You should then watch or read about Radha-Krishna who are the Epitome of Love. They are not husband wife, not had s*x or any other physical intimacy, yet their Love is the Top most and Eternal. You , @Funmi need to know what is love from Radha Krishna because you are Disgracing yourself, your upbringing by being dumb. SO MY ADVICE IS TO read or watch about Radha Krishna.
Many real people here have more than 1 Romantic Relationships in their life and which means they had breakups, some have Bad Breakups. Among them some have had s*x with their ex too. But they are happier now being single or got someone better. SO YOU WANT TO SAY THEIR REAL LOVE WAS THEIR EX?. Breakups are necessary so that we can find our perfect Match in next person. SO LOVE CAN HAPPEN MORE THAN ONCE IN LIFE AND SUCH SERIALS,SHOWS,SERIES,MOVIES, RealLife Stories DO EXIST .
AKSHARA HAD INFATUATION, Young LOVE like @Rai also said. BUt she realised Abhimanyu is not her fit so she breakup and she find her perfect fit with Abhinav.
@lrCy ‘Pain! The pain in the hearts of both served as formaldehyde and sealed all other feelings.’ Powerful! You weave words wonderfully to convey meaning.
“Then she able to actually move on and so started seeing Abhinav as her life Partner. She started doing Husband-wife things on daily basis like making him wear shirt, sharing food in single Plate, keeping her head on his shoulder, Putting her hand on his hand, Giving him Hugs, pecks, Staring at him with a beautiful smile, Shouting at Abhimanyu that she will choose Abhinav 100 times over him, Saying I Love You in Sub Concious mind (You cant hide your real feelings when you are so Drunk)” –
For me it is Akshara who is trying to force herself and convince herself that she loves Abhinav.
You can have friends as much as you want, but try sleeping with them! Akshara couldn’t do it! If you love someone you can’t sleep with someone else, even with your best friend!
“If this is not Love then What is it?” – I didn’t say that this is not love, I said that this is platonic love…
She has true human love only for her husband before God and before people (a crowd of people) – Abhimanyu. Real love of body and soul.
…OK, the creators show that Akshara can force herself to do anything! Even harming herself…and then Mahadev intervenes – he delivers the photograph into the hands of Abhimanyu before the wedding with Arohi or pushes Abhinav off the cliff before Akshara is about to go to bed with Abhinav.
@IrCy, you want to say she couldn’t consummate which she did with Abhimanyu and so that love is greater than this love.
Well see after Akshara started loving Abhinav, they couldn’t get the chance to spend their honeymoon because Abhir sleeps between them and when Abhir was no there, they were very sad which is not a good time for love making. There was a scene when they were very close and Akshara gave green signal to Abhinav by closing her eyes and calm face, but then Abhir came with Neelama.
If you see Akshara is forcing herself to love ABhinav then you actually cannot see her happiness and the reason behind it. If she forced love then there would be a Awkward angle but makers decided to show it like Akshara really started accepting Abhinav as her husband with whole heart and so now Awkwardness in Akshara’s face before she gives hugs and pecks to Abhinav. U can see this in episodes of Muskan’s wedding rituals when Abhinav was doubt that Akshara loves him or Abhimanyu.
Watch how Akshara genuinely convinced Abhinav and indirectly confessed that she needs him and she loves him.
You cannot say Love for Husband is next to or above love for God because a Mother can even kill her dear husband for her child. Love of Mother is at the top. If Akshara understands this and then has Accepted Abhinav as her husband which we get to hear in her solos, then what more you need to convince yourself.
Else Akshara is still at immature phase, learning , that defines she will flip on her words like: ” You are the Unholy in my life, my biggest mistake” OR “Nothing can change between us.” to Abhimanyu and then marrying him One month later because she was immature one month ago and now she learnt what love is actually.
“If you see Akshara is forcing herself to love ABhinav then you actually cannot see her happiness and the reason behind it. If she forced love then there would be a Awkward angle but makers decided to show it like Akshara really started accepting Abhinav as her husband with whole heart and so now Awkwardness in Akshara’s face before she gives hugs and pecks to Abhinav” –
For 6 years nothing stopped her from being happy! And only with the appearance of Abhimanyu in her field of vision, she woke up and began to look for happiness… in the wrong direction, the gods did not want this and did not allow it!
@pavi. I’m just asking you all over and over again – what were the clock episodes for?
What did you understand from what the creators wanted to say?
This is the story of Akshara and Abhimanyu, cameos like Maya, Abhinav come and go, but our main characters keep returning to the same point and until they solve the problem, they cannot move forward!
That clock was broken like any other house’s clock can be. But the metaphor was that Akshara was unable to move on and then she decided to move on. You are right when you suspect that why Akshara got motivated to move on only after she met Abhi after so long.
So i tell you with my personal experience, many times you forget to show gratitude, to live in your present, but then this doesnot go for throughout the life. There will be a day you get a realisation. The cause can be anything. It can be reverse Psychology too. Akshara’s case is Reverse Psychology. She was immature, you know. She was confused that she had breakup with Abhimanyu and so what next? When Abhi show up, her trauma, fear, anger , all came out and Abhimanyu presence played the reverse Psychology role. Now you maybe telling that Oh so she started loving Abhinav then to show Abhimanyu that she moved on. Well i too felt in one episode but then i saw she was genuinely moving on. With that emotional push from Abhimanyu’s reEntry, Akshara fixed the clock and decided to Start living with the present and once she started, she began to understand Abhinav’s Love , and after some scenes, able to Reciprocate also. It was ease for her . No Awkwardness, no difficulty to accept her New Husband anymore.
Even if JS’s role is a Cameo, but Abhinav’s role made a huge impact and became centre of talks, became the love of FL. So the character is very important like Arohi. And there is no official Stereotype or rule that ML and Fl need to be a pair and it will be the right pair. I dont care what they show , but i care when i comment to you that “Makers often portray wrong messages and Its our responsibility not to get Brainwashed from that. We have Rational thinking, we can think and decide right or Wrong .
Here Wrong will be when Akshara flips on what she Stated. Like She considers Marrying Abhimanyu as biggest mistake and then marries him?
About Tilak scene, i dont think i need to explain. Its simply Abhimanyu wasnt ready to Accept Arohi and hoping to see some reactions of Akshara to deduce that if she still loves him or not. Akshara was reluctant at the beginning because she will be meeting those who ousted here, and Its her Ex whom she cant stand. But then she realises that it doesn’t matters to her now.
If Abhinav was still alive and continue to be the same Family Man, then do you think Akshara would leave him for Abhi? Ask Anyone. Ask Abhira Fans to tell Honestly.
By the way you tell what you think about the clock scene which you have been asking to others
@IrCy
That clock was broken like any other house’s clock can be. But the metaphor was that Akshara was unable to move on and then she decided to move on. You are right when you suspect that why Akshara got motivated to move on only after she met Abhi after so long.
So i tell you with my personal experience, many times you forget to show gratitude, to live in your present, but then this doesnot go for throughout the life. There will be a day you get a realisation. The cause can be anything. It can be reverse Psychology too. Akshara’s case is Reverse Psychology. She was immature, you know. She was confused that she had breakup with Abhimanyu and so what next? When Abhi show up, her trauma, fear, anger , all came out and Abhimanyu presence played the reverse Psychology role. Now you maybe telling that Oh so she started loving Abhinav then to show Abhimanyu that she moved on. Well i too felt in one episode but then i saw she was genuinely moving on. With that emotional push from Abhimanyu’s reEntry, Akshara fixed the clock and decided to Start living with the present and once she started, she began to understand Abhinav’s Love , and after some scenes, able to Reciprocate also. It was ease for her . No Awkwardness, no difficulty to accept her New Husband anymore.
Even if JS’s role is a Cameo, but Abhinav’s role made a huge impact and became centre of talks, became the love of FL. So the character is very important like Arohi. And there is no official Stereotype or rule that ML and Fl need to be a pair and it will be the right pair. I dont care what they show , but i care when i comment to you that “Makers often portray wrong messages and Its our responsibility not to get Brainwashed from that. We have Rational thinking, we can think and decide right or Wrong .
Here Wrong will be when Akshara flips on what she Stated. Like She considers Marrying Abhimanyu as biggest mistake and then marries him?
About Tilak scene, i dont think i need to explain. Its simply Abhimanyu wasnt ready to Accept Arohi and hoping to see some reactions of Akshara to deduce that if she still loves him or not. Akshara was reluctant at the beginning because she will be meeting those who ousted here, and Its her Ex whom she cant stand. But then she realises that it doesn’t matters to her now.
If Abhinav was still alive and continue to be the same Family Man, then do you think Akshara would leave him for Abhi? Ask Anyone. Ask Abhira Fans to tell Honestly.
By the way you tell what you think about the clock scene which you have been asking to others
“Abhi comes to the same shop and asks for cuckoo clock. Abhi sees the clock and asks the man to pack it well. He pays the money. The man asks shall I show something for your wife. Abhi says no thanks. The man shows the special cuckoo clock. He says musical alarm rings at 11.11, we believe that its shagun for lovers. Abhi says not interested. He sees Akshu there.”
The man said everything – it was a magical time for our lovers, a time to change.
The love story of our couple begins with an immature relationship, which is why everything was shown so childishly naive and youthfully passionate (here people call it edible romance). Yes, it was deliberately pronounced.
Now the time has come to change, our heroes have grown up, both have experienced a lot of grief, and have changed.
We were specifically shown almost zero feelings in the couple in order to visualize now a new love, mature, complete and conscious.
And so I think that the creators are conducting a small social experiment – there are no bad, no good, just different circumstances and different reactions of the characters.
They also put one character in one dialogue, but in reality everything is a little different. So some of the viewers perceive visually, while others have auditory perception.
I love this show, I’m a designer and I like everything beautiful and unusual.
I don’t take the show so seriously that I get nervous and argue and get angry. It’s just a fairy tale.
I like the couple Pranali and Abhimanyu, I understand that if this show is closed, then we will not see them on screen together again, so I want this show to continue long and slowly, as it is now! And I enjoy what I see!
*I like the couple Pranali and Harshad
@IrCy. I am able to understand where you come from and what perceptions you carry and Someone will be lying if they are Saying Harshad Chopda is not Hot and Handsome. He is eye pleasing. But the things you are expecting is hard to happen because If they follow the trend that ML and FL will always ends up together even if its a cheating, illegal , or Regressive. Then they will be next following the trend of Separation too because you know Akshara’s Another child yet to come . But Will you be able to digest that what you thought that The 1st and 2nd marriage failed not because they are disaster pair but they were immature and so 3rd marriage, this time it will not fail. We all see and now Learnt that they will degrade ML or FL and separate on silly reasons and again reunite but will never agree that the Failure is not due to Foolishness and Anger issues but they are incompatible with each other and so their relationship breaks easily .
In Marriage, Physical Attraction lasts for how long? 10yrs or 20yrs max(Exceptions are there) but in general, the only thing left is Companionship, Friendship. Which Abhinav proved best at it till he was alive and so how they lived together for 6 years. There are many serials with this plot and the ML is like Nav only. Slow Burn Romance and then the FL’s ex comes and creates problems. The true lover, the deserving Husband remains Nav , by legal,ethical means and moral means
Ya i know here ML is Harshad but I am talking about Correct and Incorrect here.
Abhira is a mismatched pair which cannot sustain for long , no matter how much they express their love to world, they will breakup very easily.
“Marriage, Physical Attraction lasts for how long? 10yrs or 20yrs max(Exceptions are there) but in general, the only thing left is Companionship, Friendship” – this is suitable for arranged marriages or friendship marriages (like Akshar and Nav might have been) but for a relationship with true love there is no limit, believe me I know what I am talking about.
” I am able to understand where you come from and what perceptions you carry” – I don’t think you’ll easily guess, I’m a complex character, from two nations, not common for your company here.
It just so happens that I have been watching Indian cinema since childhood, I grew up watching it, I am grateful to it for showing the traditions of the people, showing religion and the relationship between man and God.
” The true lover, the deserving Husband remains Nav , by legal,ethical means and moral means” – Oh yes, people believe because it was written to them! I already wrote, but I can repeat it – Nav is only shown like this and for Akshara he is exactly like that! But for me no! He also shouted at Akshara in critical situations, yes, then immediately apologized, just like Abhimanyu today. He lied many times – to his son, to his wife’s family! He lied under oath in court! Participated in forgery! He lied to his friend, lusted after his friend’s ex-wife. He is an insecure person with his own complexes!
Very often there was a feeling that he was just another son of Akshara!
He saw Akshara’s love for Abhimanyu and he himself said this in the dialogue, but nevertheless he continued his desire to become a full-fledged husband, and for this he paid in the end….
Therefore – there are no good and bad here – everyone is bad and everyone is good, including children! Perfect!
@IrCy you understand Science right? True Love definition varies from person to person but here i am talking about the hormones. The s*x drives diminishes from age of 30 becomes very low after 40 and after 50 its neglegible amount. This drive is cause of Physical Attraction and thats why i said that it lasts for 10yr or 20yr max. Then your body doesnt demand much for Physical satisfaction, all you need is support, affection, Companionship, Care and time from the partner. That only matters.
Akshara is still in her young phase, She and Abhinav were gradually going like 1st base then 2nd base and then third base. We have seen they reached 1st base. But the death didnt let us see gimpleses of them reaching the 3rd phase.
But then again I dont think AKshara was faking. She really moved on. But maybe future episodes will confirm that. She will herself confirm what is the truth. Did she ever actually move on or pretended to be, Adjusting with Nav always.
@Rr
No. Manyu didn’t presign the divorce papers. He signed it on the d-day itself.
@surabhi the only true feminist in the whole world I mean in the entire planet who is calling others fake feminist should demand to shut down this shitty shows as it is not showing any good thing for women.
This is the first show people hate both lead characters. just for an awards show they destroy the whole show. Both leads look characterless. i personally don’t think dkp don’t want to reunion, if they wanted to reunion they take 1 or 2 years leap but they take just one month leap why? same when sirat first husband died they take 1 year leap. they know it, if they take a reunion the audience never accepts them. And generation leap coming in October
@pooja were not kartik naira characterless when kartik was married to vedika?
Werent sai virat characterless for dying together when both were married to someone else?
Wasn’t prerna characterless for sometimes being with anurag nd sometimes with bajaj?
Atleast here akshu is a widow now nd can remarry whoever she wants to..
@pihu neither I am against men nor women.. Abhimanyu has his share of faults nd so does akshu..
Kartik was negative with Vedika . They were no more close friends as they claimed. But yes he moved on and loved Sirat because Naira’s soul came and requested him to move on again and again . I am not judging but this is how makers potrayed that he is not a traitor.
Sirat was behaving characterless when she wanted both Ranveer and Kartik as she loved both.
Virat always Characterless. Ask Anyone. Sai did characterless job when she started flipping on her words and fall for Virat. She should have divorced Satya first.
But here Akshara accepted and started loving Abhinav and still now loves him. This is a different case. If she now flips on her words : “I will choose Abhinav 100 times over Abhimanyu” , etc. Which we dont want her to become Flipper No.1.
@surabhi why you are calling others fake feminist as you are true feminist standing only for feminism, watching this show for only feminism
I advice any Nav Stan here to ignore and not exchange words with the Abhira Stans who glorify poisonous relationships over healthy ones
Just watch the show and let’s dissect amongst ourselves who possesses brains intellect and understand what healthy relationships are about.As the saying goes ” never argue with a fool,he will wrestle you to the ground and beat you down with experience” Abhirans are lovers of trauma-filled relationships. I won’t he surprised if some of them are being abused by their men IRL or perhaps they grew up in such households.
I have learnt not to argue with anyone who is in such a predicament. They are no less ill than people suffering from cocaine addictions or people who are locked away in psych wards. They will defend any and every actions of such men as “love” and “belonging together”
Dear Nav Stan, these Abhirans have no conceptualisation of what true love and healthy relationship are like. All they’ve ever known and experienced is trauma,pain and tactical manipulation packaged by their abusive boyfriends/husband as ASLI PYAAARRR.😄
I Don’t blame production houses for these series anymore,they know their audiences collective I.Q points don’t even round up to 10 most times. They know they glorify harsh treatment by men as love. That’s why things like AbhiRa exist because with the exception of a few smart women like @Jade @Gayu @ Vijaya and a man like @Mark, the majority of watchers are BORN FOOLS who will accept anything portrayed on screen as ASLI PYAAARR
No one who has ever witnessed real love,affection, respect and honour from a man will EVER EVER think a coupling like AbhiRa is ideal for anything. It makes me sad for them because I know they are the type of women to accept bare minimum treatment as amazing. So sad honestly
so even if you give them an angelic man like Nav on screen as the ideal husband, they will REJECT it with all their hearts because their brains have been rewired to accept ill treatment as love and much like their favourite heroine who is appropriately labelled “DUMBshara”, they are all victims of their own mental imprisonment, all of them can never tell apart a diamond from glass because all they’ve ever known is to glorify maltreatment packaged as ASLI PYAAARRR. so let them celebrate their favourite Jodi’s reunion
I was for NavRa before but seeing as one of the Abirans said “she was only frozen with Nav, and now that she’s realising her feelings, she’s back to square one” proves all we have been saying about her all along. She never “matured” she just froze and now her favourite Dr. murderer has come to revive her, she’s thesame idiot she was 6 years back.
@Vaijyanti
Completely agree 👏
“It makes me sad for them because I know they are the type of women to accept bare minimum treatment as amazing. ” True 💯
@Vaijyanthi thanks to support my comment as mature viewer,we don’t need drain our energy levels coz of worthless arguments , let them talk what ever 😆
@surabhi Karthik or naira are not characterless because they love each other and when Karthik wed vedika he didn’t know naira was alive, how can Karthik be characterless? and about Sai and Virat they are also characterless and about prerana she loves only anurag not Bajaj and about your so called toxicmanyu he is engaged with aarohi and still he runs behind abhinav’s widow plus proposing married women and asking abhinav give your wife so tell this your toxicmanyu and about akshu if she goes back his ex husband who threw her like garbage, she lost her self respect.
@IrCy
“what did the makers want to show in the story in the watch shop and Akshara’s tilak for Aroha and then the watch in Abhimanyu’s room?” Please elaborate what happened in those scenes.
Episode 406-407 and episode 446.
In any case, for me this is a fairy tale and these moments just fit into my fairy tale theory, I don’t understand why people reject the idea of the creators…..
If I’m not mistaken, this was at the end of the January 21 episode and at the beginning of the January 22 episode. Then it was at the end of the episode on March 2 when Abi returns after tilak to his room around 18 minutes into the episode.
@Ircy thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️
💅💅💅💅 I just watched on YouTube now. Bcs until evening time before Statplus will show it in my country. Wow the performance is good. Though Abhir singing is not top notch but the dancing pattern is nice
I keep on developing more love for Ruhi. She truly loves her poppy and develop interest in any thing he’s doing.
Look at the two mothers. Who can tell me there’s no love peace and tranquility in the @Mark you are sounding selfish to me. You have always written that you care for women. But today you are saying it’s not about widows performing rituals. Why are you so obsessed with Akshara not going back to Manyu. Are you saying a couple that got divorce cannot come back . Is it a taboo. So, the too made mistakes and if they want to both rectify it and come back, no law on earth can hold them
When we call these actors and actresses names, the things the producers have not planned or shown, it goes a long way to tell about our own personalities. And how we generally view life
Even the teeth and tongue fights. Are we talking so that the serial will go the way we want or the real realities of life