Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai 5th June 2023 Written Episode, Written Update on TellyUpdates.com
The Episode starts with Akshu asking Abhir why did you come back. Abhir says I forgot my water bottle, why are you fighting. She gives the bottle. She says it was just an argument in a silly matter, go now. Abhir leaves. Kairav packs his bags. He recalls Muskaan’s words. Dadi comes to him and cries. Manish comes to meet Muskaan. Surekha stops Dadi. Manish tells Muskaan about Anisha. He says Abhi’s entire family accused Kairav, Akshu took him to Mauritius, they stayed there for a year, but he couldn’t move on, he forgot to smile and live his life, then you came in his life. Dadi says Surekha, I have to stop Kairav. Surekha says let him go, he is going away from Muskaan and pain, do you want him to stay in pain here, he will be fine abroad. Manish says he started going to office, speaking to Akshu, and hugged Abhir and Abhinav, you taught him to live and then you told your feelings, he got scared and he felt happiness will go away, so he reacted like that, I told this so that you know everything and take a decision, take care. He goes.
Abhi checks the car engine. He sees Abhinav washing his car. Abhi struggles in fixing the fault. Abhinav comes to help. He asks how did this happen. Abhi says it’s a machine, we don’t know what will happen and when. Abhinav says human is also a machine, I didn’t know when I reacted like that. He says its done. Muskaan says Kairav loved Anisha, who am I then. Akshu says we can’t compare second chances with first, you are new on this path so you are scared, Kairav knows it well. She advises Muskaan. Muskaan says you also gave a second chance to love, are you happy with your decision, and didn’t find it a compromise. Akshu sees Abhi and Abhinav washing the car. She says it was my life’s best decision to start a reason, Abhinav and I are complete, its not a compromise, I trust him, I m happy, ask your heart, if you trust your love, then just go for it, I trust you, you will take the wrong decision. She sees Abhinav and says sorry, I know you aren’t happy with Kairav and Muskaan’s love, you will soon trust them. Kairav meets the family. Manish hugs him and asks him not to go. Kairav says you are the best, it will be right for Muskaan and me if I leave. Muskaan looks on and thinks of Akshu’s words. Kairav sees her and smiles. He stops and thinks you have come here, but you have to take courage to stop me, I have to know if you love me or not. He sits in the car. The car doesn’t start. Kairav thinks just take two steps towards me, then I will walk with you all my life. He leaves.
Kairav comes to meet Akshu. She asks him to say something. He recalls Muskaan shouting and running after the car. She stops the car. She cries and says my answer is yes. Kairav and everyone get happy. Manish says I m very happy to see you, you both stay happy. He blesses them. Kairav shows the paper ring and makes Muskaan wear it. She asks if her family doesn’t agree. Dadi says this isn’t right, Manish. She goes. Kairav asks why did she say this. Surekha says you should have asked Dadi before, she doesn’t accept this relation. FB ends. Kairav says Muskaan said yes, but… Muskaan says we can’t go ahead without elders’ blessings. Manish says we have to convince Dadi. Kairav says I came here to convince Neela and Abhinav, you have to help me. Manish says I will help you. Akshu says we will do this together, Dadi has to agree, and Abhinav and Neela also, I will get Muskaan and you married. He smiles.
Precap:
Kairav says Muskaan agreed. Abhinav says I don’t accept this relation. Akshu argues with Abhinav. Abhi says he will know Kairav well, I don’t want my loved one to undergo the same pain of losing love.
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Abhinav is right that Kaurav and Muskaan are not fit for each other.
Muskaan is a baby girl.
Oh I forgot they are From Rajasthan.
Why he is not fit for muskan?
Argument between Abhinav and Abhimanyu got sorted. Muskaan – Kairav going ahead. Somehow finding story execution flat. Yesterday’s episode was an exception and hope for more episodes like that.
@Happy
Was it, really?
@ Mark
I enjoyed seeing the clash of Abhinav and Abhimanyu as regards second chances. Many points were made by both sides, something to think about. I didn’t expect Abhinav to stand firm, I thought he will just politely end the conversation.
How are you finding the recent episodes of this show overall?
@Happy
The recent episodes mean to disarm Akshu of prior anger, resentment towards Manyu. I dont see development to Navra because of Abhirs illness, Akshu exam, intruded space, pending decision regarding Abhir.e.t.c.
Atleast now Akshu can speak to Manyu without malice in her voice. This was the goal of the threesome. The episodes are dragging and the reason being possible Abhira reunion or pleasing both Abhira and Navra fans so as to maintain trp.
By the end of the month, Abhira can be friends. The atmosphere warrants that.
@Happy.
I have to agree with your observation. After the very high levels of yesterday, maintaining those would have been something special. But we hope the levels remain high. Although this one builds up towards something. The proposal hasn’t been accepted by Mimi Suhasini. The approval of Abhinav and Neela Aama is somehow needed and the argument seemed to flatline as soon as Abhir entered the scene, infact it died out. I like Abhinav’s character he realised that he was so fiesty and made up with Abhimanyu helping him. Akshara saw that and so loved it. He isn’t a complex personality. Convincing him would not be so hard, but Akshara and Kairav have to be sensitive to the unexpressed feelings. The man has boatloads of self-respect and he would strive to protect the family’s honour. Any slight will be dangerous. But I just see more family drama maybe after the approval, with Suhasini and Surekha, I can’t foresee much tension, maybe the one between Akshara and Abhinav that expedites the approval.
@ Mark
I agree with your observations. The show is heading towards AbhiRa reunion or friendship atleast.
IMO, from March, both AbhiRa and NavRa fans are being pleased and this can’t continue for much longer.
Yes, TRPs are important. I think this week’s TRPs will be eye opening as the focus was more on AbhiRa in Kasauli with an improved Abhimanyu. How much these changes have been accepted by the audience will be known then.
@ Francis
You are right. Maintaining those high levels would be something special. Unrealistic expectations from my side to be honest as it is a daily show, not a finite series where the story can be tight and the pacing fast.
The writers have managed to surprise me with Mimi’s resistance.
Yes, I agree that Abhinav has to be explained about this alliance sensitively. He is super protective of his family and is prone to becoming stubborn and losing his inherent calm when it comes to them.
Maybe, Akshara and Muskaan will explain about Kairav’s past to him and he will understand Kairav better just like Muskaan did today. This could lead to him approving Kairav as a worthy match for Muskaan.
@Happy.
So true. Serials are trying to engage their audiences with the longer format. I don’t know how long serials will be in vogue. At some point in time, the shorter series format will be the main format because the giant Hollywood PHs and distributors will favour this and some of them have large businesses in India. Although serials will go on for as long as possible.
Yes I noticed as well. Mimi’s resistance is a new direction to take the story as that now has to be resolved. Just as the fissure between Akshara and Abhimanyu looked to be mending, they are trying to look for new pathways or conflicts as those are what drive the storytelling. The pre-eminence of the Kairav-Muskaan story is now dawning on me as another nexus event. The families are likely to gather for the wedding and big blasts are normally reserved for those sorts of gatherings. They haven’t maybe figured out how to move the Akshara story forward and they are taking their time for that. So the Kairav and Muskaan love story and eventual wedding will now bring the families together and then the wedding anniversary of Akshara and Abhinav is a future event as well.
Abhinav is sensitive and protective of his family. Akshara knows this well. I agree here. They might convince him about it. He would see reasons with their possible explanation. There might be filler episodes where the events are dragged out a bit just like those around the surgery to extend the story. It may be quite annoying to some to see the Abhinav and Akshara argument dragged out over days.
@ Francis
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Nav is being unreasonable and prematurely judging Kai. If its about Surekha, which family doesnt have a surekha in it? Atleast he knows in Goenkas there is only one surekha. Before judging a person, atleast hear him out first.
Till now, Suhasini has not clearly said her reason against. But i am betting my money on how Anisha incident didnt spare Akshus marriage to be the reason for the open or up-front opposition.
Loved Manav bonding. Glad to see finally Manyu is not chasing after Aksh but pursuing Nav instead. This frightens me as the spoiler of Nav asking Manyu to take his unborn child responsibility may come true.
Exactly.. Every family has one surekha atleast who loves drama.. Better thn birla family where there is one manjri and one mahima😂 even I am not getting what abhinav wants to say.. Nd what is kairav’s fault yaar? He is unnecessarily judging him
@Surabhi Akshara certainly never really talked about his brother to Abhinav, Abhinav saw an undecided Kairav a man who can change his mind as fast as his shirt. Abhinav just can’t trust Kairav as they don’t really know each other. he is not going to entrust his sister to him just because Akshara says he is a good guy, he witnessed something else a Kairav who was ambiguous and led to a misunderstanding about his sister in front of his in-laws,
her sister ended up being belittled. A relationship that starts with a misunderstanding usually ends up spawning more misunderstandings because there is no understanding between the two yet, just a passionate love between a too-young girl and an older man. Kairav will have to convince Abhinav, he is in his right as a brother to have doubts, he can’t consider Muskaan’s choice when she was already wrong once. Muskaan is too young and as the eldest he needs to be reassured that he is making the right decision for his sister, he needs to be sure that she will be accepted by Goenka and that Kairav will not disappoint her anymore.
@ Mark
I think the viewers will get to see why Abhinav is so opposed to Kairav in tomorrow’s episode as he will confide in Akshara for sure. Yesterday, he got diverted with the second chances argument.
I like this quality of Abhinav very much of not being able to resist helping anyone in trouble. He reached out to Abhimanyu and accepted that he went overboard as well. Abhinav acknowledges his mistakes and maybe that will happen in case of Kairav too.
I feel viewers have really connected with Abhinav and his character will continue on the show.
@Happy
We will know more about Nav real issue tomorrow.
@Happy
I dont know what he was apologizing for. Was he apologizing for indirectly saying about Manyus position or as he argued or about Kai.
@Mark MaNav 😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@Mark.
It’s my belief that Abhinav isn’t comfortable with the family after seeing Surekha and how she was building a case against the relationship. His reasoning isn’t baseless as I had previously thought. Kairav would have to reassure him that he would protect Muskaan from any troubles within the family. One thing that the Goenkas and the Birlas know is that Abhinav wouldn’t let Akshara get mistreated anywhere and that was as clear as day to everyone. Similar level of convincing is what the elders want to hear.
Yes I agree with you that Suhasini doesn’t want anything to trouble Akshara’s marriage the second time, she’s worried about something. She’s now distant from Muskaan maybe the love confession wasn’t to her liking and this is understandable if related to the times she would have lived. I think Manish will convince her.
Yes those two have an understanding and Akshara is increasing in her understanding of Abhimanyu which bodes well for Abhir and the custody case. Once the full understanding is attained, then the tension would reduce, although the makers have their way over all these.
@ Mark
Just a guess, it is for arguing. Precap suggests that Abhinav isn’t on board with Kairav yet, so he won’t apologise for that yet.
I think whatever Abhinav spoke was his belief regarding second chances as Abhimanyu started stating his beliefs. I don’t think Abhinav meant to refer to Abhimanyu at all but coincidentally it happened.
Abhinav didn’t go to apologise to Abhimanyu but when he went to help Abhimanyu, maybe he sensed that Abhimanyu was hurt with his words and realised that he went overboard.
@Francis
I believe that Akshara should have never hidden about Abhir knowing the truth about presence of another dad. The reason being, Nav is a grown ass man. She should trust that he can handle his shit.
I also, dont like when Akshara sacrifices herself, her relation for someones relation i.e. Muskai.
But also, i hate how Nav thinks he can deniy Muskai relation for anyreason. I mean if its about Surekha, why dont he trust that Mus can handle Surekha. Same theory used to Akshu can be used to Nav that Muskaan is a grown ass woman and sometimes its better to leave grown people to handle their own decision and shit. I believe Mus wanted their blessings out of respect. Otherwise, at first sign of opposition they would have forgo the marriage decision. All Nav had to do is speak freely and give them time to think over. But him denying is like he is making decisions on Mus behalf which is like taking her freedom and there is nothing i detest than someone holding the key to freedom. In my life, if i was in Mus position, or any other person position, informing elders will just be a courtesy which they got to say yes regardless of their opinions.
If i was Mus i would have felt caged and strangled if any of my decision is not accepted by someone who knows nothing about being me. If someone is not happy with something, express yourself and back the f**k up.
*….back the f**k off.
@Mark.
I agree with you. It’s basically the same argument for both the Sharmas. They both are making decisions on someone else’s life and that too without giving enough consideration to the maturity of the person who is affected and concerned. They think that they are doing it in the best interest of the other so this already has the unwanted idealistic baggage that most discerning adults do not like to see. Akshara is likely to do more to test Abhinav’s patience. She really doesn’t have to extend herself and save Kairav’s and Muskaan’s relationship. There are Bade Papa and Badi Mama who can do their bit without losing a lot. Akshara has just found happiness and completeness in her marriage so why sacrifice that for these kinds. Kairav anyways is a businessman and he has the mettle to fight for his love. I foresaw this. When Abhinav had started expressing his displeasure after the Muskaan’s exhibition at the Goenkas, Kairav should have gone early to make the peace. That’s how men behave. They don’t allow the situation to rot. This guy allowed Abhinav to return to Kasauli and now he is seeking his sister’s help to talk to him. This is how to become a clown without doing anything.
Abhinav is also upset since that day and Akshara felt it but now as Kairav’s interests are at stake she’s taking it more important. If Kairav had communicated on time Abhinav would have been pacified by now. He isn’t so difficult. Now it is high stakes and Akshara might lose a lot if it all goes wrong. Kairav should have been mindful of this. The sister has found happiness after a long time. This applies too to Muskaan, she can convince her brother that Kairav is the right man. She doesn’t need to dawdle on the matter as though she was not able to do it. Now when things go wrong Akshara will be at fault. Sometimes she goes at full blast in her expeditions to save the world from its ills. Abhinav is about to get homeschooled on this aspect of Akshara.
do not judge Abhinav this time, Goenka is complicated and he himself almost had a nervous breakdown alongside the two families.
Coz he married a woman who herself is a mess
@Surabhi, true 🤣🤣🤣.
I am not surprised with the abhinav’s behaviour towards kairav. He is right. Abhinav knows kairav is a good person n he respects kairav. But he cannot trust kairav on the matter of muskan n kairav relationship. Its bcz of kairav’s angry man nature abhinav has seen till now. Kairav in his angry mood does not think properly and reacts quickly. He is more like abhi the only difference is kairav isn’t getting manipulated by any one like abhi by his mother. But they both when in anger do not think n do any thing that come to their minds. Else they bothare not bad. And abhinav since the day 1 has seen this quick tempered man who try to solve things in anger. And he has seen how kirav solved his n muskaan issue though it was a misunderstanding. Abhinav doesn’t know kairavs history n why he has become like now n akshara hasn’t told him completely about any one either goenkas or birlas. Yet ahinav is not at fault in not trusting kairav. Bcz being a brother he wants to protect his sister n may be indirectlt he doesn’t want to see another akshara n abhi in muskaan n kairav. And it is only kairav n muskaan responsibility to win abhinav’s trust no third person can do that.
But akshara might do that 🙄 forming a crack in navra n showing a step forward in abhira😏😏😏😏. I feel that abhinav after learning that akshara n abhi both hid the fact abhir is aware of the truth from him, will get disappointed n that too can make a blast that might happen in navra anniversary😣😣😣😣.
@🙂, true, Abhimanyu and Kairav look alike and Abhinav witnessed this resemblance, Akshara and Abhimanyu’s relationship is an example of character differences in a couple
and the havoc it can wreak. Muskaan and a bit like Akshara and Kairav like Abhimanyu. Abhimanyu and kairav are not bad people but they react quickly to the stupidity of others, if Muskaan becomes a savior like Akshara, or behaves in an imature way Kairav is not going to spare Muskaan. you are right when Abhinav goes to learn that Akshara and Abhimanyu hid from him that Abhir is now aware that he is not his father, he will not take it well.
@ 🙂
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@Surabhi, true 😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂Abhi is showing attitude towards nav being the person who interfered unnecessarily in to some other’s family matter😂🤭🤭🤭🤭. Any ways good to see they both patched up😌.
@ Hi
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Kairav was not wrong in being honest when he told in front of everybody that he don’t love Muskaan coz he was just being honest as he has yet to realise his love for Muskaan, it’s better to clarified right there than to have further misunderstanding right? But Abhinav started to see n reacted to him differently, as if Kairav has cheated Muskaan? With his attitude n perception from that view ofc he will definitely opposed to this relationship, it’s more of respect of his sister than opposing bcoz they are not compatible. This is my POV🥰
@PO.
True he didn’t realise that he loved Muskaan then, but he had a soft spot for her, I mean he instinctively puts his hands between drawers to protect her, extends his hand to prevent her falling off the ghat into the water during Gangaur. Yes he didn’t want a misunderstanding, but the feelings were there.
You are right, it’s more about Abhinav protecting the honour of his only sister, everyone knows how he loves his family. So Kairav would have to be as supportive as possible to Muskaan. This would help convince Abhinav that he and Muskaan are a right match.
Seeing the past family history marrying within families has never bode well for anyone. As one relationship affect all the others. Since the time Naira came their have been many issues that affected all the in laws same with akshara Arohi kairan Anisha abhimanyu neil these relationships strained others to the point of breaking so being cautious about repeating same pattern with new son in laws family is really not surprising especially NavRa relationship as it is very much still platonic and Mimi is well aware of lingering love still exists in Abhira pair so if for any reason abhira are united then that will be disastrous for muskaan and kairav as being his sister she may very well be angry with akshara for her brothers pain.
It’s clear that Akshara has spoken what’s on her mind with Abhinav, twice now with the phone call to Kairav and now with the phone call to Muskaan. While it is already established that Akshara tells loads of lies, a don’t think that she is well served lying on the topic of love to those two. She would bare her heart to them because they are her confidants. She trusts them a lot, of course after Abhinav, who she trusts the most. She is happy with Abhinav, as heard straight from the grapevine.
Abhinav doesn’t allow the arguments to fester except the once after the Sharmas returned to Kasauli for the first time. Then Akshara summoned all the courage to hold on to him and not let him drift away. The way he settled with Abhimanyu was admirable. There wasn’t any need to allow the differences to grow. When Akshara saw it she was happy. She loves this nature of his. However keeping the Abhir’s knowledge that Abhinav isn’t his father from Abhinav is risky as the man may take it in a different way. However if she is fighting so hard to protect Abhinav’s and Abhir’s relationship, then there must be a reason for that.
I think that Abhir has questions in his mind bothering him. These questions may travel to Abhinav soon and then the Sharma family would have a lot to deal with afterwards. Abhir wasn’t convinced by Akshara’s explanation when he found them arguing, but he tried to get along with what he was given. Abhinav also feels that something is happening but he isn’t sure. When he finds out, Akshara will pull out all the stops in pacifying him. That will reveal a lot that hasn’t been said before.
@Francis, yes Abhir was unconvinced. And, yes, Akshara’s decision to put off to another day the answer to who is the biological day, could threaten her future happiness with her son. Abhimanyu would at some point return to his life in Udaipur and Abhir could focus on all the years of a lost father, son relationship due to his mother not telling the truth sooner. Much the same as Neil’s complaint to Manjiri for hiding the truth about Harsh being his real father.
@Rai.
So true. These themes recur as the fates align sometimes those involved like Akshara would have seen firsthand the story but maybe weren’t paying attention enough and the whole story repeats. Akshara is allowing the events to pile up against each other and soon those will threaten the happiness of her family. So typical. She means well but makes a mess of the things that could be handled more clearly.
@Francis
What i see, the only advantage of withholding Abhirs awareness of Nav not being his father, is to safeguard the change that Abhir may notice fron Nav, if Nav would have known.
@Mark.
Well said, Abhinav isn’t going to change if he knows about Abhir. Akshara has an unexplained fear of losing Abhinav. There may be more to this. She wants to protect Abhinav and that idea is now obvious to Abhimanyu. She can’t see any heartbreak on Abhinav she won’t be able to tolerate it. However Abhinav isn’t her son so keeping this information from him might be disruptive. She needs to balance her emotions with what Abhinav deserves to know as Abhir’s father.
as a man and a brother, Kairav has his sisters best interests at heart and is never shy to voice his displeasure if he deems it is for their good then he should understand Abhinav’s point of view
@@yeol.
So true. Kairav would have to be patient here. Most proposals in families are accepted by the male head or the elders. He will need to heed Akshara’s advice and allow her time to do the convincing so that Abhinav comes on board with the proposal. Now convincing Neela Ama is more difficult because Kairav instinctively broke her previous proposal and that would be at the back of Neela’s mind.
Kairav is now seeing the table from the other end as before he was on one end. I agree with you here.
@ Surabi, I agree with you Akshara is a mess. She don’t actually know what she wants. Yes, she’s living with Abhinav for now. She’s is being grateful for his help on her when in distress.
Akshara though is the architect of her own problems but she’s playing victim. She doesn’t love Abhinav. No attraction at all But when asked today whether giving chance to Abhinav is a compromise. She said it’s not a compromise that she truly trust him. Did she mention love, no.
Had it being that when Akshara came back, Arohi is not by the side, waiting to be married to Abhimanyu, it would have been a different ball game. I believe she is hiding her love for Abhimanyu bcs of Arohi.
But she is selfishly tying down Abhinav. Bcs this going no where
Although, Abhinav is a good man , and he wants to be paid with love for his 6 years help and services rendered
This is not a compromise relationship, the best decision I made was to take a second chance at a relationship with Abhinav, Akshara tells Muskaan. We complete each other, she says, trying to persuade Muskaan that Kairav’s affections are geninue and not an act of desperation. This is a change in Akshara, for the first time, she declares the man and not his role as her child’s father holds greater meaning. But here she goes again, taking a stand against her man and this time as defender of the Kairav, Muskaan romance. She can’t resist a rescue mission. Hopefully, the second timer’s insights into the pitfalls not known to those seduced by the fairy tale of first time romance, she now possesses, saves this marriage from the same fate that befell her fairy tale union with Abhimanyu. The same brother Kairav was once on course to marry Abhimanyu’s cousin and Akshara again mounted a rescue mission to save Kairav, which then whipped up a tornado that blew Abhi and Akshu apart and the Goenkas and Birla families. If all works well this time, good. If not then these words from Paulo Coelho open the mind:
‘When you repeat a mistake, it is not a mistake anymore: it’s a decision.’
@Rai.
I couldn’t agree more. This is just classic Akshara dabbling with the serious matters and sauntering toward the inherent dangers. She just can’t help being drawn to the rescue mission, as you so aptly put it. She builds this imaginary quest in her mind and takes off with the jetpacks never looking back to see that the ones around her might get hurt. There are inevitable fireworks in this because she will test the limits of Abhinav’s feelings by going against him. She knows Abhinav so well and yet she is adding to the treasure trove of secrets and is likely to propel this Kairav and Muskaan love story, using her jetpacks, to be certain, behind his back. The back story looks eerily similar. I hope that she is more mature to not repeat the same mistakes she made. As now she is Abhir’s mother as well. So more people would suffer if this plan of hers intensifies into something quixotic.
@Rai I didn’t even bother to comment on Akshara because I didn’t feel like debating his lack of wisdom you said it all and very clearly. I repeat myself but the past exists to learn from it, people should learn from every little mistake that led to disaster. the warning signs are there, a situation far too similar to the one she experienced in past to be ignored or taken lightly, but it still risks creating a mess just for its savior desires. Akshara sows the wind but some will pity her if she reaps the storm, all the others will become watches and some will invent ulterior motives for them to cover her mistakes. The stupidity has no limits when a person does not use his brain to think and does not think to consider the feelings of the person who is his half. She may be able to avoid the storm because Abhinav is not like Kairav and Abhimanyu but she cannot escape the consequences if everything goes sour.
@Francis, love the image your word ‘jetpacks’ evokes of an Akshara with her matronly plait, Kurta, and palazzo pants whizzing through lines of relatives flailing to stay upright, as she passes. She will soon be needing Cupid’s rescue for her relationship.
@Yeol, yes the past is there to learn from if we are willing. But Akshara isn’t interested in the past, unless it is to find fault in Abhimanyu. Otherwise she lives in the here and now, I would say. Hopefully, the power of Cupid’s bow would strike to save her second husband’s love because she is about to greatly test Abhinav’s patience.
@Rai ur right about Akshara isn’t interested in the past! and she lives in the here n now!
@Rai.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. When a home becomes a circus then the jokes are paid for by those who reside there. She would wear one for Kairav and one for Muskaan. Akshara knows who Abhinav is and how important he is to her and to Abhir. She wants to play with the relationships for who Kairav and Muskaan? Good luck with that.
Well she needs something divine to save her from losing everything.
How the he’ll muskan is Abhinav sis.he was orphan than suddenly have sis.just draggyhe story till they get new plot.makers r waiting fr trp aunties, how to proceed with akshara as main lead.so they gave brought this irritating story of kairav .now as ghkkpm is wrapping with Sai n Virat same will happen here also but it will take around 1 or 2 month so makers r closing towards gen 3 ending, maybe sept.
@Xyz thanks so much. I have been wanting to ask this, how is Muskaan Abhinav sister. When we were told from the beginning that Abhinav does not have a family, that’s why she took in Akshu and later Abhir to make a family of them.
We were told they were neighbors. When the hell did they become family.
Or is it neighbor turned family. Like Akshara was turned to fake wife
@Funmi, you understood Akshara very well. And I believe that Muskaan is Abhinav’s heart-sister. Abhinav must have already been living in Kasauli long before he met Akshara, he must have bonded with his neighbors and their ties and become a family tie over time. Abhinav and Muskaan share a brotherly bond that they must have cultivated over time. This is my impression. I validate your com addressed to @Surabi there is a lot of truth in your words.
I don’t understand why everyone says Abhinav wants to be paid with love for his 6 years, he wants passion, physical intimacy for his help etc. It sounds so derogatory for a man such as himself and so against his character. I don’t believe Abhinav WANTS anything from Akshara he has multiple times asked Akshara if she wants to go back and she has refused and accepted him. If he wanted anything for his 6 years he would’ve voiced something earlier. Yes he is in love with Akshara but he’s a simple man. He loves her and is happy with the little moments he gets to spend with her, that’s enough for him. Saying he wants a physical relationship in turn of his help is disgusting, not every man is like that. Anyways now let’s get to todays episode. I wasn’t happy with Akshara. She bluntly states Abhinav will have to listen and takes a decision on boths behalf regarding Muskaan. It’s different if it’s for your child but this is a different scenario. She should have told Kairav that she will talk to Abhinav and try to convince him but simply stating what Abhinav will have to follow is the same toxic trait that Manyu used with Akshara. While Akshara is not as toxic the words scratch the same surface and I didn’t like that today. Also I don’t like her hiding from Abhinav that Abhir knows about the real father thing especially since Manyu knows. I agree she’s trying to not hurt him again but will end up hurting him a lot more if he finds out from someone else. Knowing that your wife is hiding something which her ex knows, your kid knows but not you is sad. Hopefully she’ll be the one to tell him or like someone said it will come out suddenly and when it bursts out so will her emotions and she’ll open what’s all in her heart for everyone to know. Let’s see.
@ Dropofthought
Couldn’t agree more. Akshara has the best of intentions but doesn’t have long term vision to see where all these decisions will lead to. Abhinav may end up with a lot of trust issues and may end up getting more insecure which ironically Akshara is trying to avoid bu hiding and lying.
Some people only want to assume the worst of Abhinav. Reasoning with them is impossible.
@Dropofthought, what’s wrong with a man or even a woman wanting privacy. a simple man you say, even the simplest man in the world wants to feel wanted, wanted and complete with his partner. If Abhinav didn’t want anything from Akshara and his love was platonic, he would never have wanted their relationship to advance to the next stage. There is nothing degrading in being intimate with his or her partner and there is nothing disgusting in wanting it, it is thanks to this act that some know the joys of love and the joys of being able to become parents. to love your partner is to want to belong to him completely and to want to be complete with him, there are things that words cannot say, we cannot express the physical desire we feel it, there are things that only the touch can fulfilling a hug is used to express affection or the need to be reassured, s*x is a way to be sure that our partner desires us and loves us intimacy expresses many emotions that some cannot manage to express or to show such as sweetness, passion, desire and the acceptance of his half. Stop believing that because someone does not express their desire that they have none. Abhinav loves Akshara and he clearly desires a complementary relationship not a relationship that is akin to friendship, with time s*x is not very important but it allows not to have regrets on the way we expressed our love, and also it allows us to make the other understand that we have accepted them body and soul. Love is above all total acceptance. the mind does not have to regret not having been able to give oneself and not having fulfilled its marital obligations towards the person whom one supposedly loved, when one gets old one can then say to oneself without regret that I gave everything by love and made my relationship complete in every sense of the word.
@yeol
What does Nav love about Akshara?
@Yeol, well said. Endorse everything you say here. Abhinav is the one who showed the desire for physical intimacy and it is Akshara who to date has wanted to keep things at a platonic level. For a relationship to be considered at harmony, I expect both partners need to be on the same page. There is much projection of how good the Akshara and Abhinav pairing is, simply based on Abhinav’s giving and supportive nature but is it fair to have him always forgo what he may want. Yes, he got a family with Akshara. But he could have that with another who loves him back.
@Dropofthought
I share the same view as you. Nav knows what he wants and he is a grown ass man. If he says he doesnt want anything from Aksh then that goes.
Akshu hiding about Abhir finding out that Nav is not his real dad, is bad as she should trust Nav can handle his shit.
Akshu always ready to help someone no matter what cost she will have to pay. Though i dont know how accurate the following words are ” Akshu says we will do this together, Dadi has to agree, and Abhinav and Neela also, I will get Muskaan and you married. He smiles.” This rings a tune that she is ready to sacrifice everything for this relation. She is prepared to be adamant until they all agree. As @Happy said, she is not looking long term effects but looking at the now and here.
This has never been a good thing for her.
But i cant help but feel, why all these people are willing and okay to put her in this position where she chooses them instead of herself? Why always hiding behind Akshu? Why dont they handle their shit alone or look for someone else who is not ready to suicide all the time? As a sister, bhabhi, she cant forsake them. But why everyone looks up to her???
@yeol for some reason my reply didn’t get posted so will try to reword shortly. You talk about privacy and intimacy and in the same context it sounds a bit contradictory don’t you think. Please reference the episode where Nav states either verbally or mentally that he wants a physical relationship with Akshara. Also I agree love is beautiful, the physical aspect is also beautiful, only when it comes naturally from both sides, not when it is forced or like an obligation. From your and others words it’s like Nav considers it his right and Akshara an obligation. When you put it that he wants a physical relationship for the 6 years help he has given, this is a transaction not love and yes this I believe makes it disgusting and degrading for a character such as his. If Akshara confesses her feelings and she takes the first step towards this will Nav refuse, of course not he will go ahead with it because he loves her. But will he make her just because he have her 6 years absolutely not. Nav will never take the first step even if Akshara confesses her love, he will wait for her to do so. He has shown such character traits multiple times for one to understand as much. Nav has never voiced he wants a physical intimate relationship for his help, so everyone should stop pulling things from thin air, your expression of a physical relationship is worded nicely however. @Mark thank you! If Nav want’s something he’ll say it, for a serials sake the makers will even voice it mentally for the viewers to know but these things are just a figment of some people’s minds. @Happy I agree I’m afraid the makers might use this to create a rift between Akshara and Nav because it will definitely cause some trust issues, as it would with anyone.
@Dropofthought, Abhinav never said he wanted a physical relationship with Akshara for his help that’s a fact. What I am saying is that Abhinav has shown love to Akshara through many years through his gestures and support, now Abhinav desires a full relationship hence his desire to confess his love for Akshara, he wants Akshara like his wife in every sense of the word, Abhinav and a man who has patience and is willing to wait. But let’s be clear Abhinav wants a man and woman relationship with Akshara, is he won’t force her until Akshara takes the first step, he wants Akshara but don’t force her because he respects her. Now it is Akshara who has the power to give him the complete relationship he desires. Akshara was in a relationship, she knows what it means to love someone and she knows how important intimacy in a couple is, because she had Abhir a child conceived in love. yet Akshara as a person who says he loved Abhinav, is not ready to be completely his, when they don’t need to know each other 6 years is a long time, they know what they need know about each other. Abhinav won’t do or say anything that will make Akshara uncomfortable and she knows it, why wait so long when this man has already waited so long and is ready to wait for her again. Abhinav wants to become Akshara’s companion not remain his friend, he wants to cross the physical barrier that separates them but he won’t do anything without his consent. I would like to add that if Akshara really loves Abhinav, there is no need for her to force herself or wait to fulfill her marital duty towards the person she says she loves, because she already has experience
and knows what are the expectations in a couple for the partners. Abhinav wants to experience the joys of being a real couple, but it’s Akshara who isn’t ready despite their 6-year life together. you have to stop thinking that he doesn’t want because he says nothing when you love you want everything from the other.
@yeol
Do you know there are people who have s*x without love? If Akshu didnt find the love letter, wouldnt we expect Nav to voice out his feelings? You make it sound like Nav has loved Akshu all 6yrs. Infact, high chance that he started realizing his feelings after 6yrs. In Aksh case, she started viewing Nav in that dimension of opening up her heart, after mimis bday.
In my opinion, one can teach her heart to love someone and her heart will have no choice but to obey. This takes time. Where there is a will there is a way. And the fact that she is now letting go of hatred, resentment, will be useful if she is to open up her heart fully in EVERY SENSE.
Why we keep rushing them to have s*x, is beyond me. In my opinion, they still have 1yr more. The possibility is on the table and may be due in a year.
@Mark, so you knew that there are people who have s*x without actually feeling love or affection. But it seems that you don’t know that when affection is present in a relationship, intimate relationships are easier because there is still an emotional connection. I don’t want to force anyone base if you got him we were talking about Abhinav wanting to be Akshara’s husband in every sense of the word. and I’m just expressing my opinion, that Akshara’s feelings have not yet turned into love to pass the physical milestone. Akshara has affection for Abhinav but she needs love to act on it, because when she was in love with Abhimanyu they didn’t need time to love each other intimately. For many people affection is enough for intimate fulfillment but for Akshara she needs more that’s all.
@Dropofthought I also want to add that if Akshara loves Abhinav as she seems to want to show, she should know that Abhinav deserves as much as he is willing to give, when we love, we want to make our partner happy in every way possible, and we are aware of his desires and desires without necessarily that our partner is obliged to ask there is no obligation when you say loved a person, Abhinav took care of Akshara and Abhir out of love it became his responsibility and his duty to satisfy his family. and in relationships in a couple pay attention to the desire of our partner and be considerate and a duty towards the loved one. Abhinav shouldn’t need to say he wants privacy for Akshara to give it to him. Akshara was in a relationship, she knows very well what a relationship implies, she also knows that she should not wait for the other to beg to receive when she understands that he is waiting for her to take the first step, because it is Abhinav who first loved her so he naturally waits for her to love him. If Akshara loves Abhinav she should stop playing friend and give this man the love relationship he expects because she is aware of his expectations.
Why see Abhinav as someone who is hunger of love n s.x? If he is/was then the 6 yrs they were together wouldn’t have ended up like where they are now! They are an exceptional case not the usual love or loveless marriage!