Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai 9th July 2023 Written Episode, Written Update on TellyUpdates.com
The Episode starts with everyone praying. Abhi prays to Mahadev. He thinks my son has come home, give strength to Abhir, he needs you a lot. Manjiri thinks I saw my son happy after a long time, I wish this happiness never ends. Aarohi thinks its wrong to snatch their peace for two people’s happiness, just make this right. Ruhi prays for Abhir that he gets happy. Abhir thinks I want my mum and dad, I want to go home. Pandit asks his name. Manjiri says Abhir. He asks his dad’s name. Abhir says Abhinav Sharma. They look on. Pandit asks Abhinav Sharma? Mahima says you said right, your dad’s name is Abhinav, upbringing always wins over birth. Manjiri says Abhimanyu Birla. Pandit asks them to forward hands and place the kalash. They place the kalash. Abhir thinks whatever everyone says, my dad’s name is Abhinav Sharma. Kairav says I will go and see them. Manish says they are heartbroken. Abhi says our friendship is also lost, Abhir isn’t sharing anything with me, what shall I do. Manjiri takes his glasses and asks what’s kept on the table. He says flowers. She says you found it blurred first and then your eyes adjusted, give him some time, he is a little kid, how can he adjust here so soon. He says if he can’t accept me then.
Shefali says everything has changed for him, its difficult for him, give him time. Parth says if we have no time to give him, then what will Abhi do. Manjiri says its Abhir’s house, he will stay here. Parth asks are you sure. Anand says Manish has filed appeal against the court decision. She asks what, so soon, Abhir just came here, court has decided in Abhir’s favor, will we need to fight again. Abhi says I knew this would happen, anyone would do that. Shefali asks if they win the case this time then. Abhi says then it will be Mahadev’s decision, I left the hope, Mahadev gave me hope, if he fights then I will also fight. Dadi says I have kept a mannat, so I m making laddoos. Everyone says we will also make laddoos and pray. Manish says Abhir’s world has changed, what will he go through. Muskaan says I never saw him so sad. Ruhi and Aarohi ask Abhir to come inside, its his room. Abhir recalls his words. Aarohi shows the cupboard, study table, toys… Ruhi says you will feel scared to sleep alone, right, you can come to my room, promise, I won’t tell anyone.
Aarohi says Abhir looks less cute when he doesn’t smile. She cries and says I m your Maasi, like your mum, I love you a lot, I promise. Akshu and Abhinav sit sad. Everyone asks them to have food. Akshu says where did Abhir go. Abhinav looks at her. Abhi and Manjiri ask Abhir to see his fav food. They serve him the food. Abhir gets hiccups. Akshu also gets hiccups. Abhinav makes her drink some water. He says she is missing Abhir. Abhi says talk to mumma once. Abhir thinks. Ruhi says call Maasi. Akshu says no, let him settle there. Abhir says I don’t want to talk. Abhi thinks he refused to talk to them, what did they do, he is so upset. Abhi asks him to talk once. Abhir turns to sleep. Abhi prays for him. He thinks why aren’t they calling Abhir, what’s the issue. Abhir thinks of Abhinav. Abhinav cries and says Abhir used to hug me and sleep, he isn’t here today. Akshu sees a blanket and cries.
Precap:
Manjiri says we will take Abhir to hospital. Akshu comes home. Manjiri says Abhir will find difficult to adjust here if old things come to him. Abhi asks Abhir to call him dad.
Update Credit to: Amena
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Manjiri is such a fool. How can she call the mother of her grandson old things!!! If she keeps insulting Akshara in Abhir’s presence, Abhir will surely hate her and her shameless son.
To Toxicmanyu stans, the makers have clearly given you a gift. Abhimanyu got his rights through court but who says he will get his rights from his son. He will forever be docman to Abhir and if he forces Abhir to call him dad, woe unto him. I hope the makers make Abhir call Sirji or Ruhi’s poppy soon.
Man child might have won the battle but he is surely going to lose the war.
Abhir is mad at his parents but he will never give their place to strangers and that is what delusional docman and his psycho mama are to him.
The ground has shifted under Promisemanyu is feet. Even the friendship he had with Abhir has been lost and Abhir won’t give him his rights as a father. He won but he will soon understand what loneliness is even with Abhir in his house. May fate grant him all the hate he deserves from his own flesh and blood.
You are really mad trashara and toxicnav fan
Manjiri deserves all the pain and hatred not abhi
He deserves happiness. What she said about trashara is right . He apologised for one extra point but your trashara and toxicnav are fools
They also deserve pain
May fate and god give all pain and hate to trashara, toxicnav and Manjiri as they r reason for everything
One day Abhir will surely love and call abhi as father
Trashara and toxicnav will surely understand their stupidity and mistakes
Abhinav is not toxic he is a walking green flag and you are a toxic andhbhakt of abhimanyu and manjiri
@xxx 😂😂😂😂
Abhi n Manjiri can have Abhir body but not his heart n soul!
@Rach
I don’t think Manjiri is capable of insulting Akshara Infront of Abhir. She will do that covertly. And when she do that, it means her end is near which also means Manyus end is near. Manjiri is still in her hatred. She did all this so that Navra will never be happy. She doesn’t realize that her grandson is unhappy too. Good thing she will provoke Akshu to fight again for custody.
@Rach all I want is for his mother india to be proved to have bribed the judge then toxicManyu’s face can sink into the core of the earth, he won’t be able to pick his head up again unless he take that noose around his neck named Manjiri off and throws her away, why is she even in Birla house? She’s a divorcee she should piss off.
@Jade
I am not keeping any hopes that Manjiri bribed the judge because then that would mean disaster for Birlas. Let’s just assume the judge is incompetent somehow. Or she willingly favored Manyu because Manyu did something for her in the past.
@Xxx
You are so shameless you cannot even use your name. The next time you want to insult someone atleast have the honesty to sign off with your name like any sensible person does. Don’t be as dumb and toxic as your hero Abhimanyu. Now shurrup and never respond to a comment of mine if you don’t have the 🏀🏀 to use your name.
So she is now OLD thing to Harsh🤣🤣🤣🤣
It’s surprising that Manyujiri, still think this is only about “big change”. It’s not about “big change”. It’s about a selfish father who can’t leave his family even if it’s for his son. It’s about a father who feels it’s okay for his son to loose everything he loved just because he got new everything. It’s about being fair to not only Sharmas but also being fair to Abhir. It’s about knowing when to give and when to take. Why didn’t Manyu also leave his family and settle elsewhere alone with his son and all could visit them? Why is Abhir the only one who is without his family? Manyu got his rights and son but what did Abhir get? Why is Manyu okay with breaking Abhirs relationships?
Manyu better get his shit together. He shouldn’t leave Abhir to sleep alone when it’s the last thing he needs right now. He better get his head in the game. It would have helped if he also left his family as he would have something to relate to with Abhir, but he didn’t. He stayed with Sharmas for a whole month but didn’t learn anything at all.
Abhir was never taught to break his relations. He was taught to sacrifice a relation if it is a burden to someone else. No matter how long Abhir gets, he will never let go of his family. Good thing Manish didn’t give them time to demand something else from Abhir. Good that Manish didn’t wait for Akshu to become a lawyer before they appeal. Good that finally, Manish is doing something for Abhir. I hope that they win this time. And that Manyu completely looses Abhir. Then Ruhi. Then he finally meets his death.
Abhimanyu has seen Abhir clinging to Abhinav always( while sleeping )even when Abinav was semi conscious in Kausali and he leaves a six yr old alone on his first night in a strange house? Delusional Manjiri from which angle is your son looking happy ? Also shivansh is also brother of abhir ( if ruhi is sister) where is that 8 year old ? He is never mentioned!!
@Rr
I am also wondering from which angle Manyu is happy. Manyu is selfish and incapable of handling Abhirs sadness and lonelyness but he is not happy.
@Mark death is kinda extreme, I just want Manyu to have an awakening of sorts and tell his mother that her time in Birla house is over and he got her her own place and she must live there on her own because he can’t have her near him or the kids. I want him to break the chains he has to his mother india and build healthier relationships with both kids, to give Abhir his space with his family and also make a genuine bond with Abhir as his bio dad my making some sacrifices for his son’s happiness. To have a relationship with Ruhi where he is her uncle and she calls him as such, no more poppy nonsense to give her false hope. If he plays his cards right Abhir might come to him when he’s older, he did say he wants to be a doctor, maybe he’ll live with the Birla’s willingly later on to study and join the hospital that saved his life, by then NavRa would let him go happily because their son needs to make his own mark in the world.
@Jade
I agree with you. The reason why I want Manyu to die is, if he doesn’t after loosing both kids, he will look pitiful. I can’t deal with a pitiful Manyu.
Agree @Jade
@Mark 👍👍 except not Abhimanyu’s death
I don’t understand how Abhinav is toxic ..in this case and by god’s sake no one is seeing the child’s discomfort in this case I will not blame the Goenkas or Abhinav -Akshara …they have a court order to do that …but Birlas you don’t have any such order upon you …. Shameless Birlas…
@Shilajit
Manyu thinks Abhir is scared. It doesn’t occur to him that he is sad. This is why I said he thinks that, Abhir loved him but that is incorrect. Abhir loved docman. Abhir didn’t even love plainManyu so how will he love dadManyu?
Exactly!
Is akshu blamed for whatever wrong arohi does or kairav or bade papa does? But here abhimanyu will always be blamed for whatever manjri does.. Why? Why he deserves abhir’s hatred?you people think abhir will hate him seriously? Yaa may be for sometime but soon he will love him.. Sorry but he dont deserve his son’s hatred as he didnt abandoned him..
@Surabhi
Manyu did abandon Abhir. And soon, he will abandon him again when he fails to bring Abhirs happiness back and gives him up.
Manyu is not blamed for Manjiris actions but his own. Why did Manyu not leave his family too like his son did. Why is Manyu only taking from Abhir, why not give him something too? Like making Navra come to Birla house? Abhir did alot to leave his family so that Manyu can get his son, it’s Manyus turn to do something for Abhir. I suggest he asks Navra to stay in Birla house for an entire month so that Abhir can adjust at Birla house.
@ Surabhi Abhimanyu does not deserve Abhir hatred(if whatever happened six years ago remains in the past)Abhimanyu is good with children ,he became Abhir s beloved docman because he did not push or crowd the bonding .But here he has abruptly uprooted Abhir and is expecting him to replace a beloved father(Abhinav) with himself…I don’t know why the writer is spoiling Abhimanyu s character.This is not the old Abhimanyu
Who said Akshu was not blamed, as much as people are blaming Abhi, they too blamed Akshu! Get ur data right!
@Surabhi Abhi deserves Abhir’s hate as he separated his son from his family Period!!! Ignoring his wellbeing n happiness are with Sharmas!
Is it just me…. or does anyone think that Abhimanyu looks like a psychopath riding on the back of his mother’s broomstick…waiting to pounce on confused innocent Abhir….while hoping that he is readily accepted as a father to a child who has only known his father to be Abhinav 😐 ….a child who continues to show his sadness while trying to adjust to this ‘new world’ ….and where everyone else (including us I guess) seem to be in a zombie like trance waiting to see what will happen as time progresses….
@ Naina a.k.a. uknowho long ago their was a dumb US serial called passions with a witch named Tabitha and her little doll servant Timmy…. ManyuJiri are like Tabitha and Timmy, Pychojiri does all the planning and plotting and PromiseManyu just does her bidding 😂😂😂 now I can’t get the image of dwarfed Manyu running around and doing as mother india wants like Timmy used to out of my mind… well Timmy did eventually betray Tabitha cause he fell in love with a real girl… then died cause the actor playing Timmy passed on 🤔
@Jade
I disagree with the roles of mom son duo. I mean to say, Manyu is the one who plans and plots using actions and facial expressions and little words but Manjiri is the one that moves earth and judge to make the plans happen. So Manjiri does the bidding of all that his son plans to get.
Abhir needs 24*7 hours care and attention from abhimanyu at least this days as he is new in this house but still he left him to sleep alone where he knows that he is not habitual to sleep alone. Is abhimanyu really dumb or selfish can someone tell me
@Momo
All the above. He is cluelessly incapable, on top of being dumb and selfish.
@Momo I am hoping Ruhi comes to him or he goes to Ruhi, that the kid has one moment of familiarity ☹️ it’s heartbreaking
Promisemanyu thinks simply giving a sperm makes one a father. Even after spending a month with the Sharmas, he learnt nothing. He was simply pretending to be humble. He will get what he deserves if the makers understand the concept of karma….hatred from Abhir.
He is purposefully ignoring Abhir’s pain in order to possess him!
For heaven sake, please spare that poor little soul. Bunch of immature adults traumatizing the poor kid. There are better ways to deal with this. The Sharmas could have taken few weeks time from the court to train their boy about the new change in his life. They told him today that Abhimanyu is his real dad and expect him to live with him from that moment onwards. How brutish is that? and the foolishness of Birlas is beyond me. I cannot fathom that a so called best doctor in town doesn’t understand a child’s psychology. Can’t he sit with the Sharmas and find a better way out to deal with this. Now that he won the case, he can force the Sharmas to relocate to Udaipur (relocation is not something so impossible that they are not even considering it). He can visit Abhir regularily and prepare him mentally to stay with him. It might take time but it would be worth the time. Atleast the boy would be happy to be with his new found dad. and the precap is the epitomy of foolishness from the Birlas.
@Sk
Couldn’t agree more. I suggest homestay at Birlas for Sharmas.
Right @SK but we saw how Manjiri can’t even wait for 5 mins to stomp into Goenkas house!
Yo Mahima out here making sense 👏👏👏 it’s good the rest of the Birla’s understand Abhir and his needs and connections more that this Mother India and her raja beta. Seems not even Ruhi and Arohi are enough to stave Abhir’s misery, at least his docman jaap stopped. Navra are still being daft, seems everyone else is more sensible than these 3 “parents”. If Akshu explained custody and that they can appeal then Abhir would be better. I am wondering if this psychojiri will stop Abhir from going to his parents on weekends 🤔
PromiseManyu… Any man THIS attached to his mother must stay single his whole life, they become headaches for the women who marry their sons thinking they are normal and then bam he’s like Robin of Arryn stuck to mumsy’s teat 🙄
@Jade
Agreed.
There can only be one mom, i.e.the one who gave birth. But there can be any dad. Being a mom is different from being a dad. They can never be equal bonds. That’s the reality which Manjiri has to face.
For a child to regard someone as dad, they need more than being present in his life or being told by it’s mom to call so and so as dad. For one to be called dad really, one has to act like one. By acting like one, I mean, he needs to sacrifice something for the child. And the child to acknowledge the sacrifice. That is what Manyu needs to do first before demanding Abhir to call him dad.
Nav sacrificed his whole life so that he can give Abhir a last name. Nav sacrificed time and money to bring Abhir safe into this world. Nav sacrificed marital pleasures so that he can cuddle and be Abhirs dad 24/7. Nav worked hard so that he can support Abhirs desires. Many called this foolish and Manjiri used this to demand more sacrifices from Nav who was willing to give. But now everyone can see the benefits. Nav is a dad of a child he didn’t father. Of course, Abhir will mention Abhinav Sharma as his dad not because he loves Nav more or Nav was present or he was told to call Nav as such, but because Nav is his dad as he did what defines a dad. Sacrifice.
Same cannot be said about Manyu. He never did anything for his son that is worth acknowledging. If it’s the surgery, anyone could do and it is his duty as a doctor to do it. If it’s about money, money can be earned by anyone. If it’s about being present, even Nav was present. If it’s about sperms, even Abhir has sperms. Inshort, Manyu needs to do something that will touch Abhirs heart. He needs to sacrifice something for his son. When he does that, Abhir will then call him dad from the bottom of his heart. All Manyu did till now, is demand his rights, trouble Navra, and asked Abhir to let go of his family inorder to give their relation a chance. Well, even if the sun rises in the north tomorrow, Abhir will never call Manyu dad. Manyu should not expect to be called as such any time soon. Because as I said, he didn’t sacrifice anything for his son.
I totally agree with you. Simply donating a sperm doesn’t make one a father. Just like a mother sacrifices for her child, the father too has to sacrifice for his child. Abhinav has earned Abhir’s love and loyalty wholeheartedly without bullying or forcing him but with acts of service to Abhir. What has Promisemanyu done for Abhir!!! He cannot even spend the first night with his child but he is busy walking around singing I am the father… what a delusional fool.
@jade totally agree with you he can’t demand abhir to called him dad out of sudden it will takes time even takes years becoz abhir had a great bond with abhinav it is not easy for abhir to called anyone his dad. But all he can do is to give love and becomes friends with him. He himself will realise how much abhi loves him and will eventually accept him.
@Momo
True. The fact that Nav is present for comparison, Manyus deeds must be greater or close to Navs deeds for Abhir to acknowledge him as dad.
@mark true abhimanyu have to be very carefull with abhir becoz abhir may compare him with abhinv
Right @Mark
I really expected this to happen. No alarm. Abhir is a small boy in a new environment without his mother and step father. Bcs the reality is that Abhinav is a stepfather. Abhi is the real dad. I hear people saying Abhir was uprooted from his family. Wrong. Abhir has just gone to his family, his rightful place. It will not be easy, it will take time, but he will surely settle down.
Though it’s true, Abhi would have stayed with him for the night. No problem, he will start learning step by step until he gets experienced.
Is it bcs it’s a serial and there’s a pattern or way some people wants the story to go, so if it does not go that way, they start to demand for absurd things. In a real life situation, who will move to meet who. I hear some people saying Abhi cannot leave his house or family and he is asking Abhir to leave his. It is definitely the father that will take his son to his house, not the other way round. Foolish people, when Abhi was in Kasauli they kept ranting and asking what he is doing there. He is taking space. Does he know what is privacy. He is taking the goodness of Abhinav for granted. Now he took his son to his own house complain continues. WETIN.
I have never seen a father that will win custody , then go back to leave in his ex-wife house or give back the child bcs he is sad. He will definitely be sad. Even an adult who changes base or position does not find it easy talkless of a child.
What comes to a man builds up a man. Abhi is equal to the task. He can patiently do it. Abhir and Abhimanyu has forever to live together. No cause for alarm. No need to start laughing.
Now Manish has gone to appeal. They are all silent bcs that’s their wish. By the time Abhi responds squarely, they will start cursing him. But remember he who points a finger have the remaining 4 fingers pointing to themselves.
The next court now will be to open wounds and can of worms.
Bcs each side will like to do anything to make them win
@Funmi
A stepdad is also a dad. And after all that Nav did for Abhir, the lines that separate dad from stepdad are blurred completely. If Manyu do the sacrifice, Abhir will call him dad number 2 because dad number 1 is Nav.
I agree that Abhir will settle down. But how will he settle down? My guess is, he will detach from every one and choose one person that will be his holy grail. Of course that won’t be Manyu. It may be Ruhi or it may be Abhir himself. If Manyu wants Abhir to settle, he shouldn’t worry.
@Funmi, of course Manyu shouldn’t go to Kasauli now that he won custody. But he should also not stay at Birla house with his family so that he can be at the same state as Abhir. Like Akshu, he needs to buy a house elsewhere and settle with Abhir. Both would have left their family for their relation of son-dad. Fair. But no, Abhir has to see Manyu whine, maa, maa, when his maa, is no where in sight. Unfair.
@Funmi, you said you have never seen a dad who gives up a child just because the child is sad, well soon you will see. I will be sure to comment on it if indeed it occurs.
@Funmi, there is cause for alarm. How can Manyu pop out from no where and tell Abhir to call him dad? Especially if Abhir has a dad already? And also if he has not done a single thing that warrants to be called dad. As Akshu said, being a dad is a journey. Manyu is just beginning his but he is already wanting to reach the destination? Foolish. But I am not surprised, he disassembled his son’s life so that he can be called dad.
@Funmi, let me ask a question. Who pointed a finger on who? Goenkas or Birlas? Think well. As far as I know, Goenkas were busy licking their wounds. Which means, Birlas are the ones that pointed a finger. Mahima leading, Shefali following closely behind and Ruhi lagging behind.
@Mark 👍
@Funmi, good points. Change floors us adults, why not a child with time as familiarity builds up we settle down and even begin to appreciate the new things, situations and people change brings. I agree with you an adult life is shaped by a complex myriad of responsibilities and commitments which aren’t easy to shed.
@Rai
I agree that an adult life is shaped with responsibilities and commitments which aren’t easy to shed, but be careful as to who you call an adult.
Manyu? Please reconsider who you think knows of responsibilities and commitments. Manyu?
Manyu has never had to be responsible or committed to anything beyond his mom. He was not responsible when Abhir was an embryo. Unless you think he will start being responsible and committed now? But where is the guarantee? Should we risk Abhirs mental health to prove Manyu can be responsible and committed?
@Mark, now, now I really would worry for Abhimanyu’s safety if he was real and you were close by. 😉From our convos, you know I am quite sympathetic to Abhimanyu, I don’t see him as bleakly as you. In fact I have always had hope in the two fathers, Abhinav disappointed me with his wild scheme to break Abhir’s heart. That has done great harm to Abhir’s mental health. As you mentioned, a child now is developing a self scarficing complex, so as not to burden his parents. I can’t help thinking without that mad plan the situation with Abhir transitioning to live with the Birlas could have been handled more sympathetically by the three parents sitting down explaining the situation to Abhir and building his confidence that all three were still available as parents to him. The court’s decision weekdays with Abhimanyu and weekends with the Sharmas and the Sharmas can with permission see Abhir outside those hours doesn’t mean the Sharmas become remote beings in Abhir’s life. Yes, he sees Kausali as his home, but is he the only child in life who has had to relocate. My parents took me across seas to a new life away from my childhood home and I am grateful for it now.
On Manjiri and Abhimanyu’s supposed obedience to her, I get it. As an adult son, his Mum is his responsibility, and as they keep grinding in, in the dialogue a respect towards elders is a sign of good upbringing – he can’t ever abandon her. I think though they will conflict in the end over Abhir and his happiness.
Although Akshu n Abhinav broke Abhir’s heart by their act, Abhir still loves them, he even told himself that he wants to go back to them so subconsciously he knows they love him no matter what!
I literally jump in joy to see Abhir said his dad’s name is Abhinav Sharma! God is great! For the first time I love Mahima, she is right upbringing is greater than birth! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ our culture also believe that the one who brought u up is greater than the one who birth u!
@ PO well said!!Forgot lord Krishna is more often called Nandlal ( named after his foster father ) and not often reffered by the father who birthed him
Akshara fans are irrecoverable, it’s about being fair, what justice when from the beginning the AkshNav is responsible for the mess.
Akshara and Abhinav weren’t mature enough to fix the problem while Abhir was still a baby, those who say they didn’t know the risks, Don’t act like the situation isn’t obvious, you understand the situation very well and so do they.. Akshara and Abhinav are adults not ignorant children, Akshara knew that lying to Abhir and depriving Abhimanyu of his fatherhood was going to become a problem, otherwise she would not have lived far from Udaipur. The mother who knows very well that her child will one day suffer from her stupidity, but who persisted in error and a bad mother, isn’t she? because after all it was Akshara’s joy of being with her son that made her selfish, not taking into account that her son was going to suffer from the situation if it was not resolved before he reached the age of reason , this makes Akshara more at fault for Abhir’s current misery than anyone else. because if the situation had been settled from the beginning Abhir would not have had to suffer from separation, choice making, or even would not have had to have to get used to a new life, because he would have already been used to having a dysfunctional family like many other children in this world, who are however not unhappy to live a life that is shared between their father and their mother. because he would have been used to receiving love from both sides, he would not have made any distinction between the love of his father and his mother, because at the time the situation would have been the same as today, l One of them would have had sole custody, and the other would have visitation rights. Akshara’s fans have totally erased from their minds that Akshara and the one who did not do things right after the birth of her son, it was not because she did not know that her decision would have repercussions on Abhir, because the truth she was afraid because she knew very well. but her selfishness as a mother pushing her postponed the inevitable, her happiness as a mother was greater than Abhir’s long-term happiness, whoever says she didn’t know about the risks is just trying to lie to herself. Akshara’s fans supported Akshara’s selfish and thoughtless actions because they don’t like Abhimanyu, yet Akshara’s actions were ultimately for her own sake, and her son was collateral damage to her decision, which she took for his respect and for his anger towards Abhimanyu because of their unhappy past. The mother who willfully ignored the risks to her son’s future, must she meet his death and completely lose her son, the mother who led her child into the abyss must she deserve her son’s hatred. For the story of Abhir’s current misery begins with the decisions taken by Akshara. Akshara fans don’t like Abhimanyu ok, but for Abhir living with Sharma with a bomb just waiting for the timer to go off was also not an acceptable choice. Whatever rancor between Akshara and Abhimanyu or even between Goenka and Birla, only Abhir’s future should have counted but Akshara was not ready to cede even a third of her rights over Abhir to Abhimanyu, she did not want to live a life where she often had to deal with Abhimanyu, even if this choice would have been a better solution for the future of her son. Some people talk about Abhir’s happiness but what happiness, the happiness that has been compromised since his birth, because his mother knew that the risk existed? When Abhimanyu had no right over his Son he went to Kasauli for his son, even though he knew that this situation could not be permanent because his life and elsewhere, the Sharmas when they returned to Kasauli without thinking about the delicate situation between them and Abhimanyu they neglected that to settle things quickly between them and Abhimanyu would have been for the good of Abhir, because Akshara beyond Abhir’s wishes she was ready to return home because her life is in Kasauli. If the Sharmas had custody of Abhir, would they have come to settle permanently in Udaipur if Abhir wanted to be at Abhimanyu’s side? the answer and no because Akshara would never have let this situation happen, because she built her life in Kasauli and where her life is Abhir should be. The story of the shoes proves that this mother for herself and her husband can brainwash her son in their favor under the guise of a lesson. Children follow adults and not the other way around. Why some are there as if Abhimanyu had separated Abhir from his family, the AkshNav also contributed they voluntarily went before the judge so that he decided they all knew that the chances were variable but they wanted sole custody of Abhir. the decision has been taken and for the moment cannot be changed, so some should stop their nonsense (he cannot leave his family but asks his son to do so). When the parents move the children follow, even if they are unhappy, the children live according to the circumstances of the parents until their majority. The children end up adapting to the new environment, has a new education and has a new way of living it’s just human nature, I speak several languages because I have moved several times since childhood, I have adapted even with the language barrier, all the children end up adapting to reality. We must stop dramatizing because Abhimanyu did not sleep on the same bed with his son, Abhir is at an age where he should sleep alone, he must learn to rely on his father. if Abhir feels the need to sleep in the bed with someone, he has to ask so that he can understand that he can ask anything from his new family members whether it is Ruhi or Abhimanyu. children are spontaneous they don’t need to ask each other to do things, he can go to Ruhi’s room just like Ruhi can come to his. Abhir has erected barriers in front of Abhimanyu and at the moment he cannot cross them without Abhir’s emotional consent because the situation does not allow it, the only thing he can do is try to keep pace with Abhir’s adaptation. Relationships are formed as we slowly learn to trust and adapt to the other’s usual mode of operation, letting them open up at their own pace. This situation and the result of parents who want exclusive rights over their child, and who are ready to fight at the expense of their son. I think the moment Abhir opens up to the Birla family and starts enjoying being with them, the Sharmas will gain custody of him, and another vicious cycle will begin where Abhir will want to be with Abhimanyu while he lives with the Sharmas. The fans make me laugh to believe that all parents do things the same way and that Abhimanyu should act like Navra. every parent has their way of doing and raising a child so why should Abhimanyu do like Navra, Abhir also has to adapt to his way of functioning, Abhinav slept in the same bed with Abhir for well known reasons. Fans support parental selfishness by wanting their favorite to think of themselves first at the expense of the child’s feelings. but when it’s other characters it’s something else. When Abhir was attached to Abhimanyu as Docman some for their fav did not hesitate to denigrate the child to give more attention to Abhimanyu than to Abhinav. Some talk about how Abhimanyu likes to be in control, but I see Akshara doing whatever she wants regardless of others, is a control freak herself, who wants things to go her way, even though for that she must go back on her word by breaking her promises. if things don’t go the way she wants she won’t stop until she does what she wants, even if the consequences are disastrous. Her sister is no better at her stuff until she gets what she wants she will persist even if she has to take a wrong turn. then the two sisters at the time of having to assume their thoughtless behavior, will victimize themselves and will try to justify themselves by accusing the others for their bad choice. while in the end they did what she wanted despite the consequences, their mania for controlling and doing things as they please will never be mentioned, and the fact that their word has no value because they are champions for breaking promises , and the other is the queen to change color. The Kairav I will not even quote the character of this idiot, Manjiri is criticized because she wants her grandson and that she is a hypocrite, but Kairav and his direct competitor in his field. He is misbehaving with a child who is also a member of his family, he made a decision by wanting to control, without taking into account the situation without taking the child into account, and he continues to act like an innocent angry, an inveterate idiot but of course his sister can tolerate everything concerning him because it is blood selection. Abhinav and controlled by his wife’s will she asks him to turn left he will turn, she asks him to do the opposite he will, whatever bad decisions his foolish wife might take he will follow in the end. Arohi is often controlled by her evil nature, when something goes against her will or thinks it might harm her, she won’t hesitate to take risks with other people’s relationships and conspire. Akshara is totally controlled by her savior mind and listens to her limit demonic impulses, which always creates problems in the lives of others, she is totally controlled by her demonic savior mind. Abhimanyu may be listening to his mother but what makes all the other idiots better than him 😒 in the end, people who are in the life of problematic people end up and will end up suffering because of their behavior. Fans love calling Abhimanyu a sperm donor, so Akshara is a surrogate because a lot of women are doing this nowadays, and others are raising their child. Akshara reduced Abhimanyu to be a giver, and Abhimanyu can also reduce Akshara to become a surrogate mother, if he denies visitation rights, the same way she denied him fatherhood rights to bond with her son. A child loves the parents he knows as a parent because since his birth he has lived with them and he has always known only them as a parental figure. many children suffer parental abuse in the world yet they love their parent, thanks to the privilege of being the sole parental figure of a child, it does not take much sacrifice for a child to become attached to an adult to whom he got used to. but some obviously play those who don’t understand to further discredit Abhimanyu, reminding that he didn’t have the opportunity to be there for his son. Abhimanyu gave his time, his love and his money, and his person for Ruhi, it was not a sacrifice it’s just parental love, but the public devalues that because he wants to be at his son’s side. what Abhinav did for Abhir Abhimanyu would have been able to do it for his son, but he was denied his right and today now that he wants to give his son his love he is insulted for that. Abhimanyu doesn’t need to sacrifice his position as a father to make his son happy, he needs time. I forgot Abhir will be and will certainly grow better next to the lying Sharma, who are emotional fools who don’t even know how to pay attention to their behavior in front of their child. the child must spend his time worrying about the feelings of AkshNav before being in his role as a child, he must go and protect the financial interests of his father and preserve the fragile feelings of his parents, instead of worrying about his child problem. The Sharmas who are too stupid to be rational and reassure a child properly, of course he will certainly grow up better by their side. After the stupid things the AkshNav said in front of Abhir, they sincerely think Abhir will adapt and live peacefully, he just spends his time being distressed by Navra’s stupidity he just wants to be recovered now that he thinks Navra and happy with his departure, he spends his time convincing himself of Navra’s love, he wants Navra to prove him wrong, they just afflicted their son and they play ignorant because they know that Abhir loves them, parents so stupid