Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai 9th June 2023 Written Episode, Written Update on TellyUpdates.com
The Episode starts with Akshu and Kairav saying they will call back and everything will sort out. The call connects back. Manish says sorry, the wifi got disconnected. Akshu explains them. She says both Kairav and Muskaan want the marriage to happen in Kasauli. Dadi says fine, I will not upset them, the marriage will happen there. Aarohi worries. Dadi asks Manish to send invite to everyone, entire Kasauli should know its Goenkas’ marriage. Manish asks Abhinav not to worry, they are one family, they will celebrate it well. Dadi says we have accepted Muskaan as our daughter, its her marriage, we are with you. Neela says Muskaan is lucky to get such a family. Abhir says you guys are still talking. Ruhi says Abhir and I have planned everything. Kairav says I will book the flight tickets. Akshu says we have much work. Abhinav and Muskaan hug Neela. Abhi and Abhir make plans for Ruhi. Akshu thanks Kanha ji. Abhinav sees her. Dadi says we should personally invite few guests here. Surekha argues with Suwarna. She says Neela and Abhinav have ego, they want the marriage to happen in Kasauli, but the burden will come on us. Manish says I shouldn’t teach you to respect Akshu’s Sasural, Abhinav is a simple man, don’t do any drama. Surekha says if anything wrong happens, then I won’t sit quiet. Abhir writes the guest list.
Akshu says stop, I m on groom’s side, its my brother’s marriage. Kairav says I m so proud of you. Abhinav says you have to be with us. She says I will write name from both the sides. Muskaan says she is my Bhabhi. Kairav says she is my sister, this is unfair. Akshu says Abhir and I are on both sides. Abhir jokes. Abhi comes and says I m with Abhinav. Kairav says this is cheating. Abhi says Muskaan is my sister, I m with Abhinav. Abhi, Abhinav and Akshu challenge each other. Ruhi selects her dress. Aarohi is worried. Kairav calls her and asks her not to come, else she will just get pain. She says I can’t stay back here. He says I can’t see you worried. She says thanks, give my nek to Akshu if I don’t come. He says I wish you get all the happiness. She ends call and says maybe I don’t have the happiness in my fate. Manish and Suwarna invite Birlas. Mahima says sometimes time falls short to forget old relations, not everyone can get practical. Suwarna says life has to move on, we want both the families to move on. Manish says we should also move on with Kairav. Anand says we don’t wish bad for Kairav.
Manish says I know your sorrow, we should end this sorrow, please come to the wedding and bless Kairav to stay happy, I request you, our happiness will be incomplete without you. Manjiri smiles and feeds them sweets. She congratulates them. She says I m very happy for Kairav, Kairav and Muskaan will be happy together, few things are still there between our families, sorry, its not possible for us to attend the marriage, we can’t come. Aarohi thinks its good Manjiri took a stand. Manjiri says I won’t stop Aarohi and Ruhi if they want to come. Abhinav says room expenses are high. Akshu says food expenses are also there. Abhinav says many expenses are there. She says sorry. He says don’t worry, we will manage, Muskaan’s happiness comes first, Neela also has some money, I will take some loan. Abhi hears them. Akshu says how will we manage the expenses. Abhinav says we will manage it, don’t worry. Abhi says see what I do, I m getting 40% discount on this hotel, I stayed here when I came here for the first time, they are giving discount to medical association. Abhinav thanks him and hugs. Abhi says Muskaan is my sister, can’t I do this, I will make the booking, I will give the bill to you. Abhinav says I will go and book the cabs. Akshu thanks Abhi. She says give me the real bill, please, I m accepting your help but I want the real bill. He says okay.
Precap:
Abhir says Dida is coming. Akshu thinks Manjiri might tell the truth to Abhir.
Update Credit to: Amena
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You know what, referencing a past event is normal. Its clear that Aksh did not say it in the context of “i am thinking of my first wedding of love” but in the innocent context of “wedding plans are this way”. But Nav is insecure as hell, she is feeding his insecurity. Insecurity is not a nice flaw, no matter what Akshu says later, she will never convince him otherwise. Especially if events keep piling up. First its Abhir knowing half truth, Manyu knows Abhir knows, Manyu planned the “elope” drama with Aksh, Akshu knew Manyu helped pay hotel fee. More events will follow that will drive Nav crazy. Well Navra fans, Navra has trust, respect, understanding but not communication. Nav doesnt communicate his feelings and insecurity.
Now when Nav finally explode, Akshu will be speechless, fail to form clear sentences and fail to defend herself like always.
Akshu said Nav will regret welcoming Manyu into his home. This is what she meant. Manyus presence is affecting only Nav himself to the point of later harming his family. He became insecure without asking the real details, now Manyu is poking his nose in all his bussiness. I doubt he will be happy with the extent Manyu has entangled himself in his family affairs. Manyu has infiltrated his family in many ways. Matters of Abhir, financial, helping Akshu, solving his family probs, arguing on behalf of his family. Now Nav is useless as all his duties are handled by his guest. Nav brought this on himself. Not anyone elses fault. Its Navs fault as he cannot coexist with Manyu.
I dont understand why Aru doesnt want to go to Kasauli. How can Aru say “maybe happiness is not in my fate” when she owns all of Udaipur???????🤷♀️ Help me out here. Which pain will she feel? That Akshu killed her hubby? Well isnt she satisfied with the punishment that she gave Akshu?
Arohi never gave any punishment to akshu.. Akshu herself decided to leave udaipur nd become victim..
Also nav should look at the bigger picture.. He should be happy that despite abhir knows everything still he wants to be with nav.. Also coz of abhimanyu’s plan every thing sorted out nd muskai getting married.. Also coz of abhimanyu’s help his financial burden is reduced to some extent.. I wish he realizes all these things instead of getting insecure and feel useless..
Even abhimanyu would have felt useless seeing someone else did so much for his son.. But he is ok with it as he can see the bigger picture that if nav was not there his son would have died.. Even nav should look at the bigger picture nd not small issues
He is not aware that Abhir knows the truth about him being his step father.
Yaa but as mark said that he will be more insecure when he will come to know.. But i think he should be more secure that abhir still wants to be with him nd is now not desperate to know about his real dad
@surabhi. Yes you are right abhinav should see n focus on the good things he got not tge other. But i guesswe cannot compare abhinav and abhis situations. For abhis case, both akshara and abhinav took a step to inform about abhir and it didn’t work so abhinav and akshara went ahead but in this case both abi and akshra are doing things behind abhinavs back though it is a help he will surely feel useless. Abhi n akshara are helping abhinav but they sometimes tell half story or sometimes hide everything. Though their intension is good it will be very difficult for abhinav to understand why they did so bcz helping him by cheating him how will abhinav take that?
@Mark. I don’t know whther um 100% correct but yes as you said abhinav has to ber the consequences of accepting abhi in his home. But why abhi is interfering every issue between sharmas if he wants to help he can directly say he wants to and about accepting or not its upto sharmas. Firget about elope idea but abhi could tell nav that he also wants to do financial support since muskan is his sister now. No need to lie n help. Even akshara is not doing right. But we have to watch drama so things will happen this way. Its navra test and sooner sureka n manjiri might add fuel to it. About arohi she is right to some extent. Since her marriage is fixed with abhi now she has to watch drama at kasuali. She might has no prob with akshara abhinav or abhi. But problem is being with akshra abhinav and abhi. Bcz the problems are not yet solved. All four have chosen paths but have not started to go. She agreed for a marriage with abhi by trusting his words but now she is in a difficult sitution she doubt about future and bcz of that doubt she might told that she might have no happiness written in her fate.
Abhimanyu threw akshu out of his life and house, akshu herself chose leaving udaipur and she herself chose the life of struggle. When niel died arohi was crying relentlessly she did not say or instigated or blamed anyone.
I think sine niel and arohi never had a traditional wedding and a reception and seeing the festivities she will miss niel more. And since she is not a married woman and is still a widow as abhimanyu may never marry her she might not be able to participate in the functions as she would have if niel was alive.
Arohi blamed akshu for both her mom and Neil death… See episode
@Surabhi
I agree. Nav should see the bigger picture. But as Manyu took forever to see his bigger picture, we should give Nav the space he needs.
Aru punishment was blaming Akshu yet again for eying her happiness and snatching her happiness away by killing her mom first and now her hubby. Then after mimis bday, she told her to leave Udaipur.
Its funny how Neils death didnt remind Aru to add the blame of how her baby will grow up without a father. But she never said that when that was the most logical blame. But then again, it was not about Neil now was it?
Blame karna is not a punishment, punishment abhi ne di. And yes it was illogical to ask akshu to leave udaipurafter leap instead she should have confronted manyu because he was getting affected for akshu’s presence on top of it shefali and manjiri fed her brain bullshit like abhi will get normal as soon as akshu leaves udaipur they said something like that.
@Shubh
I have always said, to me, the divorce was okay for many reasons. What was not okay was the words. All the words by Abhi, Manjiri, Aru are the ones that made Akshu leave Udaipur. What better punishment than psychological torture? Physical pain disappears immediately. But emotional and psychological torture is evil. Because we human have our own demons in our psych. Our psych plus blames from other people can f**k up any person.
@Shubh
Now i understand which pain Kai was talking about. The pain of being reminded of being hubbyless.
I dont understand one thing. Aru did not blame anyone??? Then what does “Akshu couldn’t bear my happiness, you killed my husband, you took Neil to the concert.” And “you snatched my mum and now my hubby” mean?
Infact she was the first to blame her sister.
As i said, its funny how she did not remember to say “my baby will be fatherless because of you Akshu”.
Those blames were not about Neils death if we are being honest. They were about each hatred for Akshu. If they were really about neils death, we could hear something along the lines of “my baby will grow up without its father”, “how will i live without my love”, “my son died early because of Akshu”, “my son bla bla bla”, ” my bro this, that” But none said this, did they?
Only we commentors thought of a certain baby who will grow up without a father.
Agree, i think i missed the part of her blaming akshu. She started disliking akshu when she came to know that akshu is her half sister and her mom loves akshu more and prefer akshu over arohi. And when seerat died arohi’s jealousy and insecurity turned into hatered. Thankfully she don’t hate to h extent of killing her and if i am not wrong she never mortally wounded her. She wants akshu to be happy and be away from her. I hope abhir and ruhi share a better bond. I am sure makers are never going to show any sister bond between ak and ar
@Shubh
I agree she did not cross the line of wanting to mortally hurt her.
I must have missed “her mom loves akshu more and prefer akshu over arohi.” Please elaborate what indicated this. As far as i know, Sheela destroyed Aru and made her who she is now.
You are right on sheela part. Seerat’s actuons implied that she liked akshu more, like giving akshu better clothes and gifts that arohi ( this part was because of surekha and manish also they were always ready to berate sirat) both girls entered into science competition aru won prize while akshu did not and teacher was praising arohi and at the same time saying that akshu is not good in studies aisa lagta hi nai hai ki dono behen hai ek padhai mai achi hai ek nai hai something like that at that time sirat confronted the teacher for her remarks and asked her to focus on weak students instead of academically strong ones and she said har bache mai talent hota hai jaruri nai ki padhai me hi acha ho etc. Aur aru ne sun lia aur use laga ki meri mumy bajae mere lie khush hone ke is baat se dukhi haiki teacher ne akshu ki burai ki.
Sirat se ye galti hui ki wo balance nai bitha payi dono mai, she was so concerned ki akshu ko kabi na lage ki wo uski sauteli ma hai isilie uska jada khayal raha is chakkar mai arohi thodi neglect ho jati thi.
Manish aur surekha hamesha sirat ko pinpoint karne ke lie ready rehte hi the aur upar se manish ne bi kai bar sirat ko khoon khandan ke nam pe sunaya hai.
3rd gen ke starting ke 3 4 epi mai jo dikhaya uspe se maine ye analyse kia ki arohi hate kyu karti hai akshu ko aur wo insecure kyu hai.
Its very hard for me when you use Indian words. Even google translate doesnt help me. I dont know why. But anyways caught up a few meaning.
@Priya
You are right 100%. Nav has to bear consequences of inviting Abhi. Abhi obviously wants to indirectly help Abhir and so what better way than help his parents instead? If Navra has no problem then Abhir will have no prob. Its kind of a chain reaction that if Navra is in trouble, then Abhir will feel the trouble too. So Manyu staying at Sharmas will show him what needs helping.
But how Manyu does it is wrong as you said. He should have been honest since Mus is now his sister. And todays incident is totally on Manyu. Akshu minimized impact when she took it from his hands but this will later fall all on her. Nav may accuse her of conspiring with Manyu while the truth is, his own ego, naivety did not let him see that it was actually bullshit that Manyu happened to have 40% discount. Akshu picked it up so easly, why did he not? Unless he wanted to see what he wanted and what he did not want, he ignored.
@Mark.
Agreed here. I wonder how Akshara escapes these events building up against her family. Abhinav is unable to express his state of mind on the recent budding friendship and support between the wife and his paying guest. His insecurity is only going to grow not just that, his sense off self-respect for which he is well-known among the three families would take a hit when he discovers the unintentional, but patronising way that Abhimanyu goes about in his family. For a middle-class husband the blows will be unbearable almost insufferable. Yes inviting Abhimanyu to stay has its unintended consequences. I wholly agree with this point. I could see here the more benign aspects of his narcissistic personality. However cast, these kinds of behaviour are problematic when a person gives off an air of superiority however innocuous. After hearing the Sharma conversation, by happenstance, it has to be said, he comes up with another solution that tricks Abhinav.
@Meed
Fully agree. “Nav is unable to express his state of mind on the recent budding friendship and support between the wife and his paying guest.” Well now he is unable. But soon he will be able. And when that time comes, even i am interested to see Akshu reaction.
@Mark.
Me too. Akshara would protest vociferously her innocence, and you know what, she’s right as well. This misunderstanding is going to be interesting to see as it could go anywhere. She will try to but Abhinav is hard to convince when he makes up his mind. I don’t know if she keeps quiet, this is because the fans will realise how she views the Navra relationship from that confrontation.
Arohi was a little pitiful today, she didn’t want to make the trio uncomfortable with her presence, and she still dreads a real face to face with Akshara. Abhimanyu noticed Arohi’s discomfort but they are not in the kind of relationship where they can try to talk with open hearts, they are resigned to thinking that happiness has already fled out the window after losing their loved one. Birla also made me feel very sorry, the hearts of Birla members are filled with mourning and grief that consume them and tirelessly darken their souls unable to really move forward towards the future. How can they go and celebrate with joyful hearts, with people who are involved in so many tragedies that their families have experienced
@yeol
I took @Shubhs analysis that Aru is hesistant to attend as she will be reminded of her hubby status. NIL. But you said “trio uncomfortable with her presence, and she still dreads a real face to face with Akshara” please elaborate.
Well Birlas are a lost cause. Their upbringing on Anisha caused her death. Especially Mahimas. You remember how Mahima saw Anisha as a characterless burden, that better she gets married fast to Kai so that she will be rid of pending embarrassment. Untill her death day, Mahima never made efforts with Anisha. Infact, she saw a curse masquarading as her daughter. She pushed Anisha away from her to go fend for herself. Inshort, Birlas left all child care to Manjiri, who was not in a good condition to care for anyone. As a result, we had Anisha, we have parth and Abhi. Soon we will have Nishta. God help us.
So if you ask me. Birlas blamed Aksh and Kai for Anishas death so that they can not blame themselves.
Today, its about a guilty mom. It was about Mahima failure as a mom. Infact, she should give everyone the sorry that she never gave. She should say sorry to Kai for her failure and how she knew exactly Anishas motive but used Kai anyway for her own safety.
But what can i expect from someone who is filled with so much hatred, so much such that she hated her own daughter for it?
@@yeol, @Mark.
It’s also possible that Aarohi feels weird as her wedding hasn’t been fixed and another has been agreed on and fixed in the same family. She sees that Abhimanyu is dragging his heels, and she isn’t sure if she can have the happiness again. Now the priority of Mahima and Abhimanyu is Abhir. The sight to her is unmistakable. But she has to be patient and see how the whole thing plays out. This is her choice and so she should not doubt herself here. However if it doesn’t work out, she can work on something for her and Ruhi that is a good alternative.
@Meed
This is another way to put it. Goenkas didnt do well regarding Aru marriage. I mean what is its status? What is Manyus status? Manjiris status? What does Aru think is the status of her happiness? Is she still thinking Akshu is eying her happiness? She has whole of udaipur to herself, why is she not happy?
@Mark, it wasn’t specified here but during the episode Arohi thought that she didn’t want to complicate things for Abhimanyu Abhinav and Akshara, with her presence so that nothing is fixed between them. She is afraid of ending up creating tension on the whole. Arohi is afraid of her face to face with Akshara she does not want to end up hating her like she did then, but she is afraid to get closer to Akshara and that their relationship will end up being tested, because of the current situation because she remains a Birla and she will definitely take sides where she sees her daughter’s happiness.
@yeol
Do you mean to say she wants to give them space? She wants AbhiraNav to first figure out their shit first? Or she doesnt want to get caught up in the cross fire?
@Mark.
I would think so. It’s possible that she has been thinking and most importantly where her place is in the whole scheme of things. She is also wondering how to engage with her sister at her husband’s or marital home the idea which is heading this com, so she is wracked with that feeling of trepidation. Yes she has this well-known fear that Akshara and Abhimanyu will reunite. She only expresses it to Akshara but skirts around it when talking with the other family members.
@Meed, same impression, I would add that she knows herself if she ends up misinterpreting certain situations she is afraid of ending up making other mistakes, she wants to remain in a neutral balance for the moment between Abhimanyu and her sister.
Akshara wants to preserve Abhinav’s dignity, despite Abhimanyu’s sincere help discreetly wanted to give Abhinav, I see this as a way for Akshara to redeem herself after her slip of the tongue, as she knows that friends always try to help each other without want to embarrass the other.
@yeol
Today Aksh was not at all pleased and she did not accept his help and she was rightly so. When Manyu helped Akshu exam day, manyu said it. So whats changed? Infact, Manyu had a good cover up today that since Mus is his sister now, he has the right to help. But what did Manyu do? He fooled Nav. Now its Navs fault for getting fooled.
But when Akshu took Manyus mistake from his hands, later Nav may misunderstand that it was Akshus idea all along.
I swear this is a big test that will make us question if at all Nav trusts, understands Akshu?
@Mark I understand your concern but remember even Goenka who is Abhinav’s in-laws failed to convince Abhinav to take their help for a better job. Abhimanyu had Abhinav to toughen up, as he had already seen back then what kind of person Abhinav was. Abhimanyu understands Abhinav to some extent, he knows that Abhinav would never have accepted his help if he offered to her, especially over money matter. He wanted to make a discreet gesture by leaving Abhinav the leisure to be able to pay, without worrying too much about the price because of his limited budget. It was not to deceive but to help Abhinav while preserving his pride, and I think Abhinav only wanted to see what he wanted to see. When a friend makes a gesture of kindness like Abhimanyu did for Abhinav, when someone finds out about it and recognizes that their situation would never have allowed them such an arrangement without budget concerns, people feel usually gratitude and appreciation if he doesn’t let their ego speak. For Abhir it is up to Akshara to tell Abhinav about it, she is his wife, she will have the words to reassure him. I think it’s a bit inappropriate for Abhimanyu to talk about Abhir to Abhinav because he’s just a friend, friends usually just think of protecting. but it is the partners who are obliged to trust each other and to tell each other everything and it is a subject which is rather personal for their couple.
@yeol
I am going to share on “For Abhir it is up to Akshara to tell Abhinav about it, she is his wife, she will have the words to reassure him. I think it’s a bit inappropriate for Abhimanyu to talk about Abhir to Abhinav” I agree.
Infact, just like how Nav is overprotective over his family, same way Akshu is overprotective of her Fam. Akshu delayed telling Nav because she doesnt want to besmirch Navbir bond and hurt Nav too. Its fine. But now she decided to tell Nav after Muskai wedding. Better late than never.
But Nav will not share the same sentiments when he gets crazy from all pending nuances and mu.
At this time, the fact that Manyu knows, will make him mu Akshu that this is yet another Abhira team up to make him insignificant.
I must say, i have prepared myself mentally for Aksh another heartbreak. Makers should just make her a single mom.
@yeol. But this time i think abhi had a better reasom for helping. He was able to convince abhinav to get month payment. Like that if he directly told that he want to help finacialy too in muskan marriage whom he now consideres as his sis, nav will never deny it. But what he did is wrong thougj his intension is good.
@Priya, allow me to doubt. Abhinav and a son-in-law and he said Manish that he considers himself a son of the Goenka family but did not accept their help. Abhimanyu’s friendship is also too fresh, he won’t be comfortable accepting her help. Abhinav surely won’t let Abhimanyu help him financially now that he considers him his friend, he can never let him spend money on him or on Muskaan, he prefers to try to work it out even if he must end up getting stressed. he also wants to prove that as Muskaan’s brother he can handle anything
@@yeol.
Agreed. The truth is that the Rajasthani setup and expectations would overwhelm Abhinav and his finances. Abhinav doesn’t know much about it, just as he didn’t know that he was tricked by Abhimanyu. Over time this wedding will open Abhinav’s eyes as to how out of place he was. I remember the hysterical, frenzied mode that he was in just to provide for Abhir. His one child. Abhimanyu was helping from a point of knowing that Abhinav wouldn’t be able to meet up with the needs of his in-laws. Somehow he is taking over Abhinav’s life is what I am getting from these. However tricking Abhinav twice isn’t sincere now, is it? I thought that it was a token of greatness and the revelation of how this money was put together will be interesting to see.
@Meed
Tricked Nav twice???? 🙉🙉🙉did i miss another trick?
@Mark.
No you didn’t. The first one is even on your com, Abhimanyu and Akshara worked on the pretend elopement plan, so that Abhinav could see Kairav’s good intentions and approve the marriage. The second one has an understanding that Abhimanyu should give her the full bill after the wedding. I would like to know how Abhinav would be like connecting invisible dots in his mind, linking spurious events that are mere coincidences. To him it could appear to be something like a conspiracy. Abhimanyu’s intentions are good so far but when the secrets start to emerge, they wouldn’t understand that Abhinav was tolerating a lot.
@Mark.
Wait I remember one more now. Bade Papa and Abhimanyu have a gentleman’s agreement on paying for Abhir’s surgery, this one Akshara isn’t aware because she still thinks that it was a charitable act by the Birla Hospital. This one would play as another trick on Abhinav’s mind. He would be wondering and rightly so, how many more things his in-laws and his friend Abhimanyu are hiding from him.
@Meed, If Abhinav is not closed minded, he will understand that certain acts that were done without his knowledge were for his own good. family and friends are there for that, give us their help even if we don’t want to, or get us out of trouble without shouting it to everyone, or telling us. And in this case it was situations that needed help to relieve Abhinav of the problems, a good person recognizes when he is wished well.
No it was the hospital’s scheme! Manish offered to help but later he need not to.
@@yeol.
So true. The acts were a courtesy to him and not a slight, neither a sleight, they were harmlessly done without him knowing and for his own good. Therein lies the misunderstanding, only he wouldn’t know until it is late and he spills out imaginary concepts with the events causing a brouhaha at the wedding. I agree. This is a way that could lead to Abhinav realising that he had made a mistake confronting Akshara over her loyalty as a possibility, it must be pointed out, and is unable to forgive himself.
If it’s about aarohi then it’s her wish to attend the wedding or not but i think she should go to kasuli as she is kairav’s sister and @shubh why are you saying about the term widow here it’s now get old that a widow can’t attend functions….and if it’s about nav then he shouldn’t be insecure from abhi bcoz abhi is thankful to nav as he saved abhir’s life and yea it’s true that abhi too has saved abhir’s life so abhir’s both father are too good at their places
Log sirf kehne ko progressive hue hai, kai logo ki soch to aaj bi bekar hai. Aur mai shaadi attend karne ki baat nai kar rai, rituals mai participate karne ke baare me keh rai hu. Chalo duniye ke taunts chodo tel lene jaye wo par use akela mehsus ho sakta hai na niel ke na hone se khalipan mehsus ho sakta hai, uske aur niel ke shaadi ke koi functions nai hue the to us choz ki kami bi mehsoos ho sakti hai.
@shubh, But now she wants to marry abhi for ruhi and not thinking about Neil
@Mia, true, the two fathers consider each other friends after saving their sons’ lives respectively, but Abhinav’s insecurity is due to his position as a Husband who sees his wife getting closer and closer to a man who was her spouse and who and also the father of her son. and let’s not forget that Abhinav and Akshara are currently only married and wives on paper and nothing more. If his position as a father is threatened when he begins to feel that his position as a husband is also threatened he will be plagued even more by insecurities.
Do you think if navra had consummate those insecurities will not arise? Can we garantee on that?
I can say that a partner will certainly have less insecurity when the relationship will be completed we feel less mistrust and insecurity because we have this idea that the partner will not look elsewhere for everything we already give and not just romantic speeches and songs. even if no one is safe from betrayal because some people take for granted the trust we place in them, because of the trust we put in the relationship we completed. Bepannah is a lesson in trust that can be delivered unsuspectingly when you feel like you’ve given your all in the relationship. this series showed that when a person thinks they have given themselves completely in a relationship even when the signs are in front of them they can ignore them because of trust.
Anupama is a good example, she did gave her all, what happened?
@WTH, that’s what I’m saying. given everything in a marital relationship lulls mistrust, and honest couples who want to move forward end up coming out stronger. but there are the examples of Bepannah and Anupama that some can abuse the trust of others, when a person gives their all in the relationship they are less likely to worry about the little signs and the partner who is dishonest will end up abusing their trust . at least the person after having suffered ends up understanding that he was not at fault in the deception of his partner, because he or she was fully engaged in Bepannah they had understood this point.
@yeol so isn’t it trust what matters most n not that.
@Hi, in the case it’s a normal couple who has already passed all the stages, that’s the most important measure of trust. But if it’s a couple who lives together but hasn’t gone through all the stages of the relationship yet, the couple’s trust and solidarity advances with each step taken. just as in arranged marriages love and trust are generally established only if they manage to cross all the stages, otherwise the relationship remains incomplete and there will be a lack which can easily make the relationship fail at the slightest obstacle it is necessary develop the relationship on all aspects. I agree that trust is the most important factor but trust comes with stages even in friendship Initially the other is seen as a casual acquaintance, then a colleague, or a comrade or a buddy, and finally a friend. Within the Circle of Friends, there are several evolving sub-categories. Some are promoted “friends”, others fallen. just like in a couple’s relationship, a couple can fall apart if important steps are forgotten.
@Hi, I know we may not have the same view of relationships and that’s okay
@yeol. Yeah. I value your pov and there are lots of things to learn for me not only u but also i like reading @francis @mark n @happy ideas. But here unfortunately its difficult for me to change my mind on how i see a relationship.😣
How does the increased understanding of Abhimanyu and Akshara chip away at the Navra relationship? The two cannot exist simultaneously and that was a sign when Abhinav’s offered flower fell. Now Akshara and Abhimanyu are more cordial based on the Abhir memo. So when Abhir’s natural parents are in some understanding and work increasingly with each other albeit in the context of Muskaan’s marriage to Kairav, the suspicions of Abhinav will correspondingly increase. Now they have one more item that they keep as secret, piling up as Akshara presumes to tell Abhinav after the wedding. The potential misunderstanding is so finely built, brick by brick. The clues in episodes given off will become a weird sense of déjà vu for all three families. Mishaps have happened before Kairav’s wedding and Abhinav has lost his family before, Akshara’s previous marriage has gone through crises, Abhimanyu has had cold feet on his engagement with Aarohi, a nice long list of such like events is possible.
Abhinav and Akshara’s marriage is built on Abhir and the take-home message is that only a misunderstanding on Abhir is likely to unravel it. The insecurity of Abhinav could be a huge blow if it explodes at Akshara, but Akshara will probably bear with the trouble for Abhir’s sake. Kairav and Aarohi’s conversation shows how the Goenkas have become a cadet house to the Birlas. They even stake their happiness on events from the Birla perspective. The elders of the Goenka family are subsidiaries of the Birlas. Their relationship with the Birlas have so many nodes and antinodes where misunderstanding can recur without much interference. This unequal dynamic is likely to continue until the end of Aarohi’s engagement, by which time the relationship between the two families would have suffered a massive damage. Although Abhir and Ruhi remain viable links the situation looks dicey where Aarohi isn’t happy and feeling loved.
Akshara isn’t going to have an EMA, for the reason that the Abhira story has to grow like a plant which increases episode count and a web of conflict to untangle. An affair hastens the story and damages the Sharmas thereby resolving the issue between Abhimanyu and Akshara quickly which conversely reduces episode count giving the writers more to worry about and the producers a problem of finding new cast to shake up the story. This is a conjecture, the information used to arrive at it is in parts and the events may transpire in a different way, just to mention.
PS. This is my handle now. A hope and tribute as well, for Abhinav that he gets a deserving resolution of his character worthy of honour.
@Meed
Wow. I agree with many things you said. The reason you pointed on why Aksh cannot have EMA is highly logical.
I agree with how the potential misunderstanding was built, if Akshu freezes and not get fierce to speak up, we will be left with yet another unsolved misunderstanding. As a certain commentor said, this is not a good way to move a story forward. These mu should be resolved after sometime. But the more they keep piling them up, we audience tend to base our opinions on this unfairness.
You are also right about the state of Goenkas. Goenkas invisible “keeping/maintaining “rishta”” binds that keep them from speaking up, will be the death of them.
@Mark.
Thanks. What is more likely to occur is that a confrontation between Abhinav and Akshara. Abhimanyu has the relationship with Ruhi a Birla in her own right, plus Abhir would be lost forever in such an event. This is highly unlikely to happen where Akshara and Abhimanyu are heavily damaged. Where it is certain that Goenkas disown Akshara and she is cursed by almost all of the elders. Plus viewers would hate that direction.
Some series long since consigned to the memory, such as KKIS where Anubhav and Riddhima united without their family’s blessings, and AKNNS where Darsh Rawal and Nandini getting together, it can be said accidentally, under the shower while he was engaged to Dr Charmi, serve as reminders that viewers don’t like some kinds of jokes around marriages.
But a verbal misunderstanding may be used to seperate Abhinav and Akshara. But the separation might if that’s what is planned, happen with the elders not able to blame anyone for it. Which is the most reasonable way to do it.
The Goenkas are going to feel the pain in some way or the other ; their three grandchildren will have their lives shaped by this event. Eventually their relationship with Birla will exist to service the relationship that survives with them in turn dying a slow death.
Abhinav is having issues with anxiety because of money problem which most of our fathers also go through daily.
Amidst this, he may have some other anxieties like losing Abhimanyu… I mean Abhir😜…but he is coping up with it. He has lots of responsibilities and so he seems like stressed out, shaky, tired.
Whereas Abhimanyu is over 1 month Holiday. He has his mind in its place and awake. He may give him a messag… uhmhmm
Moving on
I am yet angry and want to know who convinced this Daayan Dida to come Kasauli.
Arohi is the only living glamour
Oh I forgot did Manish asked Vampire Daadi to live more for seeing Abhir’s Shaadi and Roohi’s shaadi. Obviously she will be alive.. Manish and Swarna should think about themselves.
This Vamp Daadi and her eternal Thu Thu Thu . Ughh. It was ok till she was doing and now like everybody is doing in Rajan Shahi serials and even the viewers also started doing 🤮.
It’s cringe now.
Rajan Shahi might have got Trademark over this by now.
Why three ‘Thu’s when one big ‘Thoo’ is enough for defining his serials
@Shyra
Was laughing throughout. #MaNav didnt work out afterall.
“Which most of our fathers also go through daily” I don’t agree to me, nowadays most fathers are capable to manage daily! I see many rich people around, so it’s you that you see through your filtered eyes, and in this serial itself I only see Abhinav, Goenkas n Birlas are all wealthy. Abundance is everywhere, this world is awash in money🥰
Daadi says mere pote ki shaadi karayenge. Bruh which pota? Your one pota is lost and never found and your other two twin potas fled to foreign after the jail trip.
Kartik was your late Pota.
Kairav is your Par Pota
Abhir is your Pota square.
Wait for more.
You are more ancient than Caveman. You became immortal from the day you stop wearing your Watch. Time stopped for you. Now in the name of Kundli you go to Black Magic Baba for your strength.
@Shyra
I can’t stop laughing. Agreed. She should be clocking a century now. She is graced with a long and eventful lifespan and the vigour of a seventy year old. So she is blessed to see five generations and that is rare in many families. I hope that the colder and thinner mountain air in HP doesn’t play games with her health.
Again was 🤣🤣😆😆🤣🤣🤣🤣😅 entire time.
I want Gen 4 before Daadi Contract is over.
@shyra you have to wait for a long time to watch gen 4 so that’s up to you
@yeol yes you are right and i think only abhinav can fight with his insecurities and i think he should
@mark which points you want me to translate in hindi
@Shubh
I guess if you mix up the languages, google translate throws a tantrum.
“said har bache mai talent hota hai jaruri nai ki padhai me hi acha ho etc. Aur aru ne sun lia aur use laga ki meri mumy bajae mere lie khush hone ke is baat se dukhi haiki teacher ne akshu ki burai ki.
Sirat se ye galti hui ki wo balance nai bitha payi dono mai, she was so concerned ki akshu ko kabi na lage ki wo uski sauteli ma hai isilie uska jada khayal raha is chakkar mai arohi thodi neglect ho jati thi.
Manish aur surekha hamesha sirat ko pinpoint karne ke lie ready rehte hi the aur upar se manish ne bi kai bar sirat ko khoon khandan ke nam pe sunaya hai.
3rd gen ke starting ke 3 4 epi mai jo dikhaya uspe se maine ye analyse kia ki arohi hate kyu karti hai akshu ko aur wo insecure kyu hai.”
What i meant was when teacher was criticizing akshu, sirat confronted her for doing the same and said every child is unique and have different talent, it is not necessary that every child should be good in studies, aru heard this and at that time she was 8 and she thought that her mother is more concerned abhot akshu rather than being happy for her.
Sirat was not able to balance both kids, she wanted that akshu should never feel that her bio mom is dead and sirat is step mother that’s why she used to cater to akshu more than arohi due to which akshu was sometimes neglected by her mom.
She started feeling that akshu is taking away her mom from her( this feeling started when she came to know about akshu’s parentage, and if kartik and sirat had not died, they would have definately solved the issue between the sis but thwy died after 2 3 epi)
Manish and surekha were always ready to point fingers on sirat, and how sirat is not from a rich family, how her mother was an adulterous, her every actions were scrutinized. (Goenka are going to show their true colours soon to muskan) suhasini’s behaviour towards sirat improved only because of kairav and suhasini shared a good bond with sirat’s maternal grandma.
My analysis of aru’s behavious towards akshu is based on the 1st weeks epis of 3rd generation
Goenka is a wealthy family, they love big parties and flaunt the luxury they live in, Kairav is also used to their way of life. Goenka made concessions because they are Akshara’s in-laws and they don’t want to create a wave. but Goenka won’t always lower his lifestyle for Sharma’s whenever they feel uncomfortable, Abhinav is lovely but he’s their son in law so they won’t have to put up with him forever. Goenka has a certain image and a certain pride to maintain with their hosts, and if this kind of situation continues to happen every time, or they have to adapt to Muskaan’s family, Goenka’s old mentality will soon resurface, and this will trigger the return of the wealthy, self-centered Goenka family. I can already see the cardboard darkened with ink.
@@yeol.
I agree with you. Goenkas have made a lot of sacrifices, or courtesies to the Sharma family. The Sharmas have to realise that people exhaust their goodwill and act as strong willed acquaintances when pushed to the unpleasant side of things. Abhinav, being more thoughtful, is getting carried away by the wedding event, same as Akshara mistakes happen when the people involved don’t pay enough attention. A lot will be unveiled at this wedding for sure.
I agree that the cardboard is ready to be darkened with ink. The whole saga would be worth a treat.
@Meed, exactly, and yes a lot of drama is sure to happen at Kairav and Muskaan’s wedding. the hidden intentions of some will be revealed, the insecurities of others will be laid bare, the patience of some will be sorely tested, and the goodness of some will be tested and reduced to dust. while others will see their future happiness marred by the familiar veil of family interactions and conflict.
Abhinav has been living a bit of an illusory existence over the last six years. He has loved his Paradi Mrs, first from a far and now, over the last few months, with the joyful belief that he is loved in return.
Only she is no paradi-housewife. Instead, much to his surprise, she is the daughter of riches from the dessert clans of Udaipur and with a voice like the melodious Nightingale. Another man’s child, whose hand he holds as his own, now also grabs at the other man’s hand. And, the other man, well he is not such a monster, more like a brother, and far from blowing down Abhinav’s home, he is helping to keep it upright.
Abhinav is observing, taking it all in, yes his insecurities rise, but they are not reason enough to hide things, to side step them, as Akshara is doing. She says they complete each, do they and how? A relationship where inner turmoil is hidden, has difficulty in addressing uncomfortable truths, games and not persuasion used to overcome opposition – is it really comfortable, at ease and secure?
@Rai.
More like living the dream, the dream grew into a one-sided love and his wife knew and walked towards him and then events started overtaking the couple and now the basis of their marriage is drifting away. Abhir has a quest in his mind to find his father. So a lot riding now on other participants to shake up the idyllic Aashiyana.
@Meed, absolutely on the money from you. Love your last line.
I agree. The irony is “he is helping to keep it upright.”
Muskaan and Kairav’s social and financial difference will become the abyss of their marriage. There will come a time when Kairav will have to make concessions for Muskaan and go against the advice of his family, and I believe that at that time dear Kairav will no longer be able to hold the same speech,
“do as Muskaan wishes”. A predictable marriage with predictable complications.
There is a new entry fr arohi I guess.n there ak tandavs bts.so smthing fish story is on
@Xyz I saw the scen of Tandav that Akshara performed, maybe it’s for Abhinav’s life or to pray that she can avoid obstacles after a big turning point in her and others’ lives
@Yeol @Xyz, isn’t Akshara’s Tandev from an old scene of the dance she performed with Abhimanyu? She is a Krishna, Kanha ji, devotee. Abhimanyu is about MahaDev, a Shiva follower and the Tandev is a Shiva dance. Abhinav said he does not believe any god like the others, but he stands by his Rishtas.
@Rai, it’s a new tandav scene she did for the series, a Tandav for Shiva to be more exact. we will see the turning point but his Tandav was dedicated to Lord Shiva there is certainly an unexpected turning point that the series is preparing for us.
@PO, things getting worst, yes. He would feel like he was manipulated but I suspect he would be understanding of the trick, because he accepted he had wrongly judged Kairav and wasn’t open to persuasion.
I am wondering what if Abhinav finds out that Akshara was pretending to ask Kairav and Muskaan to elope and intentionally let Abhinav heard they were against the idea of eloping? Isn’t it going to get worst?
@PO
That is okay. Infact Nav will deduce that you helped me see the real Kai.
But unfortunately the elope drama is not an issue. The issue is, that drama was orchastrated by Abhira. So Nav can possibly mu it as conspiring against him by Abhira. All these budding nuances are fine except the hotel finances issue of today, which according to many of us, see that Manyu could use any excuse to help as he had plenty.
When tat happen Muskaan is already Kairav’s wife, isn’t it normal for husband n wife to share their up n down together after marriage, isn’t it the oaths they are taking during wedding rituals? @yeol
@WTH, we know the Goenkas, take a good look at Kartik when there is a difference of thought, the Goenka couples often end up experiencing tragedies that they can’t avoid, no Goenka couple has survived quietly to misunderstandings and differences their relationships are turned into a chaotic roller coaster that impacted everyone’s lives. Kairav will certainly experience his share of drama after marriage and he will not escape the fate of his family, the misunderstandings that will grow and the inevitable family feuds he will also end up being divided between his family and his wife.
“@Yeol, If Abhinav is not closed minded, he will understand that certain acts that were done without his knowledge were for his own good. family and friends are there for that, give us their help even if we don’t want to, or get us out of trouble without shouting it to everyone, or telling us. And in this case it was situations that needed help to relieve Abhinav of the problems, a good person recognizes when he is wished well.”
I couldnt help myself @yeol.
I had to say. Why didnt you use the same analysis when it was Akshu doing sacrificing one year for Manyu????? I agree Akshu was naive at the time but why did you strongly take offence to her act but let Manyu get away with fooling a grown ass man who despite his middle class status, has his own pride??????
@Mark, doing a small action that won’t have reactions on someone, and that doesn’t involve complicating a situation that is already serious for me and different, of wanting to do a good action while knowing that it will bring d enormous difficulties and problems to everyone around the person. whether it was Goenka or Birla everyone suffered consequences for this huge decision that Akshara made which completely twisted the relations of the two families, there was already tension but it added even more tension and mistrust between them. Small actions can be misinterpreted but will never do as much harm and damage as huge actions done without thinking of the consequences.
@yeol
I beg to differ. Whatever actions Manyu is doing now and Akshu “side step them” or doesnt pay attention, is wrecking havoc on Navs life and Navra family. Abhir, Akshu, Nav, Aru, Ruhi will all get affected directly. Not forgetting indirectly possibly affecting Muskai.
Inshort, dont lessen someones suffering or dont compare them as less significant.
This mu will unravel, undo 6yrs of hard work and commitment and reduce it to a farce.
And all this was sponsored by Manyus executive stay in the idyllic Aashiyana.
These two situations are same. Good intentions done in secret which end up being perceived as a misfortune on someones life. So please lets not sugarcoat this one just because someone is not taking depression pills because they are weak inside.
@Mark you have your vision but if Akshara and Abhinav’s relationship was this strong in six years of relationship and Akshara was more attentive to his partner’s insecurities, small situations that aim to help weren’t going to derail their relationship . Akshara was never very attentive to her partner’s emotions and never understood the subtle signs of their concern. It’s not because of small actions that a drama happens, it’s because of big mistakes. I’m not unreasonable enough to go and compare an innocuous act to an act of pure recklessness. What Abhimanyu did for Abhinav many do everyday for their loved ones, but what Akshara had done smart people would never have done such a thing without considering the relationship between his two families. Abhimanyu had his reasons which I find logical to come to Kasauli, it was Abhinav who knowing that he did not yet have complete confidence in the solidity of his couple who made a proposal which was going to ruin his confidence. People can’t ruin a real relationship that has real trust, that lasted 6 years and especially not small actions to help. what has disturbed this peace and the secret that Akshara and Abhinav kept and which ended up being discovered, he should have known that their secrets were the thing that was going to disturb the lives of the children and Abhimanyu and Arohi. Abhimanyu just adjusts to the choice Akshara took and he tries to have an open mind about the situation. He is well obliged to try to bond with his son’s parents because it is the easiest situation. The secret has ruined his 6 long years of hard work and commitment from Abhinav, and nobody else. You compare the incomparable, but good if you are satisfied well, it’s just as good for you
And the makers have started to whitewash Manyu..now Akshara will start to feel slowly but start to feel a pull towards him but will stop herself. A complete secure Nav is being shown as insecure. Suddenly Abhir is more inclined towards Manyu, runs to him instead of Nav. Ridiculous. But can I also just say Aarohi is much more beautiful than Akshara. There is a class, a grace a style that she has it’s very attractive I would even say s*xy. Akshara is more childish with her pitched voice and overexcitement. I wonder why they didn’t make Aarohi the FL, but I think someone answered that here very well I think @Vaijyanthi Aarohi is strong, intelligent, beautiful , independent. In a sense an alpha female and Manyus ego could never handle that. I had started a writing piece on Aarohi sometime back now I realize again why, might have to start up on that again.
Agree.. i too seem arohi as much more stronger character than akshara.
@Dropofthought, true, Pranali is not a bad actress she is also very cute. But Arohi has more presence on the screen, she is more assertive and more feminine, despite her young age I find her more convincing in her role as a mother than Akshara, Pranali sometimes gives the impression of being the big sister by Abhir. Really even her looks are worked and more beautiful, she doesn’t need a lot of artifice to be magnificent Arohi also exudes a certain maturity despite some of her actions. The scene where she put Manjiri in her place was something, she expressed Arohi’s emotions really well
@yeol I agree. I loved that scene because honestly she wasn’t just selfish there but she thought like a mother. She not only thought for Roohi but also thought about Abhir from a mother’s perspective. She put them both in her place and that’s some of the traits I love about her. She might not always come up front and give lectures like Akshara tends to but when she speaks, everyone listens.
This was what I had stated writing for Aarohi’s POV. I stopped because I didn’t have much time but I’m thinking I might want to start. It really upsets me when some amazing characters don’t go the way they could like the writers or makers almost waste their potential and so I write to maybe help ease that for some other viewers as well lol.
https://www.wattpad.com/1226587246-yeh-saath-kehlata-hain-a-new-glimpse/comment/1226587246__1686115097_5afd00c883
@Dropofthought, I’m especially looking forward to seeing Karishma in a new project as a lead actress maybe alongside Zain imam, they would make a great pair on screen or even another actor. But maybe you should keep writing, Arohi has a lot of fans who would love to read a story based on her. because indeed her character is not exploited enough as she is not the main actress, her fans will surely be delighted to be able to discover her in another aspect through your fiction.
@yeol I agree, I would love to see her in another series, lol if the story hadn’t progressed I wouldn’t have mind seeing her with Abhinav if that meant more focus on their story. But I hope her next show also shows her as a strong, independent lead she would be a powerhouse with another male lead, how about Fahman Khan, I feel they would also look nice together.
but yes Fahman Khan, he would be a good pair, I knew him thanks to Mere Dad Ki Dulhan and Imlie, but he has too many projects in progress he will perhaps play in Gum Hai Kisi Ke Pyar Mein as he is in discussion for a role. I too would have preferred Abhinav to be paired with Arohi if his relationship with Akshara hadn’t gone beyond friendship. I also hope to see her in a strong role, not a role of a daughter-in-law who always sacrifices herself for her family by always being humiliated or denigrated, like the Bhagyas who have become a kind of reference. I expect a lot from Karishma after her role or I hope that she will have her own track with the next generation even if it’s not for now
Hahah yes! Both Karishma and Pranali can come back in the next gen. Let Karishma have a lovely, faithful husband and Pranali can have her Harshad or someone like Manyu again. Karishma can play the FL and the contrast will be nice to see lol let Karma be served.
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