Zindagi Mere Ghar Aana 12th October 2021 Written Episode Update: Pritam gets emotional to meet his son

I did not really like today’s episode. I am not asking for only Amritam moments or romance yet I really don’t like the Sakhujas emotional family drama. I have observed from 2009 ever since the inception of ITV’s longest ever running show yeh rishta kya kehlata there has been a lot of emphasis on family bond in every other show which came after that. Imo, I really dislike the way the family bond and relations are shown in most ITV shows in the past 7-8 years.
– I mean they are propagating so many wrong notions through this whole drama of family love/bond….In today’s episode I really did not like what Amrita said to Kabir that he is their blood so he cannot ever be a criminal and the Amrita goes on misjudging Pritam based on wrong preconceptions and judges him everytime to be a criminal all because he is an outsider? Well it is not really the blood which decides an individual does crimes and becomes criminal it is their circumstances and personal decisions which leads them to commit crimes, same way with Kabir and Pritam.
– This is there in all ITV shows the FLs always have all for family, all for family attitude but when it comes to outsiders and especially the the MLs the FLs forget all their manners and everything and act like some beasts. In this serial both the FLs are like that. Amrita is too caring and loving to her family members but a beast in front of Pritam, same way Meera to Angad.
– I have a feeling that almost all the CVs are certainly propagating this wrong message through their FLs that all good manners, discipline and love is only meant for your family and outsiders should be considered as non-humans.
– Imo, this is a really wrong notion to be propagated. Showing family bond, love and values is correct but it should not go to such an extent that in all ITV serials the CVs will keep showing family is family while others are stones.
– The notions of parenting and discipline is also propagated in a very wrong manner nowadays. I heard many opposing Amrita slapping Kabir in yesterday’s episode in twitter. Imo, she did the right thing when after all she has a motherly relation with him she need not have slapped twice yet she did the right thing. Not really agreed that Kabir’s intentions were really pure to get the job. In that way even the murderers, kidnappers and rapists will also start justifying that their intentions are pure. What Kabir did was really criminal and nothing can justify that. Not just Amrita any mother in her place should punish their children severely be it in the form of slaps, beating or scoldings to correct them if their children do such criminal activities.
– I don’t know why many people have problem with parents slapping their own children in ITV. If it is some sort of physical abuse then agreed it is wrong but correcting and disciplining a child is not WRONG even if it is by slapping or beating them yet I don’t encourage beating or physically abusing women in ITV because there it is like women are weaker beings so we can raise our hands on them which is wrong. In present times women are supposed to be respected a lot.
– Also Kabir is becoming more and more of a spoilt brat because of Amrita’s love. The way he spoke to Angad yesterday was not at all acceptable. Agreed that Kabir was hurt and the family always treats him badly as a good for nothing yet that does not mean he will never leave his immature ways and talk indecently to his brother and taunt him. Seriously I really hated that behavior of Kabir. I know that there are many who stan Kabir because the actor is handsome. I too like the actor but I disagree with accepting the character Kabir’s mistakes and his criminal actions.
– Again I know there are people who stan Kabir-Meera’s pair but rn all the mess in Kabir’s life has happened all because of Meera and if they become a pair it is going to be very toxic with all the complications which will arise between the relation of two brothers and even the other family members. I wish the CVs of this show don’t subject us viewers to such extreme negative drama. We are already having enough of it in almost all other shows of star plus and colors. Earlier, this nonsense drama of jija-saali and bhabhi-devar romance drama was always there in zee shows nowadays star plus and colors are promoting this a lot.

I have seen some people’s suggestions of stories for the serials in comments so I thought I too will add my suggestions for zmga’s story here today sorry for third comment my previous comments were already too long which is why I thought I will write this separate
– To start with I want a good brotherly bond develop between the trio Pritam-Angad-Kabir. @Anu said yesterday that Pritam is the zindagi the ray of hope who has entered Sakhujas life so I want the CVs to develop on that concept. Angad and Kabir should be the first ones who start seeing the brother they have lost in Pritam and for that there needs to be a subplot created around the three. For Kabir since he has lost his job and I really don’t wish he rejoins Meera’s office, there can be a subplot where Pritam like a big bro helps Kabir see some of his inner talent which the other Sakhujas could not see as they always treated him as a good for nothing. In that way Kabir starts spending more time with Pritam and also start calling him bhai officially. For Angad since Pritam has also gone through a broken heart situation he should be able to help Angad more with that part. He already gave a really good advice to Angad earlier with respect to second chance now he should make Angad learn and use it and also give a second chance for Meera. I desperately want Angad-Meera to patch up and don’t want Kabir to end up with Meera.
– Second part, since Angad-Meera-Kabir are parallel leads, I want to suggest something on their story. I too have a feeling of a new love angle coming for Angad with Reema. Actually I was reminded of ssk2 listening to this name. Many tanya sharma fans used to say that Reema is a name formed by inverting Meera, hahaha. I don’t want Reema to be paired with Angad and CVs destroying his character later. Let Reema be paired opposite Kabir not Angad. I wish the entry of Reema brings Meera closer to him with some jealously track. Perhaps, they can take a track like Reema enters into Angad’s life and falls for him but he doesn’t reciprocate as he still loves Meera but tries hard to move on from Meera. On the other side Meera starts missing Angad more and more when she sees certain traits of him in Kabir and starts recognizing that the traits she always wanted in her life partner were all of Angad’s adding on to that should be some brewing up of jealously in Meera seeing Angad and Reema together and also at the same time there can be a unveiling of KK’s truth in front of Meera. Finally, everything leads Meera to go back to Angad when Angad also inspired by Pritam will be ready to give Meera and himself a second chance.
– It would be nice if there is a small track of Soni’s story too. Perhaps along with Navin, where Soni’s offline classes begin and she goes to college which is the same college as Navin. There Navin under the effect of all the drugs he is taking gets infatuated towards Soni and tries to seduce her or something but when she doesn’t give in, he becomes violent but by time Pritam and his team reaches him, saves Soni and sends Navin to some rehabiliation centre. It would be good if it happens because by this way all the sakhuja siblings will be developing a brotherly affection for Pritam.
– Now the most important of all on how I suggest Amritam’s story can be. From what we all know about Amrita she will still not be satisfied even after what Pritam does for the three sakhuja siblings and imo she will be even more annoyed that they have started looking upto him as their big bro. So perhaps after more of Pritam’s child and wife’s story is unveiled. There can be instances with more clashes of Pritam and his ex Vishaka for which he brings his child to the Sakhujas place, again obviously there will be reactions from Sakhujas, then one day Vishaka lands up in the Sakhujas place. When Pritam asks her get out, Amrita being a would-be mother will support Vishaka, however that will cost both her and Pritam when Vishaka brings some goons to take away her child. Pritam will try to fight those men but they will sabotage the house and keep Amrita at gunpoint while trying to take away Rahul. Pritam attempts to save both, but there is a gunshot, Pritam manages to save Amrita but unfortunately the bullet hits Rahul killing him. As usual Pritam will be completely heartbroken on the other hand the sakhujas will be relieved that Amrita and her baby are safe. Athough from that moment Amrita will start seeing Pritam in a totally different light it will be too late as Pritam losing his last hope will return back to his shell isolating himself from all sakhujas and also mansoor uncle. Vishaka probably can go to jail for a while and perhaps return later. After losing Rahul, Pritam can be shown to move on by trying to focus more on his missions and deciding to move out from the sakhujas place which will dishearten all the sakhujas as all have grown fond to him especially the siblings who will face the same pain of losing their big brother once again but none will dare stop him. Amrita can be shown guilty for having judging Pritam wrong all that while and in a way responsible for his condition too so she will take courage to try stopping him. On the day when Pritam is leaving Amrita will deliberately send all away outside Angad-Kabir office, Soni-college, Nimmo-Guneet-to their shop, Dadaji-Beeji to a photoshoot in the next lane and Kamli to get something from the market. Once there is none in the house Amrita will decide to go upstairs and talk to Pritam in person, but while climbing the stairs Amrita gets labour pains and cries out. Pritam and the neighbors get alarmed. Pritam comes out and sees Amrita in that condition and try to call out the elders when Amrita will inform him that none is at home. Pritam as usual will be grumbling and cursing the sakhujas when Amrita will ask him he can better take her to the hospital than doing that, the neighbors will echo. Poor Pritam will have no other go. There will also be some big problem something like traffic or something else where Pritam will try his best to reach the hospital but there will Amritam’s banter like yesterday’s episode one till they reach the hospital making the hospital staff think Pritam to be Amrita’s husband and asking him to assist her in delivery even when he resists. Perhaps they can continue Amritam’s banter even in the labor room with Pritam saying he became her forced husband now and asks her to make it fast as he has other work where as we all know of Amrita she will give him a tight slap like that scene of 3 idiots and ask him if she is some express train or what to make it fast and Pritam again will grumble saying ye baat madam jasoos always wanted to slap me but was waiting for the right moment. Soon our champ will come and the doctor will perhaps place the baby in Pritam’s hands. On seeing champ obviously Pritam will remember his own Rahul, have an emotional moment with him and gets attached. Soon the sakhujas arrive and all the family moment…..towards the end Pritam looks at champ from far, gets reminded of Rahul again decides not to leave the Sakhujas house so finally Amrita does succeed in stopping leaving sakhujas place indirectly. Subsequently there will be a father-son bond between champ and Pritam which will slowly pull Amrita towards Pritam and the story can continue like that.
– These are purely my thoughts/suggestions on how the story can be because imo the current tracks of emotional family drama, meera-kabir cringe office nok-jhoks and also Amrita’s non-stop spying, b*t*hing and scolding at Pritam is quite draggy. If the CVs really want to add up drama UI wish they take it the way something like I have written or if they something else better then even that way but not really a bhabhi-devar romance. I know such track brings trps but then it has become very frustrating and depressing lately to watch it in every other show.